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| 2 | Tinder is a MASSIVE waste of timeyup explains the hate OP is getting lol | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Tinder is a MASSIVE waste of timeI don't want to live in whatever world you do | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 02:47 AM |
| 4 | Tinder is a MASSIVE waste of timepick up artist | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 02:36 AM |
| 3 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your place16.8 is perfectly healthy lol | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many girls say they love Trader Joe's in their dating profiles?I'd like Trader Joe's a lot more if their packaging wasn't so fucking wasteful | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Not anymore, I'm not! I gave up. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Does smoking weed get you laid?No because I become an absolute fucking catatonic idiot when stoned | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 10:10 PM |
| 4 | Having a female best friend is undoubtedly one of the reasons I have success with other girls.I've had a lot of really good female friends, still suck at dating | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 12:31 AM |
| 2 | I hate dating as a manWhat I mean is that there are a great deal of things that I like about myself - I'm tall, strong, smart, mildly attractive; gifted in music and languages; I can speak and make friends with pretty much anyone... but I live a life of sloth and squalor. I don't know how to go out and exist in the real world. I hate all the decisions I've made and have reached a point where I try to make as few decisions as possible because they always turn out bad. Everything revolves around getting back in my room… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | I hate dating as a manI like myself, I don't like how I live life | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 12:34 AM |
| 21 | I hate dating as a manThat's just being alone with extra steps | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 08:22 PM |
| 4 | For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you thinkAlways gonna be that guy in the comments when Obama's name comes up... Guess what bud he wasn't the only one and he didn't start that shit in the first place | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 06:10 AM |
| 1 | would you rather have sex with one girl for life or will you keep having sex with different girlsGoin on 8 years here bruv | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 06:39 AM |
| 5 | Is there a sub like this from women?learn how to get close to a specific guy who doesn't look at us Now imagine if that was literally every person of the opposite gender | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Is there a sub like this from women?Is that... necessary? | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 07:04 PM |
| 4 | A lot of your dating problems will be solved if you just knew how to actually flirtOh I've got way more problems than flirting | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingLmaoooooo | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | How to handle girls shoving their ass into me at the clubYou poor thing lol | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Learn to play an instrument or join a band and it is guaranteed you’ll get laidI've been playing guitar for 27 years and it's not gotten me laid once, I'm pretty damn good too | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Why when you hit on a bit older lady, she askes about what you do for a living right off the bat, while younger girls don't care that much?Just an adult thing. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Recent Approach Story at the Pool....Curious what your take isLol maybe but it's a line from Letterkenny | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Recent Approach Story at the Pool....Curious what your take isDamn, girl, you shit with that ass? | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 11:49 PM |
| 3 | My Thoughts After 15 ApproachesThis writing style is so fucking annoying | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 06:40 PM |
| 24 | Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general?Not just women | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | She told me "if I accept for a last drink at your place, you will fuck me"Yes and be sure to present her with the clipboard of sexual consent forms upon arrival at your abode | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Be extremely attractive. That's about it. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidLike obviously people date everywhere though so what the fuck is wrong with me | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 10:40 PM |
| 0 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidSure, but they probably shouldn't be things where the goal is to initiate close contact and exchange bodily fluids with another person lol | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 12:33 AM |
| 18 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidYeah, all these posts say 'just get out there' like there are actually places to go lol. Okay, I step outside my door, I'm in a commercialized hellscape, where is this mythical land of available women | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 8 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidNever a better time? We're in the middle of one of the worst waves of the pandemic so far my dude | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 06:04 PM |
| 57 | Every first date that ended with a kiss on the cheek/forehead has wen to a 2nd date. 100 percent of the timeOP edits out the covid safety part after getting dumpstered for it lmao | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 07:24 PM |
| 4 | I'm almost 17 and never had a girlfriend. Sick of the "it'll happen eventually" stuff, so I'm going to make it happen.Because nothing I do ever brings me joy, success, love, contentment, or fulfillment. I think every decision I make is the wrong one. Been fighting depression all my life and I've just resigned myself to it at this point. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 11:59 PM |
| 3 | I'm almost 17 and never had a girlfriend. Sick of the "it'll happen eventually" stuff, so I'm going to make it happen.Is it worth reading if you are extremely cynical and jaded | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?Zeeeeerow | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 07:55 AM |
| 10 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…Lol my little brother fathered a damn child and I haven't gotten laid since Obama was president | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone using machine learning to identify fat chicks?Science has definitely gone too far | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Approach Us!!!no u | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 12:45 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Do we have to teach you how to shoot fish in barrels, too? | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 12:44 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Welcome to the world of being an average dude, lol | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 03:08 AM |
| 2 | How do I avoid boyfriend vibes?Have you tried being ugly and awkward | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 08:07 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]i just stopped trying altogether | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 10:54 PM |
| 25 | Do small women even like small guys?6'5" here, some girls literally aren't in my field of vision | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are virgins?I just don't meet interesting women in my daily life. Also been struggling with depression and low self esteem for a long time. I've become a big homebody. | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are virgins?No, boned a lot in my early years, but I'm on a long dry streak and struggling with adult dating | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Welp, i finally stepped out of my "master of domain" cave and got some digitsSuper easy when you're at university with tons of available women your age concentrated in one place. | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you.I don't understand why babes aren't digging my Factorio addiction | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 05:11 PM |
| -1 | Masturbation addiction is a serious libido killer. It leaves me unmotivated to approach.I never see any women I want to approach, so I just keep crankin' it. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Is online dating a waste of time for guys?I have as much success with online dating as I do with offline. None. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 96 | What I’ve learned from dating apps as a Male.857 matches in 4 months, you must be sexy as fuck | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 10:52 PM |
| 6 | Stop Being Ashamed of Your MasculinityYou have such a flawed understanding of what "toxic masculinity" is, you should probably delete this post. | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 08:11 PM |
| 1 | An unusual story and what I've learned about attraction and confidenceI stopped trying hard a long time ago, drier than a desert over here. | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 01:28 AM |
| 9 | Girls wont reply on Insta but in person there was lots of chemistry. What the hell..Instagram sucks, lol, who cares. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 06:43 PM |
| 10 | Your clothes play a huge role in seducing women!Lol it's either just the basic bastard or "Who the hell would actually wear this" over there | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 10:59 PM |
| 44 | A funny interaction I had with a guy at my gymYeah I think he won | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 04:23 AM |
| 2 | PostureIt's not that bad I'm just very depressed | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 10:36 PM |
| 2 | PostureMaybe it would if it didn't make my ugly and awkward face stick up out of the crowd | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | PostureBeing tall isn't the superpower you think it is lol | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 09:49 PM |
| 2 | PostureNow, at 6'5", I just need to find girls that I don't need to slouch over to talk to | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 07:44 PM |
| 2 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityThey're always angry | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 10:56 PM |
| 9 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityHaving lived abroad and moved back to the US, it's more true than you think | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Shooting Your Shot To Someone In Their Work Place?Because they are there to do their job, not flirt with you. They are not be able to respond how they want when they are in 'work mode'. It's not fair to them. If anything, just slip them your number. Just don't put them on the spot, because they need to remain professional. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 04:09 PM |
| -1 | Shooting Your Shot To Someone In Their Work Place?One doesn't. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 03:58 PM |
| 0 | To me, it feels like I can only approach a girl if we meet in a place where that's "socially acceptable", be it at a bar, work or school. How do you approach a girl who's just trying to mind her own business that you met at some random coffee shop?I have literally never seen it happen but people on here talk about it all the time, lol. | /r/seduction | 01/06/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | You're really going to let what OTHER PEOPLE think of you matter more than what YOU think of you?Well, I don't think much of myself either. | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | The only opener you'll ever needYou're lashing out because I said your idea was bad. You are insecure. Grow up. | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 08:25 PM |
| 2 | The only opener you'll ever needYou seem pretty insecure, man, that's not attractive Take a hint from everyone in this thread and get over yourself | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 08:20 PM |
| 3 | The only opener you'll ever needRight lol. The second someone pushes back on his idea he flies off the handle calling everyone pussy ass losers. That doesn't speak to a confident personality. | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 08:04 PM |
| 3 | The only opener you'll ever needYou're making a fool of yourself my man Just like you would if you actually tried this lol | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 07:54 PM |
| 13 | The only opener you'll ever needYou don't seem like a very socially competent guy | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 07:45 PM |
| 7 | The only opener you'll ever needI think you need to go back to the drawing board, bud. | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 07:43 PM |
| 21 | The only opener you'll ever needConfident cool guys don't need silly techniques. | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 07:36 PM |
| 21 | The only opener you'll ever needNot really. Relying on plays like this is silly. Just introduce yourself like a normal person and you won't get the "Um, who even are you, dude?" responses that this is likely to get. | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 07:34 PM |
| 67 | The only opener you'll ever need...With random people? Seems desperate | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 07:32 PM |
| 2 | How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups?Thanks! | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 02:06 AM |
| 6 | How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups?I graduated in 2011, a thousand years ago | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 11:14 PM |
| 7 | How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups?College lol I don't know either. | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 11:09 PM |
| 12 | How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups?I wish. I try to watch my calories but it doesn't matter. I did 16:8 fasting all last week, trying to keep it as low as possible and inflating calorie counts... and gained a few pounds. I also kinda gave up because even after sleeping with lots of women I never had a relationship. | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 10:59 PM |
| 33 | How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups?Fatter, more depressed, and self-esteem went to the gutter. Career is okay. | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 10:56 PM |
| 40 | How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups?18-24 with a year gap in there, probably slept with like 30 women. Absolutely nothing since then and I'm turning 33 tomorrow | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 10:09 PM |
| 1 | What behaviors or habits scream low self-esteem?I avoid mirrors because they are the best way to instantly destroy any good feelings I had | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | The odds of you being born were nearly 1 in 400 Trillion. The fact the you exist is virtually impossible.If it wasn't that one, it would have been another one, and that person would be saying "wow how crazy it is that my sperm was the one who made it" and I wouldn't be around to think about this | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 10:09 PM |
| 1 | The odds of you being born were nearly 1 in 400 Trillion. The fact the you exist is virtually impossible.That's just half of the genetic material to form an embryo, not a person. | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | The odds of you being born were nearly 1 in 400 Trillion. The fact the you exist is virtually impossible.But the coin has to exist in the first place to be flipped. If I didn't exist, I wouldn't be able to say "Wow how crazy is it that I exist" | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How can I date if I’m so awkward?If you have a good amount of them and just live your life they'll try and get you laid. I've had tons of non-sexual female friends for my entire life and not a single one has ever gotten me laid with one of her friends lol | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 08:22 PM |
| 0 | The odds of you being born were nearly 1 in 400 Trillion. The fact the you exist is virtually impossible.The odds of me being born and thinking about it are 100%. If they weren't, I wouldn't be around to think about it. | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 08:14 PM |
| 5 | How can I date if I’m so awkward?Meh, I'm nearly 33 now and this has been a consistent issue despite 2 decades of trying to fix it, I've given up, just felt like bitching, thanks for the advice tho | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 06:48 PM |
| 3 | How can I date if I’m so awkward?You don't get it. I never call myself awkward. I think I'm fine. But inevitably someone calls me awkward. Or I see a video of myself when I think I was doing great, and I look extremely awkward. I can't fix it. | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | How can I date if I’m so awkward?What if you've spent your life being told by others, unprompted, that you are awkward? And have also spent your life trying to break out of your comfort zone and not be? I've given up, at this point. Little old awkward me will just die alone. | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 06:17 PM |
| 2 | So, there's this girl in the place I work... Advice please!Heh, sorry, it's just a wall of text wondering about something that is nearly 110% of the time a horrible idea. | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 07:28 PM |
| 3 | So, there's this girl in the place I work... Advice please!Tl;dr but don't shit where you eat | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 07:02 PM |
| 37 | Does your game get rusty fast when you spend much time alone at home?That's my secret. I'm always rusty. | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Are you proud of yourself?no | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 08:03 PM |
| -1 | How to get people to be interested in my profile in dating app?Be attractive Don't be unattractive | /r/seduction | 29/10/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | The Real Reason You're Not Getting LaidThis speaks to me more than OPs post does. I feel ignored, unimportant, and extraneous. I don't feel like a real person. Why would I go out and approach when I don't even know what to do with myself, much less with someone else? | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 05:23 PM |
| 21 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!Yeah I give up | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 09:47 PM |
| 7 | Eye contact! How funny!Inability to appropriately react to normal everyday circumstances is why those blogs exist, lol | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 12:25 AM |
| 3 | I'm ready to be the girl who has game.Not always. Why should they be the one that always has to take initiative? Go out of your way sometimes. | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | I Deleted Tinder and Bumble.I used to get laid quite frequently but it's been dry as a desert for 3 years now. Just can't do it like I used to. | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 07:07 PM |
| 2 | I Deleted Tinder and Bumble.I got laid a lot in my 20s, now I'm 30 and it's dry as a fucking desert. Just salty is all. | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 07:07 PM |
| 15 | I Deleted Tinder and Bumble.I swipe on everyone that's interesting to me, not just spamming swipe or only the hot ones. Feels about as useless as going out as a thirsty single dude and trying to talk to women | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 04:00 PM |
| 33 | I Deleted Tinder and Bumble.Try swiping for days and weeks and getting zero matches. I don't get it, what's wrong with me | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 03:46 PM |
| 75 | Women need to ask men out more"You're like a brother to me" | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I talk about my job without sounding like a pretentious ass or boring?it's a booster Wait are we talking about rockets again? | /r/seduction | 15/02/17 12:27 AM |
| 1 | How to pull yourself out of depressionAbsolutely fantastic post. I've been pulling myself out of a mild but very chronic and long term depression and these same thoughts have definitely been on my mind. I would put this post on the level of the infamous "No Zero Days" post. You are going to help a great many people. Keep it up, you beautiful being, you! | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 01:25 AM |
| 9 | I just can't make myself do it.DONT LET YOUR MEMES MELT BEAMS | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 12:49 AM |
| 2 | How chess has helped my text gameMeh. I see your point, but I don't think it's really true. It's more about the content of your messages than the speed at which you respond. In fact, it puts me off more if someone takes forever to respond, as I think they're not as interested as I would like them to be. The only time I'll take a delay is to respond to the first message, and during lulls in the conversation. If you blow your load too fast the conversation can die quickly, but if you let it be at strategic points, you can draw a … | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 05:14 AM |
| 11 | Do ugly guys actually have any chances of scoring a girl in a nightclub?Looked through your profile, you're being way too hard on yourself, man. You're a good looking dude. Like I'd be jealous of you if I saw you talking to a girl that I was interested in because you're better looking. I hate nightclubs though and you probably won't score there anyway because the girls are all on full alert. | /r/seduction | 24/05/15 10:57 PM |
| 4 | I'm not who I want to beSo... wet and all over the place? :D | /r/seduction | 24/05/15 07:14 PM |
| 10 | Oneitis Buster for the Day, From a Very Wise Bartender.I'm sharing a drink called loneliness, but it's better than drinking alone! | /r/seduction | 17/09/14 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Stagnating in pleasant/conversational mode instead of escalating to intimacyPerhaps you should try to add in an unscripted creative endeavor between your work and your dates, to rid yourself of that mindset. Women are not machines to be programmed, so that is the wrong way to go about it. I don't know what creative hobbies you are into, but even meditating could help steer your brain away from the task based thinking and into a more free flowing thought pattern. | /r/seduction | 04/09/14 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm 25, my friends are gone and I now spend most of my time alone. I'm not liking this. What do I do?I don't know if this will help your stomach for the problem while drinking, but try adding some yeast to some yogurt before you go drink. The yeast will counteract the alcohol and make you not get drunk. I don't know if this will help with the upset tummy issue, though. | /r/seduction | 09/08/14 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble closing the number? Don't underestimate the power of Snapchat.This is about as bad as trying to finagle her last name out of here so you can FB-stalk her bikini photos later on. Just ask her for her number like a man and accept the outcome either way. | /r/seduction | 19/07/14 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Help with closing a nice girl on Day 3?Uhm, this is basically a slam dunk. Just look at her in the eyes for longer than 3 seconds, put a hand on her leg, smile, and fireworks | /r/seduction | 19/07/14 06:23 PM |
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