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Maturion/r/seduction13/09/17 02:38 PM
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She is either shy or not that interested. I don't know how long the two of you have been texting, but if it's only for a short amount time, you could still try to "create" some interest in her. As a side note, don't engage in endless texting sessions with girls. The ultimate goal of texting game should always be to arrange a meeting. This is where her opinion of you is shaped.
/r/seduction01/02/18 02:53 PM
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Ask them a few questions, about what they like, do, work, etc. Try to relate to what she said, use jokes and banter, and then go for her number.
/r/seduction01/02/18 02:46 PM
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I'm German, and I met a couple of girls wearing a Hijab at university. I don't know why, but when I see a girl wearing a Hijab, I usually assume she's not interested in dating non-Muslim men and doesn't want me to approach her. So, well, I guess you'll have to actively approach guys most of the time.
/r/seduction01/02/18 02:41 PM
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First of all, keep the level of commitment at balance. If she texts you back after 12 hours, don't answer her within five minutes. If she's texting back only short answers to your questions and never asks you back anything, end conversation for the moment. Don't text or call her when you have nothing important to say. Try to set up a date as soon as possible. When you meet her personally, avoid uninteresting small talk such as "How was your day?" and try to dive into more interesting topics. Ban…
/r/seduction28/01/18 05:20 PM
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Just go for it. Since you work with her, try to keep it a bit more casual/less obviously romantic than you'd normally do (except if you're really sure she's into you). I'm sure there are moments when you're alone with her, so you can ask her without the fear of getting publicly rejected. And most importantly: If she turns you down, just accept it. Don't make a big deal out of it. Change topics with her, take it lightly, don't try to persuade her if she doesn't want to. Just stop considering to d…
/r/seduction28/01/18 05:03 PM
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Nobody can get bed any woman. Sometimes it will just not work, no matter how attractive you are, no matter how good your game is. However, it is possible to make her change her mind about you, to create attraction that wasn't initially there. But this will never work on every woman. A guy that has "5 in 5" is very likely to only ask out/date/bed women that he - consciously or not - preselected. You often have an intuitive feeling you won't be compatible with a certain person. I don't try to date…
/r/seduction24/01/18 05:54 PM
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Conversation skills can be improved and learned. One of the most important things you should ask yourself: Am I an interesting talker? If I was a stranger, would I like to have this conversation myself? Am I saying only boring things? If you think it's not good, try improving those skills. You can really learn being an interesting conversationist. Another thing is picking the right moment and venue to talk to a girl. They might be in a hurry, they might feel uncomfortable in that exact location …
/r/seduction22/01/18 12:57 PM
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Very shitty by move her. This wasn't an emergency situation where she just couldn't meet you. She preferred having a drink with other people instead of meeting you. She decided it's not even necessary to let you know and cancel things. And then she didn't even apologize or explain herself the next day? Honestly, that is very rude and indicates a lack of both interest and manners from her. Tell her you want your wallet and then do yourself a favor and move on.
/r/seduction21/01/18 06:16 PM
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The whole nice guy thing is ridiculous. No girl will reject you simply because you are nice. Most "typical nice guys" simply fail to make a move at the right time and continue to be an asexual worshipper/friend of her. If ever, they make an inappropriate move at the wrong time, such as confessing their love after being an asexual friend for 6 months. Most of these guys aren't even particularly nice, they only interpret their asexual behavior as niceness.
/r/seduction21/01/18 02:45 PM
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I had invited some old friends of mine that evening, had some beers together and played video games at my place. After some time, we were running out of beer, so I decided to buy some more beer at a shop next door. On my way back, I saw a cute girl in the stairways, she apparently lived in the same building. I thought about talking to her, but then again, I was visibly drunk, sweaty, wearing tracksuit pants and was carrying two six-packs of beer. Well, I did approach her anyway. And it fucking w…
/r/seduction17/01/18 02:00 PM
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I think the friend zone does exist , but there are many misconceptions about it. It's not like a man, who is otherwise successful with girls, will fall into the sexless friend zone with only one or two particular girls, but besides that is getting laid all the time. It's always the same guys that are getting friend zoned. I've seen guys having sex with female friends they have known for years while others complained about being friendzoned after the first date. Being the nice guy that is getting…
/r/seduction28/09/17 07:39 AM
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Being attractive is not enough. In fact, even if you aren't attractive you can compensate more than enough for that with your personality and "skills". Having success with women depends, to a large degree, on knowing when to say and do the right things. Some men have these skills "intuitively", but many haven't and will have to learn them. If you never go on dates, your first date probably won't go too well. After your 5th or 6th date with different persons, you will be doing much better. Lookin…
/r/seduction28/09/17 07:20 AM
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From my own experience, you can't really get friendzoned after one single date. Even if you came across as shy or not sexual. One date is simply not enough time for her to friendzone you.
/r/seduction30/08/17 07:06 AM
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This is quite common I think. When you're not really interested in a woman, you have nothing to lose, you're ready to make bold moves, have an abundance mentality, etc. Whereas when you're interested, you're afraid to come on as too strong, you don't make a strong move, etc.
/r/seduction29/08/17 09:35 PM
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I've had girls asking me for help or advice when it was clear they didn't need any of it and they quickly switched the topic after starting conversation. Found that kinda cute.
/r/seduction02/08/17 09:16 AM
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I've had girls answer after saying this, but this really only happened when I didn't care about them not answering.
/r/seduction31/07/17 02:35 PM
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A friend of mine once took a girl to a bar and they were sitting alone in the corner, when some really big and musculous guy came and started hitting on her. The other guy acted out aggressive towards him but my friend kept talking and talking to him in a friendly way, until the stranger was getting relaxed, was high-fiving him and finally went away. Now that is a cool way to deal with that situation, getting aggressive is a sign of insecurity.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:58 PM
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When she said she was with that guy, you should have gone away and say goodbye. That way his aggressive behaviour would have completely backfired on him while you could have come out as the winner of this situation.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:48 PM
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Don't set yourself a deadline. Changing yourself will take its time, but you've already done the most important thing: realizing you have to change. Tinder and nightclubs are superficial ways to get to know people. You only have a few minutes (or in case of Tinder, only a few pictures) to make an impression. So if you're a naturally shy / reserved person or don't immediately look hot on pictures, it's hard. Even harder without a wing. I suggest to casually bring more women into your life. Not ne…
/r/seduction30/07/17 02:38 PM
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Really sounds like lack of confidence / inability to have an interesting conversation. Also if you're still rather shuy, bars or clubs aren't that good IMHO. There's plenty of male competition, it's often too loud to really talk and it's quite superficial.
/r/seduction30/07/17 08:24 AM
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It's most likely your attitude/personality. You seem to lack confidence/a positive vibe and probably aren't good at maintaining an interesting conversation. However this can be easily learnt and practised, so no worries. There's plenty of stuff about this on the internet. How are your conversations with male friends? You can start to become more interesting there. Also I suggest to enlarge your social circle and get some female friends into it. That way you will meet more women and get more used…
/r/seduction30/07/17 08:19 AM
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Continuing to meet her is the WORST you can do. I used to have a severe case of oneitis on a girl from University. Went to a couple of dates with her, after which it became clear we don't match. I continued to regularly meet her on a friendly base for almost two years, because I thought we should at least still be friends. Every single meet-up with her was self-sabotaging, depressing and preventing me from moving om. Only after I drastically reduced contact and completely stopped meeting her, I …
/r/seduction29/07/17 12:59 PM
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Do you frequently go out? What about your extended social circle? Are there no males in it? Do you have hobbies that are popular among guys? Oh and by the way, it isn't so weird to just randomly talk to a guy at a random place. Met my ex-girlfriend while I was walking to university. It all depends on how you do it. :)
/r/seduction24/07/17 02:25 PM
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Getting a like really isn't that much of a big thing. Yeah, women judge men more harshly than vice versa, but still there are way more men than the top 20% alphas that are getting likes on Tinder. Even of the most ugly (and beta) guys I know got some of them. Being an Alpha has a lot to do with your personality, confidence and attitude. Even if you're some good looking eye-catcher getting countless of matches on Tinder ,you can be beta as fuck.
/r/seduction23/07/17 09:54 PM
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What? Well, I'm not from the US, I'm from Germany, but I once dated a Mexican. Found her accent sexy as hell, and all of my friends who met her agreed with that. But then again, I have no clue how a Mexican accent is perceived in the US.
/r/seduction23/07/17 05:37 PM
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No. Getting a like on Tinder basically means someone found you to be looking at least ok. And that's it. Even if you get a lot of likes, you could still be boring and clueless and never get laid because you don't know how to move forward.
/r/seduction23/07/17 04:01 PM
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So if you're asking them questions or try getting them to talk about themselves, what questions do you actually ask? Would be interesting to know.
/r/seduction23/07/17 10:12 AM
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You sound like me some years ago. I didn't get laid until 23 and I was really depressed about that. I mean, my looks were ok, I had a large social circle, did well at university, and I knew how to lead an interesting conversation. I was getting a decent amount of matches on Tinder even. Still zero success with women. Absolutely nobody in my social circle expected me to be a virgin (and I never told them). So, shortly after I turned 23, I asked myself why I wasn't getting laid. And I realised tha…
/r/seduction18/06/17 10:35 PM
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I think this really depends on the situation and the way they told you to leave. If some girl rejects me at a bar/club in a very unfriendly way or is reacting very rude before you could really start talking to her, I usually just go away. Best thing you can say here is stuff like "Allright, have a nice evening then" and that's it. You just don't click with some people and if that's the case, trying to force a conversation on them won't change that. You'll be wasting your time, it will most likey…
/r/seduction17/06/17 04:57 PM
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Next, I had my worst interaction all night. I approached a group of 3 Asian girls and two of them told me to leave. I got in their face and said, “Or what? What are you going to do?” and one of them shoved me in the face. I could see them getting really pissed off and they started yelling at me, so I ejected before security came. Seriously, this is very bad. When they tell you to leave, leave. If you really think this is a shit test and they don't actually want you to go away, then say something…
/r/seduction17/06/17 09:58 AM
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I once did exactly this - going on dates with my oneitis. Back then, she was the only girl I was seeing at the time and I didn't have much experience. It was her who asked me out. Nonetheless, I totally fucked up. I didn't escalate because I feared going too far would destroy our relationship. Really, you need an abundance mentality. Get yourself some other options. You need to remove the pressure from yourself.
/r/seduction12/06/17 11:27 PM
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I stumbled across that site three years ago, when I had a crush on one specific girl and wanted to get into a relationship with her. Of course I was an idiot back then and messed it all up, but I became a lot better afterwards. GirlsChase has some great advice that's really worth reading and I can't stress how much it helped when I was a beginner. That site, along with a few other sources, really kick-started my dating life.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 03:33 AM
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If you took the second girl to an art show, meaning you have asked her out and she agreed to it, then that's already a very strong IOI. But I agree that it's better not to try hard to kiss at the end of the date, if you haven't properly escalated before. Would make all look very strange and puts high pressure on both of you. It's better to arrange a second date and make your moves then. Not kissing or not really escalating at the first date is perfectly ok, it only becomes awkward after the seco…
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