MattED1220 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Even as an attractive guy Tinder is a waste of time I think Tinder is okay if that is not your only source. If you are bored then swipe and see what happens. In my opinion, bumble there is a way better chance of meeting someone.	/r/seduction	05/12/19 08:56 PM
1	Rate my tinder. My bio is "In reality I'm 5'5, stand on my debt now I'm 6'6 Chaotic Good "My body looks like you can tell that I go to the gym but you can also tell I don't say no when offered a cookie" 🇿🇦🇨🇦". Any honest criticism welcome Keep the bio as short as possible. Like for bumble my bio just reads "I'll message you second" that seems to work because that gets mentioned in their first message a fair amount.	/r/seduction	09/06/19 03:56 AM
1	Dealing with rejection in a healthy way: comparing rejections between applying for jobs and pursuing romantic interests I think most people look at rejection/failure the wrong way. We focus on the negative instead of the positive. I look at it this way. If you are not getting rejected/failing you are probably not living your life to the fullest potential. You are putting yourself out there while others are not.	/r/seduction	09/06/19 03:46 AM
1	I've concluded that my approach anxiety comes from feeling like it is not socially acceptable to do so You'll be like anybody else. I'm just saying if have approach anxiexty, do open mic night because you'll learn it doesn't really matter.	/r/seduction	08/03/19 05:20 PM
1	I've concluded that my approach anxiety comes from feeling like it is not socially acceptable to do so What you should do is this. Go find a comedy open mic. Get up there and bomb. Once, you bomb in front of 30-40 people nothing matters anymore.	/r/seduction	08/03/19 04:22 PM
1	The feeling of regret hurts more than rejection There will be plenty of other chances to meet other girls. It sucks missed this one chance but it's just this one chance. Now, the next time you see a girl you like you will talk to them instead of not. Just don't beat yourself up over one mistake.	/r/seduction	27/08/18 12:49 AM
2	Rejections makes you a Man. Speaking of rejection, it just happened to me the other day. I asked this girl in my former department if she wanted to grab coffee. She agreed. Great. Then on Tuesday asked her to go but she said she couldn’t but she could on Thursday. Awesome. She cares enough to reschedule. On Thursday like maybe 45 minutes before she cancels and doesn’t say anything about going another time, but if gonna keep backing out better off. She said she had lot of work and wasn’t leaving her desk. Turns out she did …	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/18 12:23 AM
1	How to be Less Serious? Lead the conversation where you feel most comfortable. Make a joke about something you talk about. Overall, just have fun. Nobody wants to be with someone who is serious 100% of the time.	/r/seduction	30/04/18 02:49 AM
1	Feeling empty and not feeling it when getting with a girl. Would think a place you feel comfortable. For me it would be a Starbucks or a barnes and noble. Depends on you and what type of girl you are looking for.	/r/seduction	30/04/18 02:46 AM
1	How do i become an approach machine? You just got to keep doing it. One night maybe you approach 5. Then next time when feel more comfortable approach 10. Then another time maybe up it to 15 and do on.	/r/seduction	30/04/18 02:36 AM
1	Ghosted after first date Honestly, been having the same issues. Went on two dates recently (two different girls) to me the dates went pretty good for first dates but then I don't hear much from them. That seems to be my biggest issue. Could get the dates but then things fizzle out. I think part of the issue is most of the dates are set up online and always feel the dynamic is weird because it almost feels like you know them before you meet. That's why I think I am going to focus more now on IRL interactions.	/r/seduction	30/04/18 02:33 AM
1	Where do i start? Also start with small attainable goals. Don't go into the gym trying to do The Rock's routine. Start small and build up. Same with interactions, the goal shouldn't be to have sex. The goal at first should be just to say hi to people you walk past. This way regardless of if they say anything back you achieved your goal. Then from there keep building upon improving. Good luck and have fun.	/r/seduction	30/04/18 02:26 AM
1	Wing assigns me sets to approach could always try to approach in less intimidating places at first if alone. A place where you feel comfortable. My place is Starbucks or barnes and noble. If you feel comfortable you should have better results.	/r/seduction	30/04/18 02:16 AM
1	Reaching out to girls that liked me in the past. I guess you can always message them asking them how they are doing and then saying you should go out to catch up. If they were your friends they will probably agree. From there you can gauge any interest? Are all these girls in same group? If so they may talk so be careful.	/r/seduction	30/04/18 02:12 AM
1	WTF do you open/converse with Tinder women ? Opinion openers usually work. Also, it's better than the standard "Hey, whats up girl?"	/r/seduction	30/04/18 02:06 AM
1	(Questions) Why are some men naturally good in the game? Why are some men naturally good at math or being funny? We all have something we are really good at. We also all can learn to be good at things by practice. We might never be as good as the naturals but you will be better if you put the work in.	/r/seduction	01/04/18 11:56 PM
1	Success doesn't feel good at the start Progress is the only thing that matters. The real success is wanting to talk to a girl and doing it. Thats the hard part. You can't control who will like you, but you can control who you want to go after.	/r/seduction	01/04/18 11:53 PM
1	Hey Seddit what's the weakest part of your game? My weak spot is inner game. At times I just think that nobody will want to date me or whatever. I'm getting past it though. I'm putting in the time and talking to every pretty girl I see. It's a great feeling knowing what I was fearing was just fear. I still have long way to go but if I keep building on what I'm doing I should be okay.	/r/seduction	01/04/18 11:48 PM
1	Hey Seddit what's the weakest part of your game? Whats helping me with daygame is noticing something about the target I could talk about. It makes it easier the randomly saying hi.	/r/seduction	01/04/18 11:43 PM
1	How do I talk to girls? Personally, the easiest way to start a conversation is to notice something about them. For example, saw a cute cashier at starbucks. I noticed she was wearing a college shirt from the same school I went to. With that information I just said. "Oh I see you went to XYZ. So did I." then convo went from there.	/r/seduction	26/03/18 06:40 PM
1	How do you guys deal with being rejected over and over? This 100%. People get rejected for all sorts of things. Maybe she thought you were ugly, maybe she thought you looked like a Greek God but has a bf or maybe you she didn't like where you placed a comma. The point is being rejected is out of your control. The only thing you could control is how you react and adapt to a situation. I know from experience, nobody likes someone when they can't take it like an adult. Respect the other persons decision and find someone who wants you.	/r/seduction	08/02/18 05:17 PM
1	How do I stop feeling down about my height? Yeah height is a limitation because you are making it limitation. Nobody cares how tall you are if you have other amazing qualities. I mean sure some girls will be turned off but then again i'm sure your turned off to certain types of girls.	/r/seduction	24/01/18 08:52 PM
1	Transition from online to offline game Have fun with it. If she says "What do you do?" Tell her your a man in uniform. then when she asks are "Oh cool are you with police or firmen?" say that you work at a verizon store or something.	/r/seduction	26/12/17 04:21 PM
1	I don't know what's wrong with me I think you need start from square one. When you want to start going to gym you dont start with The Rock's routine, you start small. You start with light weights. What you should do is just get comfortable just smiling and waving at people. Then when good with that just say "Hey, how are you." its awkward but who cares. Then you starting having conversation with people. It helps with you have a goal and some stakes involved. If you don't you won't take risks because nothing will happen if you do…	/r/seduction	26/12/17 04:17 PM
1	Having coffee with a former high school crush tomorrow What do you want out of this? Do you eventually want to date her when you return from college? Are you just looking for a friend? Either way, you can start over. Don't focus on interview type questions. Be fun. Build off what she talks about. If she goes I love that band. You can ask if she ever wen to their concert? When she started likeing them? Maybe you know something about the band that you think she will find interesting.	/r/seduction	26/12/17 04:13 PM
1	Having coffee with a former high school crush tomorrow Words can only help so much. If you want to get good at something you need to actually go out and do it. Put down the phone and go out and meet people. Honestly, you will probably fail at first, but the more you do the better you will become. My best advice: start small. If you first start going to the gym you don't start with The Rock's routine you start small. Same with learning pick up. You start by just smiling and waving at everyome you see. When get comfortable with that you start saying "…	/r/seduction	26/12/17 04:07 PM
1	I want to make a group of people interested in seduction AND self-improvement to help each other. I'm in.	/r/seduction	26/12/17 04:01 PM