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| 1 | Abysmal results in NYC street / day game, 37yoYou’ll do better with girls who speak the language but not as a tourist in a city because the expectation of seriousness or their want to be showed around.. there’s also girls who just want to have fun and that audience will suit you best but street cold approach will always have the girls guard up and that’s the wall you have to knock down first. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Abysmal results in NYC street / day game, 37yoNative NY’er here. Best cold approaching I ever had was when my wing was a woman who opened up the set. Girls don’t want to be hit on directly outside of ‘safe’ places and having a woman that’s already feeling safe with a man shows a lot of value. Foreign accent doesn’t help unless you’re dripping in designer. NY is a completely different beast. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 01:22 PM |
| 2 | What actually makes a guy instantly attractive?James Bond wouldn’t work in 2026 anyway, nobody could tell he was a secret agent.. now you want them to know without knowing. It’s more Bond villain level of character where other men around you wouldn’t know if they could fight you. Women would want you to protect them. Your charm could light the room on fire. Your confidence impenetrable. | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 07:22 PM |
| 115 | What actually makes a guy instantly attractive?Commanding presence. When you enter a room of strangers and people just know that you’re there. It’s a mix of confidence, style, interest, posture, build, scent, who you know in the room and the attention you pique of those who don’t. Women want to know that person and be the one he pays attention to. | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 03:44 PM |
| 6 | "Attract, don't chase." I wonder where that has taken you in life. Are there exceptions to chase assertively?I would set up a first date over the phone and then stop chasing the girl on the apps until the first date and more recently they communicated with me that my not messaging came off as a lack of interest.. a few told me just that and I told them I didn’t want to just be penpals until we met because I feel like the luster of surprise is ruined in some cases with coming in too strong before you get to know the person.. | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 04:57 AM |
| 0 | Seduce his inner circleBy being the man they all wish they had it doesn’t matter what the friends say. Having your life put together in a neat drama free package with a good job, outfit, confidence and life; literally creates an unbreakable frame. Do shit their man never did, pay for the groups drinks, walk away from the table and pay for the group dinner, and don’t say a word about it. It’s garnered me so much respect that the girls inner circle whispering how they would fuck me puts my girl on her toes. Being a jest… | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Stimulating a women mindHave things going on in your life that show you’re constantly working on bettering yourself. Be vulnerable. Don’t lie about your situation or status. Share stories that give her insight to who you are in situations outside of dating. Have hobbies that aren’t gambling or going out. Listen to her and share relevant experiences. Ask questions that show you’re interested. | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Dissatisfaction and Emptiness with Current DatesIf you felt this way, I guarantee your dates did too! Make your life the way you want it before trying to put the pressure on someone else to reach satisfaction. The point of dating is to only pursue those you want to spend your time with. Your pictures, prompts and initial messages must be congruent with how you’re living. Once I became more selective than ever with my swipes the matches actually made sense. | /r/seduction | 08/01/26 06:12 PM |
| 3 | I can get a few women interested but retaining them is very difficult.Therapy. Seek it. Your idea of friends and partners seems transactional, people can sense this from a mile away. You sound fun for a little bit but even your writing screams exhausting. I’ve never told a girl that I am looking for long term and they didn’t stay around long enough to figure out if we matched on compatibility. You are leading with your body count.. literally just a number. When making friends and meeting new people every thing you say and do matters. You’re doing something fundame… | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Finding a wing in nycIt’s harder to get into the best places as groups of guys without a table. I’ve always done better with groups of hot girls especially if there’s a line, it’s easy if you can afford to buy drinks and you go in as a group. More than 1 cute girl can carry you into most places or you’ll have a bar minimum but if they’ve been around then they ‘know’ someone and you get in. | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Any strategy for demisexuals?I always end up with demisexuals since I’m looking for something serious and even consider myself somewhere on that demisexual spectrum— however I’m still a guy, and I have needs too.. demisexuals have left me feeling like they like my company, personality, but don’t desire me because they put up ultimatums as walls or milestones as boundaries and that’s been the biggest turn off for me. Sadly I’ve ended a few budding relationships with demisexuals at the precipice of them starting to open up mo… | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Generally, how much of post-rejection is due to nothing you had control over?Two kinds of rejection that changes as you evolve and grow: Life style mismatch (looks, job, family, friends, hobbies) and Compatibility.. (personality, etc) If you’re not yourself on the first date, eventually it comes out and you’ve wasted your time. Focus on if you like who they are and how they make you feel. Never ever try to say what you think they’ll like to hear, if they’re testing you they already know and are expecting you to defend your choice. | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 04:14 PM |
| 29 | Yall ever use reddit as a dating app?Met a girl on the dating apps and she told me she found out her boyfriend of 7 years was cheating on her with a girl he had explicit convos on Reddit with.. as a long time redditor I was shocked because I never imagined using the site like that. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 03:26 PM |
| 12 | Everyone thinks I’m a player but its the total opposite.I used to get this a lot, even while in the midst of a fiercely loyal 16+ year relationship, girls would frequently say that. I’d be offended at first, ask why, wonder what I was doing to make girls think that even when I was never a flirt.. it’s actually a shit test. Girls want to switch the frame and see you dial it up toward them like they imagine you’re flirting with other girls. Long story short, I was never a player, even now I’m not but when a girl says that she’s envisioning you in this … | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 08:05 PM |
| 42 | To guys with solid Instagram or any other social media, how easy it is for you to get girls online?I have a half assed instagram with a ton of followers from some businesses I ran and rebranded as my personal after a break up. It comes in waves, when I had a gf that didn’t like it, I couldn’t seem to stop getting random girl follows from friends of girls I followed. They often dm’d first and when I was too busy, flaky or unbothered they’d get upset and either remove me or block me for not showing interest back. I woke up one morning with nudes from a girl I never met and the next week I was b… | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Girls trolling on dating appsThe girls usually have the flag in their profile “here until I decide to delete and reinstall” . . . Once you waste your time on that you learn to recognize the pattern because you can’t fake caring in a conversation. Get a girl who cares about the conversation and then take off with her. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 05:13 PM |
| 176 | Regret hookup during actI had a girl in a wheel chair show up expecting me to do all these crazy things I talked about doing to her before she told me she was in a wheel chair.. legit dating profile full of laying down shots in a field.. and didn’t tell me about the disability until we agreed to meet even sooner. When she wheeled out of my bathroom and asked me to help her button up down there and I didn’t take the hint, Then she outright demanded I do her or I’m an “ableist”.. was a wild experience where I was holding… | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 01:58 AM |
| 3 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?I said I wanted someone I connected with on at least a friend level to graduate to lover instead of hooking up first and finding out it if I could stand to be around them after. Said I did want long term, and only wanted a woman that wants kids. I said it nicer terms than that but you get the jest. I only needed a phone call and 2-3 dates to decide that for the most part. The women that didn’t want kids were more than okay telling me and subsequently sleeping with me regardless. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 09:31 PM |
| 5 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?Dating apps in a big city. And dating every single girl I vibe with off the apps and at first there was a lot. Girls in wheelchairs, girl with a brain tumor, girl with ptsd from being mugged, girls with tons of allergies, girls with ocd, girls with ibs (lots of hot girls have this), and all sorts of red flags I painted green due to my own lack of boundaries. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 05:57 PM |
| 44 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?I went on dates almost every single night. I learned about myself the most on it too. I didn’t discriminate, any girl that I vibed with and had general interest in their photos. I told women exactly what I was looking for, and never misled them in my intentions. I had women tell me they waited till 9th dates, then had others tell me they needed to find out how good I was in bed right away. Some girls gave me the ick before I could find interest in them and I didn’t date just to fuck. Never had a… | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 02:59 PM |
| 29 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?My advice is to try and make it work. Never stop dating your partner. The same way you woo a new girl, your current girl is the same except it will get even better with time the more you learn about her and she learns about you. I’ve never lost a girlfriend by being genuine, sharing, opening up, going on trips, eating out, cooking, concerts, day trips, meeting each other’s friends and talking about future plans. Also, treat your partner like a friend you want in your life forever. Be honest abou… | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 01:12 PM |
| 128 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?It’s about your experience. I realize this now because I’m in the opposite situation. I was in a relationship for nearly 2 decades with the same girl, I only developed relationship skills during that time so when it came to dating for fun I had zero “fuckboy” abilities or qualities. I’d only meet women who wanted me for a relationship and would withhold sex because they “liked me.” Now I’ve worked on myself to the point I can get by as a fuck boy.. but here’s the kicker. The less experience I ha… | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Rejected after first date/kiss closeLive with your ex 🚩#1 Looking for something non romantic without your own private space 🚩#2 Even if they’re looking for something romantic you failed a shit test, you don’t even have your own private space to hook up so get yourself straight first. | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesIf you can balance it into your life with making money and staying fit then you can play video games. If you lack in fitness and finance then playing video games is going to be disadvantageous to your dating success. I say this from deep experience playing video games as a fat nerdy teenager to glowing up after because I desired girls and gaming lost it’s charm. Not everyone will grow to that or desire that and for them gaming is fine. Some countries with declining birth rates realized this earl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 12:22 AM |
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