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| 1 | The Sexual Diversity Movement is a Cultural InvasionWith that being said, does it become redundant to talk about transgender people in terms of gender? Should we begin to look at them as people with disorders of sexual development similar to intersex people, but where their brain's primary sexual characteristics differ from the primary and secondary sexual characteristics of the rest of their bodies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Men: What do you bring to the table?Five on each foot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 08:58 AM |
| 4 | Men: What do you bring to the table?Extremely memorable personality, very tall, extremely confident in most ways, fun hobbies, and at least six toes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 10:13 PM |
| 1 | At what age is it a red flag to have had no relationship experience, and why is it a red flag?Once again, actually learn about our history and culture outside of judeo-christian nonsense from the east. Traditionally, we have always embraced passion: from unrestrained rage to unrestrained lust to unrestrained love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:55 AM |
| 4 | At what age is it a red flag to have had no relationship experience, and why is it a red flag?You have a poor grasp of western history. I encourage reading Ovid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:45 AM |
| 4 | At what age is it a red flag to have had no relationship experience, and why is it a red flag?Luckily it isn't the 1950s and in the west people like you are in the minority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 08:26 AM |
| 7 | At what age is it a red flag to have had no relationship experience, and why is it a red flag?Wanting to enjoy someone's company for a short while is neither bad or using them if you are honest about it. Carpe Diem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 07:29 AM |
| 4 | At what age is it a red flag to have had no relationship experience, and why is it a red flag?Just because a relationship ended doesn't mean that it failed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 07:15 AM |
| 5 | What you date a man who has seen an escort under these circumstances?Firstly just find a nice looking woman with big tits and do it for free. If you can't do that and your future wife asks if you ever used hookers just lie and say you didn't. If you're not comfortable with lying then don't do it to begin with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 10:17 PM |
| 5 | What you date a man who has seen an escort under these circumstances?Why would you tell them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever.You should have told her that you've had short term flings before, but implied that you're looking for someone to make you stick around. Women eat that stuff up usually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Did The 2014-15 Discussion of "Nice Guys" And "Me Too" Cause You To Stop Dating/Talking To Men?This is just factually wrong because the redpill was around from the 90s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 06:02 AM |
| 1 | LysistrataI think we have a tendency to forget that our forbears were humans who felt the exact same things we did, with a few cultural differences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.What do you not understand about "I don't care"? I have no problem with you defining me as an egomaniac or psychopath or writing paragraphs about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.Dating is about getting someone else to want me. If they can't or won't consent I am not interested in them sexually. As for the rest of your hippie Christian nonsense about it being egomania and psychopathy to care about winning in life, I don't care. Men die, cattle die, but the deeds of men die not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.I am talking about achievements and victories, not sex crimes you weirdo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Would you want to know if a woman expects you to pay on the first date?I wouldn't be interested in her anymore if she wasn't just testing me I believe she thinks this No I don't pay for dates, we both pay for ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.Pretty often, I am an MMA fighter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.Yes. The essence of life lies in imposing your will upon the world, regardless of gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 09:36 PM |
| 4 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.I am not a Christian and do not subscribe to Judeo-Christian morality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.Harmless is not "good". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 09:03 AM |
| 10 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.Meekness is a vice and not a virtue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 09:01 AM |
| – | How Does Height Play Into Dating?I used to not have it listed at all and got the same amount. Not going to lie about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 02:44 PM |
| – | How Does Height Play Into Dating?I'm only 6'4 or thereabouts so not massive. I have never been approached by a woman as incels claim happens to men of my height, nor do I get many matches online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 02:37 PM |
| – | How Does Height Play Into Dating?Height doesn't mean that much, speaking as someone in the top 1% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 10:32 AM |
| – | How Does Height Play Into Dating?You are not red pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 10:30 AM |
| 1 | How can men be physically sexy in a tasteful way? Do you think "being sexy" is a social skill?This is very strange and I have never seen it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 08:35 AM |
| 0 | Do women change preferences organically or is there something else at play?I assumed you were my age tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Do women change preferences organically or is there something else at play?Is this a comment on your lack of desire for rough sex or a metaphorical one for carrying discussions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 08:21 AM |
| 4 | Do women change preferences organically or is there something else at play?So in conclusion League of Legends players are cheating whores? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveThat's not what I meant. I've never dated a woman who actively compared me to her exes besides in a good way lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveLol not that I just think if someone is comparing you negatively to their ex cheating on them is funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 07:38 AM |
| 8 | Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of LoveHonestly if my hypothetical gf treated me in that way the OP described I'd cheat for a laugh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 11:02 PM |
| – | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.Oh yes, I agree. I've never paid for a date and that's never caused a loss in attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Give Men & Women What they need not What they WantWho cares about "men" as a demographic? Look to yourself, your family and your circle of friends. Help them improve and improve yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:16 AM |
| – | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.I think you're missing the nuance here. Most men like OP start by wishing for a genuine connection based on personality, they just come to realise that this is generally a fantasy in some areas. For example, certain aspects of my personality can be attractive to the opposite sex but I am well aware that some of my traits will never been seen as anything other than "icks". I'm fine with this because I'm not a fucking pussy and that's just life, but incels (don't think the OP is one but many of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:09 AM |
| 1 | The fat acceptance movement is not a big deal. Too many people are obsessed with hating it.For non competitive endurance athletes I mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 09:45 AM |
| 2 | The fat acceptance movement is not a big deal. Too many people are obsessed with hating it.Exercise isn't hugely relevant to weight loss. It's all in your diet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 09:05 AM |
| 1 | The fat acceptance movement is not a big deal. Too many people are obsessed with hating it.Correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 09:04 AM |
| – | "Choose better" - What warning signs does Redpill think there are for abusive men?If you need to ask a therapist if every boundary is reasonable then you are not a normal person, and certainly not a high functioning one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Why does autism seem to be the only hyper-masculine trait which isn't attractive?We don't even know that "autism" is one disorder because our understanding of mental health is so poor. Sexually dimorphic traits are not always attractive. More women would be into a skinny but facially hot actor than a professional strongman or fighter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: How would you price this bangmaid subscription service?Zero | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 11:32 PM |
| 1 | My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time jobNot if you're charismatic and attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 10:41 PM |
| 1 | My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time jobPUAs are kind of a meme. You need a job in most cases but needing to make more than her is just a skill issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 07:19 AM |
| 1 | My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time jobRedpill makes clear you can pick up women without having money. Money is necessary if you want to actually raise your kids, but it is in no way required for having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 11:06 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.Generally attractive traits like extreme confidence come with unattractive ones like being selfish and mean. It's rare to have one without the other. That's all they mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 11:05 PM |
| – | Sex is a need.Necessary for life is not the definition of a need. There is a man who ate only french fries for thirty years and was still alive, this doesn't mean you don't need a balanced diet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 01:25 PM |
| – | Sex is a need.The act itself isn't a need (masturbation biologically does the same thing for your hormones and prostate), but an absence of the accompanying validation and emotional closeness for non asexual people is crippling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 01:25 PM |
| – | Sex is a need.You can exist without a healthy diet or exercise, but they are still needs to live well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know ItYour issue with dating is being low T and a severe pushover. I would not have let anyone dictate that to me at twelve let alone twenty one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 07:44 AM |
| 0 | Many young men struggle because they internalize internet opinionsHopelessness about looks is blackpill. Not redpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 09:37 AM |
| -1 | Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapseMany male dominated fields are as such because success and enjoyment in them is correlated with brain formation and testosterone levels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 08:54 AM |
| 3 | Telling men they're too emotionally weak to implement RP strategies is just going to motivate them to do it moreIt's not necessarily laziness. Some men are kind and gentle, and don't have the mental fortitude to spin plates. I have friends like this who are hard workers but would never be able to implement red pill strategies because it's not how they're mentally wired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Telling men they're too emotionally weak to implement RP strategies is just going to motivate them to do it moreYou realize it's possible to acknowledge RP and be a beta, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 09:50 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: would you prefer to live in a world where penetration was taboo?Absurdist satire has been a thing since at least the 90s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 02:47 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: would you prefer to live in a world where penetration was taboo?Sounds gay to me unless they were wearing socks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 02:00 PM |
| 4 | Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism createdI'm 6'4 and the autism is always stronger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 09:17 PM |
| – | Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism createdIt's both, the OP wishes he could get laid whilst despising people who can | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.Your friend is an aromantic gold digger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 08:11 AM |
| 0 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.OP is a known ragebaiter and has successfully triggered you, lol. Most women who talk about men using women as flesh lights are referring to them being selfish lovers and not caring about the woman's pleasure, not the act of casual sex itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 12:25 PM |
| 6 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.It's not using them as fleshlights if they enjoy it... Sex is not something women give to men, it's a mutual experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious TruthForearm thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 09:11 AM |
| – | Quantity of dates might be a better measure than time spent.If there's a long commute I sort of understand but you can always find a few hours to spare regardless if you really like someone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 09:28 PM |
| – | Quantity of dates might be a better measure than time spent.If someone can't find half an hour to get coffee with you and they're not working away or something extreme, they're not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 05:29 PM |
| – | Quantity of dates might be a better measure than time spent.It's extremely unlikely you had no free time for the rest of December, you just weren't that into him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 05:22 PM |
| – | Men having to supress their own enjoyment/desire is largely overlooked.As a man who is taller than 99% of other men statistically this is absolute horseshit. Face and personality matters far more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Guys Don’t Like Dating Apps and Instagram For Only One ReasonAlso, do you suffer from a hyperactive Enter key? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Guys Don’t Like Dating Apps and Instagram For Only One ReasonHonestly I'd suggest pretending you're on a videogame and disassociating from yourself while on dates and flirting etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 10:41 PM |
| – | Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex.You won't get one because she's a ragebaiter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 10:36 PM |
| – | Immediate sex is not needed to prove desire. You just want sex.You're correct to a point. Actual PIV sex isn't necessary. However physical closeness (leaning into you, kissing, hugging eye contact etc) is the best indicator of how attracted to you someone is. I personally wouldn't bother pursuing a second date with someone who wasn't physically affectionate with me from the first date. If she wants to wait a bit to have full sex of course that's fine, I'd probably rather do that as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Guys Don’t Like Dating Apps and Instagram For Only One ReasonHinge works/worked for me by just sending funny responses (ones that I myself laughed out loud at) to prompts. I get maybe 5 matches per week on averages almost all of whom I have good conversations with and could set up dates. I've also had success irl, but that comes from being extremely confident and isn't really replicable by a normal sane person haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 09:00 PM |
| 1 | To be an exception, you have to actually be exceptional.I pay for myself just not her. But normally I just drink tap water which is free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Guys Don’t Like Dating Apps and Instagram For Only One ReasonHinge I didn't need premium. Bumble is dead tinder is ok but mostly bots. Hinge is better if you're unconventional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 04:15 PM |
| 2 | To be an exception, you have to actually be exceptional.Speaking personally I have never paid for a first date even with women who said they expect the man to pay before (and have then got a second date), and although some have been more sexually reserved I've often made out on first dates. Of course a few times our personalities don't match so it just ends on a platonic note and we don't see each other again but that's to be expected. However, confidence and for want of a better phrase "living life on your terms" is a hugely attractive trait for eit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Women that say it’s controlling if a man doesn’t like their girl showing a lot of skin online or where other dudes can see: do you actually want us to agree that you do it for yourself not for men?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Using dating apps is beta male behaviourThis may blow your mind, but you can use the apps and also approach irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.I have a decent number of female friends I would consider as sister or cousin type figures. That is, no sexual interest whatsoever but we have a similar relationship to family, talk about our lives, male jokes etc. Mostly these are people I know online but I have decent female acquaintances irl. These are not close friends but I can have a ten minute conversation with them as I would workmates etc. Again, they can be objectively pretty but there is no sexual interest from either end. For what it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 12:48 PM |
| 0 | why won't women engage with men?So you strung along a man you weren't attracted to for a decade then left him. Would you like a gold star? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Hyper independence is making men and women incompatible.As was Britain in the forties before windrush. Non white immigrants anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 10:01 PM |
| 0 | why won't women engage with men?If you were in a ten year relationship with a man you weren't physically attracted to this would be the same as me dating a man who I liked as a person, since I'm not into men. Worst argument possible from you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Hyper independence is making men and women incompatible.China will start importing sub Saharan African migrants in the middle of this century in return for natural resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Hyper independence is making men and women incompatible.China is going to end up dominating Africa and Asia once they're done with using Russia Ukraine as a meat grinder to degrade the West and see what weapons they have. China is not necessarily anti feminist although they're far more misogynistic than here. They are rigid authoritarians however, this is probably rooted in Confucian culture and even possibly genetics given east Asian cultures and has been the case for thousands of years. If China comes to dominate the human race in the space age ove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 09:12 PM |
| -9 | Hyper independence is making men and women incompatible.I would rather live in the old west than the modern world for sure lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Hyper independence is making men and women incompatible.I don't agree with the OP, but his point was that if marriage rates and hypergamy continue as they are, liberal western societies will be destroyed by authoritarian ones with high birth rates that don't protect women's rights. Of course if you remove womens rights to stop that you're doing the enemy's work for them which is where his logic doesn't hold up. Also with technology and immigration controls it is possible for the west to still keep ahead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:53 PM |
| 0 | why won't women engage with men?Read what you said again. If he wasn't very good looking the crush wouldn't have developed to start with. So although you need to have an attractive personality, if they're not attractive physically it's a non starter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 11:08 AM |
| 2 | why won't women engage with men?You can totally just flirt with women and they're generally cool with it as long as you're not a cunt and they're sober. Drunk women have no inhibitions so will just shoot you down lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 11:07 AM |
| 1 | The Man You You Want vs The Men You Are Attracted ToIt is not "dehumanising" but the underlying agenda (AF/BB and redpill takes on women liking dangerous men) is factually wrong. Both sexes will ignore personality because someone is good looking then in some cases lie about it to look good. Women just lie more because society is accepting of men doing stupid things with attractive women, but shames women for doing the reverse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 10:50 AM |
| 5 | There are 2 harsh truths that men and women have accept sooner or later.Are you dense? In order for them to even figure out they are sexually compatible with you they have to be attracted enough to try out having sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 07:42 PM |
| – | Which guy is the more safe choice vs the more risky choice? Which guy has the female gaze?It's his looks and everything else is a bonus. The same energy would not be there if he was even normal looking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 10:10 PM |
| 0 | Younger generations feel entitled to what their parents took for granted when it comes to relationships, much like buying a house, and they need to lower expectationsI'm using it as a general adjective for socially stunted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Younger generations feel entitled to what their parents took for granted when it comes to relationships, much like buying a house, and they need to lower expectationsMost people do fine it's just the autistic people here who struggle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 10:30 PM |
| 5 | Younger generations feel entitled to what their parents took for granted when it comes to relationships, much like buying a house, and they need to lower expectationsRight, because in the pre modern era schools were teaching children how to flirt... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Why you have to work harder than your grandfather (and what to do about it)Women are not attracted to education or money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 09:37 AM |
| 1 | More men than women have a penchant for “understanding objects,” more women than men have a penchant for “connecting the dots.”Society has always been held together by force and still is, this is a non sequitur | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | More men than women have a penchant for “understanding objects,” more women than men have a penchant for “connecting the dots.”Obviously female priests have always been common, I'm talking about the ideological leaders in terms of political mobilisation. Not religious ritual per se | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | More men than women have a penchant for “understanding objects,” more women than men have a penchant for “connecting the dots.”Your general premise is flawed in my opinion, because the vast majority of religious and political leaders (inherently concerned with emotions and people) throughout history have been men. A great deal of emotions, chiefly anger, are also positively correlated with testosterone levels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 04:15 PM |
| -1 | More men than women have a penchant for “understanding objects,” more women than men have a penchant for “connecting the dots.”If your theory was true the majority of police detectives would be women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThis is just false, I am only an inch off the proposed height (I'm a strong 6'4) and am eccentric (although I'm intelligent with a lot of hobbies) and an average face. I went out on NYE and although I had fun dancing I got no attention from women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 08:23 AM |
| 18 | If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date.Its about what I want not what she gives relative to other men. For instance I wouldn't be interested in a woman who wants to wait for sex simply because I don't want to wait that long. However, if she doesn't want to smoke weed with me I don't care because I don't do drugs, even if she did with an ex and decided not to now for whatever reason. It helps that I have internal confidence from my attributes and abilities and I don't derive my self esteem from other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 11:45 AM |
| 0 | CMV: it's wrong to track how often your wife denies you sexNo I mean sometimes only the man or only the woman will orgasm because it's oral or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 02:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: it's wrong to track how often your wife denies you sexThey're both entitled to a satisfying amount of orgasms, not necessarily numerically equal since that would be hard to track | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 02:18 AM |
| 3 | CMV: it's wrong to track how often your wife denies you sexBoth parties are entitled to regular sex in a romantic relationship. If someone isn't fulfilling their duties in that regard they should simply divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 07:29 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: for those males struggling with dating, would you marry Lily Phillips?If Lily Phillips has no simps left in the world, u/HOLYREGIME is dead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather marry a guy 20+ years your senior or remain single and childless for life?Relationship attraction is sexual attraction plus wanting to spend your life with someone. The sexual attraction is a baseline for both sexes. People will often lie about being attracted to someone to get stuff (usually money) but this isn't "alpha fucks beta bucks" it is just being a conscious scammer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 06:28 PM |
| 0 | Would you rather marry a guy 20+ years your senior or remain single and childless for life?It's not a realistic question. If I was literally forced to choose between marrying a woman 15-20 years older I would choose that over remaining single because of a deep desire to have children which is nothing to do with sexual attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: for those males struggling with dating, would you marry Lily Phillips?😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 04:41 PM |
| 40 | Q4M: for those males struggling with dating, would you marry Lily Phillips?No, she is too much of a prude for my tastes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 03:39 PM |
| 7 | Do MGTOW/ black-pilled guys ever resort to sex/ relationships with other guys?They are either bisexual or rape victims... If you consensually fuck a man you are on some level bisexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 10:37 AM |
| 24 | Do MGTOW/ black-pilled guys ever resort to sex/ relationships with other guys?Besides the people who come out of the closet (who as you will know are often from homophobic groups and can be from anywhere in society) I wouldn't think so. You will know as a gay man that you can't just become attracted to women, the opposite is also true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Why do men crave romantic interest so much?You're a troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 09:00 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.Of course people are entitled to stare, you're entitled to call them out on it and if someone doesn't back down then you throw hands as the Americans like to say. This is just normal social behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 06:03 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.No because we don't live in a Christian/Muslim dystopia where women have to cover up. Feel free to stare imo but if someone says stop but you don't then take the consequences. I would feel uncomfortable if someone I wasn't attracted to was staring at me weirdly if I was working out shirtless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 05:49 PM |
| – | Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being badDo you think women were ever attracted to John Barrowman or Freddy Mercury (first two gay celebrities who sprung to mind, both with lots of female fans thirsting over them) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.Lots of people have no idea of what's an appropriate level of eye contact because it doesn't come naturally to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 09:30 AM |
| – | Why do unattractive cis men automatically assume that trans women want them? These are ugly guysAre you trans? Saying you don't like short men and that they're manlets while simultaneously being gender nonconforming is a hilarious lack of self aware | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 12:11 PM |
| – | Do you agree with redpillers saying that the average man is doomed when it comes to dating/finding love?It's not about life experience. They are neurodivergent (functionally disabled in this context). This would be like telling a cripple that walking is just a normal thing people do every day and go just get some experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Getting Online Dates and Real Gender Ratios on Dating AppsI am significantly over 6 feet and it never meant anything either online or irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Getting Online Dates and Real Gender Ratios on Dating AppsHeight doesn't matter, I agree on the face thing though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Getting Online Dates and Real Gender Ratios on Dating AppsMost people massively overestimate their ability at things they've never had to do. OLD is basically just how facially attractive you are because you can't actually interact with the people behind the profile. Bios don't matter because most of irl communication is non verbal. Almost nobody is funny without using tone and other aspects of humour at the right place and time. If you aren't very good looking you won't get matches online. That doesn't mean you wouldn't be ok in person however | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Getting Online Dates and Real Gender Ratios on Dating AppsYou have a good looking face, it's not that deep. That is what matters on dating apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Getting Online Dates and Real Gender Ratios on Dating AppsNo it isn't, and race has nothing to do with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 08:48 AM |
| – | What would you do if your gf lied to you about past?The lying is the issue not the tattoo. There is nothing sexual about being stabbed with needles in a sensitive area for hours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ?Unfortunately the thing that makes me a good fighter (the tism) also means I suck with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ?I am talking in my case about combat sports | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Do conservative women dress more immodestly than liberal women ?If by conservative you mean right wing then there are trends within the right that are distinctly opposed to one another and this discussion is meaningless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 08:55 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?😂😂🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 08:48 AM |
| 15 | Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ?Winning a fight does not make women wet what is this fantasy 😂 Edit I'll agree it's fun but sexy it is not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 08:38 AM |
| – | Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equalityI don't particularly disagree with anything here but I'd just like to say how nice it is for a post here to actually cite sources | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Which is typically more attractive?I don't like stuck up pricks in general whether they are wokies or conservative Christians/Muslims. Leaving aside compatibility and looks anyone who is strongly on either side politically (I follow what's at present a minor religion and only consider that for marriage) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Would you want to go back to life before the Sexual Revolution?I mean you could. Adultery wasn't criminalised back then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 08:30 PM |
| -3 | Would you want to go back to life before the Sexual Revolution?Yeah and most people will never experience this now unless they're very attractive lol what's your point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 08:04 PM |
| -1 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themIncorrect. "The blue pill" is literally any mindset that isn't red pill. You can be blue pill and believe that all sex is sinful and wrong, or be a sexually liberated postmodern feminist. Which is precisely why the term is so pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 04:51 PM |
| 6 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themYou don't understand the definition of red pill and blue pill. According to the original red pill, blue pill is just the original state of mind before the red pill is understood. And Christianity proscribes adultery meaning it cannot by definition be red pill, which advocates spinning plates etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 10:26 AM |
| 4 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themThat is a good idea (without aesthetics in mind but instead performance) to improve mental and physical health. Especially combat sports and running/weightlifting/swimming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 10:25 AM |
| 6 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themBlue pill just means "not red pill". A communist and an extremist Christian are both "blue pill" but have virtually nothing in common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 10:23 AM |
| 4 | What is the dating experience like for an average man?Practically nothing about me is average so I'm not sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 05:59 AM |
| – | Feminist women are much better to date than trad womenAre you trolling? I have never once heard real life women discuss that meme outside of the internet. Feminism has been mainstream since the sixties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 05:44 AM |
| – | Feminist women are much better to date than trad womenMost feminists do not think this. This is a minority of politically engaged ones on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex?I never really got dates from it either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex?I'm very tall and in good shape, and I've never got positive comments or anything on it. My friends who are handsome or really good conversationalists (I'm not bad just unconventional) have got many compliments before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Bad boys are liked by women only because of their self-confidenceUgly describes your face, nothing to do with height | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex?I honestly don't think height is that important. Same for physique to be honest. Money can definitely attract gold diggers but I'm working class as are my social circles, and women I know date the men I know. Facial looks are definitely very important as is being a mix of agreeable and having backbone. Same as confidence and physical charisma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Bad boys are liked by women only because of their self-confidenceUgly means bad face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Bad boys are liked by women only because of their self-confidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 06:18 PM |
| 0 | Bad boys are liked by women only because of their self-confidenceNapoleon complex means short men not ugly men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 05:00 PM |
| 6 | Bad boys are liked by women only because of their self-confidenceThat's true, but that doesn't mean women like confident men more on average. If you just want sex as man and nothing more imo you are better off just taking a holiday to Amsterdam once in a while | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 03:00 PM |
| 12 | Bad boys are liked by women only because of their self-confidenceAbsolutely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 01:07 PM |
| 61 | Bad boys are liked by women only because of their self-confidenceIt's looks, if they were confident and ugly nobody would care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy?In my experience, women attracted to those types tend to prefer more nerdy/alt men so this checks out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish?They would absolutely not identify as redpill, many are lesbians and deeply hostile to men in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:24 PM |
| -2 | Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish?Places too much emphasis on masculinity in attraction and not enough on face. Ignores non heterosexuals and relationships where neither party wants the man to lead. Thinks money results in genuine attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:24 PM |
| 0 | Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish?No it isn't. Redpill is the beliefs in the red pill sidebar which are also here. The fact they agree on certain things doesn't make them one and the same. Difference feminists believe in gender essentialism and they aren't redpillers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish?Redpill isn't "opposed" to anything. It seeks to be a theory to understand human behaviour not a moral code (and as a theory gets a lot wrong imo) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Why is the red pill seemingly anti kink/fetish?The fresh n fit guy is a tradcon rage baiter not redpill. Tradcon is blue pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 02:57 PM |
| 10 | Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women.It's funny watching you two bitter people argue. Most men are not abusive and most women are not gold diggers. Touch grass the pair of you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 01:26 PM |
| 0 | What screams wife material to you?I have never met anyone with this sort of connection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 04:48 AM |
| -2 | Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date.I do not despise my friends and family, no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 11:41 PM |
| 6 | How often do you fear that you'll be romantically rejected because you're not masculine enough?I definitely feel this. My masculinity is inherent to me and nothing to do with what people are attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 09:51 PM |
| 5 | How often do you fear that you'll be romantically rejected because you're not masculine enough?I would say the opposite in my generation as a very masculine man. My friends who are the biggest man whores have always tended to be more in touch with their feminine sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 09:50 PM |
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