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GeneralMassive-Blueberry405/r/MensRights24/04/26 02:05 PM
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GeneralMassive-Blueberry405/r/MensRights04/05/26 01:44 PM
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I don’t think it’s good to call men or women whores. Name calling isn’t productive. It will only get defensive reactions. Not reflective ones. I think it’s better to educate men and women why hookup culture is bad and to not participate in them.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 09:51 PM
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I disagree and I don’t think you should use that term either. Spreading or finding seed is not what hookup culture is. It’s sex without intimacy or procreation. I think it’s bad for both men and women but if people want to live that life, they should have the freedom to do so. As long as they are accountable and educated about the tradeoffs. What I keep seeing is promiscuous women wanting their cake and eat it too. To party while young and expect serious men to be waiting for them and commit to …
/r/MensRights04/05/26 09:03 PM
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100% I want a future that’s fair for both my son and daughter. “I’m here to make sure my son would be less disposable, not my daughter more so” You said it better than I ever could.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 08:36 PM
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1 - Yes I see that too. It’s a classic tactic of the ruling class to keep the peasants fighting each other over social issues to keep them from banding together to question why the nobility has all the money. Combine that with the patriarchy theory being flimsy at best, women are fighting against an invisible boogeyman that their male neighbor supposedly benefits. This keeps men and women from uniting on class lines and divided via gender lines 2 - I can see that happening too but even consideri…
/r/MensRights04/05/26 04:10 PM
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Both are true. I’ve seen guys buy dumb stuff too. But the data shows that women are the primary consumers and holders of credit card debt
/r/MensRights04/05/26 03:42 PM
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Just because society treats my son as disposable doesn’t mean I want them to treat my daughter like that too. Two wrongs don’t make a right. I agree that men and women should be united against the people who exploit us instead of going along with their attempt to divide us. The average woman has much more in common with her male neighbor than the female CEO or politician who exploits her. I’m a bit more cynical but I’m sure feminism will adapt into another wave to keep women seeing men as the ca…
/r/MensRights04/05/26 03:34 PM
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Can you tell me your view about feminism and its relationship to capitalism?
/r/MensRights04/05/26 03:29 PM
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And this was already true even before women went into the workforce in large numbers. Even when men were considered the head of the household, purchasing decisions were largely made by women. Women should have the option to be independent from family just like men should. But it’s really naive to think the power structures that promoted women working didn’t have ulterior motives.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 03:28 PM
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I didn’t mean that it was the origin but on the function of the system and its goal. I don’t think it’s a weak argument because there are measurable consequences when women were largely pushed into the work force under capitalism. Feminism and its application in communism is a separate subject. This post is focusing on capitalism.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 02:27 PM
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I agree. But I see things like companies laying off sectors of their company which are majority women workers with no issue. I think the AI fear is nuanced but things like that threaten a lot of jobs that are majority women.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 02:16 PM
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What a crazy idea that love isn’t limited to your ethnic group
/r/MensRights03/05/26 05:16 PM
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The “issues” feminist claim to want to solve for us are issues they claim we are doing to ourselves. Like telling us to open up more and express emotion. To not overwork ourselves. To seek support from others instead of trying to endure problems by ourselves. These are all things that we must “solve” by changing ourselves and conveniently does not require any effort from women to help us solve it. They have no messaging to women to be better for men but have lectured us for decades on how we mus…
/r/MensRights03/05/26 05:14 PM
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I’m Latino and my wife is Asian. I get what you mean.
/r/MensRights03/05/26 03:05 AM
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Don’t let them shame you for your preferences. You are allowed to have preferences without needing to justify them to anyone.
/r/MensRights03/05/26 02:06 AM
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I am married. Marriage is not about independence to either sex. My wife is accountable to me and I am accountable to her. We can’t just do whatever we want without consideration to each other and our kids. This generation of men is also the most who contributes to house chores than any generation of men in history. In my case I work from home so I do most of the house chores. Not my wife.
/r/MensRights02/05/26 02:52 AM
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Just curious. How do you know he was being honest with you? Men who feel misandry usually don’t like to talk about it in the open. Or even internalize it and see it as just “being a man” as something to endure even if it’s taking its toll. I say this because if you asked me this question 15 years ago. I would have lied to your face. And at the time I had attempted suicide.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 10:44 PM
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35 year old Father here. Have a 2 year old boy and have another child on the way. I never really heard much about men’s advocacy throughout my life. Went through a bunch of crap and saw other men too though. But after becoming a father. I’m very scared about my son’s future. That’s what got me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/26 10:32 PM
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History has much more to do with class and social groups than gender. It ignores that the few women that did have power wielded it no differently than men did. They both exploited men and women the same way. Feminism’s view of history is that of a narrow lens ignoring the nuance around it. The issue wasn’t which gender wielded power, but the power structure without accountability and human rights.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 03:20 PM
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It’s ideology. It’s not scientific. It works backwards from its conclusion. Feminism is in every institution for the last 50 years. Yet the “patriarchy” is supporting and funding it.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 03:07 PM
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Especially how she claims feminism gave her the right to an opinion. The first amendment already applied to both men and women.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 02:35 PM
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I give props to anti-feminist women. I think it’s a statement of character. You have modern society appealing to you in every way and trying to scare you about the other half of humanity. But you see through the bullshit and don’t join the bigotry.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 02:17 PM
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Oh man. That sounds like a nightmare. You shouldn’t have had to go through that. I mentioned in another comment how my older brother married a single mother. What you said here really resonates with what I saw with him. How he was expected to be flexible and provide for the child while having no real say as it’s between the mother and the baby daddy. Then when they broke up and got cut off from the child. How could he not feel used for putting his effort and money for a child just to be cut off …
/r/MensRights01/05/26 02:53 AM
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I’m sorry that happened to you. I agree though and always thought single mothers should pair up with single fathers. They are on the same boat so it would make sense. I would never recommend a childless man or woman to get with a single parent. There’s just so much going on there that can backfire hard.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 02:11 AM
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Yeah it’s cognitive dissonance. They say children only need mothers and she doesn’t need a man to raise a child. Yet another man is expected to step up and support the single mother. Those are contradictory.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 02:10 AM
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My older brother married a single mother. Didn’t even last a year. He moved into her apartment and started work already behind with having to help support the child. When they broke up it was bad. His name wasn’t on the lease of the apartment so she just kicked him out. My parents and I had to go pick him up in the middle of the night to have him move back to our place. And he got close to her kid too. So he lost that bond with him just like you said.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 12:53 AM
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It’s just the new “loser” term to belittle a man. I remember in the 90’s how loser was the word people would use to shut down a guy by personally attacking him. Today I see incel used in the same way.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 09:25 PM
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As much as I want men to be treated fairly. The male loneliness issue is one I’m not familiar with. In my personal life, me and the men in my group have friends and family. Some are married, some are dating, some are single. But I wouldn’t describe any of them as lonely. And some who just prefer to be on their own most of the time despite us being there for him whenever he needs us. I do acknowledge my personal bias makes this a blindspot for me though. But I have trouble trying to visualize wha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/26 09:23 PM
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To be honest I don’t even remember when I realized the extent of everyday misandry either. At first I just thought it was small groups of women who were bitter. But at some point I started to see it was getting too common. You are very right that a good father plays a very important role. As a father myself, that’s who I’m striving to be. I can understand the aspect of disappointment with past men but I still don’t tolerate it. I have a friend who’s had two very bad exes and he went on a legit m…
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:28 PM
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I think it’s also a question of exposure to men in their lives based on my experience. I’ve found that in groups where women have lots of brothers, nephews, sons etc. that anti-male sentiment is something I’ve never even heard anything like that from them. But in a group of women which has little to no men in their family so their main exposure to men is in dating, work, social media etc. I think they have a lot more trouble in not seeing men as a monolith. I’ve seen those two distinct types in …
/r/MensRights30/04/26 07:36 PM
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Yeah we can’t tolerate that. I can’t either. Men includes me too. I’m a man. That’s my identity you’re attacking. Even considered “one of the good ones” is condescending.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 06:38 PM
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So maybe I’m not explaining myself clearly then. English is not my first language by the way. By gender roles I mean general social guidelines for men and women that are fair and flexible for both that also benefit society and are complimentary to the sexes. No one is forced or shamed into them but the incentives and guidance are generally steered that way. I’m not advocating for anything like the old gender roles. Is this not possible?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/26 04:43 AM
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That’s fine to believe that. I believe in gender roles but that doesn’t mean I think they should be forced on anyone. They need to flexible and more of a social guideline than a requirement in my view.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/26 03:12 AM
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I want to stay hopeful but my cynical side agrees. I think generally speaking female psychology, while they view men in their social group with empathy but just can’t see men they don’t know with the same degree of empathy that men view women they don’t know. I am speaking generally. Not all women. Aside from the social and political angle. I think that’s why we find ourselves in the situation we are in today.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 10:37 PM
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For a country like the US I agree. They are able to keep a standing military with just volunteers even while engaged in multiple conflicts. But most countries are unable to sustain that. For example my home country Brazil. There’s mandatory conscription for 18 year old non-college men. It’s outdated in my view but the reason for it is that a sufficient standing army can’t be maintained by just volunteers. And a lot of countries find themselves in that position. But the factor I’m talking about i…
/r/MensRights29/04/26 10:34 PM
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Yeah I completely agree too. I’m married too and our roles are somewhat traditional but more flexible. Sure I’m sort of the “leader” but not due to some authority as a man or some religious mandate. But through trust. My wife trusts my vision for our family, how I value her perspective and that I have her and our children’s best interest in mind. Especially when I put myself at the end of the line most of the time. So I’m like the captain of a team and not a king of a castle. Good on you that bo…
/r/MensRights29/04/26 09:41 PM
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Yes that’s true but they were still able to perform just as well as the men. Another factor is that these women were volunteers or took up arms in self defense which is a factor in combat capability compared to conscripts. In my opinion I think that a draft for women for support roles would be fair. Warfare isn’t just frontline combat. Logistical, medical, intelligence etc are all part of a military. Women are more than capable of working those roles. I think it would be a big symbol of solidari…
/r/MensRights29/04/26 09:35 PM
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No I don’t want to lower myself to their shameless name calling
/r/MensRights29/04/26 08:58 PM
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I identified as a feminist when young. Not an activist or anything. Just supported it. There were some good gains for women. And that’s still a good thing. Not all gains for women came at a detriment for men. But some without a doubt did. But I regret it. Because I felt like I was just used to support people who didn’t want to support me. And in fact even villainized me.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 08:40 PM
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I’m married but I work from home. So I do most of the house chores. If your apartment is small and you’re single. It’s definitely easier as I remember when I lived in an apartment when I was single. Today I live in a house and have a toddler. It’s not technically hard to maintain a house or even kids. What makes it hard is that it takes up time and you lose sleep often. Enjoy the free time you have while you’re still single.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 08:36 PM
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Incel lost its meaning. I’ve been called an incel for wanting things to be better for my son. Let that sink in.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 08:10 PM
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It’s fine to disagree and I’m always open to refining my views. I’m against shaming like that too. That’s why I said that new roles should be more flexible and fair. But you have to ask yourself. What happens when too many men and women don’t want to have children? And other things that are necessary to keep society going? Society needs structure otherwise it’s just chaos. We can want things to be fair but reality doesn’t always allow absolute fairness. Things like a draft are always going to be…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/26 08:07 PM
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I’m for gender roles. I don’t believe the problem was having roles themselves. It was that they were so rigid and outdated making it unfair for both sexes. I think gender roles can be renegotiated for a modern society that makes it more fair, balanced and flexible for both. The issue today is that women can define their role to be whatever they want but men are still chained to their traditional role just without the authority and with new expectations added. We need roles in our society. A soci…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/26 07:54 PM
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The problem with that is that modern warfare has much less physical demands than warfare in the past. Especially how modern military doctrines are today given all the technology. Even looking at women who fought in WW2 under the USSR and partisans as well as women who fought for the Vietcong in the Vietnam war. Being a woman had almost no effect compared to the men alongside them.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 07:48 PM
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Straight to a stereotype jab. I don’t talk about women that way and never will. I’m never going to become you.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 03:24 AM
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Yes
/r/MensRights29/04/26 02:18 AM
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So innocent men don’t exist? They should be presumed guilty without evidence just because some guilty men lie? This is the type of stuff that makes me fearful for my son’s future
/r/MensRights29/04/26 01:18 AM
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Hey man. I attempted at 19. Am 35 today. You will have better days. I know it seems hopeless but it’s not true. It’s you being overwhelmed by everything that leads to that feeling. We can’t fix society but we can try to build something for ourselves because we deserve better than how society treats us. Don’t let society define you. Don’t give them that power.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 11:04 PM
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They will never admit misandry or systemic effects on men because it would contradict their narrative and expose how they’ve made men’s lives worse under the guise of equality for women. That’s why we keep seeing those misleading studies and blind spots about men’s issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/26 10:55 PM
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You’re going to have to accept that you’re going into this disadvantaged. Not only are you outnumbered but most studies around these issues are feminist adjacent which often are misleading and have blind spots when it comes to men. You’re going to have to do a lot of research about this. And you’re not going to be able to anticipate what they’ll be able to do. I would focus on main areas. Like feminist interpretation of history which removed the nuance that most men heavily were disadvantaged al…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/26 06:38 PM
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Well a big one is child abuse. This involves both boys and girls but women were predominantly the care takers of children and physical punishment of varying degree was the norm before modern society and that physical abuse was often carried out by mothers. Albeit fathers too at times.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/26 05:15 PM
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Aren’t none of these guys fathers themselves? I don’t think they have any place to talk about fatherhood that way. I have a son and my wife is pregnant with our second child. That game came out and I got a glimpse of what I might feel if our second child is a daughter. It was just a wholesome feeling. It’s insane that I looked online and saw so many bad takes regarding this game and why guys found it appealing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/26 11:48 AM
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I’m not wrong. You’re just not getting it. Feminism does not mean gender equality. Gender equality means gender equality Feminism is an ideology that claims the goal of gender equality within their framework. Can you see the differences? Men’s rights activism claims the goal of gender equality too. But different framework. The very existence of men’s rights activism and other egalitarian movements shows that feminism does not have a monopoly on what gender equality means
/r/MensRights28/04/26 03:57 AM
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There’s just too much for me to break down in a single comment. This is all I could generalize without writing a novel on here. Feminism villainized men as a gender by framing history through its lens. This lack of nuance of history led to portraying men as privileged and women need all the help. Which in turn liberated women from their gender role but trapped men in theirs while adding even more expectations. Women also had many historical privileges over men, it wasn’t one sided like how femin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/26 02:51 AM
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Whoa what makes you think I’m upset? Lol I’m just laying down my disagreement with you. You can believe whatever you want.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 02:40 AM
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You can be pro-gender equality without being a feminist just like you can be pro-worker without being communist. No ideology gets a monopoly on an issue. Theres many different interpretations of what gender equality means. Feminism is just one of them.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 01:46 AM
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Well feminism caused a lot of issues for men and it claims to care about equality which men just aren’t seeing it. It deserves criticism and the manosphere is one of the few places men can talk about this without being drown out by attacks. In those same spaces a lot of male issues are discussed. Circumcision, father’s rights, divorce courts, male gender roles etc. I just find it unfortunate that too much of the manosphere ends up being dunking on women on TikTok which just isn’t productive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/26 01:34 AM
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Actual no you aren’t a feminist. So in 2009 when I entered college I had the same mindset as you. “Feminism means gender equality. I’m for that, I just have disagreements with other feminists”. Feminism is an ideology. No ideology deserves a monopoly around an issue. Feminism is a women’s advocate group wanting equality on women’s terms based on the theories of that ideology. You can’t get gender equality with only one gender setting terms and you can’t get it via an ideology either.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 01:00 AM
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Circumcision too is also one where they ignore male bodily autonomy
/r/MensRights28/04/26 12:57 AM
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You’re right they’re not. Enough time has passed to make that evident and I would argue that generally the left is even less empathetic to men. I wouldn’t put faith in any political side regardless though. I’m sort of a mixed bag on predicting the state of men’s rights in the future. My cynical side says that men are much more independent minded and competitive with each other compared to women within their gender. Combining that with our biological/psychological imprinting to prioritize women a…
/r/MensRights27/04/26 06:46 PM
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Those “solutions” sound dystopian. Especially since it shows they have no problem marginalizing men even more. But it sounds very unsustainable in the long run and would only exacerbate other issues in society. I don’t even think it would solve the birth rate problem either. No amount of resources or support is going to stop the stress and loneliness of single motherhood. I don’t think enough women will want to opt in to get the rate up enough. Another big elephant in the room are artificial wom…
/r/MensRights27/04/26 01:23 AM
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I grew up in poverty. Both my parents making minimum wage. I started working at 16 making minimum wage also just to help the family. No woman my age wanted to date a guy who had to take the bus and at best could maybe get fast food sometimes. I’m starting with this just to let you know that I know what it’s like to find yourself undesirable to women through no fault of your own. It took me almost a decade of grinding jobs I absolutely hated to finally get to a point where I could be an “option” …
/r/MensRights26/04/26 11:05 PM
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I know exactly what you mean. If you asked me 15 years ago, I would identify as a feminist because I incorrectly thought it just meant you wanted fairness and equality for both sexes. But I just had a lot of disagreements with other feminists. But after 15 years of so much hostility and lack of reciprocation, I only recently came to the realization that no ideology deserves a monopoly around an issue. I feel almost stupid that it took me so long to realize this. Today I would say I’m an egalitar…
/r/MensRights26/04/26 10:08 PM
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I can’t speak for everyone but I think you got downvoted because you projected your experience in raising your boy onto the man in that screenshot and are not taking into the consideration the social context that pushed men to that breaking point. Whenever a man is struggling, people are quick to individualize his issue and that he needs to get help. This ignores the societal issues that treat men as disposable and normalized negativity towards them. Also not every mother is the same. My mother …
/r/MensRights26/04/26 09:58 PM
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From what I’ve seen, the grifters to me seems to be the ones who are there to just dunk on women. There’s nothing productive about “women today suck” or “women are now sowing what they reaped” on a daily basis. Even as an outlet of frustration, it doesn’t help men. It’s not much different than the female equivalent of “man bad” every day. The content that I think is actually productive and healthy for young men are the ones that focus on the actual tangible issues that men face today and/or self…
/r/MensRights26/04/26 08:51 PM
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I’m 35 years old today and I attempted when I was 19. There were a lot of different issues in play that got me to that point. But without a doubt being a young man in this modern world greatly contributed to this. I felt hated and unwanted. I had wished I was born a woman because I would take any trade off that comes with that to just being seen as a full human being, be able to start a family young and to be able to chase a passion career no matter how little it paid instead of having no choice…
/r/MensRights26/04/26 07:34 PM
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I know what you mean. I had Reddit for since 2012 and got fed up with the micromanaging of interactions throughout this website that banned people for disagreements no matter how respectful. I deleted my account around 2020 and only recently created a new one
/r/MensRights26/04/26 04:17 AM
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Thank you. In fact just yesterday we did the first ultrasound and found out it’s already 10 weeks in so she took the blood test to check for chromosomal abnormalities and gender. We scheduled our gender reveal 2 weeks from now. Yes it is unsustainable to the point where my own body is telling me that. I’m going to have to work out a new plan with my wife. There’s no way around it. I can’t agree with you more about the friends and family part. It’s the view of any stress my wife shows is a failur…
/r/MensRights25/04/26 02:21 PM
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Yes. We both do. It’s been our goal since we engaged. She is 10 weeks pregnant with the second.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 12:42 PM
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It’s prejudice. The very definition of it. Using a statistic to blame an entire group of people for the actions of a tiny minority is a classic reinforcement of prejudice. It misses the elephant in the room that some women do horrible things too. I watch a lot of true crime content and have seen so many cases. So the “always a man” is literally not true because sometimes it is a woman. Are we going to pretend women like Sarah Boone don’t exist?
/r/MensRights25/04/26 03:32 AM
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I immensely value a woman’s view on this so thank you. I do agree that women aren’t inherently fragile. My wife isn’t fragile and she is devoted to our family. But I also know her and can see the toll it takes and realize she’s at her capacity. Regardless you are right that we need to find a solution together because it is unsustainable for me to keep going like this. I’m going to try and talk to her more about it. I’m glad you understand those teen years for boys. The sudden realization of the …
/r/MensRights25/04/26 03:21 AM
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What you said makes sense. I see what you mean and will keep that in mind for my son and myself. In regards to my wife. I understand her position too. She has a more passive personality and doesn’t like to escalate things. And being the stand out of a majority group saying one thing is a tough position too. But it would mean the world to me if she did defend me more. Thanks for your words again. I just wish I could get some sleep.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 01:15 AM
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Hey thank you stranger. That’s a good call and it does seem like a Freudian slip of just how little things have my personal well being in mind. Not being the smartest or most mature doesn’t mean you don’t have a different perspective one can draw insight from. Just seeing that already makes you more mature than you realize. But I’m having a hard time seeing how I can be good to myself if my wife and boy depend on me so much. And if my wife can’t handle more, then what else is there to do but it …
/r/MensRights24/04/26 10:10 PM
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