Mattius555 Archive

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2	What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement? My social skills are generally alright, I think, but I have pretty low self-esteem. Slowly trying to work my confidence up. Baby steps like you mentioned. I go through ups and downs, have experienced depression but the medication fucks with me and I can't afford therapy. Where there's a will there's a way though, and me today is in a much better place than me from last year, and there's an incredible difference from me 3 or 4 years ago. For some reason the one thing I can't seem to accept is the…	/r/seduction	25/10/12 10:14 PM
6	What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement? How do socially awkward people (like me) know what is within reason. One of my primary fears of approaching is being annoying...	/r/seduction	25/10/12 12:36 AM
3	The minute a girl shows interest in me I start acting Beta...help! I have a similar problem.	/r/seduction	20/10/12 11:58 PM
2	Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girls By pointing it out, you become one of them. You don't go up to a cop and say "I'm not a criminal". Just don't do criminal things and they won't think you're one.	/r/seduction	02/07/12 10:42 PM
1	[FR] Fun times at a gay wedding, lots of k-closes and how NOT to f-close Gay guys have it so much easier than we do, they can be as direct as they want and not have to worry about it. I would disagree with this. The worst thing that'll happen to a guy who hits on a girl is he'll get rejected in a really embarassing way. The worst thing that can happen to a guy who hits on the wrong guy is legitimately getting beaten to death. Otherwise though, sounds like an awesome night!	/r/seduction	30/06/12 01:58 AM
4	So any failure stories out there? Is it just me or is it weird that she wasn't wearing her ring in the first place?	/r/seduction	15/06/12 11:45 PM
5	PSA for the Mr. Nice Guy out there It is ridiculous to artificially make people wait like that, I agree. I've had good results simply texting people or responding to them when I have time. If that means right away, or fifteen minutes from now, or an hour or two from now...whatever. Don't drop everything you're doing to reply, but at the same time don't make them wait longer than is necessary. Also, I find when people wait too long to respond, say more than a day, I totally lose interest. If you're trying to convince me that it to…	/r/seduction	13/06/12 10:23 PM
2	20 Things I Should Have Known at 20 No you're absolutely right. Introverted people can easily be very social and comfortable in social situations, they just also need time alone to "recharge", as you put it. Social anxiety disorder is more akin to being shy/awkward/avoiding social contact. Essentially, introverted people enjoy being alone, sometimes more than being with other people (not because they're awkward, it's just a personality preference). Social anxiety sufferers are afraid of and avoid social situations even if they wan…	/r/seduction	01/06/12 07:23 PM
2	Girl here. Guys rarely approach me. Seddit, why do you choose the girls you choose? I smile at girls and don't get smiled back at all the time. You begin to realize it's their problem, not yours.	/r/seduction	20/05/12 07:18 PM
126	Girl here. Guys rarely approach me. Seddit, why do you choose the girls you choose? Exactly. If we make eye contact and you don't smile, I'm going to assume you don't want to be bothered.	/r/seduction	19/05/12 11:50 PM
49	104 Ways To Break The Ice But...the philosophy is that the opener doesn't matter.	/r/seduction	16/02/12 04:49 PM
1	TIL Oneitus has actually been researched and studied by psychologists. It's called "Limerence." Thanks man, I'll give it a shot.	/r/seduction	10/09/11 04:28 AM
1	TIL Oneitus has actually been researched and studied by psychologists. It's called "Limerence." I am the opposite. Boring, meaningless, and pointless are too familiar of words. Working on it though.	/r/seduction	09/09/11 07:29 AM
3	TIL Oneitus has actually been researched and studied by psychologists. It's called "Limerence." How do you get out of it once you're in it?	/r/seduction	08/09/11 06:18 PM
3	Need a witty comeback for when a girl playfully says "Don't tell me what to do!" Don't tell me what I can't do.	/r/seduction	12/04/11 01:12 AM
1	[FR] Stop masturbating if you want to get laid, a mini-FR Aren't you worried about getting too worked up and that actually making skills with women worse? It seems like letting it build up like that might increase your desire to go out and meet people but it might make you come off as more desperate and less likely to actually get laid. As with anything there's a healthy middle ground, it doesn't have to be a choice between fapping 4 times a day or never doing it.	/r/seduction	22/03/11 05:36 AM
0	Nice Guys can get girls. Douchebags get more. I don't know about that. By being an asshole I don't think other people will suddenly think about how lucky they are that you're not being mean to them, they'll just think that you're an asshole just like the people you're degrading because you don't "approve". A big part of game is building social proof right? If you've got half the group that you don't approve of thinking you're an asshole they aren't going to respect you and your overall social standing will fall, making you less attractive t…	/r/seduction	09/03/11 01:34 AM
3	Not exactly an [FR] insane conversation with my former "one." That would have to be one hell of a blowjob.	/r/seduction	02/03/11 02:24 AM
-1	What Women Have to Say About Guys I don't know about that, strikers score on a very small percentage of shots that they take. The keeper saves most of the shots that come his way (well, at least in hockey, not sure how save percentages are in soccer). To extend the metaphor, I think I'd rather take shooting advice from the guy saving most of my shots than the guy who scores 1 out of 10 times. (Ninja edit typo)	/r/seduction	28/01/11 07:04 AM
2	X-post from when I was giving someone advice on how to deal with apathy. I feel like a lot of what I talk about is derived from what I've read here, mixed in with some personal philosophies. Thoughts? I don't know if I would call it being a better person. There's nothing wrong with liking to be alone.	/r/seduction	20/11/10 02:44 AM
-6	Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD] Try tactics that aren't deceptive to find a girl who isn't as shallow as you are and do something meaningful for the first time in your life. The best thing about this post. Thanks for saying it. I laugh at people who think that pick up techniques work. They only work because the girls you're using them on are so easy that they'd have slept with you regardless of what you said. You're getting a shallow encounter and you're just as much a notch on her bedpost as she is on yours. If that's what yo…	/r/seduction	24/10/10 11:56 PM