| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | I don't know how to relate to a woman. Im 22 and lost in this aspect of life. Where do I start? | MastererofReality | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 07:08 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Where can a beginner learn to be more masculine?You just convinced me. This one is on the list. | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Where can a beginner learn to be more masculine?48 laws of power is awesome. Mastery, by the same author, is as well. Art of War, I'll have to give that one a shot. Do you find it to be truly applicable? I know lots of guys read it because it's "cool" to do so, but have you really found some insight in there that carries over? | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Never Be Reactive When It Comes To WomenI like this idea and I need to internalize it. The man is the frame controller when he's with a woman. He doesn't react much. He leads or anchors the conversation/interaction. That's just the dynamic, and when a man takes up the reactionary dynamic, it comes off as feminine and not grounded. | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I fucking made it. Last night, at 23 years old, I lost my vCard. And it's all because of you.Hey man, I practice Zen meditation, and I cam attest, its very helpful. Start by watching this talk: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3nwwKbM_vJc by Jon Kabat Zinn. Very smart man, and he doesn't just explain meditation, he shows you. Then go look up some of the science on how meditation effects the brain. Its pretty potent stuff. And finally, don't listen if someone tells you meditation is about "making your thoughts stop". People keep perpetuating that idea and it gets a lot of beginners stuck in … | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 08:07 AM |
| 2 | Guys, I fucking made it. Last night, at 23 years old, I lost my vCard. And it's all because of you.I'm so happy for you man. This just reaffirms my commitment. I'm not a virgin, but I might as well be for how gigantic of a wuss I am with women. But you're right. All the fear, all the things that hold you back, its all in your head. | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 07:57 AM |
| 1 | I don't know how to relate to a woman. Im 22 and lost in this aspect of life. Where do I start?feeling fear and being nervous/awkward when you start doing something after a long time or not having done it is COMPLETELY NORMAL. get that straight. Embrace your emotions, and allow yourself to go through rejection as its a natural part of becoming a better man. Rejection and sexual interest go hand in hand with one another, being ok with rejection will allow you to show sexual interest in a women. Yeah, I have to remind myself of this. Sometimes I bash myself for being awkward and feeling fea… | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 07:49 AM |
| 5 | What do you guys do to develop focus and consistency?Hey, I am not the greatest at seduction, but I am a co-owner of a business startup and a Zen Buddhism practitioner, so I do have a bit of advice here. Focus is a muscle. It responds to training, and that's what Zen and other forms of meditation is. Zen is a whole lifestyle, wherein you learn how to be present in every moment. But meditation itself, even without Zen, is basically a workout for your attention and level of focus. Buddha taught two methods of meditation, one called Shamatha which me… | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 07:38 AM |
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