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| 7 | A guy I was having sex with lightly choked me during the heat of the moment, but instead of telling him to stop and continuing to enjoy it, I went batshit and made him feel so bad he cried. I'm woman, hear me roar! | Feminism | MasterPip | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 02:37 AM |
| 6 | Need some opinions on what I should offer in the divorce that's fair but doesn't leave me strapped. | Spousal Support / Alimony | MasterPip | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 02:33 AM |
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| 1 | Need some opinions on what I should offer in the divorce that's fair but doesn't leave me strapped.I spoke to a lawyer awhile back when my wife and I were going through it and they made it pretty clear I would definitely be paying alimony. They were more focused on reducing the amount rather than not paying at all. I figure it's well worth the extra 25K out of the 401k because without her ridiculous spending habits I can get that back within a year or so. Plus she can't take me back to increase the amount if I get a promotion. in SC, being married 15 years and her never holding down a regular… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 03:21 AM |
| 2 | How is custody determined?That makes me want to nut across the living room lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/26 09:52 PM |
| 15 | Every now and then you get a good little reminderSo im like the ex in that i like to get everything I need in one trip for at least 2 weeks but my wife will admonish me for "getting too much". Then lo and behold, in a few days we gotta ago back because we ran out of something. The difference is we live rural and its a 30min, 20 mile drive to the grocery store. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/26 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Altering child support, is it worth the fight?None of anything you mentioned matters usually. Getting married, having another kid, etc.what does matter is the rental. If that can be considered income it could be substantial. Put yours and hers income into your state calculator and see the difference. But she could also just sell the old place to avoid this entirely. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/26 09:35 PM |
| 15 | Posting this for a friend. Just over 2 years post divorce and his ex ended up exactly where he thought she would.How the hell do you lose a PAID OFF house? lol That's like next level being terrible with money. Shes gotta have some sort of addiction. edit: I hope you hysterically laughed at her when she asked you to buy her another house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Ex Charging for BabysitterWow really? My dad tried to get them to hear me when my parents divorced because I practically begged him to let me say I don't want to live with my mom. I was 13 and the court refused to hear me and said I had no say in what they decided and it "wasn't right" to pull a teen into a courtroom unless it was for something like abuse or serious accusations. They gave her full custody even though my dad fought for 50/50 and he only got limited visitation with no history of any abuse. My mom on the ot… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Positive 50/50 StoriesDisclaimer that I'm not divorced, but I know many who are. Between work, school, kids going out on their own to friends' places, sports, clubs, and everything else going on, most parents only see them about 50% of the time to begin with. (depends on age) A schedule makes things a little different, but it's not as bad as it seems. There will be days it's eerily quiet, and then others you're wishing your ex would come pick them up (in an exhaustive joking way). Be thankful you have something amica… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Ex Charging for BabysitterThis is going to be difficult to prove if you guys don't hire people through a legitimate business. Courts won't take your daughter's word into account because they don't want to pull children into the middle of divorce proceedings. So essentially, it will be you accusing her and her denying it without any proof. is this clause set by the courts? Or is this a simple agreement with you two? If it's set by the court, continue making payments and document them. Hire a PI to check in on the home and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Teenage kids don’t like taking orders from their mom’s fiance.The kids are ultimately the mother's responsibility, but if she defers to the fiance there isn't much you can do. You have to realize that everyone in this situation is free to act within the guidelines of their own judgment. You may not like how he talks to them, but at the same time, she gives him the authority to do so, and as long as he isn't abusive, it's his house and his rules. If he makes them do things you do not like, you just have to suck it up. Sometimes, having a shitty absent paren… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Why can CS/Alimony be modified when we increase our pay if the divorce was finalized based off our current combined income?If the courts were truly fair they wouldn't treat good dads like a wallet and second class citizens. Tell me why the dad isn't given full custody while the wife gets back on her feet? It makes the most logical sense. If he makes all the money, let the kid(s) stay with him until she can get a job making enough money to support herself? Then they can split custody and work out CS after. Alimony shouldn't exist unless its an extreme case. (Can't work, married for decades, etc). She already gets hal… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Why can CS/Alimony be modified when we increase our pay if the divorce was finalized based off our current combined income?My children would benefit with me because MY income increased. If she wants them to benefit when they are with her then she can increase her income. Why am I responsible for her responsibilities as a parent? The court decided at the time of divorce that the CS i pay is adequate to provide for them due to her lower income. If I increase my income afterward, thats my business. If the court was happy with what I was paying then, why isn't it happy now? The only time CS should change is if my income… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else stick in a miserable job due to threat of alimony?This is terrible advice. Courts have contingencies in place for things like this, which is called voluntarily underemployed. They can come after him using his old salary. Then he would really be screwed. You keep posting garbage like this with no explanation on how/why it would work. Such as saying there a "loopholes" but dont explain what those are. Being a loser peice of crap deadbeat is not a loophole. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 12:28 PM |
| 4 | TROIts so sickening that she can just lie like that and have you removed from your own home for two weeks. People like that should be the ones going to jail. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Women Silently Emotionally Disconnecting and Checking Out Is Cowardlyboy someone got triggered lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | The moment I realized my "Duty" meant nothing to the courtI would like to know these as well. I'm pretty sure most men would want to know what these are, short of being illegal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Why can CS/Alimony be modified when we increase our pay if the divorce was finalized based off our current combined income?edit: CS ends at 18 regardless of college nearly everywhere. Was this an agreement between you two or is this specific to your state? The most baffling thing about that is that if they got a job they would make disproportionately more money. Since CS/Alimony is a formula based on combined income, it doesn't dwindle dollar for dollar. I found that if my STBX were to work and make 50K/yr, she would get around $500-700/mo in support as opposed to 1500-1800, while increasing her take home income by … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 03:16 PM |
| 8 | Why can CS/Alimony be modified when we increase our pay if the divorce was finalized based off our current combined income?Im with you 100% Its nonsense. I can somewhat understand CS being adjustable but within reason since its for the kid. Problem is that money rarely if ever gets spent on the child. When a divorce is finalized it means all parties agree to the terms set by the judge. The story should end there. I dont think Alimony should even exist unless the husband is at fault (cheating/abuse) or in terms of extreme cases such as being married for 40 years and the wife can't work anymore. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 01:37 PM |
| 1 | The real fight in divorce isn't about the money or the blame. It's the internal shit no one talks about.I'm literally going through all of this right now. She hasn't decided what she wants. She says she needs time to think. She dropped the bomb on me on the way home from taking her and my daughter to a Kpop concert. Not how I thought our little weekend away was going to go. Now she went from loving on me last week, to completely cold, isolated, and withdrawn. She barely speaks to me. There's moments of something there sometimes though. She'll ask me if I can make her some coffee, or get something … | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/25 05:51 PM |
| 2 | I really need some help pertaining to a self examVas deferens. It feels like you said, a tube. Feels kinda bumpy everywhere. It's because it's all curled up in there. Perfectly normal. The concern would be anything that felt like a roundish lump besides your testicles. And in fact, most times, it would be on the testicles themselves. Though I imagine not always. I doubt there would be much of a question if you found an actual lump to be concerned with. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Pretty girl looking for r/roastme attention, not just denied but shredded and set fire to afterwards..Well, I believe it's an automatic thing. They just have a bot that scans posts for keywords and bans any user who makes a post with those keywords. What's funny is that just about every "helpful" large sub on reddit is actually full of extremely toxic people and, usually, mods. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/03/22 08:04 AM |
| 5 | How Much Time Would A Man Get For Doing This?Is it bad that before I got to the end I fully expected her to be reprimanded and "sent home with pay for a week". Like, this is what I've come to expect from these articles. At least they surprised me by revoking her license. I guess that's more than I expected. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/21 02:19 AM |
| 4 | So I joined this sub today and...People don't like the idea of Men actually having equal rights and putting some responsibility on the opposite sex. So they will insult with redpill/incel to excuse their behavior for being a shit person and ignoring any facts that go against a world built on feministic political correctness. I think it will be much harder for men to have their rights than gays or Trans because their fight was much more violently opposed as men's rights is a subtle easily passable thing, yet so damaging. There a… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/21 02:14 AM |
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