Massive-Process Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Dodging the pill but feeling the void		Massive-Process	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/26 08:31 PM
0	RP’s framing of late bloomers		Massive-Process	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/26 09:18 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How do I get better? I’d suggest using social media to explore topics of your interests/hobbies. Not only you’ll stay away from the ragebaity bullshit of redpill, you’ll find much more interesting more interesting topics to initiate small talk, which goes a long long way in forming healthy bonds.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/26 01:05 PM
2	RP’s framing of late bloomers Does it not have parallels for most people though? In today’s time, you will last a very finite time at your first job because you’ll understand the corporate world a bit better and you’ll expand accordingly. Dating is similar that way, most people don’t stay with someone they met at 18-20, sure thing there are a few exceptions that stick around once they’ve gotten together but that has become fairly less common. Are you implying that people who date around when they’re younger (which is most pe…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/26 08:37 PM
1	Dodging the pill but feeling the void I thank you for your kind words. I have started to feel that whatever I do from now on will never make me feel safe and comfortable in my self because there is this inner comparison with the missed imperfect past that would’ve also made me into an emotionally healthier person otherwise. I’ve had to discover many uncomfortable parts in therapy and while I do notice progress it’s just that every progress comes with limitations and it makes question a lot of things. I do try to show up for my guy a…	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/26 08:03 PM
0	Dodging the pill but feeling the void I’ve considered this before but from what I’ve noticed is that for many single women in 30s, it seems they’ve had their share of LTRs but broke up for whatever reasons. I’ve always felt on the edge about this because of the fear of being compared with exes and being labelled of prolonging a specific life stage too much. With age, comes life experience and baggage for everyone. But I’ve often felt that my baggage is the one many cannot relate to because it’s a bridge too far off to cross. Second …	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/26 01:54 PM
1	Dodging the pill but feeling the void Valid points and I tried the same. I was a lot into pub quizzes and trivia, alongside punk and goth wave music. Unfortunately my peers weren’t into that and in order to constantly avoid friction, I ended up masking a lot in uni. Plus I hardly saw that women around me into these things. Internet gave me a parallel world to dive into those things. I live in a different country now but a big chunk of the time gets taken up by work and it doesn’t feel as nice and organic as it would’ve felt in my 20…	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/26 07:08 AM
2	Dodging the pill but feeling the void What I mean here is that in that vulnerable situation, I was very close of going the rabid hole of RP. While I’ve prevented that, that rabid hole has been replaced by inadequacy.	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/26 08:40 PM