MasterOfMoments Archive

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–	Bluepill solution to a deadbedroom can work but it's not optimal for a man. It’s also goes deeper than all of this for red pill issues. The highest quality research shows those who have the most sex and relationships are high in trait Extraversion and low in neuroticism. Physically attractive is actually quite low. Anyone who engages with real world dating I finds understand this intuitively. I’ve also been quite shocked at how average most red pill guys most of them look no different than your buddy who had no issues dating. The single biggest difference neuroticism or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 04:59 PM
–	Bluepill solution to a deadbedroom can work but it's not optimal for a man. Your argument collapses under the evidence. Research consistently finds that unequal division of housework and childcare predicts lower relationship satisfaction and lower sexual desire, while perceived fairness, emotional connection, and partner responsiveness are associated with higher sexual satisfaction and frequency. Attraction matters, but reducing a complex long-term relationship to “be attractive or leave” ignores decades of data showing that desire in established relationships is strong…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 03:46 PM
–	Bluepill solution to a deadbedroom can work but it's not optimal for a man. This reads as someone who has very little relationship experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 03:40 PM
–	Bluepill solution to a deadbedroom can work but it's not optimal for a man. I just think a lot of red pill stuff is completely detached from reality or real world situations. Two biggest things that have improved my wife and I’s sex life hiring a cleaner who comes once a week and getting meal prep for our lunches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 03:25 PM
–	Bluepill solution to a deadbedroom can work but it's not optimal for a man. It’s so odd to me how people look at household chores through a sexual dynamics lens. Like you stated it’s more of a pragmatic thing. It is exceedingly difficult to feel sexy and want sex if you're ran ragged and smell like baby spit up. Bingo you aren’t a simp for doing chores it’s something you both do to lower the mental friction of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 02:57 PM
–	Bluepill solution to a deadbedroom can work but it's not optimal for a man. I think a lot of red pill guys are projecting from a position of scarcity. When you’re not getting sex, it’s easy to start viewing it as the most important thing in the world and interpreting every relationship through that lens. People who have actually spent years in healthy relationships usually understand that sex matters, sometimes a great deal, but it’s still only one part of a much larger relationship that includes trust, companionship, shared experiences, loyalty, and building a life tog…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 02:05 PM
–	Bluepill solution to a deadbedroom can work but it's not optimal for a man. Calling something “not optimal” requires knowing which intervention has the highest expected return, and you haven’t established that lifting weights and learning game outperform relationship work in every case. If communication problems, resentment, or unresolved conflict are major drivers of the issue, then ignoring them is just as suboptimal as ignoring fitness and self-improvement. Rational optimization means addressing the actual bottleneck, not assuming in advance that every problem is an …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 01:52 PM
–	Bluepill solution to a deadbedroom can work but it's not optimal for a man. This argument assumes that therapy, communication, and self-improvement within a relationship produce no value unless they directly increase sex. In reality, learning to communicate better, resolve conflict, and assess whether a relationship is viable are transferable skills that benefit a man regardless of whether the marriage survives. It also creates a false choice between relationship work and personal development, when many men can improve their fitness, confidence, and social skills while …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 01:41 PM
–	Detachment is the best approach to dating for men. This is just a very creative way to induce more avoidance. The single biggest predictor of involuntary singlehood is not looks it is high trait neuroticism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 12:33 PM
1	An average young woman isn't average What does it matter what people demand? See who they actually are dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 12:44 PM