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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Seeing the ex Yeah that's screwed up. She should at least have given you first dibs.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/25 03:33 AM
27	How did you handle knowing your Ex had start sleeping with another guy? I've unfortunately got some experience in this department. I'm gonna assume some things based on your post; I'm assumintg you were in a very comitted, very monogamous relationship and saw this person as your forever person. That didn't work out. When she was dating, the concious part of your brain understood what was happening and you started to emotinonally process and move on. Thing is, that isn't a neat, linear process. Subconciously, we hang on to all kinds of thoughts and feelings, and just…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/25 09:19 PM
5	Christmas without the kids Take some time to grieve. Cry as much as you need to and care for yourself. If a good friend of yours was going through this, what would you do for them? Do that for yourself. Remind yourself and your kids early and often that you love them. Let your kids know there isn't any war you wouldn't wage or pain you wouldn't suffer to be in their life and to support and care for them, and then follow through on that as much as you can. Someday your children will be adults. They will look back and asses…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/24 05:58 PM
1	I Just Can't Shake This Feeling Because you are the victim of abuse and an abuser has trained you to take their abuse and also desire to be with them. You crave the highs they give during all the lows so much that you don't see how often you are low. I seriously recommend getting some help for this. It's not your fault you want her back. You got sold a severely intoxicating version of them that has dug a mental hook into you. So much so that you were willing to take her back after physical abuse. You're a victim of domestic vi…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/24 11:06 PM
5	What were your breaking points? My breaking point was some months after being blackmailed into an relationship. I was dealing with the worst anxiety I've ever dealth with. I disassociated at tiames because she would go out and just not come home. We had 2 girls and I desperately did not want to break our home. She followed zero boundaries. She took my kids to see her boyfriend without asking me, it was clear she had no respect for me any longer and I just couldn't see it. I kept praying that she would see how much she was hurt…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/24 10:35 PM
2	1st Christmas without my kid I really really like this idea and I think i'm gonna run with it. Thank you so much for sharing this.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/24 08:45 PM
3	1st Christmas without my kid My poor kids. Last year Mom took them away completely. This year I have shared custody, so I'll see them but her AP did his fancy little proposal at the family christmas party in front of my kids without anyone talking to them first. It's only been a year. My little girls started crying right there at the party while everyone's applauding. Just remember one thing: You are special and irreplacable. She might get to shove someone else into the role she's looking to hire for. I don't know about you…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/24 08:38 PM

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