| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Do you believe women love opportunistically?Life insurance | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/25 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Am I overreactingWhy does it matter when you get the gift? You should stop trying to control every detail. Just be happy with your loving husband & stop whatever this is | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/23 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Would you forgive cheating in my situation?If you end it because of this, I guarantee you it will never be that light. That is barely anything. Flirting is not cheating | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/23 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Advice with dealing with a jaded man…?So you are holding off on intimacy after you found out he was divorcing | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Advice with dealing with a jaded man…?Let me ask you, you two have never been intimate or you have | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 10:51 PM |
| 14 | Advice with dealing with a jaded man…?Im not sure he would want to get out of one marriage and rush into another. He just sounds hesitant about it now because he has a lot on his plate. Give him time to heal and get himself sorted, and don’t push too hard. Otherwise you may just end up with the opposite effect | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Should the man still pay the bill if a woman asks him out on a date first?No, he will expect to pay for himself but not for you. Since you asked | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Catcalling (or lack thereof) is killing my hardly-existing confidenceYou want to be harassed more, is that what you are asking? In that case, just wear more risky clothing but is this really beneficial | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 10:39 PM |
| 14 | My Husband (43) of 7 Years Won't Remind me of Things I (43) Said I'd doWhat exactly is the issue here? He is too considerate and wants a happy home? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 10:37 PM |
| – | Is it bad that my boyfriend is a bit younger than me ?Lol an amazing leader according to you | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/23 11:23 PM |
| 0 | Is it bad that my boyfriend is a bit younger than me ?First of all, skipping a grade means fuck all when it comes to social/emotional iq. It is probably negatively correlated to social skills, ie elon musk. Second, she said “how do I show him that I need him to lead us confidently”. If he was socially more mature than her, she wouldn’t be asking this. She needs to find someone who has grown up and is a man | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/23 09:24 PM |
| 0 | Wanting my ex back- I was the toxic oneWhy would he want you back? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/23 08:29 PM |
| -11 | Is it bad that my boyfriend is a bit younger than me ?It wont work at that age, unless its just for fun. You are mentally ahead of him | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/23 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Do fboys like "less attractive" women because they're easier to manipulate or is this not a real conceptIts all about risk reward. Are you that much more attractive than an average woman that he should spend all this effort vs just going with the woman that is ready | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/23 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Freedom from VanityTechnically everything is vanity because we all die but hey you gotta spend the time somehow | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/23 06:50 PM |
| 3 | When "conventionally attractive" guys seem to regularly pursue "less" "conventionally attractive" women is there a reason behind it or is it just their type?Maybe lack of confidence is the better way to put it | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/23 01:48 PM |
| 4 | When "conventionally attractive" guys seem to regularly pursue "less" "conventionally attractive" women is there a reason behind it or is it just their type?I’ll tell you why. Because these women are more fun. They are easily pleased and enjoy simpler things. Problem with being a model looking woman, is men (even ones in their league) think immediately its too much of an effort. If you are a good looking man, why chase one woman when you can get many pretty good ones who will do whatever you want | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/23 12:39 AM |
| 2 | When "conventionally attractive" guys seem to regularly pursue "less" "conventionally attractive" women is there a reason behind it or is it just their type?Lmaaao these men are not intimidated by good looking women. Maybe thats a cope | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/23 12:34 AM |
| 3 | I’m confused on what’s going on here f18 m23Up to you what you do. But show a little less interest maybe | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/23 04:07 PM |
| 8 | I’m confused on what’s going on here f18 m23He just doesn’t want to seem like a creep, hanging out with a girl out of high school when he is past college senior age. It is extremely awkward to meet parents, especially with this in mind. Give him time and don’t try to force things | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it classless/a bad sign if a man uses Instagram as a dating app, or is it just what everyone does now?Agreed | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I get to know an extremely shy and reserved guy?How do you know he is shy rather than having some sort of developmental disability? Its possible no | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/23 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Lots of one night stands/moved on from that lifestyleFair enough | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 06:50 PM |
| 0 | Lots of one night stands/moved on from that lifestyleEverybody lies. I don’t think its mistreatment no. You always have a choice on what you want or don’t want to do. Just because there were false promises, doesn’t remove you from that responsibility | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Lots of one night stands/moved on from that lifestyleAgreed! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 06:29 PM |
| 4 | “He wants to take things slow or is he just not interested” dilemma?Its not about you having other options, its about you choosing them over him. Nobody likes that man or woman | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 05:47 PM |
| 2 | “He wants to take things slow or is he just not interested” dilemma?You have to show enough interest but not too much. Its like anything, there is a range. You went too far on the interest side where the man thinks you might slash his tires and burn his house if he leaves you | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Lots of one night stands/moved on from that lifestyleYou will never know really, thats how these women end up in 4 yr situationships. A man who knows the game and who is what you are looking for and knows what you value, can play you for as long as he wishes | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 05:31 PM |
| 11 | “He wants to take things slow or is he just not interested” dilemma?yeah but you didn’t have a bf. You were on a dating app, which means you were looking for one. Men don’t like competition at all. They like women who show high interest. What you did was show low interest in him. You were more interested in the other guy. That is the most off putting thing for a guy with any dignity | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 05:26 PM |
| – | “He wants to take things slow or is he just not interested” dilemma?Unless you go straight to hooking up, there is no recovery | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Lots of one night stands/moved on from that lifestyleYou can’t have it both ways. Either you want a desirable man that women want or you can chose less desirable man that will only want you. Don’t know why you expect him to only be for you | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Lots of one night stands/moved on from that lifestyleI don’t agree with the deceit but you don’t really expect them to admit they just want sex and nothing serious | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 04:55 PM |
| 12 | “He wants to take things slow or is he just not interested” dilemma?Ideally you shouldn’t let them know what position they are in. They should believe they have a fair shot | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 04:54 PM |
| 27 | “He wants to take things slow or is he just not interested” dilemma?Well you did tell him he was a backup. What do you expect | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Lots of one night stands/moved on from that lifestyleIf a man was not a womanizer, does that mean they won’t cheat or that they just don’t have the opportunity to cheat like the more desired womanizer.. if anything the hookup guy is more likely to be faithful since he chose you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Lots of one night stands/moved on from that lifestyleMistreated? They were willing participants im sure | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on p*rn in relationshipsYeah there is a difference between when its real vs when its from pornos. You cant fool your own body | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/23 11:58 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts on p*rn in relationshipsCurios, what do you do in those 6 weeks | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/23 11:15 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts on p*rn in relationshipsNo, not every guy does it. Maybe under 25 its high but he should grow out of it | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/23 11:11 PM |
| – | Thoughts on p*rn in relationshipsIf a man has a woman and still watches porn, he is just a degenerate. It isn’t even about meeting an urge | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/23 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Is still a real relationship?What is a real relationship? It’s whatever you feel like it is | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Are we going to talk about Lauren Sanchez?Pretty accurate | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/23 11:27 PM |
| 6 | Advice on how to motivate my man.It is admirable how loyal you are to this man, and how considerate you are. If you want him to get better you have to stop enabling his self pity. It doesn’t sound like he is totally disabled, he just has to accept and try to make the best of it. You should sit down with him, tell him you understand how rough things have been, but that you have tried to keep things afloat but you cant do it without him. tell him if this continues, you may have to separate so he can get himself together. tell him… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/23 07:09 PM |
| 27 | Are we going to talk about Lauren Sanchez?She looks good for her age, and Bezos can probably relate more to her than a younger woman. Plus those rich folks have access to high class escorts whenever they wish, so he is really giving up nothing. He always has the choice, if he wishes | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/23 06:54 PM |
| -4 | My (35F) ex husband (33M) left me for an engineer (26F) from his work, will he want me back some day?It has nothing to do with all that, she is younger | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/23 11:40 PM |
| 2 | My (35F) ex husband (33M) left me for an engineer (26F) from his work, will he want me back some day?Yeah. At this point, it is most likely over. Since he found a younger woman | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/23 04:16 PM |
| – | How do I stop feeling like I’m left behind?Don’t marry an overseas man. He is just trying to get a visa. Get yourself out there and you’ll get someone | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/23 02:52 PM |
| 8 | My (35F) ex husband (33M) left me for an engineer (26F) from his work, will he want me back some day?Why did you separate? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/23 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Not sure what to do about this manWouldn’t it be funny if this was all a test and the mother is not really mentally sick. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 02:35 AM |
| 12 | Pretty privilege is everywhere and is actually the strongest discrimination on earth??The burden of being attractive is you can end up destroying yourself. you have access to more of everything and so its easy to overdo things and end up in trouble. So its not all rosy, you gotta have tremendous self control or you’ll wake up one day and ask yourself what has become of your life. Also, pretty girls never know if someone genuinely likes them for them, and not their body. Whereas, if you are average looking he probably likes you for you. Lastly, being attractive has a shelf life. A… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Boyfriend wants kids in his mid thirties, im not sure if I can wait that long<25 yr old men will avoid marriage by default, unless you are special to him enough where normal logic and reasoning gets overruled. Twenties is a time where men really figure out who they are, and what they want to do. He is only 22. He is not there yet mentally to have kids or think of marriage, though he may want to eventually. You shouldn’t waste more than a year and 1/2 if you are not engaged. Leave him and move on. We’ve seen those 10 yr situationships. He can take his time but you can’t | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 12:26 AM |
| 6 | Not sure what to do about this manWorking construction means you are not as smart? Lmao No you shouldn’t continue the relationship. You are not a good fit for him. You have very little regard for his mother, whom he finds very important in his life. Seems it would be too much of a bother. Find someone who has no responsibility and lives just to please you | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Should I buy him the hoodie?Exactly right | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 02:26 AM |
| 34 | Should I buy him the hoodie?How about leaving him alone for a while and letting him miss you | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 01:02 AM |
| 4 | want attention from other men?Seems like you are still shopping around and keeping him around as a backup. That’s certainly what he is implying. You don’t realize you are doing it? I’m not quite understanding how it’s possible to be flirty and not realize you are doing it. As for how you stop, you find a man you actually like | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 12:54 AM |
| 5 | How do you know when you’ve hit the wall?Hitting the wall is more so due to attitude more than due to physical appearance imo. You become skeptical and genuinely unpleasant and incapable of forming healthy relationships due to having too many bad experiences in the past. You become defensive and will chase away any respectable man as a result | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Where to find a committed man when you’re in your 20s?Marriage is a huge decision for a man, especially a successful one. For such a man or a man with many sexual options, marriage is not a partnership or 50/50 or a discussion about everything. In order for them to marry you, you have to fit into their lives willingly. Want to get married? Simple. As Patrice says, be a good cutman. Be there when he needs you, if he needs you. Don’t talk so much, and just be pleasant to be around. Its not that hard | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 12:24 AM |
| 0 | Untouchable girl?It’s too much effort and they have too high of standards for the player types. That’s why sometimes they get ignored | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/23 01:53 AM |
| 49 | Is it normal to constantly be asked your age by men that have no romantic interest in you?People ask what your age so that they can know how to approach a conversation with you. Talking to a 31 yr old is different from a 20 yr old or 45 year old. Different interests, hobbies, goals etc. They ask because of that | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/23 11:06 PM |
| 4 | How to stop being perceived as hook up material, instead committal & wifey material of HVM?Why does he have to be high value? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/23 09:06 PM |
| -1 | How do you select which men to entertain?I would say if you hold off sex for a while, or say you are celibate. If he is willing to wait for sex, then he will commit | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/23 06:45 AM |
| 8 | has the pain of male infidelity always been this way?It hurts because its a betrayal of the perceived agreement of exclusivity. Of course, in a relationship people are free to leave anytime they wish, for any reason. So them cheating is felt in a way as a rejection of you, although it is not necessarily so. Men cheat because they can, just as most women would leave their boyfriend for someone better. The game is the game sadly | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/23 05:06 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if he’s worth it?If you can keep him without sex, he is worth it | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/23 01:16 PM |
| – | Boyfriend of a year won’t talk about the future or say he loves meHe doesn’t want to marry you. If he did he’d have given at least more assurance. Most guys under 30 don’t want to be married, unless you are special in their eyes. Then all rules are broken. Don’t take it personally though, some things are just not meant to be. Better not to waste much more time and move on | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/23 01:08 PM |
| 6 | Plan for nun modeYou can’t buy a personality. That’s what keeps a man. Work on being genuine and don’t focus on vain nonsense like all that | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/23 12:28 PM |
| 10 | Having a hard time biting my tongue recently.He probably says he doesn’t know because women usually like the home a certain way. So if he says here, you may not like it there and so on, but he himself doesn’t care | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/23 02:43 PM |
| 1 | How to weed out useless datesExactly right | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/23 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Do I attract older men because I’m ugly?Why don’t you go stand near them? If they are interested, they will try to talk to you | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/23 11:16 AM |
| 1 | How to weed out useless datesPersonally, I think you should each pay for your own meals at first couple times so there is no pressure for sex or potential time wasting as the man would see it. Then when you are officially together, he should pay | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/23 07:37 AM |
| 1 | How to weed out useless datesMen cannot read your mind whether or not you are a traditional woman. And if you are, why are you on a date in the first place. Should he go ask your father first | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/23 07:34 AM |
| -2 | How to weed out useless datesBeing a desirable woman as you put it, does not last that long. Men just don’t want to be used for free meals or entertainment anymore as is the custom with some women. In any case, if you genuinely like the man why should it be a deal breaker? Or are you just trying to get a free meal | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/23 05:37 AM |
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