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| 27 | How long of dating until relationship?My boyfriend and I were dating for 3 months before he asked to be exclusive. In my experience, if it takes longer than 4-5 months MAX than he's not interested in a commitment. Also: it just sounds like this guy wasn't interested in you. Just let him go. Believe him when he says he isn't sure and always remember that if it isn't a "hell yes" it's a "hell no". | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through?I'm definitely grateful for everything I've learned in all of my past relationships. The good parts provide nice memories and the bad stuff helped me grow and learn how to properly vet someone, what boundaries make me happiest and what I'm comfortable with. If I hadn't learned all of those lessons, I wouldn't have been ready for the relationship I'm in now. For example, my LTR ended because I wanted to date with marriage in mind and my ex didn't believe in formal marriage and had no interest in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?Late to the party, but I couldn't help but comment. When I was 18 and entered my first year of college I started dating as a virgin, I hadn't experienced anything other than kissing before. I gravitated more towards older students. Most of the guys I was encountering were extremely put off by my lack of experience and my virginity. All I wanted was to just get it over with so I would be more attractive. What I should have realized was that there was nothing wrong with my lack of experience and t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/21 12:42 AM |
| 4 | Speaking from personal and observational experience, why do you think most men have trouble getting dates ?Well, don't most men want women to be in shape, confident and interesting? I think both sexes want the same thing at the end of the day. What that looks like to an individual is subjective. My boyfriend is in shape, confident and interesting to me, but other women might not feel the same. *shrugs* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Speaking from personal and observational experience, why do you think most men have trouble getting dates ?Maybe it's because my social circle has always been small? Plus my friends are either still with their high school sweethearts or typically date outside of our social circle. I honestly have no clue if any of my exes or past dates had issues with women unless they outright told me they did. Glad to know I'm an exception :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Speaking from personal and observational experience, why do you think most men have trouble getting dates ?I've gone out and had relationships with guys who were rejected by other women. I know it's a cheesy outdated saying, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. When I date someone it's because I like them and I'm attracted to them. If other women didn't see that, then it's their loss and everyone is entitled to have their preferences. For example, my current bf told me he was rejected a lot in his early 20s, I personally can't understand why since I think he's incredible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Speaking from personal and observational experience, why do you think most men have trouble getting dates ?From my own personal experience, the men I've observed that have difficulty getting dates because: They are not asking girls on dates. The HIGH AMOUNT of times I learned months or years after the fact that a guy who was either a classmate, an acquaintance and/or part of a larger friend group that was interested in me but did absolutely nothing about it. The sad part is, I would have agreed to a date with each of them if they had just asked. My last relationship (before my current one) was with a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 07:13 PM |
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