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YouTuber "Casey Zander" for example. Rejects the idea that guys need to be a certain height or income level to attract women, especially for casual hookups. It's all about creating an emotional rollercoaster and validation breadcrumbing, to make her attracted to you. His content is typical red pill pseudoscience theories on attraction, there are no guarantees as to what women or men will find attractive in the opposite sex. Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:27 PM
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Many red pilled guys (the pickup artists types) make comments similar to your's. Are you sure you're "blue pill"? Also, not every culture is as dysfunctional as western culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:43 PM
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This is literally the best comment ever posted to PPD. I agree "wtknight" that women's attraction is uncontrolled. I personally know guys who are still single in their late 20's, and early 30's, that have good paying jobs, a great personality, and treat women great. But they've given up on dating to focus on their career. The same thing women are saying. If you're a single man, who's successful in his career and a genuinely good person, but you struggle with dating and being attractive to women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:40 PM
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💯 percent Facts! Great Post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:12 PM

Women don't have any authority? I can't tell. The way women tell men how they should dress, what men should be wearing for their age. How much money men need to make to be attractive. How tall men need to be to be attractive. How quickly a man should be offering to help a woman he doesn't know, etc. When is the last time a man told you, to be a real woman and plan a date. Or that a real woman isn't insecure her boyfriend only has attractive women as his friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:53 PM

That's fine, you're entitled to your own opinion. Considering Joe Biden's age and current cognitive decline, I'm surprised you just said that. He's so far gone, the Democrats forced him into retirement. Then gave Kamala the nomination he already earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:27 PM

I can't argue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:18 PM

Not necessarily, it's open to all women. I'm really not interested in the men's opinions to this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:11 PM

Putin chose to invade Ukraine when Joe Biden and Kamala Harris were in the White House. Doesn't that make Biden Putin's bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:05 PM

Correction, her voting record is far-left. Only her rhetoric has been moderate. https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/news/campaigns/presidential/3103747/kamala-harris-liberal-record-forget/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=Pmax_USA_Magazine_21-June-Intent-Audience-Signals&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQiA_qG5BhDTARIsAA0UHSJlYN28IR_ND2NDSFe_lclMOMBca3NCe0wohIAWn7U_-4r9yHfisoMaAlR-EALw_wcB
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:01 PM

Wasn't looking for a rant, but point taken. "can open doors and run up and down steps like a champion?" What!?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:50 PM

There's quite a difference between leaning left, and grown men enthusiastically virtue signaling their complete subservience to female authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:43 PM

🔥🔥🔥 💯 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:40 PM

Who pays? A true progressive will know the correct answer to the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:36 PM

It's a progressive group comprised of white males. The group's name a clear sign of the identity politics, they're practicing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:00 PM

Thanks for giving some honest feedback. I think most women have this same opinion, but very few will ever admit to having these views.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:51 PM
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A lot of men have completely checked out of dating to focus on their work/career. Even men with plenty of options that most women would consider a catch are not prioritizing dating anymore. When the cost of living keeps going up, how many people can afford to waste their time and money on women who just want to play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:13 PM
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Women need to communicate what they like and don't like during sex. Give some feedback. Different women like different things in bed. Instead what often happens is women fake orgasms, and then complain about a man's performance later. Nobody can read your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:57 PM
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The reality is "IcyTrapezium" men won't enthusiastically pursue women who lets Chad Hit it Raw, with no effort. But all the other men need to prove themselves, and jump through a bunch of hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:17 PM

Sex is a fundamental need for adult relationships, that's true for dating and marriage. Couples should be having sex. It's not an individual need. It's a need for your relationship because a man won't ever feel attached or close to you, until you've been physically intimate with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:45 PM
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Women outnumber men on most college campuses. The college I went to 61 percent of students were female, and 39 percent of students were male. More women are going to college then men. Average upper middle class guy will get some definitely get some hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:51 AM

That's how redpill started. Then redpill expanded to include: Don't be a stepdad. Don't ever marry without a prenup. Don't be a foodie call. Good guys are too boring... She needs emotional distress. Be more of an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:52 PM
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Everything you said is true but, don't leave out the quality of her options goes way down the older she gets. If she rides the CC too long. She will end up late 30's and having never secured a good desirable man long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:42 AM
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Great let's keep it that way. Don't try to rationalize luring someone away from their spouse. What's next after this? Society doesn't need to respect women too intoxicated to their give consent. That's on them. Go ahead and Fuck'em if that's in your best interest. Not caring about what happens to married people's lives, spouse and kids as long as you get off is a slippery slope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:18 PM
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Respect a man or a woman's wedding ring. The same way you'd want someone to respect yours, or your son's. The divorce rate is already too high, we don't need to make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:30 PM
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It depends on the age of the woman. Older women that are still single are going to prioritize companionship, financial stability, personality, and monogamy. Not all, but many young women act like they have all the time in the world to waste on guys who don't have any ambition, values, or direction in life. So you get situationships, hookup culture, and guys spinning plates. Women's looks fade with age, and they get less attractive to men. Women's fertility also declines with age and geriatric pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:36 PM

Woman: why don't men approach women anymore? Man: sees attractive woman in parking lot and wants to introduce himself and ask if she wants to grab a drink with him. Woman: feels unsafe and runs off. Woman: some creep tried to approach me in the parking lot. Women: why don't men approach women anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:17 AM
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Red pill content creators complain about the same thing. This isn't overlooked at all. Online simps are inflating the average women's ego, until those women are unpleasant to be around. Dating apps are full of desperate simps, with a few Chads thrown in to keep women coming back. I don't see that changing anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:13 PM
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I'm not talking about "sexual market value". I'm talking about "building long-term relationships". That doesn't happen without morals and values. Yes, they still have to be attractive, because chemistry is important. No one ever forgets to talk about looks and chemistry. If your date is a POS and isn't a good person, what's the point? Just getting laid by random 304's, every few weeks or so ain't the purpose of life. No offense "red pilled guys". Too many women out here don't feel safe around me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:57 AM
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Guys like Myron and Rich Cooper are a big part of why there's no trust between men and women. Just because a man has money and status doesn't make him high value or "a catch". You can't be morally bankrupt and a HVM. If you're dishonest, selfish, and entitled you're not a HVM or "a prize".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:12 AM
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That's a great point. I think women get their best results only having sex in a relationship with a man she trusts, respects, and feels safe with. Definitely don't waste your youth on F boys, players, and womanizers. Men with good morals, good upbringing, who are well educated and ambitious, are probably the best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:13 PM
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Good for you. Don't feel pressured to conform to the popular "hook up culture" it leaves most people feeling empty, used and regretful later on. The STD's, unwanted pregnancies, a ruined reputation, and emotional trauma is the part of "hook up culture" people refuse to warn young women about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:54 PM
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It's not about men. Previous generations of women convinced the younger women that they needed to sexually liberate themselves. Because of that, sex without relationships and commitment became normalized. Devaluing sex is a very masculine trait. Men prioritizing having a career and money, before starting a family makes sense. The man is always expected to be a provider. If his wife gets pregnant and stops working or works less. The mortgage or rent still has to be paid, same with utilities and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:14 AM
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I agree with you, what other people are doing shouldn't affect her decision or yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:09 AM
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Glad to hear everything has worked out so well. Thanks for adding to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:55 PM
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That's a fair point, except marriage is supposed to be for life. For better or for worse, in sickness and in health, til death do us part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:33 PM
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Yes, but not with an unhealthy, obsessive attachment. That's a dangerous situation for a man or a woman to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:27 PM
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I'm talking about in the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:06 PM
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That's true for now, but do you think going forward that will be the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:04 PM
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Interesting perspective, basically until you see her acting like a wife. You can't imagine her in that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:42 PM
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That's a great point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:33 PM
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Disagreements over money are one of the main issues married couples fight over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:30 PM
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Half of those men married by 30, will end up divorced. The vast majority of those the woman chose to file for divorce (women initiate 70 percent of divorces). Having only a 1 in 4 chance of a successful marriage should concern anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:18 PM
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I've heard some friends of mine say the same thing, except for the not telling her part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:58 PM
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Your including men that got married in the 80's, 90's, and early 2000's. I'm more interested in the trend going forward. Today's modern dating environment isn't the same as even 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:48 PM
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I actually think this is where most men are. This might be the silent majority opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:18 PM
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That's very difficult if you live in the US, but not impossible. I've been to Utah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:13 PM
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If she agreed to sign a prenup, with witnesses and a notary would that make you reconsider?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:02 PM
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What point is there for men to pander and simp on Reddit for women, who prefer bears over men by a huge margin?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:13 PM
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Are the men who repair your car, fix your plumbing, Install your new appliances, Build your roads and bridges, Protect your borders, police your community, and maintain the infrastructure, all pieces of shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:02 PM
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What point is there in men getting married without a prenup?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:53 PM
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You're breaking the girl code. All women are supposed to be equally attractive and special, and the prize. It doesn't matter how overweight she/her/they/them is. For you to call any woman a "land whale" is misogynistic, and body shaming. Women created body positivity, so every sexual partner a man has is with a beautiful perfect 10. Let's be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:21 PM
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The vast majority of the Police, military, engineers, electricians, plumbers, miners, home builders, and auto mechanics are men. I guess they forgot to mention that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:10 AM
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She's likely to be believed, the man has to prove his innocence. Guilty until proven innocent. MLB pitcher Trevor Bauer lost his career over false allegations. High School football star Brian Banks was falsely imprisoned for rape. The men's duke lacrosse team was falsely accused of gang rape. There's plenty of examples of this happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:40 AM
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The woman will be getting alimony and child support payments every month. How is that worse off?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:51 PM

It's a shaming tactic meant to silence men. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:45 PM
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Most women marry up. If the marriage ends the wife isn't financially destroyed, like the man will be. Marriage rates will keep declining like they've been doing for the past 30 years. More and more men will lose interest in ever getting married. It's a huge risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:07 AM
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Divorce because of cheating or abuse is fine. Quitting on your marriage without consideration of the impact on your spouse and kids is cruel. Google what happened with Kaka of AC Milan and his wife Caroline Celico. Would you want that to happen to your son, brother, or father?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:27 AM

There are plenty of feminist girl bosses, and they're all single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:52 PM
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You can't negotiate attraction. Some things about men give women the "ick". Women often can't explain or rationalize why they feel a certain way about a man they're dating. When it comes to a woman who's had lots of different sexual partners, it's a similar dynamic for men. We can't exactly explain why but it's just gross to us. It also gives the impression you would cheat in the relationship. A woman who's lifestyle is having casual sex with a different man every weekend, won't be able to chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:45 AM
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Bullshit, go tell that to Will Smith.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:23 PM

Being "blue pilled" hasn't helped you get anywhere. What a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:20 PM
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Not exactly, Men don't slut shame each other. It's high fives all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:05 PM
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Why would you want to be invisible? You won't be able to socialize and make new friends. You also wouldn't be able to date. I'm glad you chose not to slash your face. People would just stare at you and ask how it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:02 PM
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They're actually both wrong, men and women need to always communicate their needs in a relationship. The man should've asked why they aren't having sex anymore. The woman should give him an honest answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:51 PM
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I don't know if it's the best. It's a damn good one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:06 PM
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That's a valid point, there are assumptions being made for both. I would always choose a person over an animal in these situations, regardless of whether it's a man or a woman. I like my chances in fight or flight with another human, more than with a brown bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:21 PM
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Well said, I've suspected this was happening too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:53 PM
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Brown bear, but there's nothing in the question that indicates the man would be hostile or violent towards you. The man could be a tourist on vacation, or he could just be lost in the woods. People assume details according to their bias and opinions regarding men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:25 PM
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In your same area, close enough to see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:05 PM
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I actually agree with you on your second point. Do whatever you want ladies but, you'll have to face the consequences. No sympathy here, when Chad uses you for sex and then ghosts you later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:16 PM
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No, men just want you to be honest about why you're choosing the men you're choosing. If you want to pick men based on income and looks fine. Don't cry on Tik Tok later when those guys string you along and never give you a commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:47 PM
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There's no benefit on Reddit to simping or spewing misandrist rhetoric. So please contribute with comments of substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:14 PM
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Sorry about that, I just assumed. Thanks for being honest though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:34 PM
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Thanks for the reply, but I don't understand why you wouldn't be attracted to him if he's handsome?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:26 PM
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Good answer, I appreciate the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:23 PM

Let that random man offer to take her out for an expensive dinner date. All hypervigilance and safety concerns go out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:26 PM
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In my experience. If a chick is flirting with me, or she's the one to approach me first. Getting sex usually should only take between 2 weeks-2 months. It depends on our schedules like if we meet up every weekend, or is it a couple weeks between each date. If she's been drinking and thinks I'm cute, I'm getting it that same night.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:31 AM
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This can't be real. Seriously 4 years bro? If you're not getting sex on the 3rd date end it. She's playing games and doesn't find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:48 AM
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A lot of married men stuck in an awful sexless marriage probably wish they were dead too, what's your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:20 PM
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You're missing my point. The vast majority of men have never, and will never rape a woman. Choosing to be alone in the woods with a hungry bear, instead of a man is an irrational fear. You also have a better chance of being able to fight off or outrun a man. Than a Bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:38 PM
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Enough with all the feminist talking points. Women are innocent, harmless, beautiful creatures. Who never hurt anybody. Men are evil, violent rapists, you can't ever trust them. Even though men are also the firefighters who save you, the police that protect you, and the detectives who track down your attackers and bring them to justice. Men are also good Samaritans, and witnesses who are willing to help women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:17 PM
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No, you don't get it. Men aren't animals. We can use reason, empathize with others, use logic, and show others mercy. Animals act on instinct. Humans weigh the pros and cons of our actions. Many of us are religious, and even if not we still adhere to moral and ethical standards of conduct. The reaction videos indicate that women just naturally assume most men will rape them if given the opportunity. That's insulting and highly offensive. Only about 4 percent of men are in Jail or prison at any g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:14 AM
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It's meant to be a joke, people are taking it to seriously. All the satire videos men are making about how women act, is meant to entertain and get likes and views. Think of it like an SNL skit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:11 PM
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Almost any woman can get casual sex if she really wants it, that doesn't mean anything. Can she get a long-term commitment in a healthy monogamous relationship? Would most high-income single bachelors consider her wife material? Can you trust her? Would she be a good mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:42 PM
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Feminists often over exaggerate their abilities and influence. Women are too passive when it comes to dating and relationships. They see a man they really like but their ego won't allow them to make the first move, so they miss the opportunity instead. Men are usually the ones who approach and shoot their shot. That means women are stuck choosing between the men who choose to approach them. Dating apps aren't a solution either. Really attractive and successful men pick up women in real world set…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:14 AM

You're stating the obvious, but I agree. Anyone who's being honest would have to concede this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:48 AM
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It's harmless satire. There making delusional demands towards the women they date. In an effort to expose how ridiculous single women sound to them, with their requirements of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:41 AM
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It's wild a man chose to write this feminist rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:55 AM
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Women are always concerned about their physical safety when dating men. That fear goes away when they date other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:06 PM
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If a woman falsely accuses you of harassment or domestic violence, nobody will believe you over her. If a woman punches you in your face, you can't punch her back. If a woman is pregnant with your child and decides to have an abortion, you have no legal recourse. You can't stop her from legally killing your unborn child. If a woman cheats on you, behind your back with your friend. she'll convince you it's somehow your fault she cheated. Or that you at least owe her a conversation so she can expl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:03 PM
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That situation happens to men a lot more than it does for women. Just an average looking woman can easily get sex and physical intimacy, from most men. Regardless of whether they're friends or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:29 PM
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The point he's trying to make is girls shouldn't expect their guy friends, to take on boyfriend duties. Lots of women think their guy friend who they're not physical with and will never be intimate with, should accept being a placeholder until she finds a boyfriend to replace him. Guys don't like being used like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:20 PM
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She just admitted she divorced him, because he was too perfect of a husband. Pearl was right about modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:12 PM
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Men learn how to adapt and overcome, just like with everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:25 AM
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Women don't handle rejection well and will get in their feelings, they also don't like to make the first move. Most women have a sense of entitlement. They feel like only men should risk rejection and wasting their money for someone who doesn't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:55 PM
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It's possible for women to be hypergamous or hypergamic, in a poor country. Even the "red pill" acknowledges there's a tendency of women to date and marry down nowadays. That only happens after a woman hits the wall. Many US women 18-29 run their mouths about how they don't need a man, and they don't have to settle. Those same women in their 30's will be on Tik Tok crying no men will approach them. They also might dress up and walk around "Home Depot" looking to find a man. This is actually tren…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:25 PM
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Women don't have the upper hand. When women are young, fertile and in their most physically attractive years, they make terrible choices. They repeatedly engage in casual sex with men who don't give a shit about them. Men who will gladly cheat on them. While at the same time going on social media talking about how "nice guys" give them the ick. That's not having the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:50 PM
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I've noticed this as well. It's like women expect for men to just freely give of our time, attention, money, and protection to them for absolutely nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:18 AM
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Monk Mode engaged!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:08 PM
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Lol! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:06 PM

Prostitutes in third world countries, will set you up to get robbed and killed. Most western men are smart enough to know this. It's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:29 PM
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I'm sorry to hear how terrible things went for your grandparents, however that situation is unusual and rare. Especially when it comes to getting pregnant and having a child at only 13 years old. Overall in general dating, and marriage was better before the Internet, social media, dating apps, wokeism, porn on demand, and "hook up culture". People actually had to go outside. Meet and talk to each other in person. That sounds better to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:15 PM
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You nailed it, perfectly. If women could comprehend and reflect on this post. Their bad attitudes and sense of entitlement, might actually start to fade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:47 PM
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There's no way you'd be fine with your boyfriend, having lots of attractive single women as "just friends".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:33 PM
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I agree about calling emergency services, or helping remove someone who's taking things too far. Like the young woman who kept getting her head slammed against the concrete in a fight, truly sickening. That's something both men and women should doing. Not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:21 PM
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Women spend 2.5 hours more on housework then men, yes that's true. Men also have to wake up and get out of bed at 2:30 am if their wife or girlfriend hears something downstairs and is scared. We are the one who have to go check it out. Men (and only Men) have to sign up for the selective service. Women also live longer on average than Men. Let's just call it even.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:08 PM
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If what you're saying is true, you'd definitely be considered a unicorn. I don't understand why you're having so much trouble finding someone. Is there something you're leaving out? Are you physically unattractive? Are you 25 lbs or more overweight? Do you have a lot of guy friends? Are you on OnlyFans? This is actually fascinating, it's like a romantic mystery.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:45 PM
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I didn't confirm anything. The viral videos on social media of women being slapped or punched by men are rare exceptions. The majority of men don't hit women even when the man is provoked. Social media can trick people into thinking rare events like a man assaulting a woman. Is common and frequent it is not. Men absolutely protect women. Our Mothers, our daughters, and our sisters. Why do women expect men they don't know, to always be waiting in the background like Superman ready to come rescue …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:22 PM
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It's possible you could be an exception. For the most part the typical western woman is delusional in her standards and expectations regarding men. If you want a bf over 6ft tall (like me) that's only 14 percent of men. So your first preference eliminates 86 percent of the male population. If you want him to be attractive cut that number in half. You're down to 7 percent of men. If you want this man to be single and available for a relationship, cut that number in half. Now you're left with just…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:05 PM
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Are you serious? Anytime a woman gets hit by a guy on the street, in a club, or on the subway. Women complain on social media for weeks about how the men, just stood there and did nothing. "A real man would've knocked that guy out for putting his hands on a woman". That's literally what almost everyone says, especially the women in the comments section. Let's be honest. We all know that's exactly what happens 90 percent of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:38 PM
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Try expanding your social circles. Ask your friends to help set you up, they probably know a guy who's single and a good catch. Dating apps are trash. There's bots on some. Even if you're talking to a real person, the interactions are shallow. Men go on dating apps looking for someone to F*ck. Let's be real. A monogamous LTR is not the main objective. Real world interactions are probably your best chance to find a quality person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:21 PM
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Men today have more in common with men of 1950, than women today have in common with women of 1950. Men are still expected to protect women, and the vast majority of men still do. Men are still expected to make more money than their wives, and be the head of household, that's still true most of the time. The traditional gender roles of men are mostly still intact. Men today still protect and provide, just like our grandfathers did. Women today in 2024, have abandoned their traditional gender rol…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:28 PM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:13 PM
2

They'll get nothing but a slap on the wrist. Probably just fired by their employer and one year of probation. Public school teachers do this all the time and never get any real punishment for it.
/r/MensRights27/03/24 03:38 PM
1

Congratulations, It's great to hear a happily married couple is starting their family. I wish you guys all the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:37 PM
2

What else is there? Unless women would instead prefer a never ending promiscuous trainwreck of a life like the 4 middle-aged characters from Sex in the City.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:28 PM
2

There's always going to be some exceptions. My question is why are you so angry, unless there's some truth to what I'm saying. The top 5 wealthiest women in the world all got their money through divorce or inheritance. Women aren't outpacing anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:21 PM
0

Wanting a handsome successful man, who's taller than you, stronger than you, able to protect you, charming, sociable and doesn't care care about your past. Isn't a partnership it's a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:06 PM
1

Interesting post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:58 PM
1

If you're living in the UK, or Ireland things might be different there. I'm in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:54 PM
1

Then they expect a great guy to be waiting for them in their 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:32 PM
1

GhettoJamesBond is speaking the truth. Men work hard trying to become someone in our 20's. We're building status, wealth, hitting the gym, and dressing better, to become someone women are attracted to. What are women doing in their 20's, taking their clothes off, screwing random F boys every weekend, and thirst trapping online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:30 PM
1

Finally, there's someone else here who understands. I totally agree with what you just wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:06 PM
1

People can do whatever they want. They should be well informed about the downside of playing games, during their best years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:44 PM
0

A super attractive 18 yr old woman today, who lives in a small midwestern town of 2,000 people can post her photos and videos to social media. Once that happens any man with a smartphone has the ability to message her, and she to him. Millions of different men from around the world will see her. Thousands will probably share her photos, like her videos, and message her. If the same 18 yr old woman was back in the1960's or 1970's she wouldn't have access to so many men, or them to her. She would …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:35 PM
2

Men don't want to commit on the first few dates, but do expect sex on the first few dates or she's playing games. I actually agree with your statement there. That is the new normal. A woman in her late 20's or early 30's in a western country. Has usually had a casual hookup before, and sex after the 3rd date is always expected. So, a man is going to automatically assume that you're not attracted to him, if there's no sex after 3rd date. That's just how things are nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:01 PM
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In your reply you said "our main value as people is how well and respectfully we treat others". If that were true, nice guys would be the most desirable men in society. We all know they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:53 AM
0

Amen, Preach Brother!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:43 AM
2

This is the same delusional thinking that Matt Rife's, single female fans have for him. Unless millions of women are all ok with sharing about a few thousand single, rich, handsome, funny, charming, and ripped available guys. Your logic doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:40 AM
1

Does the 30 yr old woman have the same standards from when she was 20 is the question to be asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:25 AM
0

Some jobs are better than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:11 AM
1

"No job is better than others". That's something no grown man can ever afford too believe. Where did you get that from kindergarten? "Remember kids there's no job that's any better than another." Be serious. The teacher doesn't want to scrub the toilets, and mop the floors. While the Janitor takes her class on a field trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:11 AM
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I've been trying to warn them about how they look to men. They're possibly too triggered to listen and comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:54 AM
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Yeah, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:45 AM

Getting sex isn't a problem for me. Finding a woman who has more to offer than just sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:39 AM

I'm going to take a wild guess and assume my post hit a little bit, too close to home for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:36 AM
1

Thanks, that's nice of you to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:32 AM
2

Stop the Cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:50 AM
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I don't even think you believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:49 AM
-1

Just because she didn't choose you, doesn't mean she'll die alone. Answer: Yes, it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:47 AM
1

With a high-earning career at least you could justify, putting off marriage and starting a family of your own. The boss babe path for corporate executive type women ok. Working in retail or cosmetology and too busy to prioritize a romantic relationship, is beyond cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:43 AM
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Calling the majority of men or "most men" predators is highly offensive. That is not a fact! I'd rather not engage with you any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:36 AM
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Facts! 💯 Percent. The Matrix will come for you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:30 AM
1

A very Jordan Peterson like response, articulate and direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:27 AM
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That's a nice try. After 3 to 4 years of waiting for a proposal a woman is just lying to herself if she keeps waiting past that. The average wait time from first date to marriage proposal is only 3 years. Give him an ultimatum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:04 AM
1

The Boomers grew up without the Internet, and social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:58 AM

If that's true, things are much worse than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:55 AM
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I don't understand your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:51 AM
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Respectfully, they wouldn't put up with a woman describing herself in the way you've chosen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:50 AM
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Do you also think if a man is clever, congenial, sociable, and likable, that he's well above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:40 AM
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I've never heard someone use "deliriously happy" in a sentence before. Well Done!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:37 AM
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This is what I suspect, we'll all be seeing more and more of. Excellent Point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:35 AM
1

I agree the boomers and Gen X, had more realistic expectations. The younger generations have social media and delusions of grandeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:32 AM
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The wall happens between age 30-35 depending on the woman. Some women really take care of themselves and workout regularly. Some women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:04 PM
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2 out of those 4 i agree feminist and women in general could avoid. The other 2 "sex with men" and child rearing. There's no escaping that for most women, because its already too late. the link below explains further. From 0:14 - 0:43 https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=RYFkeRFQ6GM&pp=ygUVYXZlcmFnZSBtYW4gdW5wbHVnZ2Vk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:32 PM
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More PPD gynocentric nonsense, just a different day. The universe doesn't revolve around what women feel they're entitled to. Men with options don't speak, dress, or act a certain way just to please women. Men have to just be themselves. If a woman doesn't like you the way you are, don't try to change. Instead, move on to someone else who will like you as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:49 PM
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You're definitely an exception to the rules. Most girls would've either tried to make him a FWB, pressure him into boyfriend/girlfriend status. Or just played keep away with him. Hating on any girl that tried to shoot her shot, or flirt with him. Much respect for not crossing boundaries. You don't ever regret it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:24 PM
2

What would you do? If you found yourself really attracted to your single guy friend. After 3 or 4 years of good friendship? He's completely leveled up physically, financially, and he's dressing better. Other women are starting to show interest in him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:58 PM
3

There's a reason you rarely ever see women without makeup on. There not as pretty as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:38 PM
2

According to a recent survey 1 out of 3 men (33%) is single and isn't even interested in dating or getting into a relationship. One Third of men have completely checked out and are done playing games with women, who aren't worth men's time and energy. Men are choosing to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:55 PM
10

That's Facts 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:48 PM
3

Everyone already knows the solution to dating issues. Men need to date with intention not just looking to get laid. It also means you date one woman at a time. Women need to date with intention that means, don't accept a date from a man, if you're not attracted to him. It also means you date one man at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:44 PM
3

What if all those men on the Titanic, would've chose to identify as a woman when the iceberg hit. Throwing all the biological women out of the lifeboats and into the freezing water?
/r/MensRights06/03/24 03:36 PM
1

Why is there so much angst among low-tier men? Are you serious with that question. The low-tier men are those men that don't have any values or integrity. They are the players, womanizers, and pimps that women love so much. No one is saying that women have to give everyone a chance. How about just selecting men based on who would be a good husband and father. Not all men want a Long-term relationship or kids, some don't even believe in monogamy. Women don't know how to choose quality men. All th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:37 AM
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Being a single father shows 1. You can handle responsibility 2. You can handle conflict
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:23 PM
0

Men who forsake all others to love and cherish one woman, build a life together with her, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health. That's proof that men care about more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:37 PM
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Sex isn't the most important thing to men, that's a stereotype. I'm glad you're saying it though. When your husband or bf tells you he doesn't want you hanging out with any male friends. You'll give the typical western women's answer of he doesn't want to have sex with me. Your partner can read you your own post from Reddit. Actually babe sex is the most important thing to men. So I can't risk him losing control around you, after all he's just a man and every action he takes is to obtain sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:46 PM

You had casual sex with him regularly (FWB), but eventually stopped because he was a misogynist. Wow, you really showed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:11 AM
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Lesbian couples have higher divorce rates than hetero couples. Lesbian couples also have higher rates of domestic violence than hetero couples. Look it up for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:59 AM
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I mean enough to cover basic expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:52 AM
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Anytime a woman chooses a man based on superficial attributes, she's choosing the wrong man. If a man doesn't have ambition, good character, good income, and want a long term relationship, then keep looking. Obviously some mutual attraction will have to be there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:53 AM

The requirements for a man to be loved. Be a real man (masculine), also be emotionally available (feminine). Don't try to fix or solve her problems (just listen while she whines about them). Take charge, be assertive, make plans, show leadership. Don't be controlling. Make her feel safe. Be tall, be handsome, have a big dick, pay for everything. Make her feel sexy. Make her feel appreciated. Make her happy. Don't be boring. Her friends have to like you. Make her friends like you. (I forgot the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:58 AM
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When a woman is genuinely attracted to you, you don't have to jump through any hoops, or simp like a fool. She's DTF. If a woman you're interested in doesn't want to meet you for a drink, or for a coffee. She doesn't like you. Don't ever be a foodie call for any chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:33 PM
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Your wife can cheat on you for months. When you catch her in the act, she'll file for divorce. The courts will then help her "divorce rape" you until your living in your car. Regardless of the perception of who's more immoral, the female is always treated as the victim. Don't get married! Unless you want to be financially destroyed later in life.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 02:16 AM

You're assuming it's an act a man is putting on. It's usually not. Everyone gives men the same advice when it comes to dating which is "Just be yourself". If a man is actually just being himself and he's kind, chilverous, a good listener, monogamous, etc. Why should he have to change who he is. Why can't he just keep being himself, until he finds a woman who will appreciate him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:50 AM
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I think men handle being single better than women, because we're more self-reliant. Men and women both desire physical intimacy (sex). Women have easier access to that part. The flip side is women also crave attention, validation, protection, and emotional babysitting from men. The only thing men really need from women is sex, and loyalty (don't cheat). Men aren't asking women to pay their all the bills, so we can be stay at home dad's. We don't ask women to physically protect us. We don't requi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:51 PM
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Women aren't honest about the kind of man they're attracted to. Stop listening to them. Just watch who they choose to hook up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:00 PM
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You're not supposed to understand women. You're supposed to read her mind. It's your job as a man to know what a woman is thinking and feeling at all times. If you can't read her mind. You're a bad bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:54 PM
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There wouldn't be any porn if, women stopped participating in the industry. Women choosing to take their clothes off for money instead of getting a real job, is why they get so little respect from men. The never ending supply of "adult film stars", OnlyFans girls, strippers, sugar babies, etc. Cause men to see women negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:20 AM
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Lots of women over the age of 30, have at least one child. Single mother's have a hard time when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:05 AM
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Your neighbor having to circle back to a man at age 38, that she used to be able to ignore when she was younger is the penalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:51 AM
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When women decided that they didn't want to save themselves for marriage anymore. In my opinion that marked the beginning of the end. Men don't look at women the same way anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:50 AM
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Feminist subs on Reddit are an Echo chamber of misandry. You can't even post there. They delete any post that doesn't perfectly align with their agenda.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 05:43 PM
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Why are you stating the obvious? We already know there's women who'd rather get passed around than to settle down. The modern woman today would rather be 4th or 5th in line for Chad, than to be in a LTR with a good monogamous man. That's the Point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:33 PM
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Women have a tendency to choose men who will put them on an emotional rollercoaster. She has to feel butterflies, excited, on edge, and to never be bored. Women won't find a good monogamous man, who's a provider this way. That's the Point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:22 PM

There is no gender war for those of us with options. If you're a desirable man or woman things are just fine for you. The angry, bitter, lonely feminist who posted this discussion topic is exposing herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:25 PM

Showing a woman kindness will turn her off 💯 percent of the time. You will always have better results acting like a jerk. They even have to admit that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:36 PM
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There are women who want a traditional man, but lack the qualities traditional men find attractive. Showing kindness, respect and genuine affection for the man your with is getting more difficult nowadays. Women are more promiscuous, untrustworthy, disagreeable, and materialistic than ever. Our culture is trash and celebrates them behaving this way. Marriage and birth rates are going to continue to decrease over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:27 PM
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It's not a choice men have to become something. Men have to build and add value to society, or end up homeless. Women can just sleep around with guys that will pay their bills, or be sex workers and monetize their body. Women will eventually age out and won't get sexual attention from men anymore. Hopefully they were smart enough to find a good man to marry them, before they hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:17 PM
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Pick men to date based on, who shows the qualities that, would make a great husband and father. Always use this standard, when it comes to choosing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:18 AM
1

Because companies can only give you a paycheck. Your husband and kids give your life purpose and fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:07 AM
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Redpill: Because women's physical attractiveness and their fertility, steadily decline after age 30. Single unmarried women over age 30, aren't the prize anymore. Men become the prize after age 30 as their income and resources are steadily increasing, and women's beauty and fertility are steadily decreasing. Bluepill: Men should always be the one to pay 100 percent on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:54 PM
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Both genders can be equally malicious. The difference is women don't add any value to a man's life outside of sex. Because of that, it's way more noticable to us, when women are malicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:24 PM
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You mean like how all men are still expected to be traditional men. That means strong, chivalrous, masculine, providers. While at the same time women, have abandoned their traditional gender roles. I agree.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 11:44 PM
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It sounds like what you're saying is since women have abandoned their traditional gender roles. Men should do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:07 PM
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The myth that married men have more sex, than single men that are dating is officially over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:19 PM
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If there's no sex in your marriage. You're not a wife, you're just his roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:11 PM
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She exhibits aggression, combativeness, is willing to engage in physical violence. She has a massive Ego, is boastful and narcissistic. Why would any man commit long term to a woman like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:47 PM
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We already know it's fun for women to be sluts in their college years. Then switch up later in life to find their Mr. BetaBucks provider to settle for. The point is it's never beneficial to a man to wife up a hoe. Men are waking up to how women use them. That's why marriage rates have only been declining since 1990. Marriage rates will keep declining going forward. Marriage isn't for life anymore. Nobody respects their vows. A woman can quit her marriage at any time for any reason, or for no rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:23 PM
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Your statement that men love sluts is false. (Adam22 is the only exception) The vast majority of men don't love sluts. A man will never love or marry a woman he doesn't trust. As a man I can't commit to a woman who will jump into bed with any random guy who gives her sexual attention. She has terrible judgement and no self control. So I can never trust her to keep her vows. I won't even risk trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:07 PM
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If you're a woman in your 20's, attractive and don't need a stepdad. You should have plenty of options. If a single women can't find a man, it's because she's too busy acting like a man herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:11 PM
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What if your current husband cheats on you when you start to get old and ugly? Do women not believe "what goes around comes around" Karmic Justice has ruined lots of women's "happily ever after".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:16 PM
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Men will always prefer a woman who's comforting, instead of combative. I don't think most men need you to be submissive, just soften your demeanor and tone a little, lose the attitude and check your ego. Being a kind person, who dates men for the right reasons (not just for a free meal). Who has a great personality, and is actually feminine. Will attract good quality men and everyone else, including bad men. You ultimately decide who you want to date and commit to and marry. When you're an attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:04 PM
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It's obvious you don't understand men "Wide-Illustrator2906" Men are interested in sex with physically attractive women. We're also interested in you not being as annoying as our last gf. It's women that are interested in attention and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:10 AM

You should have got the number or gave her yours, before her fat friend waddled over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:10 PM
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Nobody wants them.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 08:07 PM
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Facts 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:35 AM

I'm a millennial. I'm also conservative. Excuse me for having standards. Just my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:25 PM

Society judges and values men by a different standard than women. A man has to be competent, reliable, and strong to make it in the world. A woman can just be cute and fuckable. She'll have things handed to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:18 PM

It's not dumb because women tell on each other. I broke up with a girl, after her friend told me she cheated. I would've never known except another girl ratted her out. We will find out everything eventually. Just be honest and stop trying to cover it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:05 PM

Ew 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:58 PM

A promiscuous woman will cheat on any man dumb enough to marry her. You can't trust her around your friends. She isn't the relationship type. You can't change someone's nature. She is what she is. Just For recreational use only. That's why men don't take 304s seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:54 PM

Men and women are motivated by different things. Men and women respond to things differently. Your responses sound like you don't understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:38 PM

It's not dumb because women will tell on each other. Especially when there's a guy involved. I broke up with a girl after her friend told me she cheated. I wouldn't have ever found out about it. Except she must have pissed off her friend. So she got ratted out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:26 PM
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Facts, except nowadays guys are just checking out altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:41 AM
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Damn, right it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:17 PM
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“Napo_De_Leone” you’re on the right track. Way too many women are fucking bad, disloyal, toxic jerks. Then they’ll turn around and pretend like guys who aren’t having any luck dating, it’s because their jerks. As if any woman has ever been turned on by a “nice guy”. Men aren’t angry about it. Women can hookup with any random fuckboy they want, just be honest and say that’s your preference. Also, let’s not pretend like your “hoe phase” didn’t keep you from meeting a great guy. It absolutely did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:14 PM
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Forever single feminists want both men and women to be miserable. Which is what happens when society accommodates liberal feminist delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:02 PM
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Young women want handsome fuckboys. (Alpha fucks) Older women want stable providers. (Beta Bucks)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:05 AM
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I agree, "theredpillripper". Unfortunately, the radical woke media has an agenda to emasculate all men in movies and television. Every male character is either a bumbling idiot or actively evil. Comic relief or criminal/unethical. Assuming he hasn't been gender swapped. Southpark's Panderverse nailed it 💯 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:56 PM
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I'm the exact same way. I think most single men over age 25 want more than just sex. The problem is when you take a woman out on a date, she treats you like a guy who is only interested in sex, and that's unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:48 PM
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A woman sucker punched you hard enough to put you in the hospital, and your arguing women can't hurt a man without a weapon? Your own experience tells you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:18 PM

Most women don't want to be with men who are nice to them either. I guess because deep down women know they don't deserve kindness. So, when a man is dating them and being kind and a gentleman, their own guilt forces them to sabotage the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:36 PM

It's because men are the ones who get played, finessed, ghosted, stood up, falsely accused, foodie called, and even physically assaulted by women. After all that women expect them to just get over it and put the next woman they see on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:28 PM

Who hurt you? I've seen lots of happy couples in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:19 PM
1

I would still say a "pick me" even if she's only average looking. Men don't like having to compete, argue, and check their date or girlfriend. Men want to have a good time and enjoy themselves on a date too, from my experience girls who understand what men like, get the best results. Lots of single women have bad attitudes/energy, like they have to prove something every time their around a man. Men hate that. Men don't want to date (masculine women). Women don't want to date (feminine men).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:37 PM
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A SIMP puts females up on a pedestal and gets nothing in return for it. He is nothing more than a useful idiot. A "Pick Me" who is attractive, young and fertile. Is preferred choice of most men, but they're hard to find unless you go overseas. They give off future "Trad Wife" energy. Men definitely desire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:30 PM
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Pearl is average looking at best. The fact she's a pick me, does make her more desirable. TBH
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:19 PM
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They won’t ever admit it, but women over 40 flirting with guys in their 20’s. Ick, CREEPY AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:26 AM
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Men don’t want to work for something that women keep on putting out for free. Women tell men their requirements, while they keep having sex with men who don’t meet their requirements. I was having sex in high school with my girlfriend at 16 an 17 years old. Guess what I wasn’t making six figures. I wasn’t looking for marriage. I didn’t even have a job. I was average looking. I didn’t put women on a pedestal, they are no better than I am. Most men have had sex, with their gf or “friend with benef…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:58 AM

A standing ovation for “thisreallyisnotok”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:40 AM
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You’re right intellect7000 “alpha f*cks beta bucks” thanks for proving a redpill narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:22 AM
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Aziayya women never date down, because we’re all equals. Goes for men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:40 AM
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Spare us the femcel rhetoric. If women honestly believe men don’t want or care about love, then then they wouldn’t agree to date and marry us. They wouldn’t let us come inside them or build a life together. Most men and women desire true love, it’s hard to find but It does exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:06 PM
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Agreed! Who wants to put a ring on that.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 09:52 PM
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any tall, good looking single man will tell you the harsh reality. The easiest women to fuck are married women. It's sad but true. There is no reason for men to get married. You're not guaranteed anything, not sex, not companionship, you found this out the hard way. Most women are not worth marrying. The few good ones that are, can you even find them?
/r/MensRights11/11/23 09:44 PM
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Dating strategy? Studies have shown women know in the first 14 seconds if you're someone they'd ever sleep with. You can't negotiate attraction and desire. Simping around forever and pedestalizing women as though they're happiness is more important than yours, is a fallacy. Jumping through hoops to prove yourself to a woman is crazy. It's how men fell into the diminished state we're in currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:03 AM
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A simp is a blue pill guy like adam22 or will smith. Red pill guys are like Andrew tate, or Kevin Samuels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:18 AM
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Men falsely accused of SA 7. The 90 percent of men losing custody battles in family court 8. Men who are tired of paternity fraud 9. Men who believe in prenups, and won’t get married without one. 10. Men who know even after getting married your wife will still want attention and validation from other men. 11. Men tired of hearing that every wrong choice a woman makes is actually a man’s fault. 12. Men tired of the simp army, inflating women’s ma
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:12 AM
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Men are sold a fairy tale about women, marriage, and true love they better wake up from, unless they want to get wrecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:15 AM
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Your statement just proves why men need a prenup, before they get married. You openly admit men are loved for what they can provide. Even if that applies to all adults, nobody needs to get married without having a prenup signed first. Thi
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:08 AM
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A man having standards is intimidating to most women. If men know their worth, they can't be women's useful idiots.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 05:34 PM
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Women care about being treated well. Women care about being respected, but can't stand nice guys. They give em the ick. Are you a romantic guy, then your a creep "he's love bombing me". Then the same women, they'll get railed in a public bathroom by Chad and wonder why he hasn't called.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:52 PM
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Respect is earned. Some women deserve it and some don’t.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 06:07 AM
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Wow, you sound just like Jada Pickett Smith
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:04 AM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:14 PM
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Wrong, your grandmothers were traditional women. Most of them got married with less than 5 sexual partners. They prioritized getting married and starting a family. They also didn't feel entitled to a "hoe phase" that lasted most of their 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:09 PM
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Audio Record Everything. If you point a phone/camera at them, they’ll change their behavior?
/r/MensRights31/10/23 04:33 PM
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Good Example! Even though I prefer Dragonball Super. Goku’s Ultra Instinct is 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:25 AM
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Thirsty guys might beg, chase, simp, and catcall women who haven't shown them any interest first, and keep it up until she finally agrees to a date. Most men aren't doing that. Not every woman is single and available. It doesn't take much effort for a woman to smile, make eye contact, let you know she wouldn't mind being approached. It doesn't take that much effort to have success in dating, if she's already attracted to you, before you approach. Ladies you want to be approached, try smiling. Lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:17 PM
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How men are treated in family court for starters. During a divorce or custody battle men don’t have a chance. https://www.tennessean.com/story/opinion/2022/03/29/new-proposed-bill-protects-tennessees-parents-paternity-fraud/7200208001/?fbclid=IwAR3iMRGdvOV4kAxHt5Fc24zBfYZuhpv6mlIOCV99YqHPBnHf8FjTD1DdCDo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:12 AM
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What are healthy forms of masculinity? In your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:03 AM
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Men's Rights are necessary. After divorce, women are given primary custody of kids almost 90 percent of the time. Lawyers representing women during divorce or custody battles, advise them to say they were abused even when there's no evidence. Men are 4 times more likely to commit suicide than women. This issue should be taken more seriously. Paternity fraud should also be taken seriously. https://www.tennessean.com/story/opinion/2022/03/29/new-proposed-bill-protects-tennessees-parents-paternity-…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:51 AM
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Men have started raising their standards. That’s why everyone is so scared of redpill content/influencers. Society doesn’t want men, demanding prenups, and Low body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:17 AM
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You mean feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:45 PM
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that's exactly what the Redpill movement is all about. Men setting standards and boundaries for relationships. Men finally knowing their worth. Men wanting fair treatment in family court. Society wants men's money, time, protection, and labor. Then they should also want our opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:47 PM
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"Opening_tell9388" that's exactly what the Redpill movement is all about. Men setting standards and boundaries for relationships. Men finally knowing their worth. Men wanting fair treatment in family court. Society wants men's money, time, protection, and labor. Then they should also want our opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:45 PM
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"sweetbrown89" all men are beautiful, attractive and 10/10s even the plus size ones. We should be wined and dined, and made to feel special. We're the prize. If you disagree. You're just an angry femcel, who can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:37 PM
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100 percent accurate. Society wants men's money, time, and labor, but not our opinions.
/r/MensRights24/10/23 12:24 PM
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Don’t you know it’s offensive to refer to men as “males”. You’re obviously a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:56 AM
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You can't have a healthy, monogamous LTR with any man, without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:33 AM
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I don’t think Bill Gates or Jeff Bezos were party animals, in high school. When teachers say the nerds will grow up to be your boss, they mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:03 AM
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Men are told to "just be yourself" when it comes to dating. However, when you take a woman out on a date and your kind, respectful, generous, funny, and also nice. You're seen as a "nice guy" who's acting fake and thinks he's entitled to sex. When in reality you're just being yourself. If a man isn't being an asshole, women automatically think he's only nice cause he wants to f*ck me. So, the nice gentleman, has to act and pretend to be an asshole. That way women will think he's authentic and ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:48 PM
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The word Ladies and the title “Girls Gone Wild” don’t belong in the same sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:26 PM

The wall absolutely exists for women. They like to pretend they're happy, with just sleeping around, that's a lie. Women crave relationships with a man who is successful and committed to them long term. Instead modern women settle for using dating apps to sleep with lots of random "f*ck boys". As expected it goes nowhere. Then they realize no man takes them seriously, because now their considered a 304. The cycle then repeats over and over again one woman at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:20 PM
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Very few women are hot and attractive. I doubt there on Reddit talking ish. "Lift_and_Lurk" why are you so fixated on the occupation of a guy, you missed out on? That doesn't matter, because guess what. Anything's better than ending up a 45 year old woman single and childless. No serious LTR of any kind. Nothing to go home to except a bunch of cats and your boxed wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:01 PM
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This subreddit gives men a safe space to share, vent, express themselves, seek advice, and bond. This subreddit might prevent a man from commiting suicide. How is that useless?
/r/MensRights14/10/23 12:08 PM
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No, they don't. Furthermore, your comments are offensive and a gross stereotype. All men are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:31 PM

I agree. Single and available affluent men, who are actively dating for a LTR. Are rare and hard to find. Every young woman can’t have one because, those men are in short supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:46 AM

This woman also thought her date should be doing more. See her results she got https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=i_eydGX9K0s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:59 AM
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That’s not true. You’re suggesting men are willing to have sex with anyone. On tinder men swipe right only 50 percent of the time. Women swipe right less than 5 percent of the time. That means men only want sex from the top 50 percent of women. Men have preferences too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:15 AM
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“CoolKidTHC10” This post is about a common red pill narrative. That women can’t just love a man for who he is. A woman will only love a man for what he can provide. Thats not unconditional love. Just one of many reasons red pill community, insists men should never marry without a prenup.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 03:49 AM
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Don’t tell Scotty….Scotty doesn’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:43 AM
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There’s a lot of hurt and damaged people on Reddit, who’ve had bad experiences in dating. They might be angry at all men or women in general. I’ve had friends who are women want me to ask out one of their single girlfriends. They sincerely want it to go well, and give me some advice on how to make a good impression. So, I think most women do want men to have success in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:27 AM
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relationship people just don’t want to change
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:07 AM
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“leosandlattes” I think deep down we all know what it takes to get a rela
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:05 AM
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Hot coffee in your travel mug, is a good defensive option. If that ever happens again. Give her a fair warning after that reach for that hot coffee!
/r/MensRights10/10/23 02:05 PM
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The “Sports illustrated: swimsuit edition” isn’t a random magazine, it’s an iconic one. Beautiful women like Tyra Banks, and Kate Upton have been featured. It used to cater to men’s preferences. Now it wants to convince men to be more inclusive of what they find attractive. Sports illustrated also put 81 yr old Martha Stewart on the cover. When has society ever put an overweight, 81 yr old man, on the cover of a womens magazine? Implying he was sexy and desirable. Men are told what they shouldn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:52 AM
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You want your man, “to be obedient”? “ATasteofTx214” what the fuck. Men don’t like being told what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:29 AM
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I don’t think Pearl will ever get married. She wants clicks, views, and likes. If she was hot, she would have done the “Estee Williams” style grift on YouTube instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:11 AM
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The point is men and women should never be judged by how many different sexual partners, they’ve had. The term incel is a derogatory, term that feminists came up with. It means involuntarily celibate. People should be judged on their contributions to society, whether or not their law abiding, or a good parent, etc. Not by how many people they’ve fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:00 AM
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fr😂, this guy wanted an excuse to talk about Brad Pitt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:53 AM
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Yes, “canticles” women are missing out https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/45-percent-women-are-expected-to-be-single-and-childless-by-2030
/r/MensRights09/10/23 12:42 AM
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In 1950, the average woman weighed 120 pounds. Today the average woman weighs 170 pounds. Women keep on getting larger, and if we notice it. We’re bad, evil, misogynists. No we’re trying to figure out, what the hell are women becoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:36 AM
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“SmallSituation6432” every time a woman calls a man an incel. She implies that men have no intrinsic value. That men should be judged and ranked by how many sexual partners they have, or don’t have. What the actual fuck dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:23 AM
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Good point “backtoveganism” both “Gen Z” and the millennials are lost. I should include both. Enjoy a wonderful steak dinner at the finest restaurant in town.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:16 AM
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A woman will never apologize to her bf or husband, for any reason. Yet, we’re expected to compromise, and be ok with her so called “male friends”, and even forgive her “hoe phase” not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:09 AM
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Yes, I agree brother. This generation is lost, and don’t ever marry one of these 304’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:00 AM
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Yes, it will collapse. Because the elderly population “the Boomers” need, medicare, social security, and other assistance. That a much smaller working age population can’t support. There will be too many old retired Americans, for every young one who’s still working. It’s unsustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:54 PM
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So I guess the body positivity movement, which only applies to overweight women isn’t an effort to influence men to sleep with women who aren’t desired. How do you explain the link below “science pilled” https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-12098767/Martha-Stewart-slams-plastic-surgery-insists-Sports-Illustrated-Swimsuit-pics-NOT-retouched.html
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:44 PM
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.The problem isn’t that women have high standards. The problem is society doesn’t want men to have any standards at all. Everyday woke media tries to force men to be attracted to things they’re not attracted to. Here’s an example there’s hundreds more https://www.foxnews.com/sports/sports-illustrated-faces-backlash-naming-transgender-female-pop-star-kim-petras-swimsuit-cover-model
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:28 PM
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“Demedermidimi” studies show women’s unrealistic standards will have a negative effect in the near future. https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/45-percent-women-are-expected-to-be-single-and-childless-by-2030
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:13 PM
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Men being the provider is a traditional gender role, that’s expected from men. Even if women have radically changed, since 1950 and abandoned their traditional gender roles. Society desperately needs men to keep playing theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:26 AM
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Stay hydrated
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:06 AM
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Millions of men financially support their women. Only to find out later, they were lied to, cheated on, or worse. It’s hard for men to move on from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:38 PM
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That won't be an issue for long, as fat and out of shape they're getting. 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:14 PM
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Maybe, but here’s the difference. Men don’t expect and feel entitled to a women’s money, the way women feel that they’re entitled to ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:02 PM
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Undesirable western women who are mean, selfish, entitled, rude, overweight, or narcissistic, don’t qualify for a desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:55 PM
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A record number of men under 35 are not seeking marriage or relationships. Men are checking out all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:43 PM
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A record number of men under 30 are not seeking marriage or relationships. Men are checking out all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:40 PM
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Are you serious, there are so many men trapped in a sexless marriage. It’s not even funny anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:34 PM
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About 90 percent of posts created on the purple pill are women complaining about men. Women complain more than anybody. Social media is the only place men are allowed to have a voice. Women are now complaining about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:52 PM
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Huge numbers of women believing their entitled to a "Hoe Phase", is not desirable either. Both men and women have become undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:08 PM
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I'm not interested in approaching, unless she's giving signals she wants to be approached. Otherwise it's just a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:52 PM
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I'm not talking about 18-24 yr old females. Who are enjoying their "Hoe Phase". Women over 25 would much rather have a serious, committed relationship with potential for marriage. Than to get pumped and dumped by some random F*ck boy. That's why I said so what. Lots of men have ruined their lives, by making sex their top priority. Women can easily get sex, who cares. Worry about what you can control. Not about the things you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:44 PM
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That’s strange. there’s literally thousands of videos on tik tok and YouTube of women complaining about how men don’t approaching them anymore. Lots of women out here are salty, men aren’t checking for them no more. Eventually you’ll experience the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:48 AM
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I live in the United States. I'm currently dating a woman in 2023. She's actually feminine. I find that very attractive. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:31 PM
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Women that don't look approachable, won't get approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:27 PM
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Women on this sub need to understand, that they're not attractive at any size and weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:26 PM
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When you consider the quality of women out here, do you really want to bother approaching anyway. You're not missing out on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:29 PM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:07 AM
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10-15 yrs ago Sharapova was kinda hot. Anyway, 80 percent of women are chasing only 20 percent of men. They all think they deserve him, and will eventually get him, but the numbers don't work. Are women ok with 3 women for every 1desireable man. That's what your preferences indicate. You girls are unrealistic refusing to date in your league. By the way you're not all 10's
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:03 AM
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Or maybe women should put the fork down, and hit the gym. That’s one way to increase your odds, of men approaching you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:46 PM
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A man can’t ask a woman out, without oppressing her with the male gaze. (according to feminists) It also doesn’t help that women are flakey as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:41 PM
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We don’t need help from big pharma. A poster of Lizzo above your bed will lower you sex drive efficiently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:35 PM
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I think this article might help explain why you’re wrong. Don’t be a statistic. https://www.jhunewsletter.com/article/2021/10/is-the-hoe-phase-really-empowering
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:54 PM
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It’s not just me saying it. The article below explains it very well. https://www.jhunewsletter.com/article/2021/10/is-the-hoe-phase-really-empowering
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:14 PM
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It’s true, women can get a sexual partner easier than a man so what. She would rather have a meaningful relationship instead. Most men want to have more sex, more often. There’s lots of risk involved with that. You can get a girl pregnant, you don’t even like, or catch an STD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:34 PM
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I would be smart enough to know, sex without the relationship and commitment, doesn’t benefit me as a woman. I’d know bragging about how many men want me, for casual sex only. Is not a flex. I’d only date men who want to be in a serious long term relationship. My priority would be can this man provide and be a good husband, and father. I would not waste my entire 20s, sleeping with frat boys and arrogant chads. I would actually give nice guys a chance first, instead of last.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:22 AM
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Casual sex options for women, don’t really count. They all want the relationship part eventually. These promiscuous 40 year old women bragging about “exploring their options”, just means they’re sleeping around and not getting their phone calls returned. Wow, we’re all so impressed you can still get pumped and dumped, as much as younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:46 AM
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Are you serious “LogicalLetterhead272”? “Women typically don’t have to do anything to be dateable”. Lmao They could try putting the fork down. Have you seen the sizes of women in 2023?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:17 AM
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Men are valued for their money, resources, and ability to protect and provide. Women are valued for their youth, sexual attractiveness, and fertility. At your age, you should know this by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:04 AM
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So, you and men have something in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:50 AM
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Women in their 40s who are still dating, are trying to get relationships. Men are the ones who at any age, don’t mind having casual sex. Even if the relationship part isn’t there. We are not after the same thing. These cougars out here are not winning, they’re losing. Because, they all end up in the same place. Crying to their friends over the phone “but why would he sleep with me, if he didn’t want to be with me”?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:44 AM
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Even with the worst looks and personality, and a misogynist. A rich man can always get a hot wife. Donald Trump, Hugh Hefner, and Larry Flint there’s thousands of examples. Most rich men can take their pick. I get why they’re so arrogant. that’s the problem with gold diggers. They make women look bad. They give the most toxic and controlling guys, their body and submissiveness for a life of luxury. Attractive 26 year old woman will marry an 89 year old man. Men are not for sale, like most women …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:12 AM
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Elon Musk definitely was, money makes up for a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:43 AM
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If he’s rich they do. Shout out Hugh Hefner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:39 AM
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What’s wrong with him being into hunting?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:23 AM
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Damn!😂 Thanks for setting the record straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:50 PM
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Women only care about men conditionally. You really expect us to be happy about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:07 AM
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Spend one week in family court, and you’ll understand why men say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:50 AM
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fr😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:40 AM
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6’4” giga chad gets lots of sex from 18-25 college age women, who just want to have fun. Most girls aren’t looking for a husband yet at that age in western countries anyway. After lots of parties and casual sex with Chads, the women eventually start preferring the stable, and responsible 5’3” engineer. Even after he marries them. They’re still dreaming about and lusting after Chad. He had them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:42 PM
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Why would she have sex with him, just because he’s a neurosurgeon? How would you prove he ever said it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:15 PM

For the same reason, r/AskFeminists is full of women, complaining they can’t find a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:05 PM

All gender roles are a social construct. You can call it traditional, or assign another name to it. It’s how society tries to regulate behavior between the sexes. Throughout most of history the roles have been very clear, for both men and women. This has all radically changed the past 60 years. Women have abandoned most of their traditional gender roles; While, society desperately wants men to still adhere to theirs. Chivalry is a traditional gender role that’s expected from men. Since women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:00 AM

All gender roles are a social construct. You can call it traditional, or assign another name to it. It’s how society tries to regulate behavior between the sexes. Throughout most of history the roles have been very clear, for both men and women. This has all radically changed the past 60 years. Women have abandoned most of their traditional gender roles; While, society desperately wants men to still adhere to theirs. Chivalry is a traditional gender role that’s expected from men. Since women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:59 AM
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Ok, I’ll answer your irrelevant questions. I think more men watch porn. I also think both genders, are treated horribly in porn. By the way, Female adult film stars make significantly more money than male ones. None of that matters. The man that was drugged and castrated, was not a willing participant in his brutal mutilation. He also wasn’t being paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:11 AM
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Women are willing participant’s in the porn industry. I assume women have the mental capacity to decide for themselves, if making porn is what they want. Every bad decision a woman chooses to make is a man fault? How does that work exactly When men make bad choices like getting married, without a prenup. I don’t blame women. Men should know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:10 PM
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Interesting, how you chose to ignore the obvious. The open hostility, disdain, and contempt for men, is broadcast daily on television. What difference does it make, when it airs or who is watching. The point is misandry has been normalized. You will never see a group of five men on live TV, laughing about a woman being drugged and then brutally mutilated. The kindness, respect, and attraction; between men and women is steadily declining. Men are hesitant to seriously commit to women. The chaos, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:46 PM
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“The view” “The Talk” those types of programs. They are misandrist echo chambers. https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=1855922
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:05 PM
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Their not rambling on Reddit every week. All daytime talk is dedicated to it. That's why
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:52 PM
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Chivalry is a traditional gender role expected of men. Women have rejected their traditional gender roles. Men should reject theirs as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:57 PM
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Not a deal breaker. Allow them to be who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:37 PM
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You can’t negotiate attraction. I agree. So, why does mainstream media try to guilt, shame, and pressure men into liking overweight, plus sized women. They put Martha Stewart on the COVER of sports illustrated’s swimsuit edition. Society hates men being attracted to beautiful women in their 20’s, who are physically fit. They desperately want men to find overweight women attractive. You can’t negotiate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:03 AM
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“Reversegiraffe1” the only winning move is not to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:34 AM
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I think you actually agree with me, but you misread my comments. I’m saying no one is going to wait around for her. If she’s too picky in her 20’s, there won’t be many options left in her 30’s. You’ll always hear the phrase “where are all the good men”. Answer: They’re all married, with kids by now. Good men, who are marriage minded and secure financially, won’t be single for long. Definitely not for 15 years. They’re in high demand. They’re not waiting for her to finish her hoe phase, get her d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:57 PM
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There aren't any fathers in the home anymore, who cares what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:31 PM
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He doesn't want to hang out with you and your teenage friends. He's checking to see if you want a sugar daddy or not. Those kinds of arrangements don't require much talking. 🍆
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:27 PM
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They're strong and independent. They can put themselves in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:28 PM
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You’re right women do tend to mature faster. Studies have shown that to be true. It actually makes sense for women to date men 5 years older than them on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:13 PM
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You’re right men do the same thing. We put up with a lot of toxic behavior, if she’s hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:47 PM
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Women mature faster than men do. Your post doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:16 PM
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An attractive 21 year old woman in college can have high standards. She is in her prime years. That same woman at 36 years old, if still single won’t have as many options as she used to. She will have to get realistic about her high standards, or stay single. She will also be under pressure from family and friends, to give this guy a chance, or give that guy a chance. She will be told she’s being too picky. Eventually, she will lower her standards. Why wait for all that? Just get it over with no…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:12 PM
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The man also showers, and looks his best. He can't sit there mute either. Women complaining about their dates being boring, means he's expected to carry the conversation, not her. When it comes to "there are plenty of women willing to go 50/50" on a date. Stop The Cap
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:45 AM
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Most of them were both.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:27 AM
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Adult women want men to ask them out, plan the date, pick them up for the date, then pay for the date. You can’t be boring, so keep her entertained every moment of the date. Drive her home. Walk her to her front door. All she needs to do is show up. That’s what he means.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:25 AM
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Unless, they’re rich. Shoutout to Hugh Hefner
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:38 AM
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Women on social media often demand men make six figures or more. That’s a fantasy. Women who talk like this are usually in their 30s or 40s. They can’t compete with single women in their 20s for those men. Women’s standards are only too high, if you believe it’s real. Women break all their rules for chad. There are no standards for income or character, when women think you’re hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:41 AM
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You also need to be 6 feet tall, and not care about anyone past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:50 AM
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You’re a woman. You don’t protect, or provide for anyone. You want equality. You also want preferential treatment in everything. Men pay for our drinks. Men make sure we get home safe. Men don’t defend yourself when we start hitting you. Men we’re bored entertain us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:17 AM
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I agree. The game doesn’t work unless, it’s the woman playing the man for a sucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:52 PM
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You’re wrong a “traditional woman” enriches the life of a man. Modern women like Amber Heard and Jada Pinkett Smith only bring chaos, and heartache to a man. Those are just two examples but, I could name hundreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:09 PM
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A man can’t approach a woman, without also oppressing her with the male gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:06 PM

You can be the nice guy here if you want. We’ll see where that gets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:29 PM

Respectfully, I’ll have to disagree “5200-3200-1100” men are not creeps for preferring women in their 20s. Women in their 20s are better looking, more fun, more optimistic and more fertile. Women in their 40s have been “pumped and dumped” so many times, they see all men as the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:23 PM

It’s illogical advice for women to wait until their mid 30’s to start trying for marriage and kids. 90 percent of your eggs are gone. The most desirable single men, prefer mid 20’s over late 30’s with baggage and geriatric pregnancy. Young women wasting their 20s, screwing random chads is not smart. It’s only when their looks start fading, they get serious about wanting a man who is ready for commitment. https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/45-percent-women-are-expected-to-be-single-and-childless-b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:26 PM
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fr 🤣😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:54 PM
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Will Smith situation is demoralizing. Tall, handsome, famous, and rich man who’s wife doesn’t appreciate or respect him. What chance does an average guy have then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:53 PM
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He should have got his passport and went to the Philippines or Thailand, hot and submissive women everywhere. F settling
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:45 PM
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Single overweight women chase and flirt with guys all the time. It’s kinda gross though. 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:33 PM
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Yeah, Will Smith, Johnny Depp, Tyrese, and Tom Brady. They’re all handsome and successful. I think they’re wives either, became jealous of them; or let their misandrist ideology ruin everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:50 PM
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I’d keep the government out of it. But, ghosting people is wrong. So is standing people up. If you’re not interested in someone call or text them, and let them know. That would make things more fair for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:31 PM
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Single women act like every man in society. Should give them their time, attention, protection, and validation. No, that’s your bf or husband’s job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:19 PM
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Ok fine. What do single women ever do for single men, without expecting something in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:04 PM
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