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She's lying, he didn't want her anymore and now you're her second choice.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/26 10:47 AM
3

And leave his kids?? Idk what kind of trauma you're carrying but seek therapy and understand that OP is an active father. His innocent children need him.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/26 04:07 PM
1

Get into therapy and work on yourself, for your child. The reality is what it is and you can only control what you can. She moved on, is cultivating a family, so you might as well do the same. Best not to cultivate another family until your inners are sorted out, good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 11:27 AM
1

It's sarcasm
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 03:45 AM
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Maybe don't be so amazing or rather content with yourself?? Ever thought about that? Exactly, someone who's at fault wouldn't have the time to think like that 😂.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 06:55 PM
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You're the red flag here. Deep down men know if they wanna be with someone or not, you're projecting yourself onto her. You're in a Christian sub, so presumably you're a Christian. You're overly sexual. As a Christian what did Christ die for and what did he call you to do? What you need to figure out is what you're doing reflects with Christ. If you're truly Christian then forgive and move forward. Forgive yourself and her past and proceed, because it's not all that bad; seems like she's been th…
/r/RPChristians27/01/26 07:06 AM
4

She wants control, signs of unhealthy traits.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/25 08:05 PM
5

Get into therapy.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 05:51 PM
4

You're in a rough spot. Have you gotten an attorney yet? Do you have proof for he behavior?? Also, if 85% of your friends have turned against you, they weren't your friends to begin with. You can't care about those individuals, only your child and you matter in your bubble.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/25 08:13 AM
0

Respectfully, view this from a different lens. You paid a certain price for freedom. Freedom comes with sacrifice and this was the price for you to attain it. If you're seeking justice, you're seeking revenge because you've been violated. Justice comes without you being uninformed and if you desire to be informed then that means you haven't moved on. Obviously this is fresh but in order to proceed from her, you'll have to accept her for who she truly is and forgive yourself. By accepting her nat…
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/25 04:52 PM
3

Realest post I've read in some time.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 04:36 AM
2

I think the religious aspect is great and with that each individual is responsible for their actions. While within religious contexts it's great to save a marriage but seems like she's left. In your situation I'd seek religious help (oftentimes counseling), focus on myself (mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally), and prepare for a divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/25 11:42 AM
2

Rugby or join a community where physical activity is a part of the culture. Controlled physical movements are key to staying calm.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/25 05:35 PM
3

Hi, look at this objectively. You seem to be in denial; where you're confusing your ego and victimizing yourself. The way you've been describing post divorce activities with her, you're essentially her gay best friend now, with benefits; she'll use you however she wants. The space between is her way of having you some respect for yourself. Your denial and ego are conflicting because you don't see that you sound controlling. Your ex may have had a point about you being controlling. You got a grea…
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/25 05:51 AM
6

Tell yours not to date anybody unworthy.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/25 06:51 AM
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I'm not nor did I say that. I work in a way where I don't contradict. Hope you heal from your trauma as well
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/25 06:17 AM
9

For someone who "operates in the real world," you commented this to someone else on here, the real world has something called victim blaming. An individual can be vulnerable on several levels and be taken advantage of. I agree for men's rights but men and women aren't that different in both being human beings and operating essentially as 2 sides of the same coin. All that to say, you're victim blaming. Instead of talking about her how about you focus on your own healing.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/25 04:52 AM
1

Didn't realize that we were to treat other human beings regardless of sex and potential opposing beliefs differently. "Matter of fact, I'm u of here?" Lol, kk. Guess the shoe fit for you. Good luck with therapy and your future endeavors.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/25 02:42 PM
2

He's being weak, he needs to stay disciplined. He made a decision and he either needs to stick to it or come back to your marriage and cultivate that relationship. When a man wants you he does but when he's done he's done. Either way, that man sticks to his decisions and moves forward.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/25 08:56 AM
11

You're in love with the idea of who you met not the actual her. What are you doing for your health?
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/25 06:30 PM
3

Damaged goods attract damaged goods and instead of changing they stay in a perpetual cycle
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 06:31 PM
6

She's low vibration, leave her alone. She left you once she'll leave you again. Anyone that's hot and cold is a red flag but you'll either be smart or learn the hard way. Either way focus on yourself i.e. God, read, gym, travel, etc. seek therapy and understand that you're loved and worthy, forgive yourself and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 10:21 AM
2

That's a lot of trauma on her that she's exhibiting onto you. You're also responsible but it's not too late.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 05:37 PM
12

Don't know the whole story but there are 2 sides to everything. However, if she did you dirty, then you can show her some grace and provide peace by forgiving her and saying goodbye.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/25 01:08 PM
6

That's just victim stuff getting out of your system. Time will help. Things will get better as long as you keep improving.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 07:15 PM
6

Is the money worth the hassle? Your father left you with a gift to protect and depart you from the b.s. with her. Your father probably worked really hard to earn everything and so you followed suit. This is about your father and a principle stance but your father being a man of character probably would want you to give that money up for the sake of your own peace.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 09:40 AM
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She's cheating on you or will move on to someone new very quickly. Work on yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/24 07:53 PM
1

Next time, if ever, screen shot and email them to a secret email.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/24 04:24 PM
5

Go to her opposition and reveal insider info. She'll ruin you but if you wanna be petty that's all you. Take the high road with God.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/24 06:50 PM
2

Join the military and have a fresher start.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 07:44 PM
2

Make sure to record her actions towards you, just as sexual advances, etc. you can also journal these recordings.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 06:55 PM
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All about perspective, buddy. Tell yourself and her good and goodbye since that's what she wants. If she isn't cheating on you then she already has someone in que, which itself is cheating. However, audiobook can't hurt me by David Goggins and look into yourself. Seek therapy and realize that if you are the best version of yourself then forget her. If you aren't then develop yourself and get someone better. Either way, hit it hard, and don't look back. Get right with God or a spiritual sense, gy…
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 06:26 PM
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Sorry for how blunt this is/ how much this hurts, brother. Just know during your therapy journey that you are worthy, you are loved, and you are enough for your own peace. Peace is everlasting while happiness is momentarily. Only discipline brings about peace.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 03:59 AM
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I barely read the first few sentences. She lost respect for you and does not care. Start gathering evidence, lawyer up, leave, and then seek therapy. Maybe even join the military after, national guard or reserve to be close to your mom. Plenty of peeps do this after divorces. However, take care of yourself, if she cared for you then she would've understood. Edit: she's also probably cheating on you.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 02:53 AM
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We're not valued... So as much as we try staying positive, over time we just adapt to survive.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 03:15 AM
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Don't do it
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 05:14 PM
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As someone who's a Christian I can definitely support this.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 02:15 AM
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It's very difficult tbh. As humans we generally tend to go towards what's comfortable, whether physical or mental. At least you showed love and grace. With that you can move on.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 02:41 AM
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You miss the comfort. Go play rugby or be in a community of men and you'll be yourself again.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 05:25 PM
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Get right with God and it'll be a similar experience. You'll have to admit your flaws and forgive yourself first. Understanding how it is your journey and casting your ego aside for the sake of your child.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 11:26 PM
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Maybe a psychedelic treatment would help? But ask a professional, not me.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 11:19 PM
1

Unfortunately, it's your wife so you'd know her best. The possibilities outweigh the probabilities. There are possible ways/ places to contract from, such as work and what not, but ultimately how do you think she got it?
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 08:03 PM
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You need to focus on yourself
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/24 11:10 PM
2

You can also get a secret camera like a button or so to film her your interactions with her in public. Research to see if DC is a 1 party consent or not.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 08:02 PM
2

What actions from your gf attribute to red flags?
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 05:11 AM
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Have you sought therapy for yourself?
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 03:38 AM
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I'm sorry for what you're going through. What you're experiencing is completely normal and you will improve as long as you want to. UNPOPULAR OPINION: The anger is a matter of perspective. You're headed towards accountability. When healthy enough, ask yourself what your mistakes were and how you can overcome them for the future. Based on those honest answers you can actually progress. I'm not talking about victim blaming yourself either, where you were in the right and led to believe it was your…
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 11:28 PM
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You're infatuated with the idea of her not the actual her. Look at her actions and not the vision of her that you see. Work on yourself and it'll be better.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 05:30 PM
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It's human nature, very sad and unfortunate but that's just how it is. I'm sorry for your experience and pain, you're not to blame. Neither am I saying to not acknowledge your mistakes, but simply that you are not to blame for her treating you this way. You deserve better.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/24 10:16 PM
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You're hurt because you blame yourself. While there is nothing wrong with extreme ownership there is definitely a fine line between extreme ownership and victim blaming. You were unfortunately betrayed, I presume from this post about the "affair partner" but clearly any sane person can tell that you are under a monumental amount of stress. However, ask some hard questions to yourself and reflect on those answers. Answers can change with time but forgive yourself for your flaws, love yourself, an…
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 04:17 AM
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Can you fix things for the sake of your kids? Perhaps seek God.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/24 03:28 AM
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I'm sorry for your situation, buddy. It sucks. Depending on your age maybe you can start a different chapter/ experience? Military can be helpful or even government contracting. Your kids also need you so it'll be a delicate choice.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 02:52 AM
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Depending on your age would you be interested in joining the military as a reservist or national guardsmen?
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/24 09:45 PM
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Leave her on read or truly move on. If someone can make you angry then you still have some feelings towards that individual whether positive or negative.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 05:57 PM
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She moved on with a new fling/ multiple, it didn't work out and now she's back. She'll never respect you if you take her back. You're probably an amazing person, so focus on your worth, learn, and pass positivity forward.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 03:35 AM
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Maybe start an onlyfans 😂 jk. Hopefully you're feeling better after the rant.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 06:20 PM
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Curious, what were her rules? Every person has to set boundaries because even we men are humans and without certain rules to follow we have no checks and balances which would in turn make us monsters. I also believe that some of the red pill content is trash.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 12:56 PM
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Damn 10 & Done 😞...
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 03:24 AM
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I can understand this better, apologies for judging you. Glad you did the right thing then, good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 09:56 PM
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What are you talking about? You were cheated on. Then you proceeded to go after a married woman where you were now the guy vying after a married woman? If so, then do you think that's sane and or healthy? You're just passing your trauma forward onto the next person. You're no different from the guy your ex cheated on you with. If you break homes then you are absolutely at fault for choosing to contribute to it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 09:39 PM
1

What about psychedelic therapy?
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 04:02 PM
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I'm glad you're doing better.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 09:16 PM
2

Yes, you deserve your own peace of mind. More so, set your boundaries, brother. You got this. Maybe keep us posted for when you do achieve your goals.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/24 08:53 PM
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You seem to be in your ego... and that's okay as long as you want to change. If you truly love(d) her then let her go. Focus on yourself, this incident was a test for you and you chose to go down the rabbit hole which is now picking at you, i.e. your ego. Are you focusing on yourself by traveling, reading, learning a new language, working out, teaching, etc?? You have all that knowledge for I.T. then you can make use of it by teaching others how to financially flourish. Seek therapy too, whether…
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 04:12 AM
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I think you did well, especially for your daughters to witness that their father cares for their mother. Again, you made an impact on your daughters.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 04:16 AM
1

You're going to enter a grief stage; denial, anger, acceptance, etc. The sooner you can look at things practically the sooner you can accept things. Understand that during acceptance it's natural to have anger. That anger is at yourself. If you find yourself in a situation where you're projecting your own insecurities onto others, then attempt methods that'll detach you and ground you again. Humans are humans. Your ex is going through her trauma and unfortunately so are you. Overall, accept that…
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 08:45 PM
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Combing through the comments... It sucks. Look at it as an opportunity. You get to live your life, grow stronger in all aspects, and have your peace. You need to read/ workout/ engage yourself in activities that make you better. Exercise, physical, spiritual, or mental, even when you don't feel like it. If you can go travel here and there, rediscover yourself. Go volunteer l, like at the VA or so. Learn a language/ even music. Seek God if you're already not religious.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 09:15 PM
2

This guy gets women
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 06:33 AM
1

Grab her by the... Sorry, wrong sub. Jk overall, how're you doing though?
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 04:37 AM
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First, this sucks and I'm sorry you're feeling so down. Second, we have 2 wolves in us, light & dark. Whichever one we feed will rise. Meaning, learn how not to feel sorry for yourself. Don't contact her any more. Read some books, workout, and move on in life. The more sorry you feel the worse it'll be. Find the positives and move forward. None of this is easy to do when you're not in the right headspace. However, one step at a time in the right direction will have you progress. Also, she's only…
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 04:23 AM
2

Heal rizz 😂
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 03:11 AM
2

Were you sad because of her or the money you could've made? 😅 You gotta laugh at the small things.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/24 05:12 AM
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Miss Germany 🥲
/r/MensRights26/12/23 03:19 AM
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Leave with some dignity & respect, you owe it to yourself. Heal but also focus on becoming a better version of yourself.
/r/RPChristians19/12/23 06:26 PM
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Don't expect others to be like you.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 01:30 PM
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Her plan A didn't work and now she's back to you, plan B.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 08:17 PM
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You're not in the wrong.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 05:20 PM
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Hi, friend
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/23 08:22 AM
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I think you're awesome.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/22 07:48 PM
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Get proof that the baby is yours. Read between the lines. Get yourself some help, banging a chick that seems to be mentally unstable where she has so many partners at once. Be careful whom you sleep with because the risk of pregnancy is there. Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi. Take from these what you will and be yourself.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 06:53 AM
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Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi. Lead to your own conclusion.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 08:46 PM
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You were adopted into a diverse family 😂
/r/MensRights15/11/22 06:07 PM
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Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi. Work out, heal your traumas, become spiritual (I do it through nondenom Christianity), don't go hurting others.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/22 04:51 AM
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Keep us updated
/r/MensRights13/10/22 06:35 PM
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She lost respect for you. However, read rational male by rollo tomassi and unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/22 07:31 AM
2

She lost respect for you and is claiming victim instead of ending it. I didn't read everything but possibly even having an affair and feels guilty. Read the rational male by rollo tomassi and unplugged alpha by richard cooper. Great books to help relearn and progress in life.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/22 01:03 AM
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She lost respect for you She's moved on Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi Get your David Goggins on
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 07:34 PM
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You can try. She lost respect for you and moved on. Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi. Give it a chance and see what you think.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/22 08:44 PM
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You should take counseling to see if you picked up any of her quirky habits. Let that shit out of you and be reborn again.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/22 09:24 AM
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She lost respect for you because she's a piece of work and is projecting her own psychological insecurities onto you. Read the rational male by rollo tomassi and unplugged alpha by richard cooper. For the sake of your kids, read these books, take from it what you will, and move forward with a decision.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/22 02:34 PM
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You're kids are amazing. Read the rational male by rollo tomassi and unplugged alpha by richard cooper
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 09:31 AM
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Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi She lost respect for you and no longer saw you as her best option
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/22 03:18 PM
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Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 06:30 AM
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MGTOW is stupid. Red pill is where it's at. Read the rational male by rollo tomassi and unplugged alpha by richard cooper... however stay close to God
/r/RPChristians26/05/22 10:29 AM
2

She is using you, you are not her first choice. Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi... however, you'll do what any ignorant man will do unless you wisen up. Read the books first in order to understand before marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/22 02:58 PM
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Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/22 08:04 PM
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Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 08:35 AM
1

This
/r/RPChristians12/05/22 12:47 PM
2

Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 03:17 PM
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Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi
/r/RedPillWives09/05/22 07:05 PM
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Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi. Lmk what you think about it
/r/RedPillWives09/05/22 07:00 PM
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Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/22 06:02 PM
2

It's more respect than anything. Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/22 06:01 PM
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Read the rational male by rollo tomassi and unplugged alpha by richard cooper
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/22 06:54 PM
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Read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper and rational male by rollo tomassi
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/22 10:20 AM
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Don't be surprised. Women give zero fucks. It's how they're programmed in society, that men are expendable and women are not. Read the rational male by rollo tomassi and unplugged alpha by richard cooper
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 10:38 AM
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She's using you. Seek individual therapy. Read the rational male by rollo tomassi and unplugged alpha by richard cooper.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 10:25 AM
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Read the rational male by rollo tomassi & the unplugged alpha by richard cooper
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 06:41 PM
1

A lot of panties in a bunch, OP, lol.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 09:28 AM
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Read, start playing rugby or join men oriented sports where there is a community. Read- unplugged alpha- richard cooper Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 10:49 AM
0

Is this primairly for people of certain descent or are all groups welcomed?
/r/RPChristians18/04/22 10:45 AM
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Lol dumb cu ts
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 07:38 AM
1

Enjoy life
/r/RedPillWives31/03/22 07:56 PM
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Look into joining the military/ Space or Air Force, preferably.
/r/RedPillWives31/03/22 12:04 PM
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Let that bitch find out for herself
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/22 01:48 PM
21

That guy is just trying to fuck you and notch you as a trophy.
/r/RedPillWives26/12/21 09:56 PM
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You need closure and a higher dose of reality. You want a reason to be hurt again. You want to be a kind person, fine. Just pull out before it's too late.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/21 02:25 PM
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Bro, it's the societal conditions placed upon you. Seek therapy/ couples counseling. Many people are battling generational and conditional trauma. You are absolutely one of them and that's okay. Just identify and resolve.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/21 07:49 AM
5

Thank you for your service Good Sir.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/21 10:33 AM
0

He's afraid to mess up, he needs your positive encouragement/.reinforcement. He also feels that he's a problem in the relationship from not being understood.
/r/RedPillWives28/11/21 07:05 AM
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Get therapy. If she doesn't want to improve, then leave and redpill. Move to a state where child care won't get you. Or... 1. Buy a recording device 2. Begin recording your interactions and take her to court for mental reasons/ unfit parent. Get closer to GOD and simultaneously work on yourself/ health.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/21 07:41 PM
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Stop sticking your dick in her, bro. It'll be difficult to do, but this the way.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 08:21 PM
2

Love me some crazies
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 08:18 PM
1

Justout live her and she will 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 08:17 PM
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Don't give her another chance. You gave her several chances during your marriage. She fucked up on a great thing, got greedy 80/20 rule, and is now trying to salvage it. Plus she lied. She said she didn't have sex, yet was married abroad for 3 mons?? Lots of people act like this, get someone's attention after joining a group and create a fantasy of sort. Read into redpill and look for Rolo Tomassi along with "Entrepreneurs in cars." Those guys talk a lot about how men are being subjugated in soc…
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 08:16 PM
2

Stop caring/ stressing. Pray and leave that to God. If you lose your job, then join the military. They're looking for chaplains.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/21 08:29 PM
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Do you want to make that sacrifice?
/r/RedPillWives12/10/21 07:41 PM
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Dude, get out of that situation. It's not your job to fix others, love is about sharing your own peace with others. You can't fix someone's trauma, it's their responsibility. Don't let society's norms affect/ brainwash your health. Message if you wanna talk some more.
/r/RedPillWives07/10/21 05:51 AM
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😂
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 05:31 AM
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