Marty30001 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
176	Time And Opportunities Are Finite, And They Don't Wait For You	Off Topic	Marty30001	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/18 01:57 PM
43	First steps towards better me, thanks to TRP	Blue Pill Example	Marty30001	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/18 06:05 PM
4	First story for a first experience.		Marty30001	/r/seduction	07/03/18 01:57 PM
1	How do you defeat your own mind?		Marty30001	/r/askTRP	05/10/18 01:06 PM

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5	How bad is it really to ask someone out for the first time over text? There was a girl in the other class that I had absolutely no contact with before. One day, I saw her on my bus. Without hesitation, I introduced myself, she herself, and 10mins later we went our separate ways, hinting that we'll be seeing each other soon. Though she was shy and didn't act in any way moving forward our interactions, it took 2 additional bus trips to school to know "Yep, she might be down for a date." I needed to ask her ASAP, forgot to do it in person, couldn't just waltz in he…	/r/seduction	10/12/18 06:55 PM
5	She likes me, I like her Cut contact for a while no matter how you feel about it. If circumstances don't allow full ignore, shorten your interactions and go do something else(preferably with other girls). This will lead to one out of two possibilities: The missing spot you've left will increase her attraction and make her forget about the stupid games she was playing until then. She will lose interest in you and go to another. This is a good option too - it means the interest you have now is not real and requires a lot …	/r/seduction	03/12/18 01:09 PM
4	How to approach girls in public places Approach interested women without reason; approach any woman you want with whatever available reason(check the hour, ask about the book, seen the girl before and want some company on the way to wherever, etc). Do not run around hitting on girls randomly - it will end badly at some point. You will approach girls that give IoIs because that's the only reason you need to approach. You will approach girls for some plausible reason, because it will give you a chance to lead the convo where you want…	/r/seduction	19/11/18 02:34 PM
7	Time And Opportunities Are Finite, And They Don't Wait For You From Eastern Europe; I'm taking Russian as second foreign language in High School. But it's just shitty education - use mobile apps to get started, then what I suggest is to play some video-games in Russian(preferably role-playing games with a lot of dialogue and talking). Use the Internet for words/phrases you don't know, and you'll be сука блять-ing much, much better than the average guy.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/18 05:50 PM
4	Time And Opportunities Are Finite, And They Don't Wait For You Good points, but I don't belive we have the same point of view. I confess I had oneitis years ago, for a lot of girls. But this post isn't about her specifically - I use an event that made me rethink a lot of what I knew until that point, so that the readers can get the idea a bit better in my opinion. The sidebar has been read, as have been many of the suggested RP books. Theory time is over, and for quite some time now I've been only improving, taking short breaks from lifting and pulling chic…	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/18 03:05 PM
28	Time And Opportunities Are Finite, And They Don't Wait For You Psychologists worked with a lot of the students about it. It's one thing hearing about it in the news, completely different when you knew the person. It's in the past now, and life goes on. I was in a mild depression while processing the event and learning from the horror. Sadly, I think that a person learns this kind of stuff about life and how short/unfair/chaotic it is only from personal experience. Probably my story holds no real value in such a case.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/18 02:46 PM
3	Adding value to your life Completely cutting video games out of your life is stupid - until 5th grade, I didn't know the English alphabet. Once I started gaming a lot, I learned the language much more than my parents who took courses, or my mates who studied through books a lot. They're an interactive entertainment, and it isn't surprising why it's such a massive industry - combining the plots and their depth from books with visuals and sound. That said, if you dedicate your life to playing video-games(without being a pr…	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/18 12:56 PM
2	Game comes naturally with girls i dont find all that attractive? zero-stating I understand it as "interacting with her as if she was a 0".	/r/seduction	29/10/18 01:55 PM
5	Girls say I’m nice looking but slow and without initiative If a girl is overtly telling you this, it means that she has used covert communication for too long without you taking the hints. Thankfully, it's not lethal nor unfixable. Ask them for examples when you didn't take an opportunity, learn from them and move on. Also, trust your gut and gain some confidence through lifting or hobbies - deep down you register these covert signs, yet negative thoughts block many of them without your knowledge. Increased confidence, meditation, and specific relaxatio…	/r/seduction	29/10/18 01:33 PM
7	Is it bad to use emojis with texting? Texting is a type of communication where you have 0% body language, which is much more important than talking. Thus, if you want to text about something other than logistics, at some point you have to use an emoji or 2, otherwise the message is "dry" or doesn't portray your thoughts correctly. On the other hand, your buddy is right - go overboard with them and you look childish at best.	/r/seduction	29/10/18 01:17 PM
3	(Field Report) First cold approach, just fucking do it! It definitely will put you in the zone of retardation, like a warm-up for your brain. Some negative barriers will be down - the rest is the fun part.	/r/TheRedPill	16/10/18 01:14 PM
17	On the Shortness of Life Sadly, no matter how many posts are written on this topic, absolutely nobody changes his way of life until they experience something that hits them with those facts in the face. I was a chronic time-waster, probably still am. Procrastination was a part of everything in my life, from talking to girls I've seen before to studying and working. Read 10 posts about it - still did it. One time during a workout my arms gave up and the dumbbells came straight for my head. The day before - I nearly got r…	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/18 01:48 PM
5	To all the young guys out there. Trust me, all the young guys that have the spark in them will avoid the escapist life, without even thinking about it. I'm in HS, some years ago I changed schools and had to become a better version of myself if I wanted to survive(I didn't know about Reddit as a whole, just had this gut feeling that life will be pretty shitty if I stayed weak). I'm yet to become what I truly want, but let me tell you - once I made the first step on the self-improvement path, I've never looked back. The school I'…	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/18 09:39 PM
4	Lector goes full Red Pill in class Bulgaria. I'm in the capital, so that's why I see western traits so much. The more to the east you go(except the Black Sea beach), or in a random inhabited village, the more traditional lifestyle you'll see here. I've heard that Russia is still staying strong against the cancer that spreads over Europe, which is one of many reasons to want to study there soon.	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/18 12:51 PM
5	Lector goes full Red Pill in class Здрасти брат! It's interesting to see that even though Eastern Europe isn't as bad as the West when it comes to this, there are still people who come here to find the masculine way of life. It's like a hybrid between tradition and modern shit, and it definitely isn't easy to live in such a confused setting. Not to mention the good old degradation where it's modern to act like a villager/sheepherder for attention - men in Bulgaria are attention whores. Some women try to take it one step further b…	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/18 12:08 PM
7	Would it be a bad idea to do cold-approaches in high school Cold approach in high school is impossible. The popular girls you're interested in already have some of your info through a web of friends, while even the most anti-social cutie(chances of finding real one = chances of racing Gandalf on a unicorn) still has ears and has probably heard of you somehow. Don't go on the "fuck highschool" bandwagoon. School is a perfect learning experience when you acknowledge it as such. Never, ever assume you can cold approach or pull a girl with the toolset used b…	/r/seduction	02/10/18 11:59 AM
2	How to TheRedPill with your ADHD TIL something about me. Very good post man, really interesting and helpful stuff.	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/18 09:30 AM
18	Overcoming social anxiety Not OP but thank you for this reply. It's one thing I forget when I go outside, and seeing an experienced man confirming it helps me plant it in that head of mine.	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/18 08:09 AM
7	Bulletproof Mentality: How to be untouchable #1 You have handled your situation very well, but I just want to point out that the aggressor was more powerful and this is precisely when we should employ the tactic of "kill them with kindness". If a man with lower or equal status comes and threatens you, it is a mistake to leave them be. In the best case you should employ/"befriend" them, because you still give them a surprising reaction. In the cases when such a thing is impossible, you don't show kindness - you destroy. The balance comes in kn…	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/18 08:01 AM
1	Courage, Anxiety and outcome independence. A quick guide. Here it's often suggested to lift, to improve the body, but something some forget is that the mind too needs "lifting". That's where meditation comes into play. It's not some magic shit where you stand silent in lotus position and become superhuman; in reality you train your mind to be aware of thoughts, to not be burdened by them and with that, to not be under their or your emotions' control. I noticed that by meditating daily for 5-10mins, you pretty soon begin to "catch" your thoughts and dec…	/r/TheRedPill	02/07/18 06:22 PM
6	You will only get one opportunity to ask her out. So quit feeling sorry for yourself, and don’t blow your shot. Even with previous experience and lost opportunities, you'll still get moments like these where you think "I'm better than I've been before, so I can take my time with girls". Sadly, if you don't aggressively counter such thoughts somehow, you'll naturally commit to what I'll call "game procrastination", and not only lose possible lays, but you will also take a hit on the frame and mind for some time. Life goes on though, such errors can be fixed, and in the end that is just one of the traps in …	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/18 02:53 PM
3	Make her day. Thanks man, a much needed post. Sometimes when I'm reading here and practicing it outside, I forget we do that for our happiness and good. I often get stuck in a too serious mindset, letting oppurtunities slip by, fucking up because I can't relax - trying too hard to have the perfect frame maybe. Occasionally, I loosen up and start talking random shit on the bus with a girl or a friend, earning smiles, laughs and strange but positive looks from everyone around me; or find a face I've seen before…	/r/TheRedPill	20/06/18 06:40 PM
3	Accidentally swiped Tinder matches right in front of my date. Then she offered to come back to my place. I think all of this happened because your game was spot on. Smelling good, feeling good, dating good - all of that made most of the work. Never tried doing that, but I imagine if I swiped Tinder/checked friend requests from hot chicks etc., it would come off as forced and would detract from an otherwise natural, internalised style. I agree that Dread works, and I'm sure there are people who can pull off something like that, but from my experience this works best when it is subtle(OP did it not o…	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/18 06:12 PM
5	A Guide to Gaming the Third World Something like that would've been quite the help 2 weeks ago. I'm from Eastern Europe, gaming left and right, one day I tried my luck with a girl from the Middle-East at my school. Unlike the average girl here, she didn't have many friends, was somewhat smart and in obvious need of some fun in her life. 1 week was enough to warm her up after the cold approach out of nowhere at a bus(counted as such because we're different classes, no mutual circles, no previous contact), then got her on a date. …	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/18 08:27 PM
2	Just Fucking Lift Along with following advice from the other replies, one thing I'd add is go to gym with a friend. Often times it's more fun and effective. As for mindset, remember popular quotes like "Consistency is key." and combine it with the definition of insanity. Many things require hundreds of tries, but each one needs to be a bit different in some way than the previous. Incorporate meditation and self-control on things like video-games, TV and masturbation - motivation and positive vibes will soon come …	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/18 12:06 PM
1	What most guys don’t get about mystery! 1 week ago I decided to do something I've never thought about in my 16-year life - to cold-approach a beautiful blonde bitch on the bus at 7am. I've been reading TRP for months, yet much of the theory simply disappeared from my mind in the face of her frame, no matter how many IoIs she sends my way. One of my biggest fuck-ups is to half-ass shit-tests and banter just like Timmy. Thanks a lot OP, your help comes at the right moment.	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/18 12:48 PM