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I assume you did not read the post The whole point of the post is that the date was great and she looked like she was really happy and open for a second date. Then she ghosted me for an entire day. This morning she told me she had to see a female friend on the day of the date. I think she is just not interested otherwise she would ve said something along the line of " today i already have to see a friend, are you free on Friday" but she has not. You say i should just move on?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/22 10:11 AM
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Could be' wrong but: she does not seem the type of girl who has sex on the first date we live 45 minutes apart. I went to her city to hang out. Assuming what you said it's true she should've offered her place because mine was clearly not an option she did not do anything sexual during the date. I hugged her a couple of times but no answer from her
/r/TheRedPill05/11/22 04:12 AM
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She replied to the message where i ask her out saying: "Thanks, i would like to go tomorrow with you but i already had plan with a female friend. Hope it does not rain again though 😂" I think i should just move on at this point
/r/TheRedPill05/11/22 03:42 AM
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Yeah i think you nailed it. She has now sent me a message. This is what she wrote: "Thanks, i would like to go tomorrow with you but i already had plan with a female friend. Hope it does not rain again though 😂" I think we all know what that means. See you guys at the gym
/r/TheRedPill05/11/22 03:39 AM
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She just answered saying that she wish she could come but already needs to go out "to see a female friend". Guess we all know what that mean. Best thing i can do is just move on.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/22 03:31 AM
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I asked her out already before making the post. Anyway she replied saying that tomorrow she is going to "see a female friend" (think we all know what that mean).
/r/TheRedPill05/11/22 03:25 AM
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Wait sorry for the dumb question but why it's bad to follow up the next morning? In Italy you can go to bars already at 18 so i will try that. There is a science fair in 2 weeks. Since we are both in med school she could like that. Do you think it could be' a good date? Thank you for your comment
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 10:09 PM
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I don't care about her, i care about learning about my mistakes. Many here have (rightfully) pointed out that this should have been an easy lay but here i am, ghosted by her. There is surely something wrong that i did and i am trying to understand what exactly.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 09:52 PM
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I understand and will surely follow your advice. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 09:50 PM
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You brought up a really interesting point. She looked like she was interested until this morning. After that she ghosted me. Our text was: Me "how it was your morning swimming lesson" She replied "tirisome but also satisfying. And you? Did you go to the gym yesterday in the end?" Me "yeah, today i did biceps and shouders. I m really tired lol. What did you do at the swimming lesson?" Her "mainly dorsal but some other style. You really have big arms though. Do you also follow a diet plan?" Me "Ye…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 09:48 PM
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It's not that shee took 4 hours. It's that she answered in another group. She was and is still ignoring me
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 06:12 PM
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Only hugged her a couple times. It was a first date and she broke up with her bf recently so i did not want to come off as too strong You say i should ve tried kissing her?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 06:07 PM
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Yeah i approach at least 1 girl a day. Yes she was now i don't know, no It's been almost 8 hours now, i paid for the drinks. I guess she is not interested, thank you for making me understand this I will surely try to escalate tomorrow if she accept to go on the date I though it was a good idea because: although the restaurant it's popular, she has never been there. So my mind was like "since she has never been there maybe she wants to try the restaurant"? It's near our college and near a park I …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 06:04 PM
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I may sound arrogant but i don't think i honestly did any mistake; it was more her wanting validation as other have pointed out. I think it was over before the date even began but now i'm curious in your eyes what i should have done to get her? Wait for her to ask me out again?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 05:57 PM
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I'm already dating other women but this is the first time that a girl actually pursued me and asked me out first. I may sound arrogant but i don't think i honestly did any mistake; it was more her seeing validation as other have pointed out. Basically it was over before it even began. But you are also right; i need to stop caring and stop being clingy
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 05:53 PM
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TLDR: follow the roadmap. where i can find this roadmap?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 04:31 PM
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Meeting for coffee is typically not a date. It's an easy way for a girl to be friendly without any type of commitment sent our chat to a female friend. She also told me she 99% was asking me out on a date
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 04:17 PM
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"Welcome to your orbit, sir. Please get comfortable, you will be here for a while. As in, forever, because you have no chance with her. Enjoy." But then why asking me out? I'm not for playing games, i'm also seeing other women so i can easily (and will if she is playing games) drop her. But i don't get why asking out a friend out when she could've just used tinder os some other dating app
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 04:00 PM
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You are her emotional tampon and not her first choice I mean probably you re right but i still don't get why she did that. it's illogical. Why mess our relationship when she could've just downloaded tinder and get all the attention for free?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 03:57 PM
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Has anyone here actually gotten what is called a "friendship" from this offer? It happened to me once I met this girl through friend. I asked her out and she hesitantly accepted. I thought the date was going well: i brought her to a famous restaurant that i knew she wanted to go to (asked her best friend for a good place) and footed the bill myself. After that i tried to kiss her but she told me that she did not feel like it and asked if i could take her to her house. I did and the day after she…
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:14 PM
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One more question, are dating apps your only source of meeting girls? Dating apps are useless to me. I get no matches on there. I usually meet girls when i go clubbing and in studies group (basically when there is an exam people create open groups where everyone can enter and everyone share info about the exam. I enter that groups and interact with women there)
/r/seduction14/10/22 12:09 PM
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whats your job? I'm in med school do you have money? No are you handsome? Below average
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:24 AM
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What do you do to entertain yourself when you're talking to girls? and what types of connections are you making with them? I just tease them and see how they respond to my teasing. When i meet a girl through friends that i like i treat her as a "special" friend. I let her (indirectly) understand that i'm interested in her. Then i see how she respond. if she is flirty and respond to me i ask her out. When i cold approach a girl i directly express my interest for her and ask for her ig.
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:19 AM
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What do you bring to the table? I think you nailed it. I bring nothing of unique to the table. Nothing that makes the girl say "i want him". I'm neither rich nor hot so many men are just better than me. And women just need to download an app to see them. Are you in shape? Yes, but i have never received compliments from women about it Do you make any kind of money? No, i come from a poor family and i'm in med school so i don't have the time to work Do you have any ambition? To become a doctor and…
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:07 AM
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If your idea of fun is nothing but videogames, memes, and otherwise avoiding real life social opportunities, then no, women will never come naturally. I'm in med school so i don't have much free time but my hobbies are: -gym -volunteering -learning french I'm also trying different types of group dance because i've read on this sub that is a great way to meet women Bonus points if you supplement your real life experience with the occasional self-improvement book. You know any good books? Thanks i…
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:02 AM
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this is so untrue women are constantly dating ugly guys you just have to “funny” or “charming” Yeah this is my problem. I can't stand out. There are countless men that are better than me and women just need to download an app to see them. If you don't mind me asking: what are the things that make a man stand out in your eyes?
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:05 PM
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Be thoughtful and intentional about the growth of your social skills and you will reap the rewards throughout your life. So you say to just have fun and enjoy my youth and women will come naturally?
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:59 PM
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OP, what is the biggest area you think you lack in when attracting women? I think it's the fact that i can't stand out. I'm neither hot nor rich so i don't know how to make a woman feel like she needs me in her life. I believe that's the reason i struggle with women
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:58 PM
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I think a good approach for guys like op would be to work on things you want to, and at the same time casually approach interesting seeming people. That's what i ve been doing. My problem is that i feel like women at my age care too much about looks, so there is little i can do to improve my situation. Being desperate is never a good look, and desperate energy is a real turn off. Yeah you are right The way op says they studied game just sounds like they're going about it in this really weird way…
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:50 PM
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Thanks!! I will do this
/r/seduction11/10/22 12:17 PM
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an adult would ask her what she means by telling you this, listen to her answer, and respond appropriately with the correct information. So should i ask her why she tells me that? I don't have much experience in dating to be honest but she literally stopped a conversation just to tell me "hey a dude approached me". I don't know about her but i'm also talking and asking out other girls (pretty sure she knows about this) so maybe she wants me to make a move?
/r/seduction11/10/22 09:46 AM
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Would you say a man is objectifying women if he only wants a blonde white woman or is the property of age more special I mean the fact that he dumps them after they reach the age of 25 shows that he has no real emotional attachment to them. Age and wanting a blonde white woman are both preference but the fact that he dumps all of his gf at 25 shows that he just care about looks and it's not just an age preference. Thing is the women he dates also know that he wants them only for their body and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:24 AM
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There's a thing called emotional attachment in relationships, otherwise it wouldn't be different from having hook ups in clubs or groupies I think you are forgetting that he is only dating for looks, not for personality (a 20 year old has nothing in common with a man in his early 40s we all know that). I see nothing wrong with his relationship, the women are also using him to build their career (no-one here would ve known Camila Morrone if she wasn't Leonardo Di Caprio ex-gf) It does sort of mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:14 AM
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Depends what you mean by average, but I probably am just not interested in truly average. Let's say Joe is trying to hit on you. Joe is someone who does not stand out for anything: He has no degree and work at a job where he makes 56k (average salary in the usa) He has average look. You would not say that he is ugly but he is also not hot, just average. You've probably seen and been with way more attractive people than him. He has a small but really tight circle of friends. Still he is basically…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:28 AM
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Now it's a little different though because even though really hot men do still approach me (and I recently have had hot but assholeish guys try, one almost played me but I picked up on his covert narcissism in time to ditch it) I find I also get kind men too - though honestly the kind ones I have to message on Bumble... I don't think they really approach in real life as much without some mutual interest, and even then, one or two waited years and for an opening. May i ask you a question: you thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:24 PM
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Many women on this sub straight up said that they use men (who are attractive but not ltr worthy) for sex, so it does make sense that u/Gold-Performance-536 cousin get lots of casual sex but no commitment. Now, he can’t find a wife to save his life but he can have sex as much as he wants Thing i wonder though: assuming he is really good looking why he just does not become a sugar baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:11 PM
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your uncles probably just had game my guy. ugly dudes still pull beautiful women these days. happens all the time where? never seen a couple in my life where the two had similar LMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:22 PM
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Besides sex is not a transaction, where you can go and complain that person X had been given the sex for free, while the other person "had to" spend more time and energy. Mine is not a complain. It's your body and your choice so you decide when to have sex, but i have a question: assuming you are crazily attracted to me (ltr worthy men) and have showed that you do ons, what's stopping you from having sex with me early in the relationship? Fear of being seen as easy? No one spends money on me - I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:39 PM
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Honestly, sex is much better with a potential ltr person, if you wait a bit. You get to know each other, discuss preferences beforehand, feel safer in an emotional way so you can relax better and enjoy the intimacy on a deeper level. I am not an ons type of girl, but if I just wanted a quick nice orgasm I have great toys for that - when I dated it was only natural for me to wait, not "withhold" anything. My question was for women who enjoy casual sex while searching for a ltr, not for women like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:57 AM
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Men just want sex whether you’re committed or not😂 yes and?. We men are not a hive mind, everyone has their own preferences; personally i like a woman who is an attention seeker, has an high libido and his enough knowledgeable that i can entertain deep conversation with her. For most women, we would also like to have sex but, more often we need to hold off on sex until we can determine that you are ltr material in order to make a proper decision. That's the point of my question, why you do it? w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:09 PM
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If that "ltr worthy man" thinks that the dating situation he's in is unfair, then he can just walk away. Nobody is holding him hostage. Nobody owes anyone sex. He can decide he doesn't like the boundary that his date has set, say "this isn't for me" and look to be somebody else's average Joe if he wants to. Yeah we completely agree on this. I wouldn't make anyone wait for months before I had sex with them. Sexual compatibility is important and it would suck to date someone for 6 months, only to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:46 PM
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This is the problem. You see the men who get the ONS as being treated better. In a woman’s eyes, the man who get the one night stands are the ones who she will just cast aside and “use” for sex until she finds her potential husbands. I don’t understand how men don’t realize this. Maybe it’s better treatment for you but you’re not being treated better in the eyes of the women. To them, you’re just being used for sex. Because one of the main reason men date is sex. You probably see intimate sex as…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:28 PM
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Why would it make more sense to make a guy you see as a fling wait longer for sex than someone you want to keep seeing? Because the woman is supposedly more attracted to me and she has showed that she does ons. So why making me (ltr worthy man) wait for x months while average joe got a ons?. Given the fact that women have the right to choose with whom and when have sex, in this case you are actively not having sex with me for reason that are beyond my control. From the man perspective you have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:38 PM
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You can’t expect a woman to keep a low “n count” and also put out right away. Stop trying to convince women to not sleep with men just bc you can’t get one to sleep with you. That’s a bro code violation What? Have you read my post? I specifically asked why women (who like to have ons with people they don't see a future with) wants to wait x months before having sex with a man who they deem as a relationship material. It is not about bodycount (i have not wrote anything about it in the post) and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:15 PM
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A ''worthy'' man should not date women who have causal sex with strangos. Why? Also assuming that is the case how he can be able to tell the difference between women who enjoy casual sex and woman who don't enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:48 AM
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Oh ffs. Y'all come on here telling us no worthy ltr will want us if we have too much casual sex I think you are mistaking reddit for real life. In real life as long as you are attractive man won't care about your bodycount. Complains about bodycount comes primarily from men who are not attractive enough to get casual hookups. Also how many women really care about an unwanted opinion from a stranger on reddit? I bet none. ​ come back and bitch about us not immediately throating every worthy ltr d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:45 AM
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I worded the question poorly. I did not want to ask why women gatekeep sex. What i wanted to ask why some women when meeting a guy they really like tend to have sex later in the relationship meanwhile men who are not seen as desirable get ons. My question is not a "why fuckboy get sex the first date and me no" but rather a "you are head over heels for me and you have also showed that you are capable of having sex at the first date so what is keeping you from having sex with me (ltr worthy man)? …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:59 PM
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A guy only wanting a hookup inherently does not fit my criteria. Men have the same right to not have sex. Then you are not the type of girl to whom i m asking the question. I specifically wrote "Now some women only have sex in committed relationship so i understand them". I also worded the question poorly. I did not want to ask why women gatekeep sex. What i wanted to ask why some women when meeting a guy they really like tend to have sex later in the relationship meanwhile men who are not seen …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:51 PM
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Your explanation is really interesting but: Regardless of with whom you are having sex with, you are still gonna be "hormon drunk" so your explanation can explain why some women don't do ons but does not explain why women who DO ons are making ltr worthy men wait. And no, most women are not still having ONS when they find a guy they really like and see possibility with. If they are, they are possibility narcissists or not actually that serious about you. True, if a woman find a man ltr worthy sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:44 PM
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You lot on here want a woman with a low n count but want a woman to fuck you asap I don't know the others but i don't care, my gf has a high bodycount meanwhile my bodycount is 1. My question was referred more to women like my gf (women who enjoy casual sex): why you make ltr worthy men wait? Is it fear to appear as an easy girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:29 PM
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I don’t know why women don’t just sleep with who they want to sleep with, and if the relationship works out, great, and if not, oh well, at least you got some action out of it, right? I don’t understand women feeling “used” for sex. Like it was consensual, right? And hopefully enjoyable ? And I certainly will never understand withholding sex from men who “deserve” it, so to speak, and with whom you could see a future. Many women commented on how getting pumped and dumped by a relationship worthy…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:26 PM
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I have a better question: why are you basing your manhood off how how fast you can get into a woman’s pants? It is not about manhood, it is about understanding why women when in search of a serious relationship tend to not have sex. I'm new to dating and i always regarded this behaviour as weird. I've asked this question to get a woman perspective on the issue. Now i can say that i understand the reasons why women don't want to sleep early on with men with whom they want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:22 PM
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Plus usually, the women who want to wait are not the same ones having ONS, or at least not at the same time. The idea of women cruelly “withholding sex” from “billy beta” while hooking up with “Chad” on the side, at the same time, is not something that really happens much irl. In this case the ltr worthy man is chad basically. I also agree with you on the fact that is not something that happen much in real life: if a woman find a chad she is going to push for exclusivity as soon as possible even…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:21 PM
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I see your point, but what I don't understand is why some(if not many) do this for men they want to have long-term while also having sex at the first date with men who they consider unworthy for serious commitment this is what i'm trying to understand as well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:05 PM
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referring to it as "withholding" sex s the mistake. they are not "withholding" sex FROM the man--they themselves ar eNOT having sex before they feel theres a certain amount of commitment in an attempt to ensure the man has some feelings going in and doesnt dump them right after sex, which is what a lot of men do So it is an attempt to see if they are really interested? But what if you know already that they just want only a hookup and nothing more?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:33 PM
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It’s thrown around to describe any dissenting man. True. I got called incel some days ago because i pointed out to a woman who was telling the op of the post to "have fun because dating in the 30s is the best" the obvious fact that it's better to have children before 35 (op wanted to have children and start a family). The result: plenty of angry women downvoting me and calling me incel "who has never felt the touch of a woman" (even though i have a gf) without even reading the comment. It's incr…
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