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Haha
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:29 PM
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We're talking about thousands of dollars that could feed our kids for months. It just won't wash.
/r/askMRP25/01/17 09:27 PM
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I can't justify this.
/r/askMRP24/01/17 03:47 PM
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It's to do with the rental income. If that goes into my name, on top of my income from work it puts me into the top tax bracket, whereas she doesn't earn as a stay at home mum so if it goes to her then we avoid around 40% being taxed, of both the rental income AND my salary. We'd be far worse off if they were in my name/joint.
/r/askMRP24/01/17 03:46 PM
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Yes I am.
/r/askMRP24/01/17 03:44 PM
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I actually thank you for your advice because I have friends who have gone through a similar 'shitstorm' and the west is the thought of another man bringing up my kids - that is unbearable and what generally stops me doing this every day. In addition to this I live in a small town and see my wife's friends out and about - it only takes one to see me/overhear me and that's game over. I'm constantly wrestling between my desire to be an exemplary father and my desire to fuck other women before I'm t…
/r/askMRP24/01/17 03:42 PM
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I did do exactly what you suggested (just didn't write it down). She was into me but I couldn't give her plausible deniability - I'm not sure any even exists for that kind of scenario...?
/r/askMRP24/01/17 03:37 PM
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You've nailed it with your last sentence. Having thought about this, perhaps I should have continued to agree verbally "yes this is really bad etc" whilst still physically passing the phone to her. Because there is no doubt she was horny and into me. The problem is saying you're married suddenly makes you a fucking creep in many many girls' eyes, especially if they're single. And I have kids. Why would a married man with kids be randomly approaching women in a store? Unless you start saying that…
/r/askMRP24/01/17 03:34 PM
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It's all about having the balls to approach, over all else. Let me give you a real world example. I was in London one day last summer and I walked past a girl on a bench. She was young (I'm 34, she was 20) she was wearing a tight black crop top which hugged her pert tits and those short denim shorts around her perfect ass - she was an 8/10. I would have walked past except I saw her give me a double glance and I had some time to kill so I just went for it - can't even remember what I said but it …
/r/seduction20/01/17 08:05 AM
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UPDATE: So in an effort to get the spark back I took her to a hotel last 2 days without the kids and it was amazing - we got on so well & f*cked like rabbits. Just like the old days. However... We got back in time for the school run. I said that I would come with her as I wanted to see the kids (normally I'd be at work). First was 'you don't have to come', I said I wanted to. Then as we were about to leave 'oh I forgot you were coming'. I didn't respond to this, just got in the car. We arrive. S…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/16 04:24 PM
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He could find out and then proceed to destroy my marriage in about 2 mins, losing me my home and family
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 11:19 AM
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Thanks. It's not that she's attracted to a guy. For instance i know she's attracted to Brad Pitt. It's that my belief is yesterday she deliberately made a beeline for a guy she's attracted to, in order to talk to him in a more private location. God knows what goes on when I'm not there. For all I know they could have been whispering sweet nothings in the school playground for months and I have absolutely no idea. I noticed quite a few glances from other mums yesterday - either they are attracted…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 07:51 AM
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This is the crux of the problem - I can't keep my eyes and ears open as I don't usually see their interactions on the school run (I'm at work).
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 07:46 AM
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Not sure he's done much wrong except fancying her & talking to her. It was my wife who went after him yesterday, not the other way around. Funny because up to then she had hardy paid him any attention.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 07:44 AM
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I'm not an insecure faggot. Would love to tease her about it but surely the moment has now passed? How can I bring this up out of the blue without it appearing to have been on my mind (and hence appearing butthurt) for a long time?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 07:41 AM
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All well and good saying "if she cheats it's over", but the problem is I work late most days so I'm not there to see what goes on on school runs, at kids parties etc. My biggest fear is not her cheating. It's her cheating and me not knowing about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 07:40 AM
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I was that guy in the group, when I was there. The problem is I no longer work from home so I'm not there very often at all. The guy is in better shape than me due to his army training, however I dwarf him for height. My problem is I've been told I can't lift due to high blood pressure during exercise - fuck me, 'lift' is about the only advice thrown around on here by many people. I have no problem attracting other girls either. I think the problem has been caused by 'missing out' syndrome, we a…
/r/askMRP19/11/16 09:33 AM
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UPDATE: I went upstairs straight after writing this post. We had a 20 min chat about this stuff, how for her our intimacy has to lead to a natural progression to sex rather than her feeling under pressure like it's an obligation every time we get intimate. She struggled to explain her feelings, just that she couldn't help feeling like that sometimes. Using my limited experience of MTRP techniques I said that I need more sex than we're having. I said it's frustrating that I'm at a stage in my lif…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 07:53 AM
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That's a great idea, but she would have to tell her bf about meeting me (otherwise she's being dishonest/cheating behind his back) & he would simply not allow it due to what's happened previously.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 06:23 PM
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Thanks for the advice (and everyone else), much appreciated. Isn't there a paradox here - because to meet me outside of work, if we no longer work together - she would not have plausible deniability for that, there is no plausible reason why she would ever be able to contact me or agree to a meeting. Surely at some point a line must be crossed and she has to take responsibility for her actions?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 05:50 PM
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I didn't accuse her of flirting I just alluded to it's existence between us, which she then denied. I brushed that off as if it was no big deal and reiterated that she had done nothing wrong, that it was all me (plausible deniability). The reason for the 'confrontation' (it was more of a chat that I instigated) was because there's a chance we won't be working together for much longer & I don't want to suddenly lose contact without having got things out in the open - otherwise it would eat away a…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 04:59 PM
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Yeah I completely agree with you. It's nice to know that I'm the only guy she's been with but think this may give her more impetus to want to stray down the line?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 07:31 PM
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My anti-divorce stance is because I do not want another guy around my children. It's for me not her. I also love my kids absolutely and I guess it's a choice between give them a stable home/upbringing (so long as she doesn't stray) or go and do what my biology tells me to do on a daily basis.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 07:28 PM
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Surely collecting numbers is cheating, if I'm going to do that I might aswell fuck them as her reactions gonna be similar if she finds out.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 07:26 PM
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No bullshit at all. She's pretty much the only one bar a couple others when I was around 17-18. why do I suddenly care? Because I became frustrated, and as a result found this site. Since then my mind has been blown. I must have committed every blue pill mistake ever made before I found this. And since I've learnt stuff on here, the female attention has become more noticeable. It was always there but now even more so.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 07:25 PM
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agreed but I can't control how my body feels. I think as men this is natural.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 07:18 PM
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I think you're right, this is where the line must be drawn but it's tough when we are hard-wired to do just that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 07:17 PM
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She was a virgin.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 07:16 PM
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I can't lift for medical reasons
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 07:15 PM
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When I say it's not an option, I'm talking about me not her. I do not want 1) to give my kids a broken home and 2) the thought of another guy bringing up my kids in my house makes me feel sick.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 07:14 PM
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You're asking for numbers whilst married? That's crossing a bit of a line from passive to active is it not?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 07:11 PM
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I can't for medical reasons - high blood pressure & also back problems. Have checked with specialists
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 07:10 PM
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I'm 6'4 but very slim, almost skinny - no muscles on my arms as I have never lifted in my life. Face is ok I guess, still got my hair & it's not grey yet. I was dressed pretty well in shirt/jeans but I wouldn't say my game is good especially when sober. Although I think what I have learned here must have helped immensely. Either that or it was a complete fluke.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 06:44 PM
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'Think less act more' has hit the nail on the head. I had an experience in London the other day that I will never forget. Before I tell it I need to say that I am 35, have been told I'm a 7-8/10 looks wise, however never approached a girl in the day before due to the fact I used to be married since I was young. I don't know if what happened was the magic of TRP or just a complete fluke. I only found out about TRP about a month ago but I've read a fair bit. So I was near the London Eye a couple w…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 07:41 PM
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