Mawi331 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
136	“So okay, I don’t want to be a traitor to my generation and all but…” It’s then when they start punching the doors 🙄 my ex punched every single door multiple times that didn’t have glass in it. Thankfully I’m out 😌	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 10:26 AM
3	as a WLW, this sub opened my eyes Maybe try “HER” :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/21 08:03 PM
2	They really just tell on themselves (translation in comments) The Goa scene here when it was still a thing was soooo full of “woke” lvm.. it’s extreme. I’ve seen so many old guys try to get younger girls by explaining the universe to them and just using them and act like it’s some spiritual tantric act	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/20 02:50 AM
1	Dating around after a breakup is not a substitute for therapy. No family and I do have friends fortunately but my closest non-pickme-friends where I feel comfortable spending the night live in another city where I already escaped for a few days but I need to be here to go apartment hunting. Also with COVID most Meetings are outside which is getting quite cold in Germany 🤧and I don’t want to invite anyone here anyway either... Thank you ❤️ it’ll work out somehow and what he told me yesterday will eventually make it easier for me to get through this.. even th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/20 05:16 PM
8	Dating around after a breakup is not a substitute for therapy. Thank you so much for this. I haven’t thought about dating at all but I broke up with him 3 weeks ago and we still sharing the same Appartement until I find a new place. It’s really rough... yesterday he told me he hated women before we got together which explains a lot... its just.. horrible :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/20 10:17 AM
3	Pandemic = level up time That sounds amazing! How has the Invisalign worked out so far? Is the comfort ok? I’m curious because I was contemplating getting it too :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/20 11:32 AM
6	Patterns don’t lie! Yeah currently feeling like that too.. it’s horrible	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 06:40 PM
25	Patterns don’t lie! I know don’t do it :( I was 19 didn’t have any family and had gotten youth support from the government until then until it had to end and I didn’t find an apartment. Still I look back and would advise everyone: don’t do it.. or if you moved in together and you sense something weird - get out immediately. And if you’re already in the situation like me try not to be hard on your past self and have empathy instead. It’s was a bad decision and it’s OK. I will be ok :/!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 03:18 PM
71	Patterns don’t lie! This is one of the reasons I broke up with my ex two weeks ago. We still live together and I’m desperately looking for a new place :( once I’m gone I’m finally gonna really be able to heal from all of the gaslighting and attacks. This stuff can drive you crazy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 01:01 PM
10	If Eve would have met FDS Wow.. Go Lilith!! Thank you for the explanation! :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 07:41 PM
26	If Eve would have met FDS No would someone elaborate? :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 12:33 PM
15	I can't imagine how this will go down 😂 Omg I just copied it and wanted to comment it too, because I was so shocked. What is happening????? It’s satisfying to clean out your boyfriends navel... I can’t anymore	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/20 06:03 PM
64	r/sex told an ABUSE SURVIVOR not to be scared of someone who wants to STRANGLE and HIT her 🤡🤡🤡 For real! I mean you may ask why stomping on the balls but quite frankly - sex is just odd like that! Just wrap your head around it and let people do what they want with you, no one cares about your trauma, get with it. Hope I could help :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/20 11:43 AM
1	Courtesy of my father’s Whatsapp forwarding. Arabic translation says “Every man’s dream.” My mother is a dark skinned black woman and my father is white. I am definitely not white passing but also not clearly associated to blackness to white people, mixed and a lot of black peoples see it. People here normally think I am from Brazil or North Africa where people can be darker naturally, but I’ve heard so many guesses. Ok so I definitely have not experienced what dark skinned women have had to experience. It’s really a complete fetishization. Dark skinned people, most of the times are …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/20 09:29 PM
8	Courtesy of my father’s Whatsapp forwarding. Arabic translation says “Every man’s dream.” This is what being mixed in Germany feels like. They fetishize the melanin and call you exotic or say they always wanted to date a brown woman or that exotic women are their type. They expect this to be a compliment too... Its really so common. It is sad :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/20 02:18 AM
1	FDS Moodboard for my fellow queens ❤ This is what we need! Not dragging a man behind yourself 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 01:00 PM
1	Where being a pick me will get you. Yes I understood it that way too. But it doesn't feel right. Like of course it's better to go masturbate next door than trying to convince her to have possibly lethal sex, when you're really SOOOOO horny the day your wife gave birth to your child... Both parents should be 100% focused on the newborn and since the woman is on bed rest, her partner should have her and the babies needs at the forefront of his mind. Instead the guy is obsessed with his libido and this guy recommends, that if "homebo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 04:34 PM
1	You shouldn't have to beg for respect. Never love a man who would disregard you like this. I understand the tendency to feel embarrassed about pricks from the past or even present. Sometimes I just feel so stupid for tolerating them and putting out so much energy. But it’s not your fault and you’re here and are realizing everything. It’s not our fault society is made to benefit them. All we can do is unlearn the BS and support each other and build our self esteem back. You got this now ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 04:08 PM
1	You shouldn't have to beg for respect. Never love a man who would disregard you like this. You’re not alone, me too. Like my chin just fell down because it was TOO relatable. I’d feel so crazy when this happens. Like are you fucking kidding me. In real life too I’d go on to explain why communication, trust and boundaries are important (explaining it like he wants to learn what he should’ve known from the start 🤡) and he’d just be silent and then say something like “...So you’re feeling sad..?” Like he literally was not capable of understanding words? So dissociated that he checks out?…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 04:04 PM
3	If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you! Amazing...”you’re not allowed”... now they believe they are God or what?! He basically wanted just the body like with rape or necrophilia... so vile. Poor younger you! My disgusting porn addicted narc ex who would say that it’s simply too much work to pleasure me too, then he’d literally pull the blanket over his head to watch porn on his phone and masturbate NEXT TO ME (🤮). This kind of bullshit really hurts your self esteem and self worth. Young women need to be taught their worth so they can …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 03:47 PM
8	If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you! Wow he was trying to gaslight you into thinking that’s the way it works. Like we’re little kids the men have to explain to how sex works because it’s supposed to benefit only them. When I tried talking about sex and pleasure for me with narc ex he told me “men don’t talk about sex”. Yeah right^ these are complete losers who just try to mask their extreme insecurity (didn’t work 😉)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 03:36 PM
7	If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you! WOW 🤩 you’re an absolute queen! And a role model for dealing with abusive POSs. Too many perverts were able to get away with groping me in public places and then running away when I was a teen. Next time it’s a full kick in the balls. And a comment here to make other ladies laugh and feel empowered just like you did with me 😊	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 03:27 PM
42	Where being a pick me will get you. The comment about the bottle of moisturizer rubbed me the wrong way. You’re concerned about him getting off?!? The woman gave birth to a human being, his libido should be the LEAST of his concerns! His wife should be on bed rest and he should be doing anything she and the baby needs. OF COURSE not pressuring her into sex which almost killed her but also not masturbating! What the fuck!These men are so disgusting and no woman deserves to go through this treatment, he almost killed her and left th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 03:13 PM
2	Struggle Love is NOT Normal Former therapist told me her friend will stay with a man only until he makes her cry more than 3 times total. If he makes her cry more than that she is gone, no matter what or where in the relationship. It shocked me back than as I was with an abusive narc who made me feel crazy basically everyday and who I let trample all over my life. But it’s so true. No matter what it’s not worth it, because true healthy relationships do not make you feel like this! They feel light, nurturing and stable and …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 12:50 PM
4	Struggle Love is NOT Normal It can be so frustrating talking to friends who see it like this🙄Like one girl trying to convince me to go to couples therapy over and over. I’m 23 for gods sake!!!! Why should I do this when I’ve been unhappy with him for more than a year?! Thankfully I found FDS when I was almost considering it. I didn’t want to but they made me feel like i didn’t put enough energy in and “relationships take work from both sides”. Yeah they do and most women have been doing the MOST all the while receiving dis…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 12:41 PM
1	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020 Thank you so much. It’s amazing to me how women here support each other. You are correct about the trauma bonding and I hadn’t even thought about the fact his healthy seeming friends and family felt like they were filling a void but it’s true. I remember telling a friend that I was really sad about losing these people if I end the relationship and the truth of the matter is that I don’t need him for friendly people, and Im able of living a good life without someone’s family too. I just felt incr…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 09:18 PM
3	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020 I know that but also know it takes a little to find an apartment or room that quickly because I live in Berlin, am a student with no rich family giving potential landlords security (even though I have the money) and due to current politics here there are way less apartments available than before. I will do everything to get one as soon as possible, just thought there could maybe be advice about keeping the stress at a minimum with him and in the apartment until I get out. While I do have friends…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/20 10:10 AM
4	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020 Basically I was on my way to become a forever depressed forever girlfriend of a LVM that I misread as an HVM due to him having nice friends and family and a lot of Charme (that is unfortunately rooted in insecurity... )I want to get out.FDS has helped me tremendously not only having the knowledge of my relationship exhausting me completely but I really deeply understand it now and realise that I want so much more for myself and will not go on tolerating any more BS.We live together and share a v…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/20 04:08 PM
18	I'm posting it here because i want women to see anf be aware of what porn really is, This came up in google while i wasn't even looking for porn So true. I remember I saw an interview once from vice with a guy who made hardcore anti feminist porn and he straight out said that he hated women, motivating him to make his disgusting movies where he basically verbally and physically abuses women	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/20 12:07 AM