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| 2 | Tinder Bio Checklist To Not Look Like A BumFor me the biggest change in results was this hidden setting, tinder, hinge and bumble have this. Go to 3 dots - account - advanced account settings - billing and account management - delete account - confirm. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 07:50 AM |
| 2 | What’s wrong with meAre you sure you are not gay? | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 02:36 PM |
| 5 | As a girl, how do I hit on a girl?Good luck, it gets easier every time. And after a bit it starts to be a lot of fun. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:23 PM |
| 12 | As a girl, how do I hit on a girl?It sounds like you are just too scared to make your move. The only thing you can do is to shoot your shot. Go there and say "you make me shy as hell but I was wondering if we could go for a coffee sometimes together". At least you will know is she interested. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 07:55 AM |
| 3 | As a girl, how do I hit on a girl?My ex was bisexual and I was teaching her how to pickup girls. It's the same as "straight" pickup just a little more subtle. Todd V dating on youtube have a good clear system. Down and dirty guide: Open (get her attention "hey what's your name, what are you dling here") Premise (communicate you are interested romantically "I think you look goregous in this dress") Ewaluate (flirt, tease, instigate, qualify, make her work a bit for your attention). Narrative (create story about you two, create co… | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 07:41 AM |
| 36 | I rejected a girl and now she tries to disrespect me in front of other womenIgnore and roll your eyes. People can tell what is going on so this will actually bump your social status as long as you can hold your frame. As long as she is not doing crazy shit like posting pictures of yohr small penis you should just go on with your life. If anybody asks just cut off with "she's just jelous". | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Autistic adult here: an ELI5 guide on How to talk to women?Binge watch The Big Bag Theory and study Sheldon and his friends try to help him adjust. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 01:20 PM |
| 0 | Sorry to bring up an offencive topic but what do you think of confidence vs the size of the man?If your confidence does not match your stature it will work against you. Act your size, women expect that from you. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 01:18 PM |
| 7 | Treat people like people (and not just holes/poles to enjoy)No. Every relation is different. Some women want to treat you as sex object, some want romance, some want connection and some want quick hoookup. Real skill is finding out what you want and communicating this across to find out are you compatibile. What you said gets a bit close to putting women on pedestal. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:09 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE; multiple girls at the same partyAs long as you are honest with your partners you have nothing to be ashamed off. As long as you can hold your frame and deal with teasing and shit tests it might actually help you with sexual tention around your persona. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | First thing to realise.I'm in town right now :) | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | First thing to realise.Some people have a problem for every solution... | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | First thing to realise.5% of creeps is still tiny :) | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 06:45 PM |
| 6 | First thing to realise.Stop interneting and go out there in to the real world. Sooner or later you will find one that is very unsocial and damaged but you will get soo much good response that this 0.1% won't matter. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 06:37 PM |
| 6 | First thing to realise.And on the last 1%, their issues are not your fault or responsibility. Just roll your eyes and aproach another, much cuter girl. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 06:25 PM |
| 9 | First thing to realise.Exactly. Internet views are very different from reality. People are kind of decent. They thank you for your compliment and a smile and nobody is going to stab you. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Field report: My sad story of being offered food on gold plate and I just didn't take the bait.Girl bought ma a drink last weekend, first time it happened to me. I had to stick with my friends in thst venue and I never saw ger again. Should have at least stay and chat... | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 06:10 PM |
| 12 | Do women who smile at you want you to approach them?Just use it as an excuse to open. "Sorry but after I saw your smile I had to say hello, what's your name?". | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 06:08 PM |
| 4 | Tips to look more approachable?It was my problem for a moment when I started aproaching, people would jump when I threw hello at them. I have a feeling your aproach and body language is just too aggressive, sudden and intrusive. Slow down, signal with your eyes you going to aproach them, soften up your moves and tone. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | First thing to realise.Some people have a problem for every solution... | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:37 PM |
| 3 | First thing to realise.Correct. So as long as you don't corner them and pressure everything is fine. You have a rigbt to say hello, thwy have a right to say goodbye. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:21 PM |
| -4 | How do you chat up a girl in a coffee shop?Why? As long as you don't lean in too close in to her personal space and you back off when her face turns nasty (haven't happened to me yet) you are just making conversation. You have a right to speak to another human beeing!!! | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 03:40 PM |
| -4 | How do you chat up a girl in a coffee shop?"Hey how you doing?", "I like your hair/dress/eyes/bag, what's your name?", "you are here for pleasure or business? Maybe we can sit together for a predate". | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 03:26 PM |
| 12 | The cold approach vs Online dating: A statistical summaryThat's why we here, to learn how to rape people... Dumbass. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate over texts?Hints and enuendos. "Good thing you are not here right now, wouldn't be much left from our friendship". Stuff like that. It's more about showing you are a sexual person and you are not ashamed of your testosterone. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 11:58 PM |
| -5 | Best hobbies/event types for meeting girls?None. Ask 2-3 girls from that group for a date and you are burned in that group. Girls talk and you will get a "player" label. Also things can get weird if you are successful with one which again, burns you in that group. Game in the wild like park and venues, not closed groups. The whole purpose of the game is to have abundancy. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 11:13 PM |
| 50 | The cold approach vs Online dating: A statistical summaryThe main thing is that In real life YOU are in charge of the situation. On line her moods and other lovely things dictate the terms. You can't win with that. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Question: Do you pickup potential mates solo or with a wingman?Solo, less things to worry about, just you and your game :) | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | How to not let rejection bother you?You should do everything at your own pace, but those nimbers are riddiculous. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:34 PM |
| 2 | How to not let rejection bother you?Let's say you do this halfhearted, for example aproach 2-3 girls every other day, you will have 50 aproaches in a month. I'm not even counting few hours on saturday aproaching where you can get 20 easy. 50 rejections should be easy in couple of months. Unfortunatelly girls are too nice :) | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | How to not let rejection bother you?Just a very fancy folding knife. I'm in to EDC gadgets. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 09:30 AM |
| 3 | I (21f) have been letting my neighbor (40m) use my body for some time nowSpam/attention seeking. Report. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 09:15 AM |
| 7 | How to not let rejection bother you?Figure out what you like to do and thwn start doing it. Your self seteem will go up. Aproach aproach aproach, after about 20-30 aproaches you will get used to it and it won't bother you anymore. I got a tally counter app on my phone. There is a gadget that I want to buy but it's expensive and I don't really need it. I promised myself two months ago I will get it after 50 rejections. I'm up to 17 now.... Fuck. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Attractive guysGood looks help you in first 20 seconds. They will be more open when you start talking and a bit more forgiving in that timeframe. But after that it's all on your social skills. If your confidence and game doesn't match with your looks they will eat you alive. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What do people think of Todd V?I know there is a lot on YT but what do I look for on torrent sites? | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 01:48 PM |
| 14 | Why Am I Like ThisNothing wrong with you. Sexuality is an intimate thing. I'm 40 and had a ton of relationships and dating experience, like a ton. I never enjoyed strip clubs or those kind of restaurants or one night stands. Having a good game and enjoying women doesn't mean doing everything at a click of fingers. You can do it your way. If you like going slow or apreciating your time with women then do it your way, a lot of girls will apreciate it. Game is abour being in control of your dating life, not fucking … | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 11:30 AM |
| 3 | do you ever just make it obvious you're into a girl instead of asking her out because you're scared of rejection?That's the definition of direct aproach. One or two hings to open and get her attention and then "I think you look amazing and I had to say hello". Also, girls are not stupid. They know why you aproaching them. They just want you to be a man and be honest with them and yourself about your intentions. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Setting the tone for messages on dating apps when you have a fuccboi picture?You need to make it man to woman from the start but don't be creepy. So: I like what I see. Or: woman like you can defo get my adrenaline going. None of that: I would fuck you so hard babe. Also move the interaction. I ask for coffe or number to call on a 2nd-3rd message. You need to filter ones that ate not dtf out. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 08:14 AM |
| 2 | What to say when she says she has a boyfriend/ seeing someone?"Thank you for our chat anyways. All the best". | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Is there any way to have a one night stand in Italy? as a non-ItalianForget about it. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 07:30 PM |
| 0 | FlirtingDon't see how it might work. Imagine the roles are reversed. You and your guys talk to a girl, she focuses on your friend for a bit. You either get jelous or discouraged. I don't see it as a solid or viable game strategy. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 07:29 PM |
| 3 | FlirtingIf you have to ask then you are not advanced enough to play those games. Jelousy plots are effective but dangerous. Just focus on creating attraction with your target and making sure her friends like you. You can easily miss your mark and make your target think you are not interested or turn her friends agains yourself. I wouldn't go there. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with regretWould you be angry at 10 year old timmy for burning dinner at his first try? No, because he is doing his best and learning. Whwn he is 17 he will seduce many women with his cooking. Forget your perfectionism and enjoy the process of learning. You did your best with the knowledge you had at that time. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:25 PM |
| 0 | I have a good one for you guys. "Don't get bitter, just get better".Then stop whining and get a life. Go out, grab a coffee or a burger, make a list of stuff you want in your life and start doing it. You need a ton of Andrew Tate in your life man. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 07:18 AM |
| 1 | I have a good one for you guys. "Don't get bitter, just get better".Obvious trolling. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 07:06 AM |
| 7 | I have a good one for you guys. "Don't get bitter, just get better".Bullshit. Same here. I'm 39 and after a year of socialising and working on my openers and convo skills I'm loving my life rn. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Handling getting called a player.I'm 39, maybe that's why. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | what movies should I watch to know more about seduction or pickup.This changed my life: https://youtu.be/2bQjfTHlwzU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kEAQ8dB4\_R4&list=LL&index=17&t=2s | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:43 PM |
| 3 | what movies should I watch to know more about seduction or pickup.Just don't get discourage by biting too much. If your anxiety wins Todd have a great mini series about working your way up to opening. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Does women dislike it when we ask for nudes ?In other words asking for nudes is 100% simping. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Does women dislike it when we ask for nudes ?You will loose a ton of progress with a girl by doing this and become one of the average guys in her eyes. I love avoiding the subject for as long as possible (showing I'm a sexual man but not doing anything involving her), sooner or later they start initiating nudes and sexual topics. After few dates and hookups you will loose taste for nudes, they don't do much for me, I go after the real thing. For example I prefer a message "I have a fresh towel for you in the bathroom if you want" over a nu… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:29 PM |
| 5 | what movies should I watch to know more about seduction or pickup.Go out in real life, then watch Todd Valentino YT videos to reflect on your real life experience. Movies will only warp your idea about game and dating. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:23 PM |
| 0 | How do I make myself stand out and leave a lasting impression?He is either thick or not interested. If you pursue him you have a great chance to just be used (no guy will pass on a free fuck). Find someone who would appreciate a smart proactive woman. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:21 PM |
| 14 | Does game beat anything?This. Big part of the game is understanding women and learning to interact with them properly for great results for both sides. Instead of labeling the whole species as bitches or gold diggers. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | What are curretnly the biggest and most popular pickup communites, facebook groups etc.Not much going on on fb, there are few geoups but they are more about advertising or self promoting. So far this subreddit is the best I could find. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 10:43 AM |
| 201 | medication to help talk to girls?You are uncalibrated, throwing meds in to the mix will just make you even more awkward. Better to be shy and nervous than weird and artificial. Google on yt "todd how to aproach". He have a great guide on getting rid of anxiety. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Handling getting called a player.Hey a cool one. "I'm the biggest player in town so looks like it's your lucky night, don't fuck it up girl" :) | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Is there a secret to enjoying bars and clubs?Yes, alcohol. But that's counterproductive to game. Clubs and pubs are there to make money on drinks, not to help people date (like tinder). Either do what you can with night game or switch to dsy game. There is no magic pill. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Handling getting called a player.With your option you are fefo getting bogged down. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:54 AM |
| 3 | Handling getting called a player.Sometimes the want to be a good girl, but when she want to be naughty this is the only option :) | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Handling getting called a player.Sorry but meh... | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Handling getting called a player.Goood one :) | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Handling getting called a player.They say I am. Tall and working out. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:36 PM |
| 5 | How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive?Every time. That's the whole point. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:26 PM |
| 20 | Is it weird to cold approach alone?No, that's how you do it. After a bit you will get used to it and loose the shaky voice. Some girls will actually compliment you on courage and balls for aproaching like that. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | If I'm deadDo a flip. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Why would this girl who i met while working give me her phone number if she got a bf?She is not looking for emotional support but for an adventure. Being arrogant is spicy and attractive for her. I wouldn't be surprised if she was fed up with her boyfrend talking and feeling and trying to work things out. I have been ther. Less shit I gave about her and more instrumental I treated her the more she was telling me how manly I am and how good she feels in hands of a gyu who knows how to treat a girl. Go figure... | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 05:54 AM |
| 3 | How do you handle long dry spells as a guy who is picky and has a niche appealUse the frustration and anger to motivate you to go out. Cold aproaching, events, socialise, gym. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Why would this girl who i met while working give me her phone number if she got a bf?Just don't fuck it up after by gettimg mushy. The more professional you take it the more she will ike you. It's a hookup, not friends with benefits. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Why would this girl who i met while working give me her phone number if she got a bf?Just don't fuck it up after by gettimg mushy. The more professional you take it the more she will ike you. It's a hookup, not friends with benefits. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 08:44 PM |
| 12 | Why would this girl who i met while working give me her phone number if she got a bf?Yup, she's looking for a hookup. Less shit you give and more arrogant you are the quicker you will get it. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 08:16 PM |
| 2 | How to respond when a girl wants you to fight for her?Watch Adrew Tate on this !!! No point going to prison or hospital for someone elses ego. If she really had feelings for you she would be concern for your wellbeeing and would try to stop you from doing anything riasy/stupid. Ask her whay would she instigate dangerous situation. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 07:56 PM |
| 2 | how should I interpret thisYou are overthinking it, not everything is a game and female manipulation. You did good and everything went decent. She laughed to close the thread of her boyfriend, she told you about him, you reactes accoedingly, end of. Calling you nice was a compliment, she was communicating to her friend that you are decent and not a creep. You did your aproach nicely and women enjoy a good interaction and getting hit on. As long as it's not in a creepy way. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | questionSpam. Can we all report this? | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 11:11 AM |
| -1 | Flirting ideas: want to seduce male coworkerGirl, don't you get enough attention on social media? Do you really have to troll here? People actually try to work on themselves here. This is not helping. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 10:05 AM |
| 1 | When cold approaching, how do you balance being soft spoken vs hyperenergetic?Imagine a cute dog, if it jumps on you and drools all over you will be fed up fast, if it just lays there apathetic you won't be interested. Jus have good fun energy but without overwhelming. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 07:18 AM |
| 9 | Replying to Instagram stories does it even give you a change?The only purpose of instagram or facebook is to feed her attention. Standing in the croud of other simps is theoppoaite of creating attraction. If anything you can do a neg like "why is this dres soo blue..." but generally you will be playing a toxic game and you are at dissadvantage on line. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 07:16 AM |
| 8 | How can I hit on my cute neighbour on the balcony below me?You probably don't have balls for this but wit a great amount of humour "wanna switch up so you can be on top of me once?" | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Any of you guys go places with the intention of approaching women?When I go in to town to do my errands or to grab some food/coffee I often take the scenic route to have a chance to talk to more people. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 11:55 AM |
| 19 | Cut off creepy friendsJust ghost him. Have an excuse each time he asks to join. And if he doesn't get the hint after few monrhs just tell him you don't want to hang out. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Did I fuck it up?Or you can even message her this if you have access. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Did I fuck it up?Find another opportunity and say: "Hey, wanted to talk to you the other day but you were with someone and I didn't want to interrupt. I think you and me might have a good energy and I was wandering if we could grab a coffee someday". Practice this few times and have a place in mind. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 11:51 AM |
| 39 | My big butt co-worker modeled 3 thongs for me!Report her to HR :D Just tell her that you keep thinking about it and can't decide which of those things will look best on your floor. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 11:03 PM |
| 8 | "Im not your mom" shit testAnd I thought I had some cringe moments :D | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | "Im not your mom" shit testJust don't say that again. NEVER... On the other hand if she hits you with something like "baby boy" just say "yeah, can I suck on those tittes now" :) | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Fashion advice for dates and nights out?The thing that makes you smell nice. Remember, her nostril is the first orifice you will penetrate :) | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:56 PM |
| 19 | I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you.For every girl that rejected you, there is one that will eat doughnuts of your boner :) | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:40 PM |
| 302 | I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you.Yup. If she likes you she will break all her rules and will find time. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Crossing the sexual rubiconYou are overthinking this. Just follow your sexual drive (either date women you find attractive or stop wanking). Once she is ok with your company start holding hands, jokingly push her away (horseplay), give her hugs, look at her a bit too long. Just escalate, faster, slower but reach for what you desire. Doesn't have to be pretty or perfect as long as it's not making her too uncomfortable (she will show/tell you). | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 06:04 PM |
| 6 | Fashion advice for dates and nights out?Put on clean clothes, take a shower, use a good perfume (with moderation), groomed and clean fingernails and you will be in the top 5% of the guys out there. Iron your clothes and become top 2%. Bar is very low (thank you all you slabs), also you don't want to over do it, she want's to be the pretty one. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | How huge is a deal if you are confident yet sexually inexperienced?YES. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:31 AM |
| 1 | body concerns with new GFStop humble bragging and just go easy on her. BTW, girth beats lenght :) | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:08 AM |
| 1 | ideas on cold approach at work (same building not in the same office eh)I have seen it happend in my old job. Just standard female "I have regrets therefore it's his fault" emotional change of heart resulting in guys beeing sacked. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:07 AM |
| 3 | ideas on cold approach at work (same building not in the same office eh)Going for a coffee is harmless, but if you fuck and it goes sour two months later she has your balls in ger bag. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 09:53 AM |
| 15 | How huge is a deal if you are confident yet sexually inexperienced?Own it, they will be ok with it as long as you are ok with ir. Just say "just so you know, I don't have 200 women behind me so I would love to take it slow and learn you". Most women will think it's fresh and cute. One that don't are not worth your time anyways. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 09:17 AM |
| 7 | ideas on cold approach at work (same building not in the same office eh)Doesn't matter. You have the same HR and management. Tge whole purpose of game is to have abundance so you don't have to risk your work for one cuteish girl. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 09:07 AM |
| 2 | How to: GYM GAMEGym is a controversial one, women go there to sweat in peace or for attention, either way not ideal situation. Also you have to be extremely careful and tactfull, you can loose your gym quick. Most times it's not worth the risk. On few occasions where she was soo good that I had to shoot my shot I kept it to an absolute minimum. My golden line for gym is: "Sorry to do it here but I absolutely had to talk to you. ANY CHANCE OF TALKING OUTSIDE OF THE GYM MAYBE OVER A COFFEE?" Basically I just try … | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Am I too nice?She likes you, which is a separate thing from attraction. You need both really. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Do muscles make that much of a difference?Do what you can with your looks and don't worry about the rest. There is a girl attracted to you out there (more than one actually). Just don't be a slob. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | If girl looked at me then looked me up and down, does that mean she was checking me outYup. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | spend time healing alone or put myself back out there and go on dates again?Definitely sort youtself out before you are ready for new experiences. 1. Your energy will be crap and yohr results 2. If someone falls for you you will poison the relationship with your trauma. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | The idea of a ‘shit test’ annoys me. If someone is playing games and doesn’t value your time, walk away and move on, have some self respectRejection is not a shit test. You have a full right not to be interested. We are talking more about "I'm not sure I like that kind of beard" situstion. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | The idea of a ‘shit test’ annoys me. If someone is playing games and doesn’t value your time, walk away and move on, have some self respectSimple lack of field experience. PS. Thanks for giving a shit about us :) | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | The idea of a ‘shit test’ annoys me. If someone is playing games and doesn’t value your time, walk away and move on, have some self respectManipulation is not shit testing. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:16 PM |
| 2 | How can I tell if a girl pretends to not like me vs her not actually liking me and only wanting attention?😭They vote with their feet and time. If she hangs aroind you and is willing to do stuff with you she's in to you, no matter how nasty she gets. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | cant handle disrespect from anyone let alone a womanGood luck man, you are already ahead just by working on yourself. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | cant handle disrespect from anyone let alone a womanLife changing book. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Where should I be going to meet more women in the U.K.?You are overthinking it. Go in to the world, find womwn in your path, check if you are compatibile. Game is only a science of making it smooth. But it's just a bag of tools. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | The idea of a ‘shit test’ annoys me. If someone is playing games and doesn’t value your time, walk away and move on, have some self respectDon't take it as a shit test, it's more like she's instigating the situation, poking the bear because she is interested. Stop your bitching and use it to score points. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Was I getting hit on and I’m just too dense? I don’t think it’s too late…She was defo interested. Good news you didn't fucked it up, just "taking it slow". Situation is still open and you should go back and talk to her for a bit again finishing with a move like asking to do something together. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | cant handle disrespect from anyone let alone a womanAnd change your nickname to HULK :) | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:01 PM |
| 3 | cant handle disrespect from anyone let alone a womanSorry, counceling (I'm at the gym). You made the first step, you rralised you don't want to be like that which means you are a decent dude. There is just something knocking you out of emotional balance. I bet next time you will catch yourself half way through the anger spike and maybe you will reflect on it. Remember, you carry your emotions, not other way round. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:01 PM |
| 3 | cant handle disrespect from anyone let alone a womanAll I can tell you is your original post soinds like a ton of overrracting and compensating and oversteering. You don't know what "normal" is. I was like that afger two years in narcistic manipulative relationship. Didn't know what reactions are justified and what I'm doing wrong. Next time you can ask your friends to maybe try be more constructive with their opinions, like "guys I hate this atmosphere right now, what have gone wrong?". But coinvellong can speed up the process a lot. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:51 PM |
| 5 | cant handle disrespect from anyone let alone a womanIt sounds like it's not the first time you are in that situation. Either your friends have an issue, or people react that way to you. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:39 PM |
| 7 | cant handle disrespect from anyone let alone a womanYou focusing on the symptoms, deal with the cause. Gym and/or some martial arts never hurt anyones anger management. A session or two with an expert might help you target your issues. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Is it better to ask for Facebook or a phone number for a coworker?Facebook is meaningless. If you are willing to risk your work environment you might as well make it count and ask for a phone number saying you want to grab a coffee together. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Its impossible to calibrate text on whatsapp or tinder with girls87% of communication is non verbal, you don't have that over txt. Keep txting functional, just to organise dates etc. She have a ton of simps to write her essays 24/7 | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:01 PM |
| 3 | To what degree do looks actually matter?Just sharing my experience. Maybe because for a long time I was not aware of my physical potential. Of course I enjoy it, but it comes with issues. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:48 PM |
| 5 | To what degree do looks actually matter?Most of the time "ugly" is more "neglected". Groom, workout and dress well and it's hard to be below 6. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:02 PM |
| 3 | To what degree do looks actually matter?Not a bad way to put it. Was trying to say it't not all roses and playing on GOD MODE. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Going to clubs/bars solo to game?I hate shouting over music so daygame is my choice. Also in clubs girls tend to get high on attention and on tejecting guys so you are at a dissadvatage. I only do night game if I'm out for another reason and there is nothing better to do. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Getting played for drinks at the bar?Hope you find balls or be drunk enough one day to say "sorry I don't buy drinks for girls I have not fucked". You will either skip two stages on that set or you will piss yourself laughing. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want to be treated like sub-par humans?No. They like a strong man, some of them are willing to suffer through abuse. But if you can be strong, leading unreactive AND look after her she will go crazy for you. Listen to Andrew Tate, he's got a great view on this. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | What exactly does non-neediness mean?Letting people decide for you is submission. Deciding for yourself is assertiveness. Deciding for other person is arrogance. Be the one in the middle when it comes to bed. Express yourself but let her decide what she does with your signals. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | If a girl replies to me telling her she's beautiful is "i wish" what is one supposed to say?You guys owe me a beer for this. "I can only give you your flowers, it's your choice if you going to water them or put them in the bin". | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:08 PM |
| 3 | My first two Daygame cold approachesAlso, enjoy it while it last, we all strive to shed the approach anxiety but when it happens it's not as exciting. Natural lifestyles had a great line. Stop thinking of this as approach anxiety, think of it as APROACH ENERGY. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:06 PM |
| 2 | How to take a compliment in a good attractive way?Confident humble is pure magic. so: I appreciate it, you are not so bad yourself. Avoid any cocky comebacks and player replies. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Am I too nice?You are not too nice, women like nice and kind, they go for bad boys as a lesser evil. YOU ARE NOT TOO NICE, YOU ARE TOO BORING (especially emotionally). | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Where should I be going to meet more women in the U.K.?Manchester here. Go exploring your town and/or nearest big city. 1. Great for your mental health. Gives you awesome genuine energy on a ton of openers (where is this and that, how to get to, I got a date coming, scouting for a best place - this is golden on groups of girls). When you start a conversation with someone it gives you great stories to tell of what you found and where have you been, along with pictures on your phone of that cool fountain that would be great for picnic. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | To what degree do looks actually matter?Basically everyone should play to their strengths and do their best so the drawbacks don't hold them back. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | I don't want to be a friend first, but in this case it seems like the only way?You can't get what you can't get.Outsid of work, hobbies and relax time you have maybe 3-4 slots for close relations. A mate or two, and couple female projects. Do you really want to waste one of your slots on someone who is not interested? Move on and use the saved time and energy for game. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:55 PM |
| 2 | My first two Daygame cold approachesAs long as you spread positive vibes you have nothing to be ashamed off. You both left the interaction with endorphins and a smile :) | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you say when your friends call you out for flirting with their friend?Own it. They are shit testing you. Just say you like to go for what you like. If they became disrespectful confront them about it, if they continue dump them because they are not your friends. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:51 PM |
| 10 | To what degree do looks actually matter?Double edged sword really. 6'3" fit brunet here, fit, exotic face, big dick. It helps first 5 seconds but you better have game to go with your looks, otherwise you will go high on the opener but crash and burn because of the lack of congruency. So actually hard to progress if you are a nice guy. You don't have any excuse really, if the interaction didn't go anywhere it's on me and my shitty game. I can't say "she is in to tall guys not me". It sets a certain expectations which comes with a ton o… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with girls via text, who are mad because I take time to reply?Do exactly what you are doing now, obviously it's working and you are giving them emotions. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:17 AM |
| 2 | What’s the cringiest thing you did trying to pick up a girl?Squeeky voice. I'm a big dude so it's extra incongruent. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Ever been ghosted after good sex?Either sex was crap or like others said. She was there just for the ride. Enjoy what you got out of it. Who knows, maybe she will call you in 6 months for another one. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Stuff to take on a nightout?WTF man? Are you trying to break the internet?!! Admitting to something?!! :) I know, but every little helps. If a lighter or a pack of tissues gives me an extra opener or chance to talk to 15th girl that night then it's worth it. And your comment was actually close as during the day I am one of those EDC weirdos (within reason, mutitool and a flashlight). All the best from UK. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Stuff to take on a nightout?Well you are a dick. I just asked for a helpful advice, not what I NEED to go out. Maybe someone have a cool gadget that is a good conversation starter? Maybe someone got saved by an emergency $20 stuffed behind phone case? Just trying to learn on someone else experience and mistakes, what is wrong with that? | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Stuff to take on a nightout?Excellent idea brother, thank you. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What is wrong with meLoose weight take care of yourself, evolve mentaly (read books and listen to smart guys fe TED talks). Have some value to offer. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 08:44 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when you get hit with "what if I fall in love with you".I think you right. It really sounds like she's letting me know it can be more than just a fuck for her. I'm just not sure how to react to this. As always communication is the key to confirm eachother position. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when you get hit with "what if I fall in love with you".No, at this point in my life I'm pretty open about the fact I'm not in to anything serious from the beginning. Had this couple of times now and it feels like they shift the reaponsibility for her feelings on to me. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Give me a gameplan.How do I get on board? | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Give me a gameplan.Can't be worse than beeing alone. I have been doing Todds routines to get over aproach anxiety (asking directions etc) and it works so well. Time for next step and get it meaningfull. Just need an idea where to go. Thank you guys for all the support. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Give me a gameplan.Love it. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Give me a gameplan.This will change your life. https://youtu.be/2bQjfTHlwzU | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Give me a gameplan.Nice. Love a good real life video. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Give me a gameplan.Big thank you. Exactly what I asked for. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Give me a gameplan.Actually bought it a week ago. Waiting to be read. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 04:50 PM |
| 8 | Give me a gameplan.That's what I was looking for. Man to woman dynamics and making her qualify is my issue. Any poiters on that? | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Give me a gameplan.Gold. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Give me a gameplan.But I get your point. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 01:30 PM |
| 6 | Give me a gameplan.Not a wimp. Just raised as a niceguy. Need to learn where to take my interactions so we both enjoy it. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 01:30 PM |
| 12 | Give me a gameplan.All my life. Problem is my normal is too nice and safe. Tired of getting what I can, want to get a grip on my dating so I can get women I want. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Give me a gameplan.Sounds like I'm mistaking rapport with comfort. I'm guessing comfort goes there: Intrigue Rapport Attraction COMFORT Escalation | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Give me a gameplan.Really? Rapport second? I feel my biggest problem is doing comfort too early (showing how good we would be together). | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Can’t get hard (28M>Yup. It's either anxiety for new person (get more comfort). Or porn fucking up your desires, sensations, stimulation patterns. Since I gave up on porn and online dating I got so much more organic and motivated and horny. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Help leaving lvl 0.Great advice, I need ideas for baby steps at the moment. I think this weekend I will do just that, move from asking directions to complementing peoples. I think this will be a perfect acclimatisation to actual openers. | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Help leaving lvl 0.Yeah my big problem is overthinking it. | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Help leaving lvl 0.Real helpfull. | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 05:51 PM |
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