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He did this deliberately...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:19 PM
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Boys pick, girls choose. I don't want to be biased but from my personal experience, every man I have encountered over 35 who was single/never married/no history of any serious long term relationship was bad news. A woman who is over 35 and single is usually that way by choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:22 PM
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"when asked what his greatest accomplishment in life was, responded "having a threesome;" "he wants to sleep with beautiful women, but they don't want to sleep with him unless he pays them. So it just makes sense." LOL I'm fucking dying. What a disgusting idiot. Thank you for sharing your story!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:33 PM
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Facts! TY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:27 PM
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I agree! I was just stumped on what he could be hiding. He definitely was not married/no kids. So what could have been so bad???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:53 PM
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Update: My research included no social media evidence of any significant woman, and when asked he "doesn't think its right to talk about the past" and cited a Dr. Drew special where he stated to leave the past in the past (LOL). He also said he has dated "some girls here and there". I'm willing to bet he has just had flings, and considering I'm 9 years younger than him and ALL of his friends are married, that he is just a commitment phobe but I wanted to ask the experts :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:32 PM
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This advice goes against a lot of FDS standards. I do not have revealing photos on my profile. Sex could have waited the full 90 days. But if a man needs me to change my lifestyle in order for him to "be a man"... hes LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:07 AM
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"not having a Nicki Minaj ass" Thats negging! Get out now! Is he a 10/10? I'm willing to bet NOT!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:34 AM
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He is deliberately telling you those things to make you jealous. LVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:50 PM
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^this. I am going to adopt that strategy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:27 AM
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I (27F) dated someone (37M) who was just like this. I am also successful, smart, and attractive by all accounts. Men like this are insecure. I also thought I would be leveling up but someone at their stage in life should never be acting like this. Also, I have learned that if they are that age and have no previous marriages, its a red flag, because even a divorce shows that at one point they at least tried to get serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:52 PM
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So annoying! Just compliment fishing... definitely say “whoops I thought you were someone else” 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:39 AM
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This is brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 04:08 PM
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I personally always felt like cute was a neg. You don't call another adult cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 04:01 PM
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Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:59 PM
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Thank you all! This is so helpful!!! I still worry he will treat the next girl right but I know deep down the odds of that are very slim!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 02:39 PM
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Something that has helped me, is to remember that you can have these feelings, but you don't have to act on them. The thoughts will pass. Time will also help with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:20 AM
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Don't blame yourself. Men like this don't want ANYONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:15 AM
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Some may have already been covered but will be repeated anyway for emphasis: Always "Busy". (Nobody is this cool!!!) Bails on plans frequently. Bails at the last minute. Always with "family" or "grandma" or "sister". No car. (duh) No legitimate source of income. (Must have a real job) Phone is always facedown. Always on his phone around you, but takes hours/days to reciprocate contact. Refuses to define the relationship Then twists and manipulates the conversation into being an argument that you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:16 AM
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This^ 100%!!! My extremely respectable manager who I admire greatly would not entertain someone like my NVM ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:06 AM
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Yup. I (27F) have dated a few men like this. One in particular (33) got jealous when I had a brief conversation with a bartender and told me I was a "whore" who "wanted to fuck the bartender". Yikes. This same man was also very preoccupied with making sure whenever we were in public, that I would cling to him with affection. I wouldn't, because *shocker* I wasn't that into him, and even just me being neutral/friendly and engaging towards him would entice rage that I wasn't constantly touching hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 08:50 PM
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Hindsight is 20/20! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 03:48 AM
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Thank you for sharing. Since joining FDS I have bought many of the books mentioned in posts, another to add to my list!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:41 AM
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This was incredibly kind, thank you :,)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:49 PM
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Men are so insecure... we need to remember the cause of most of their negative behavior is due to their fragile male egos... not us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:41 PM
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Omg you ladies are great... you get it!!! This guy totally had a delusional view of what a relationship should be. You hit the nail on the head- as long as I was someone who was bilssfully happy and content in his mistreatment and asked 0 questions... we had no problems. Being "incompatible" in his eyes was due to me asking NORMAL ADULT QUESTIONS. He would also keep me at arms length then tell me I wasn't affectionate enough lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:30 PM
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