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Blue Pill ExampleMattBoBat/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 07:07 PM
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Red Pill TheoryMattBoBat/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:24 PM
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MattBoBat/r/seduction30/05/13 03:59 PM
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Duke - Not a problem. I am glad you read what I said and did not take it too personally. Guys here are very blunt and to the point with what needs to be said, but that is the only way to make sure people have the necessary wake up calls they need to change. If everyone coddled everyone and told them everything is going to be ok we would never get anywhere. Take away some of the best advice you receive from this thread, re-assess, and come back stronger. My main points were focus more on betterin…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 02:17 PM
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First of all, don't shit where you eat. Do you want to lose your job? Secondly, you are taking some of the things you read here wayyy to seriously. There is no natural flow of communication between you and this woman. It sounds like it is just you planning out every single move you are going to make as if this is some sort of math equation. The fact that you needed to come here for validation on if your actions were "redpill enough" or "alpha enough" means you are still far off from reaching the…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 02:04 PM
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This is some very insightful stuff. It all begs the question as to what is next though? I have not met a single woman in the past few years who has not struck me as being an alpha widow... As I approach my mid twenties there are no women left untouched. The trends are evident and we know with the freedom women have paired with the zero accountability for their actions is leading many women down this path... We have a huge skew of unsatisfied alpha widows who's thirst for what once was cannot be …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 09:53 PM
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Women will literally say to themselves "Well, I guess I really only did have sex with three guys because those guys were my boyfriends.... those other times on Spring break or on vacation don't count because I was drinking and that's not usually like me to sleep with guys I just met so they definitely don't count towards the number!" They actually believe this internally so in their minds they aren't even lying to you, just using some fucked up mental justification to protect their precious repu…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:15 PM
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This is really similar to an experience I had the other week at the bar. My buddy and I were out at the bar with one of his female friends who made a forceful point to let me know that she would NEVER date a man who didn't go to x,y, or z school, wasn't rich, or hot, or tall.... you get the picture... This bitch was a 5 at her very best, and it took everything in me to stay non-reactive to what she was saying. This bitch needs to take a look in the fucking mirror. She also went on and on about h…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 11:54 PM
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Bravo. I thoroughly enjoyed reading your field report. You played it like a champ, not missing any of the subtle things she said or did that tipped you off, and that put you 10 steps ahead of her. I can appreciate the little fun you had there at the end with the whole "I'll grab some condoms on the way over". Bet she felt defeated at the very moment. You can never feel bad for a woman who is trying to pawn off another mans offspring on you as your own... it's just sick.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 12:44 AM
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I love the comments that are like "Good riddance! What an asshole!" hahahah. Uhm.. did you read the post? This woman is freaking out because the easy life her husband has given her is being stripped away now that he learned of her deceit through a mutual friend.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:51 PM
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I also believe that we all have the ability to harness, channel, or control any and of all of our emotions. I too find myself in the gym fantasizing about someone or something that makes me extremely angry and channel all of that hate into the weights which is an amazing feeling. One thing I'd like to bring to light is the benefits of Meditation. Recently, I've started to "separate" myself from my feelings and emotions through meditation to better understand my own mind, my own feelings, and my …
/r/AlreadyRed10/03/15 05:09 PM
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Then why even get married in the first place? I don't care who you are, if you let other men fuck your wife you are a beta cuckold.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 05:35 PM
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When I was in my first relationship at 16 years old, I remember there was a time where I got mad about something and basically gave my gf the cold shoulder for a while. Later on she said to me "I don't know why but I think it's really hot when you are upset or angry with me..." I wish I had put two and two together back then and saved myself a few more years of suffering in a bluepill reality, but all is well that ends well I guess.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 07:20 PM
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I've been a full time engineering student and a 20hr a week employee for the past 5 years and for the past 4 I have smoked every single day. While it can breed complacency in many people, I am fortunate that it helps me focus and stay motivated. I've also met a bunch of sexy stoner chicks who are down to just chill, smoke, and fuck which is honestly ideal for me. That being said, I can see how habitually smoking marijuana could negatively impact a lot of men, especially men who are angry, depres…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:36 PM
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I laughed out loud at your breakdown of his antics... hahah. When we look at those interactions through an educated redpill lens it is absolutely cringe inducing. Who knows... had he played it smart after that makeout he might have been able to convert her to a plate... but instead he apologized. Notice how she said "You kinda scare me when you're drunk and act on your impulses...". Right there he could have put texting her back off for a few days, then played it cool in his response and said "N…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 08:17 PM
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If you are absolutely unwilling to cut off your current relationship, and you absolutely need sex from other women, then you are going to have to cheat. I don't see what other options you have besides asking for an open relationship... I personally would end the relationship and bank on finding another "Fit to be a good mother" type of woman later down the line when I am actually ready for it, but if you can sleep at night knowing you are secretly cheating on your future wife/mother of your kids…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 07:58 PM
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Are you unwilling to end the relationship because you have a scarcity mindset that another woman as good as her won't come along and be in a LTR/have kids with you? You said it yourself there is nothing in particular that gets you excited about your current woman, so would it really matter if she was the one who had your children or some new chick you may meet in the future? Why cheat when you can end it and have guilt free sex with a plethora of women?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 07:43 PM
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If you aren't trolling, you are looking in the wrong place.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 06:30 PM
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I like this list, short and to the point. I'd say that traits 1-5 are definitely the essential foundation which open the door for the others to exist. What's funny is these traits are associated with a "bad-boy" persona, when in reality they are the indicators of a self-actualized man. When you start respecting yourself, your needs, your desires, and take control of your life these traits will become a pronounced part of who you are naturally.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 04:37 PM
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He straight up didn't give a fuck anymore hahah. He definitely was hit with the harsh reality that the years he spent being friends with these women was never going to get him what he truly desired and he just went off... Shouldn't have done it publicly on facebook like that though... The anger phase is real, and I am sure many of us have been there or are there right now, but it get's better as this guy will see. Although he overreacted, he successfully marked the beginning of his transition fr…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 04:13 PM
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I have converted women to instant one night stands after picking up the acoustic and playing a few songs. I sing as well and usually within 10 minutes of putting the guitar down we are in bed. I've been playing for 11 years so I can pretty much play anything a chick wants to hear... it really is amazing how much more attractive it makes you to women.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 08:32 PM
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At least you are self-aware of the mistakes you are making, but you said it yourself you are so emotionally invested in her that she can manipulate you into doing whatever she wants. Cut her out completely and don't even give her the time of day and if you see her at work, literally look through her. It's going to take a long time until you are able to even acknowledge her without losing control of your frame, emotions, and dignity. Just know that if you talk to her, acknowledge her, and care ab…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:50 AM
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You are overreacting. Calm down. This is a place for men to talk like men, among men. If some of the material makes you upset or sad, especially after being RP for years, then I think it is best that you do unsubscribe...
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 08:05 PM
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They honestly weren't complete leeches though and would sometimes do nice things for me but that didn't matter. I wanted to bang and they didn't, so I did what had to be done to free myself from the orbiter prison I had built.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 09:36 PM
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I wonder if we will see the adverse effects of this trend on a large scale in our lifetimes. By that I mean actual societal fallout due to the staggering amount of men not wanting to engage in relationships/marriages with all the sloots out there. T'would be a spectacle to behold.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:36 PM
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I dropped the ultimatum bomb on two women I used to be friends with about two years ago after I started reading RP material and realized I was acting like a beta chump. Straight up told both of them to their faces "I enjoy hanging out with you but if we are going to continue talking/hanging out we need to be hooking up. I'm not in this for friendship, I'm in this for that and some so if you aren't interested then you can see your way out." On both occasions, both burst into tears, started freaki…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:45 PM
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While I agree that nobody benefited from my choice to avoid the situation, I also think that nobody lost either. I just legit don't want to fuck taken women... they are the lowest class sluts on this planet next to hookers in my opinion. And I am sure you are right that there are other dudes in the picture for her now who won't hesitate, and that's fine by me. I'd rather it be them than me. It is just something I don't want on my conscious. It's not like there aren't a shit ton of other options …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 07:10 PM
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The most fucked up part of it was he was serving in the coast guard... I felt like I'd be fucking over my country if I did that shit.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:54 PM
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I met this woman on Tinder who was pretty awesome. Super hot hair stylist, sexy tattoos, and we seemed to click right away. After a week of chatting with her (She was 100mi away) she tells me that she recently broke up with her boyfriend of 6 years and really wants to come meet me. I agreed, and the plan was she was going to drive out to my city and we'd smoke, drink, and fuck. Fast forward to the night before she is coming up. She had given me her Snapchat name and it included her last name. I …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:06 PM
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You are right, he was being totally passive aggressive in the way he dealt with this situation and look where it got him. He only amplified his own pain and suffering by handling it this way and dug himself a deeper hole to get out of (That is, if he even wants to salvage the relationship). Passive aggressiveness is the way a beta handles his shortcomings, and I appreciate you elaborating on that. Haven't really thought of it like that before.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 06:44 PM
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Give an inch, and they'll take the whole 9 yards. Women will be women. This dude was acting super beta in his relationship, didn't maintain a solid frame, let her fuck around, and he loses her to another male. I had an ex girl who I set loose rules with, let her hang with her guy friends, trusted her... etc. Out of the blue she wants to take a break, we end up breaking up, and next thing I know she is dating one of those guy friends within a month. That was a 3 year relationship we had, over, an…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 03:35 PM
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You can't blame women for acting like women. If reading those comments doesn't motivate you to make yourself as close to a 10 physically as you can, then I don't know what will. A lot of times a guy can jump from being like a 6 or 7 to an 8 or 9 with minimal efforts.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:40 PM
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Freshman year in the dorms. I was hanging out with an ex girlfriend for the first time after we broke up. I had no intention of hooking up, and was mainly hanging out to see how she had been doing. Long story short, she showed up to my room extremely wasted and insisted on sleeping over. I should have just kicked her out, but I figured what the hell and let her climb in next to me. Here's where it starts to get weird. I'm starting to doze off and I suddenly feel a hand down my pants on my dick. …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 08:00 PM
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Looks > everything.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 02:41 PM
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I smoke cigs and I don't care what women think about it. Do what you enjoy, that is the most important thing. Don't hinder your lifestyle choices for any women. Also, I do believe it can raise your SMV in certain situations, like where you pop out of the bar for a quick smoke and bump into a cutie smoking her cig. Smokers have an unspoken rule where we are usually pretty friendly towards one another, and it is a perfect ice breaker in those types of situations.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 10:14 PM
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In 8 months of using Tinder I have 700 matches, and that is with liking most of the chicks that pop up. Out of those 700, about 50 of them are 7's or better. If you are a guy who is an 8/10 in real life, on Tinder you will be a 6/10. Most of the girls are on there want to fuck a model type guy so they can brag to their slutty friends about it. Tinder is a shitty way to go unless you wanna pound some easy, average pussy.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 11:21 PM
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This would be a good list to read over every morning. I like to re-affirm positive thoughts before I go take on each day. It is good practice and keeps your head on straight.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 06:05 PM
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This chick has a screw loose.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 02:13 PM
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If you mean what you say, then you really need to discipline yourself to make these changes possible. Are you hitting the gym and lifting weights? Start. Is your style outdated and lame? Get a new haircut and some nice clothes. Do you speak extremely fast and high pitched? Slow down, let the confident man voice come out. Last but not least, STOP showing weak emotion and jealousy. No matter what you feel on the inside, DO NOT project that onto her. Instead, channel that energy, and the next time …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:25 PM
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On Tinder, the only guys who have it THAT easy are the guys who are just elite physical specimen... I'm not a bad looking guy, but on Tinder I notice that in general, women below myself on the physical scale tend to think they have a chance with me. There is a complex in the women on these apps like Tinder where they get an inflated self-worth due to the high influx of messages and attention from thirsty guys. I'd say for every 10 women I match with on tinder, 9 are just average and 1 is someone…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 02:05 PM
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I recently made an effort to try to hookup with a girl who dated one of my buddies a while back (He didn't care if I hooked up with her), but she told me that she didn't want to be going between two guy friends like that. I had invested so little though and made my intentions clear so early on that I wasn't phased by being told no, and instead allowed her to come by to hangout a few more times, but made it extremely clear that if she wanted to continue hanging out with me she needed to replace h…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 04:10 PM
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If this guy would have actually gone out and landed a few younger hotties, I bet his bitch of a wife would have been on her knees begging for them to end the open relationship...
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 09:06 PM
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You are seeing the bigger picture. Most chumps wouldn't have felt good or empowered by saying no, and would have changed their plans immediately to accommodate new plans with a woman. Funny thing is, by you being busy and doing something that you enjoy more-so than hanging out with her, you are attracting her much more than if you would have dropped everything to hang out with her. Reschedule her whenever you feel like it and fuck her brains out ;)
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 09:42 PM
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Right? When I click a link there and see the most upvoted reply is from a woman you know it definitely is not AskMEN. Place is basically askwomen in disguise.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 08:11 PM
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G-Eazy - Been On http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQa8Rv-Vq-Y
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 06:36 PM
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She should write another article documenting her failures to secure a real relationship from the Alpha's she's been fucking off Tinder/OkCupid like she mentioned. The Ol' Pump and Dump, no wonder emotionally needy men are the only ones who would take this bitch.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 06:27 PM
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If average were beautiful, then getting C's in school would be rewarded to the same extent as getting A's. Makes no fucking sense. Let the hamsters keep spinnin'.
/r/askTRP07/03/14 10:02 PM
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Great post, you just described the woman who drove me to TRP. Through all of her deceit and lies on top of lies, she thrived off of watching me become emotionally unstable from the way she would act and the things she would say. These women will never back down from a lie, and will use any tactic imaginable, such as playing the victim as IllimitableMan said, or turning it against you in order to maintain their control and power. Looking back I realized the only reason I was able to fuck her was …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 03:33 PM
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I think you are creating a fantasy with this idea. You are saying she is in love with you on the deepest level, but she cheated. Doesn't matter the distance, doesn't matter the timespan. Just move on and don't put this bitch on the pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 12:21 AM
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I can't agree with your logic. I understand where you are coming from with the whole spiritual/soul bonding idea, but she still cheated on you at the end of the day, and that doesn't constitute as true love in my book. Also, if she was so in love with you on a level that you would consider even deeper than physical and emotional attraction, why is it she cheated? Like I said, I don't disagree with the whole soul/spiritual/energy aspect of what you are talking about, because I too feel that there…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 11:59 PM
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I always feel like the guys talking that good shit about TRP on other subreddits are secretly hoping that a female whale reads their white knight post about how terrible TRP is in the hopes that he can one day fulfill his Disney fantasy with said whale. Either way, if they can't keep "TRP" out of their mouths then that goes to show that the content here is hitting home for many people. Some take it in and others can't stand the thought that this could be reality.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 10:29 PM
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I used Tinder for a little while and met a shy 19 year old girl who lived nearby. Chatted with her for about a week until one day she drove to my place, paid for her own parking, and fucked me like it was her job. She kept coming up for drama-free sex for the next couple of weeks, but I eventually had to call it quits because she started asking me to take her out on dates... If you have an Iphone or an Android I know you can download the Tinder app for sure. It uses your location and basic faceb…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 06:35 PM
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Desperate, thirsty, and oblivious dudes are definitely inflating the female ego. For each beta orbiter a girl snags, her self-image and ego skyrocket through the fuckin' roof. Imagine having 5-10 women at a single time blowing up your phone calling you their king. Willing to jump at a moments notice for whatever you may want or need... That is the equivalent of what a modern day, decently attractive woman experiences, so it's not a mystery as to why they think they are gods gift to men. On the o…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 06:30 PM
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Ahhh, I caught that now, and yes you are right in your thinking. We go back, so there is no worries.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:07 AM
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She isn't a woman I am interested in though, so I felt no reason to restrain myself from speaking my thoughts when I was with her.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 12:09 AM
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Not my type. A few years ago I did have a few drunk nights where I ended up fooling around this girl (she was single at the time) but that was to the extent it went. My standards since then have sharply risen though!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 12:07 AM
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RL = Real Life.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 03:49 AM
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They just sugar coat and lie about most stuff. In a given thread you may see a few women who stand out against the herd and sometimes admit a hard truth, or admit their own wrong-doings, etc. but in most instances they are all just agreeing with the most "acceptable" response, never really offering anything with substance or truth. It's a waste of time going on there man... Besides, how many hotties in RL do you think have heard of Reddit, let alone the Askwomen subreddit...
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 03:38 AM
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Good share. These kinds of post help keep my RP mindset sharp. I still sometimes catch myself shifting into an auto-niceguy-pilot mode when interacting with some women, but have been getting better and better at recognizing and implementing RP strategy in my every day life. I've mostly lurked here since I subscribed a half year ago or so, and I honestly feel that the majority of the guys in this sub are extremely well educated and enlightened. I thoroughly enjoy reading most of the posts and I a…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 06:28 PM
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I hate to say that threatening divorce was finally the answer but it was. I wish I had done it way earlier on to let him know I was serious, but, at the time, felt so out of control of my life and marriage and that cheating was the only answer I had, as this man would NOT listen to me. It's this kind of injustice that led me to RP in the first place. She talks about threatening divorce as a tool to manipulate, not as a means to truly get out of a bad marriage... and this was after she cheated! L…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 06:30 PM
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With Tinder, when you 'Match' that is pretty much a golden ticket. That means that she looked at your profile and your pics and selected 'like', so as soon as you see you matched you know she already thinks your hot. Half the battle is already done for you with Tinder. All you need to do after is have some solid cocky-funny game and you can make it happen for yourself. I've gotten laid off of tinder so I know it can happen! OP, doing it right.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 02:43 PM
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You can't be timid in the sack, and as soon as the clothes come off is the time that you switch into animal mode and ravage her. Women will never lead a hookup and are waiting for you to call the shots and make the moves. Show her a time she won't soon forget and she will be begging for more.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 06:19 PM
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I went to a 3-Day Electronic Music Festival last weekend and honestly my first priority was the drugs I would be consuming... I just was having a good ass time and wasn't even worrying about chicks and had a shit load of women approach me, one came straight up to me and asked me to makeout. My advice is enjoy yourself, dance, smile and have a good ass time and the girls will notice you over the other sticks in the mud who are afraid to let loose.
/r/seduction20/06/13 04:02 PM
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The hottest girls require you to be your genuine self if you want to get anywhere. They get hit on all the time and they have seen the tricks, the wannabe alpha males, etc. When a guy who comes across as genuine and confident in who he is, this is what will grab them, at least in my experience. Think about it man, you said yourself that the less attractive girls were more into following your lead and what you wanted. Then you said how you messed up with an attractive girl because you came off as…
/r/seduction07/06/13 04:51 PM
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I've yet to see any of my college aged female peers base a decision to have sex with a guy off of his education/success. They base their decision off of how you look and how confident you are. Maybe that changes once they are out of college, though.
/r/seduction13/02/13 10:09 PM
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