MaseratiSpyder Archive

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1	Centered Man vs. Nice Guy I think it can look like it's quite black and white and there are few men who are on either end of these extremes. Maybe you can think of it a bit like guys who 'get it' with women and guys who don't 'get it'. I tend to relate to it in terms of the locus of emotional control, in that the Centre Man has an internal locus of emotional control, while the Nice Guy looks for approval so that he has externalised that control. He thinks in terms of 'she made him feel bad because of what she said'. We'r…	/r/seduction	15/11/24 09:17 AM
1	How to be vulnerable with women? Big picture: women in general see things through more of an emotional lens while men see things through more of a logical lens. I would say that the thing you are missing is that you don't seduce her by talking about yourself. You have to join her in her world, be curious about her interests and hobbies. Find out about her motivations, interests, fantasies and aspirations. Then draw on your experiences, and relate to her, where there are similarities. So you reveal things about yourself as part …	/r/seduction	08/11/24 03:19 PM
5	A girl in college keeps looking at me and I’m not sure what to do. She's dropping some heavy hints, and will likely get upset if you don't respond in a timely manner. Personally, I would send her a DM on Instagram and thank her for accepting your friend request and tell her your name. You could say that you felt a bit awkward coming over and saying "hey" because she was always with her friends and you didn't even know her name (if that's true). Once you've exchanged a couple of messages it'll be super easy to go over to her and say "hi" in person. Strike when t…	/r/seduction	08/11/24 02:19 PM
5	Why do I always fail on escalating on a date I was once chatting with a guy who had just secured a date that evening with a beautiful young blonde girl and he was going to meet her once her shift had finished and they were going to go for a couple of drinks. I hadn't really talked to guys about pick up much before and I was eager to learn as much as I could. This guy was good looking but quite short, however he was successful with girls. I asked him what he was going to do when he met the girl and his response has always stayed with me. He…	/r/seduction	06/11/24 11:41 AM
6	"A smile is the best thing you can wear" Smile and have fun. Women just want to have fun so you're half way there! Being happy and confident, smiling and having fun with the people you meet as you go through life it's a big help. If you are light hearted and easy going when you approach a girl, she's much less likely to blow you off harshly as she'll perceive you as an attractive guy, who's being friendly, meeting someone new and interesting. You're taking the pressure off her by keeping the atmosphere light. When I look back on how mi…	/r/seduction	06/11/24 11:22 AM
1	A guide on improving with women I think events with live music are great because you automatically have something in common with the girl. She's in your 'tribe' because she likes the same band or bands or type of music you like. She see's herself as cool and interesting, so she reasons you're likely be cool and interesting by extension. You can talk to her about the band, her favourite songs, whether she's seen them before etc, so there is little danger of running out of things to say, when you are fluff talking. There's also …	/r/seduction	06/11/24 11:01 AM
1	How to you guys maintain your confidence when shit goes wrong Take the positives from the situation, you successfully opened a conversation with a girl who is really hot. That's a big success. Initially it was going really well. So that's a big plus also. Sometimes if you attempt to escalate too quickly then the girl will suddenly pull away because you have overwhelmed her and she doesn't feel comfortable in that moment. The best analogy is to think of it a bit like fishing. A fishing line will sustain a certain level of tension before it breaks. So like i…	/r/seduction	05/11/24 09:10 AM
1	The “game” has been good to me! I’ve had my share of gf’s, fwb’s and one night stands. Here’s my take on it! I think this is great advice. Few guys seem to get the concept of dressing in a coherent fashion with coordinated colours and accessories. Coloured laces that match a colour in the outfit can work well as can the addition of coloured fashion watche if you haven't considered these as ideas. It depends on your own style obviously which needs to be congruent with who you are. It signals that you understand fashion and how to put an outfit together which is how women think about clothes so you're co…	/r/seduction	04/11/24 05:46 PM
1	2 schools of thought on attracting I think it's a safer bet to approach girls who you've ascertained already like you. Clearly the chances of being rejected are much lower in that instance. This is where showing up as attractive as possible is helpful, posture, physique, what you're wearing and the energy and vibe you project. I try to look for girls who seem open to being approached and then I make eye contact with them to confirm that they want to be approached (they hold your eye contact and smile back). In this way the chance…	/r/seduction	01/11/24 07:18 PM
1	How to have a good first date without alcohol? It seems that you've got accustomed to using alcohol to improve your state and that without it you're struggling to get into a good state. Maybe prior to the date you could listen to a few songs you really like and that you know will put you in a good state with good energy. Also, it's always a good thing to practice controlling the energy flows within your body as much as you can. Think about some different archetypes such as a king, a comedian or a really interesting professor etc and as you t…	/r/seduction	01/11/24 06:56 PM