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| 4 | I Slept With 88 Women in a Year… Here’s Why Good Sex Doesn’t Keep Them AroundHelps if you have a place of your own. Lots of people are still living at home giving cost of living crisis. | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Your Appearance Isn't The ProblemSo you find the exception! 100% most men that are struggling are entitled and lazy. They expect women to flock to them with minimal effort. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Your Appearance Isn't The ProblemAt the same time , it’s not an excuse for not taking care of your appearance, which many who get involved in the PUA community don’t do. Many who get into PUA develop this weird mindset that it’s ok to look like shit, as long as you have a few techniques under your belt to pull women by chatting to them in a certain way. The reason why people are attracted to people who take pride in their appearance is because it shows that they take care of themselves. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 11:14 AM |
| -1 | Your Appearance Isn't The ProblemFrom experience, dating leagues is a myth. I went out with attractive and unattractive women alike. Common theme I saw with all, they had realistic expectations in guys but wanted one who looked after themselves. I.e. average shape. Not fat, not skinny. Looks are also highly subjective, there might be a Swedish model who finds a 5’3 Indian kid attractive out there. That Indian kid needs to put himself out there and meet people. When I was struggling to meet someone , it was because I wasn’t putt… | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Your Appearance Isn't The ProblemShe is completely right. My successes when dating usually came from a place of going on dates and not expecting anything in return. Rather, focusing on getting to know her. When you are NEEDY, it is not attractive. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Your Appearance Isn't The ProblemEven 15 years ago, looks was always a factor. That’s why back then, all the stereotypical guys in good shape often had no issue with getting girls. It’s just become more obvious now. The only time an average looking guy in shape does not get women is if he is outright socially awkward, that’s more of a confidence issue more than anything else. In which case, he should learn to speak to people. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Your Appearance Isn't The ProblemDisagree with this post. I started having much more success once I started working out and dressing well. Inner game alone won’t maximise your opportunities. I went from not getting second dates, where the first date often ended with ‘you are a nice guy but I didn’t feel any romantic chemistry’, to having 100+ dates and follow up dates after getting into better shape. I was even rejecting women during my 100+ date period. I now have a GF. It’s the biggest scam in the PUA community that looks do … | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 10:41 AM |
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