Material-Upstairs-84 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy? You are not a victim. A victim lacks agency, you have agency. Did you do some self reflection? Maybe you approached from behind in a dimly lit street, maybe you re badly groomed and looked like a criminal. And if you did nothing wrong, then it's just a fluke. I've approached hundreds of women as a 5'6 normal looking guy and that never happened	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 08:49 PM
1	Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy? You conclusions come from false premises. Tinder doesn't work... for you. It works for me, and I'm 5'6 normal looks and normal money. Social circle doesn't work... for you. Your reputation will be ruined only yf you are massively socially uncalibrated. And cold approach definitely works and doesn't need 1000 approaches to work. If you are not a retard a couple dozen approaches should land you a date. I got lays from all three, probably with cold approaches being the most common by a small margin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 08:30 PM
0	Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy? Then your game probably sucks and you are massively socially inept.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 08:17 PM
–	How both Men and Women are actually on the same page about Body Count. Hey, I don't care about body count up to a certain point that I think is pretty reasonable. Like up to 50 I don't find it that weird (depending on age). More it just implies some issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 05:07 PM
3	The vulnerability paradox. trauma dumping and becoming pathetic Yeah, you describe it like that when it's a man. When it's a woman it's just being vulnerable and processing her emotions. I don't think it's pathetic for a guy to recognize his vulnerabilities and insecurities, they are there regardless of their expression, it's just a matter of him showing them and being honest. I do agree that you shouldn't show it to women, the don't care and are repelled by it. But you should show it to your close friends, your father or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 07:00 PM
2	Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's life So you are married in a loving relationship with a man, having constant proof that we are willing and able to love aside from youth and you still believe that every other man is a sex crazed dog?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 03:16 PM
2	Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's life They don't hate you past 30. If anything, after a long loving relationship, men love you more the more time passes. We are like dogs, feed us, give us love and we will be loyal to the death.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 02:25 PM
1	There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STD That's not what I experienced at all, but I'm not in the US so maybe girls there are more slutty. I've seen my frumpy 5 female friend get tinder messages from demi-gods and rejecting them. I've seen my 6' tall, green eyes full of money chad friend take girls to dinner to then not get sex. I haven't met one man, outside the few professional top-tier athletes I met, who had the level of abundance you describe. Even less being an 8/10. You are describing the experience of women, who do have those k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 12:09 PM
1	There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STD I'm not from the US, not really familiar with the price of prostitution there. Although I find it hard to believe that a normal prostitute costs 500 bucks. Look, even if you are a really attractive man, unless you are also rich and famous, you are not swarmed by women. You have it easier, but it is still work. And no, you part from the premise that dates are always fun, that you always click with the person, that you meet interesting women, etc. Sometimes you want to have sex, and don't want to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 03:16 AM
2	There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STD Gay men are promiscuous as hell, they average more than a hundred sexual partners while heterosexuals average around 7. Look it up there are countless studies, that's why they are magnitudes more times more likely to have HIV (aside from not using condoms and anal sex more conducive).	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 11:54 PM
3	There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STD Oh, sorry, I forgot everyone had sex only with the people they love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 06:48 PM
6	There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STD You approach said stranger digitally (dating apps, instagram) or physically (in a club, at college, at a bus stop, etc.). You talk, exchange contact details, arrange a date and if you both like each other, then you have sex. If you both enjoyed it maybe (maybe) you have sex again. If you have sex a lot of times with the same person you might start dating. And so on and so forth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 03:44 PM
10	There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STD What? Then how do you know people to have sex? No woman would accept sex without at least vetting you are not a psycho in a short date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 03:25 PM
7	There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STD Romance? I'm talking about having no-strings-attached sex with random women, there's no romance at all. At best there's attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 03:00 PM
8	There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STD Because sex is never free. Banging an attractive enough woman would require at the very least a short date and there's no success assured. So a guy does the calculation and says: "Okay, I can invest 20 bucks in a coffee date, that will probably last 2 hours plus traveling back and forth from my home. Then I'll have to bring her home and warm her up for another hour and then have sex for an hour. So that's 4 hours of my time for a 50/50 chance of a lay. Or I can spend a 100 bucks, have sex and be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 02:07 PM
–	If you would have to make a Dating Location Tier list, how would you make it? The selective breeding resulted in a very fit and tall average population in those places. Those countries already had tall populations thousands of years ago because of the selective pressures of the environment. There are a bunch of developed countries where the stature is way below those countries like Japan, South Korea or Italy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/24 03:19 PM
1	How do you keep a girl interested? Not relationship but just hooking up. I don't enjoy ONS that much (I usually can't orgasm before being with a girl a few times) and I'm not looking for a relationship now so my choice is having these plates. They are good girls, I enjoy their company and they will last until they won't, I made my peace with that. But I agree that it can be a danger.	/r/seduction	01/05/24 03:14 AM
2	How do you keep a girl interested? Not relationship but just hooking up. I don't have the time or energy to have a girl over 4 days a week.	/r/seduction	01/05/24 02:43 AM
1	How do you keep a girl interested? Not relationship but just hooking up. It's mostly me that doesn't have availability. They are pretty much on call.	/r/seduction	01/05/24 02:42 AM
2	How do you keep a girl interested? Not relationship but just hooking up. I don't have much time in the week so I usually have them back to back on weekends. With text I mean answering ig stories or a few chats here and there. All in all it's not more than 10 minutes a day.	/r/seduction	01/05/24 02:41 AM
2	How do you keep a girl interested? Not relationship but just hooking up. Meh, if you are honest and don't send mixed signals, the other person is responsible for her own feelings. I would be more cautious about yourself not getting too attached.	/r/seduction	30/04/24 08:04 PM
9	How do you keep a girl interested? Not relationship but just hooking up. You keep displaying your attractive qualities but you add a bit of comfort. You have a coffee date, you cook for them, watch a movie, etc. Now, they might start to catch feelings, and that's a very thin line you will have to walk. First you have to be completely honest saying from the start that you don't want a relationship. Second, you have to limit how much attention and commitment you give. If you are seeing them 3 times a week, you will confuse them. I'm being successful on a three times a …	/r/seduction	30/04/24 05:46 PM
3	Women are not the reason dating has become shit I find that after a certain point a hotter woman won't make a better life partner. Then, it's a choice to not settle down. I find strange that you value virginity so much. Most virgin adult woman are crazy or have a lot of mental hang ups about sex because of religious upbringing. I understand not wanting a woman you marry to have a 100+ bodycount, but 20-somethings with ~10 guys under her belt are okay and easy to find. If you don't want to settle down it's okay, just don't blame society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 10:37 PM
3	Women are not the reason dating has become shit Dude, if you have that much volume, there's zero chance you can't get a cute girl to settle down. If what you are saying it's real, then you are too much of a perfectionist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 07:18 PM
7	The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussion She actually died of suffocation in one of the avalanches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 05:09 PM
–	Career women, "tradwives" and generational poverty. You are 16, you know nothing about anything. Try to be humble and conscious of your lack of knowledge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 03:50 PM
–	How does the rest of the world view Western males and women? The men are boring, stuck up and don't have game. The women are actually pretty easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:30 PM
1	What are the duties of modern men? And what are your expectations of modern women? Human nature	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:20 PM
4	What are the duties of modern men? And what are your expectations of modern women? It doesn't, I specifically stated that some women are better suited for leadership in the couple. It's just that usually they are more attracted and happy when the man leads. It's not about competence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:20 PM
7	What are the duties of modern men? And what are your expectations of modern women? That's stupid, a man must look for himself first and then everyone else. Sacrifice is so overrated	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 04:55 PM
0	What are the duties of modern men? And what are your expectations of modern women? A good relationship will always had a captain and a first officer. It doesn't matter if it's the man or the women in the relationship (although most women don't like being the captain), but things work out better if someone is leading. As a dominant guy I expect respect and trust on my choices. I will take into account the input from my woman, but the final word is on me. And it's not a money thing, you could be a stay at home dad and be the captain, it's a matter of who leads the family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 04:53 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Well, I've only pointed that difference in dating, but women have it easier in almost every aspect of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 02:20 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Not yet, but I think they will end up in something	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 02:08 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's funny to think of a straight guy fucking dudes and saying "No bro, it's gay gaming, no homo"	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 02:01 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I prefer to have sex, thank you very much. But I support guys checking out and leaving more market for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 01:54 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Understand that the amount of effort that a man has to put to get women is just categories above what a woman needs to do. Example: I have an average looking female friend. She's young and thin but that's it. A solid 6, 7 being generous. The amount of attention this woman receives is outrageous. 50+ DMs of simps a day, more than 50 new followers on IG after a few hours of putting her account on Tinder. She's currently fucking a dude that's 6', makes and absurd amount of money and looks like a fu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 01:49 AM