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Nah, the improvement phase is your 20s, loads of guys get their shit together young, rather than waiting to go over the rainbow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:18 PM
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Oh ya totally buddy, you have this whole written-out revenge fantasy about crusty middle-aged wanna players and whoremongers, but you didn't get any of it from redpill scammers. Sure thing /s I can tell you as someone who had his Chad days, the guys who do this, have always done it. The guys who keep doing it are on the swinger/ENM scene. The guys who didn't do it are just whoremaxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:33 AM
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Wow, directly inside the mind of a completely delusional and confused "redpill" cult member. Here it is. gets mostly ignored throughout high school and college Nah, this is the easiest time to get laid for most guys, because women don't give a fuck about RP "DHVs", they hookup with known cool dudes in their social circles. Old skool rp = Social Proof, gotta have it. Fast forward a couple of decades and he's done it. Oy yeah, so many 40 men suddenly become players. Who is he 'playing' with, 38 ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:03 AM
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Depends. The US generational poverty system incentivizing being a mother, so those women are actually being smart by picking the best out of the local shiftless babydaddies. Some other more working-class women are just looking to baby-trap a guy who will stick around for the newborn/toddler stuff. They often end up on reddit to complain about their lazy partner. I was rawdogging a girlfriend, and eventually I was like shouldn't we think about this? And she said "oh, you would do the right thing.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:07 AM
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I've known some guys who went all the way with this, and they had no shortage of women interested in them. You have to nichemaxx and scenemaxx and kinda be the "straight gay guy". On the internet, probably not, you are just a resource to be exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:53 AM
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It's more like about 10% of each gender is promiscuous like that, and they mostly just hookup with each other. When you are younger this might not be obvious, but when you meet polys and swingers etc, it totally is. The vast majority of normies have a single digit n-count. Obviously most women could 'lose it' in some totally unsatisfactory manner, but men can always get hookers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:58 AM
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Yeah, that's the pathetic loserman power/revenge fantasy which you guys love circlejerking about. Back in reality, a lot of women play the same game and pump-n-dump men all the time .. especially if he's obviously a sketchy player. You are protesting this "doesn't" happen because it ruins your fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:02 AM
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LUG strategy ftw.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:45 AM
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Men friendzone low SMV women. (srs, redditors frequently karmawhore by saying all their female friends are totally unattractive to them) Women fuckzone low RMV men. (men think this sounds great, until they really like the girl)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:33 AM
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Smart move. I now consider myself pretty lucky that I dated a BPD crazy girl when I was in my early 20s, because I see the signs. But, at the time it was WTF, she would play me like a fiddle. After that I started screening women pretty hard for LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:55 AM
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Once men reach 30 or so, they stop thinking with their dicks so much and ignoring red flags "because she is hot". So those women start to have trouble dating. The "beta" is often some guy who is submissive enough to put up with her shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:33 AM
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Chad theory debunked again! I think women often have a very specific type they are looking for. A lot of unsuccessful guys are just kinda boring looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:19 AM
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He's posted the same thing on here dozens of times. He's clearly mentally deranged, doesn't listen to anyone, and must frighten the hell out of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:14 PM
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I don't know why you are lecturing me bro. If I'm going to talk about negative experiences, its not going to be that college girl who fugged my brains out until she moved away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:14 PM
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You might be overreacting, I don't feel like I was manipulated or anything. Only making the point that most younger relationships are not meant to last. Like very few ppl are married to their high school sweetheart. So while I disagree with OP's take, here he's saying if you just let things roll, they'll come to an end more often than not, so its psychologically easier to just accept that. People date, and through no fault of their own, it often doesn't work out. Where women are 'ahead' is most …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:51 PM
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Oh, I agree that "practice girlfriend" or "pretend boyfriend" is extremely shitty. Maybe I'm reflecting more on my own idiocy, because women are often a couple steps ahead of me. Like e.g. she knew she was going to move this summer, this obviously wasn't meant to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:31 PM
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Not agreeing with OP, but imo it's important to understand that a lot of younger relationships are inherently short-term. A lot of times, men are over the moon, while women can be more strategic that this is only going to last until some point. It's easier to handle a breakup when you realize it came to a natural end.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:48 PM
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Nah, there's a certain type of redpiller who is like "It sucks I have to pretend to be this girl's boyfriend. 😤 If I was chad, she would let me cheat on her!"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:41 PM
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It kinda applies to men too, like if you out with some guys and hookup, all sorts of randos will be gossiping about it. That's why this stuff has moved to snapchat/dms/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:31 PM
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Not really a broken heart, but I got really cynical at one point. I was coming out of an LTR and just wanted to hookup and keep it casual. Who wants to hookup? Cheaters. Messed-up women. Women in dubious open relationships. Female players. All the redpill type horror stories. I started thinking if you're just going to get cheated on, why be monogamous in the first place? Enough women are willing to be the sidepiece. Fortunately, I have a number of female friends who aren't running around doing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:28 PM
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most RP stuff is just things that men already believe IRL just packaged up in a much more extreme and scare the hoes away version Yeah, when you strip away the edgelord language, most of it is not all that controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:16 PM
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Women just put far less importance on those 'got lucky' situations. Plus with girls-night-out, there's maybe some slut-shamey stuff going on too. When women are on the prowl, it seems like they still to one or two close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:26 PM
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Trama is easier to see than n-count. Which I think is OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:46 AM
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Just read the cockblocking thread... Clubs were often not that great because the girls come in a big group and weren't splitting off. I had better luck in smaller bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:46 AM
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Sounds like a fun night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:44 AM
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Women don't have a scarcity mentality around that, there's always other men around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:12 PM
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Sometimes the big girl is the socially dominant leader of the pack. But yeah, I've had women explain it was a planned 'girls night out' and it kinda would ruin it if stacy was knoodling with chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:08 PM
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The older generations didn't want to "live in sin", so they had a lot of quicky marriages which didn't last too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:58 PM
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Yeah, dating younger is more of "still got it" and looking younger than you actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:47 PM
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Some guys can't quit that crazy pussy, and I think that's often where the "beta" comes in rather than the buxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:10 AM
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True, so many guys who are constantly BTFOing themselves with their terrible game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:11 AM
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This is really it, I think. Money enables a lifestyle and certain activities, and if a woman wants to join in, they have to date the guy. They are often more motivated by the short term fun rather than securing a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:37 AM
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My mother has narcissistic tenancies, so I'm skeptical about these stories. She weaponized her role as "house boss", so everyone else was incompetent and couldn't do anything right. One time she told me to bring some white rice, and it wasn't the right kind so she had this enormous screaming fit (even though the rice turned out fine). If she saw me standing next to the door with the garbage bag, she would yell "take out the garbage!" That kinda thing. Anyway, I'm a pretty cleanly individual, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:17 AM
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Good point, there's a lot of mooches out there. I guess Beckybux is a thing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:56 AM
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25-30% of men in their 20s do not get laid. in the last year. And the survey said most of them weren't looking. Not living with your parents and having stable employment is not "betabux", it's just being an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:54 AM
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I'll just point out fuckboys are "safe" because they are easy to get rid of and don't turn into clingers. He's not going to show up at your work because this is the first time he's gotten laid in 3 years. He'll just be right back down at the bar swiping on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:12 AM
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Yeah, when women cheat, it's usually the culmination of an emotional affair. Not just because a hawt guy approached her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:57 AM
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Really depends on the woman, in my experience. If they are PMSing and a in lousy mood they may well prefer a more soft/caring demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:28 PM
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They are also jealous of Stacy's husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:38 PM
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Dating apps are only about half of "online" iirc, a lot of it through social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:10 PM
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That's just new relationship energy/honeymoon phase which men experience too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:54 PM
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TRP claimed to be grounded in "science", based on some ovulation studies which don't replicate. Rollo is a total pseud.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:48 PM
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You seem to be agreeing with me? I think the "blue pill" model of dating is more accurate. The "red pill" dual mating strategy is the bad path.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:35 PM
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And a lot of guys have dated a "crazy" and eventually they realize they need better boundaries and the abundance to walk away. TRP would call that "alpha", but they have really normalized the doormat/niceguy mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:33 PM
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hence the term "settling down" Hopefully you are ESL, because otherwise...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:23 PM
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Being on the other side of this, I know of almost no women who have visibly "settled for betabux". It seems more like women just keep dating the same types of men until they find one who is ready to get married. The wedding only comes after a long period of courtship, cohabitation, and etc. Or they are the perma-girlfriend. Yet RP acts like this is so common that young guys are freaking-out about it. No, your high school crush is not going to "settle" for you, she's long gone away and has OLD ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:31 AM
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Good idea, wouldn't want anyone to "go ER" on you. (Elliot Rodger, incel school shooter) btw you seem like a cool dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:47 AM
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There are some legit insane ppl on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:37 AM
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In theory. In practice, it often means something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:01 AM
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It's always more sensible if you just say SMV and RMV. "Alpha" had loads of cringy assumptions with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:17 AM
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He's right, speed dating fucking sucks, and I say that as someone who had little issue IRL dating. Do you personally know anyone who met via speed dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:46 PM
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By the time a man is 30+, he already understands how women operate. He has no illusions of "love" and can't be fooled by it like younger men. Maybe some men become cynical, but imo it's more like men in their 30s stop thinking with their dicks so much and stop chasing attractive women with terrible personalities and mental issues. Then certain women who got by skating on their looks start having trouble dating their looks-match, because he's looking long-term compatibility rather than just getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:41 PM
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Judging by strip club clientele, I'd guess the typical customer for that is more middle-aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:17 PM
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Not so much the shopping, but the credit card debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:03 PM
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No, I don't mean any old guy in the bar, I mean the players who have aged-out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:51 PM
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So this bitterness towards this hypothetical "Carol" is a waste of time and ignores the complex human aspects of it in my opinion. The whole essay comes off as a NiceGuy manifesto, but I think the real point is sorta buried. You don't actually want to date the "Carols" who are chasing bad boy criminal jerks. Along with the "friendzone" thing, a lot of guys have some sort of "savior complex" which inevitably gets them involved with awful women. For example: So it's not necessary for him to be a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:48 PM
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Yeah, "chad" is a power/revenge fantasy for late-stage virgin men on this sub. He is doing all the things they wish they he could do, and since it's a pure fantasy, there's absolutely no downsides in their mind. You're not alone in how you deal with these 'chads'. Redpill guys can't comprehend they are "for the streets".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:19 AM
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Yeah agreed, but as a young guy trying to get laid, those types usually weren't it. Monogamous boyfriends are not "being a hoe", except for the lunatics on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:10 PM
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I posted specific examples from women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:05 PM
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I don't know if the MRS degree is still a thing, but in my day those types were often concerned about their reputation. Partying != fucking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:42 PM
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This has definitely happened to me, where I missed the opening and now "let's just be friends". But that's not what friendzone guys are usually talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:25 PM
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The "cruelty" is often in the strategizing around the breakup. Putting on a happy face for the holidays, waiting until the next man comes along, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:15 PM
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Agreed that if you are very attracted to a women, your interactions are more genuine, and you are more likely to stick your neck out. Women can sense that too. Also can't stand when RPs assign a 1-10 number and try to perform calculations on that. A less attractive woman is not necessarily any 'easier', and the game is the same either way. Your 9 might be my 4 anyway, and visa-versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:00 AM
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Or they feel entitled to another date (because it's "on me"). An old girlfriend and a friend had a debate about this. Her friend thought the man should pay to "demonstrate commitment". My gf said if she likes the guy she wants to split the check, just to avoid that whole 'expectation'. But if he was a time-waster, she would let him pick up the check. So there's no right answer to this. (GF also told me she hated feeling 'paid for', and the men who pay for it. essentially af/bb.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:44 AM
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Years ago, I worked with this office chad, and the rumor was he hooked-up with 5 women from the company. The 'funny story' was a woman complained to HR that he didn't hookup with her. Nowdays that kinda thing would probably catch up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:34 AM
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Nobody on this sub is willing to believe it, but good women will often fuckzone the chad types, "for recreational use only". They're seen as likely cheaters, too much competition ("soft dread"), low RMV, the woman has no pussy-power because he can get it somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:27 AM
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Yeah, the old guy at the bar is kinda a meme. I've known a couple guys like this and they aren't pulling the hot young babes anymore, at least not the ones they'd want to marry. A man has to know his limitations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:20 AM
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No, there are a lot of stories about Ted Bundy being a massive creep. Most women were on to him. edit: Elliot Rodger also self-reported as the "supreme gentleman", when in reality he was a violent unstable asshole. No reason to trust any self-reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:04 PM
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And yes, it does work... It only works some of the time, and he just doesn't care about all the other women he creeps out. This kind of guy ends up getting fired or arrested etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:54 PM
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Because red pill men are actually massive simps and women go on the shows because red pill men love to subscribe to their onlyfans. I swear some of you have never walked into a strip club.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:09 PM
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Having been around these spaces for while, I think the "beta orbiter" is the #1 entry point to the manosphere. You're right, they were ejected, and now they are pissed. Most of the men on PPD haven't really "taken the red pill", they are just bitchy bluepill bitches who see this as a place to betamale bluepill bitch-out about women. There is almost no discussion of the sacred tomes of the redpill here. (not that i care) (I need to figure out how to give myself a purple pill tag.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:17 AM
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I have lots of female friends. And every single one of them I’ve banged in the past. Every time I've done this, we've ended up more as "friendly" and not "close friends". I have a SO and so I'm not just going out to hang with old FWBs, and neither are they. Once you hookup, it spoils it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:53 AM
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Orbiting is a pretty shitty strategy True, and Red Pill 101 is like take "that girl" oneitus off the fuckin pedestal and don't be a "beta orbiter". Have a least a little abundance mentality. This kinda thread just brings out all butt-blasted blue pill guys, it's unclear if they ever will learn their lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:44 AM
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And it gives you an emotional tampon This is 100% on the male tampon types. This thread is super fucking bluepilled, like I'm surprised. "Have you read the TRP sidebar?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:29 AM
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Okay, this reminds me of when I was talking to a woman, and she sent out this invite to help her move. I wasn't her friend and wasn't going to do that, But this guy I knew helped, and they ended-up dating. He always seemed like a kinda 'alpha' guy with an edge to me, so w/e, but after they broke-up, it came out that he was a horrible unstable clinger. Men do this as a strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:53 AM
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It is on them. A lot of those guys are using "sneaky fuck" strategy. Like maybe her bf cheats on her, so she fucks the nearest "emotionally available" guy she knows. Rarely happens tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:32 AM
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Sorry I forgot the redditsperg-mandated /s for a joke. I've never had friends ask for "boyfriend level favors". (Except for maybe one time when it was probably a "shit test" and we ended-up having sex.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:24 AM
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Yeah, one of my old friends is bisexual. When she wanted to date women, she butched it up and had to approach and make it happen. (She was a great wingwoman back in the day.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:20 AM
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This happens. He's considered "one of the girls", so he hears the shit that women talk about. Even successful guys hear this shit from their girlfriend's friends. (I've never had a platonic friend who expected me to pick up the checks or whatever tho.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:03 AM
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These are the nerds who did the head cheerleader's homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:51 AM
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Go out with a mixed group, and you'll at least check the "probably not a serial killer" box.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:45 AM
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Men don't have females friends with out at same point also wanting to bang them Nah, I could never jerk-off to any of my friends in good conscious, I never want to make it weird. Also if she had been with one of my friends, ewwww. One time one my platonic friends was like "heeeey, we're both single", and I had honestly never sized her up (she was/is attractive.) So, no "men" don't do this, desperate guys with extremely low abundance do this. Plus some guys have the "sneaky fuck" strategy where t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:41 AM
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Totally offtopic? I don't know anything about gay dating. Good luck dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:13 PM
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Mainstream reporting didn't really talk about it. But in the 1930s, times were really tough and there was a lot of prostitution, 'sugar babying' and etc. It was really the late 1940s and early 1950s which were the aberration. Then the 'sexual revolution' started. Prior to 1920, most Americans lived on a farm, where if you've been on a farm, women work all day too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:28 AM

Man, that's really tough. No wonder you were not worrying about girls. My chad advise is women are really responsive, and if you are putting out 'bad vibes', they stay the fuck away. But you now have a great outline of a hero's journey, I think a lot of women might be very sympathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:19 AM
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That's perfectly fine, but you still need to take action and have some social cred in communities where you can find compatible women. You ain't gonna find them on tinder. Most conservative women will be off-the-market at a very young age, so you gotta get in there early. (The TRP sidebar has this story from some super pathetic guy who tried to slut shame some chick and then became an incel.) reposting under automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:15 AM

OP - I had the exact same experience in 8th grade where I was rejected at a sadie hawkins dance. I was a grotesque zitface and walking around with a hardon all day and staring at the girls, so they thought I was a creep. A couple years later I had all that sorted out and had a girlfriend. No 14 year old is doomed, you probably signed up for incel forums and fucked yourself over. Perhaps you also became a porn addict in the process. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:46 AM
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Depends. If your parents are some ultra-repressd hindustani isalmocel types, get the fuck out of here. Get the fuck away from redpillers go go go. On the other hand if you're just sorta catholic, that's pretty hot. Meet some guy in class or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:20 AM
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This shit has hardcored redpilled some women I know. Before: Rape is a horrible crime which is extremely under reported, we need to make it easier to report, pls report!! After: No we can't kick him out because you gave him a blowjob and then he started dating your best friend. Wat? He wouldn't have sex with you, why would you file a complaint about that? Who the fuck do you think you are? Stop wasting our time, you crazy bitches. Another feminist initiative fails due to the Karen Factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:25 AM
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Ha, probably the funniest part of ER's biography/manifesto was when he tried to blackpill his mom by showing her PUAHate threads. (Puahate was more like the troll corner of the manosphere than a pure "incel forum". But it was the origin of most incel theory and jargon, cakeday fuckwit.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:59 AM
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