MaxyRob Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
91	How not to give a F when kids are involved	MaxyRob	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 05:55 PM
11	DEER	MaxyRob	/r/askMRP	25/05/17 08:05 PM
4	Dealing with a dog	MaxyRob	/r/askMRP	15/05/17 05:06 AM
3	In laws	MaxyRob	/r/askMRP	28/02/17 07:52 PM
2	Attractive car	MaxyRob	/r/askTRP	29/04/21 03:46 AM
2	STFU and leaving without sulking	MaxyRob	/r/askMRP	15/05/17 05:18 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Attractive car Want a Porsche 911 but that’s about 12-16 months away. Old reliable finally gave out. Need something for a year.	/r/askTRP	29/04/21 10:41 AM
3	How not to give a F when kids are involved Lot of questions here. Short answer, find a side gig. If you’re procedural you use devices start talking to the company to consult. Start an LLC and get paid for consulting fees through your LLC. Then start doing medicolegal work. That’s the bare minimum. Then, I went real estate. With a high income I could easily afford to buy rental homes throughout the country. Start doing then you learn what works what doesn’t. Then you graduate to bigger properties syndications and within a few years you’re…	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/08/19 02:26 AM
-2	How not to give a F when kids are involved 0.5M yearly income. Those income studies are retarded. Live in commie california, >50% gone to taxes, leaves 250k left nanny down to 180k. Need a good place to live, 120k left Basic retirement accounts, 90k left Car payments, she drives a nice fucking car, 70k left That's less than 7k a month. Clothes, restaurants, shoes, and not including any meals, life expenses, etc. quickly dwindles that down to not enough. 105k a year? If that's the benchmark for "happy" you're dreaming too small. Can't e…	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/08/19 12:40 AM
4	How not to give a F when kids are involved Yes, I lift. Genetic propensity to be skinny so lift regularly for mass. Used to be rather jacked but developed kidney issues, so less supplements but still big enough to get compliments/notice. Half a million is not enough money, not by a long shot.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 11:33 PM
1	How not to give a F when kids are involved Interestingly, this is not far from how I approached it also with one major exception: The child If I could keep the child or if she said she would leave the child behind on her way out yes, I’d see the value or lack there of and move on. But with the child in play, it’s like the Mafia has gotten involved with my business and everything’s fucked.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 10:52 PM
3	How not to give a F when kids are involved Got it. Yes you are right. I have not had much success with meditation. However I have found going back to religion is somewhat helpful. Going to church used to be a 3x/yr event, now is monthly. I’m finding it is grounding and hope the effects continue to build with time.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 10:48 PM
3	How not to give a F when kids are involved The ending it all was after the divorce filing. Before that, hell no. Areas i could be failing: Need to fuck her more Need to make sure she cums more Need to do 12 levels of dread more consistently Outside of that, no. My wife comes from a family of high earners with no significant amassed wealth, ie terrible with money. Dollar in dollar spent. Putting the money in a trust to my kid protects against that. If I died today, the money would keep my kid set for half her life. If my life insurance po…	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 09:26 PM
2	How not to give a F when kids are involved Yeah that's crossed my mind too. Don't give a fuck if she is or isn't. Don't get me wrong, I did a deep dive to find out. Lack of evidence does NOT mean it's not happening. Maybe she is, I don't care. I just care about the kid.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 09:08 PM
1	How not to give a F when kids are involved The down side is, I could have lost the custody battle. But by not doing it I lost a lot away. If I had gone "all in" I wouldn't be ruminating my regrets to a stranger on the internet today. My best to you. What does this mean exactly, especially "but by not doing it". Did you wish you divorced it? I know you're responding to me but I put myself in your shoes, which I very well could be in, and think if my kids turned out great, would I have risked losing them to someone else? If they turned out…	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 09:07 PM
1	How not to give a F when kids are involved Agree. it's not more planning divorce, it's more not to live in fear of losing my kid if divorce is every month (period mood swings).	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 09:05 PM
1	How not to give a F when kids are involved "Documented way". Like lots of pictures? I can do that.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 09:04 PM
2	How not to give a F when kids are involved Agree, money doesn't concern me, it's the kid. I'm a better father than she is a mother. Problem is, objectively, she's not a bad mother. Just not as good as me and I want my kids to be stellar. Stellar means sticking with me.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 09:04 PM
3	How not to give a F when kids are involved Lifting: 3-4x per week, on easier weeks 2x/day, 1 at 5am 1 during lunch. I used to be jacked. Then had kidney issues. Now I'm pretty built, benching 250-300. Have a strict diet 3 weeks, 1 week cheat. Non-cheat weeks I have a six pack. Been working on 8, having trouble achieving it. Need to cut out the cheat week. 1/week sex is what I'm doing. This may be a problem. When I started making a lot of money, I lost interest in sex. I had/have a dream life of retiring in less than a decade with houses …	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 08:39 PM
2	How not to give a F when kids are involved Yes, living in fear/anxiety sucks. Hence the question how not to give a fuck when kids are involved. My only fear/anxiety is raising the child the way I want if I'm kicked out of the picture. Money is not an issue.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 08:32 PM
2	How not to give a F when kids are involved Yes, she filed. Percentage household expenses is roughly 50-50, maybe 60-40 I pay more. The remainder of her income goes to shopping for herself. Sex life 1/week. As a doc, I've got access to Viagra, which I hide in Men's vitamin bottles that advertise "testosterone boosters, etc" so she never takes them. Truth is when I started making a lot of money, I lost interest in sex. It was a problem earlier in marriage, and fabricating hard-on's with viagra has been working to get her fucked.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 08:31 PM
3	How not to give a F when kids are involved If this was a one-off then yes. I discovered the red pill many years ago and it served me well. After our first year of marriage, many mistakes on my end were made. It really is red pill on hard mode. Married red pill helped me navigate them. The mood swings, bitchiness, etc. have been an issue but I never let it bother me. This file for divorce when we had a child is what made me go all-or-nothing.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 08:25 PM
3	How not to give a F when kids are involved No. Any dread game was purely incidental, and not an intentional thing. In addition to US surgeon, consulting firm and a couple other businesses. Altogether, its roughly ~1M give or take. She still works and makes half of that.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 08:24 PM
7	How not to give a F when kids are involved That’s the problem. I don’t and never did. I figured that’s the only way to get over the loss of my child and move on. But this kid is the spitting image of me. She doesn’t sleep, she’s motivated, she’s smart, she’s creative. I’m pretty successful and see she’s got the genetic and budding personality to be everything I am and more as long as she’s raised and led in the right way. My wife is smart and accomplished and makes money. She does because she was raised right unlike her fuckwit sister. B…	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/19 06:34 PM
–	STFU and leaving without sulking I want to discuss this point further. In regular red pill, yes I agree. That's why I spun four plates at a time because I truly did not give a fuck. But, the reality is that some plates just spin themselves out because of shit like this. As a single man, who cares? I can easily find a replacement and keep it going. When looking back to those days, plates fell either because of logistics (I moved or she moved), two found out about each other (and the one who was less pissed initially was the one …	/r/askMRP	15/05/17 01:22 PM
1	In laws They add zero value to my life. They add sentimental value/familial value to my wife's life. I agree with putting the ball in their court. Thank you.	/r/askMRP	07/03/17 08:22 PM
1	In laws My assessment is it's to manipulate her will. An alternative is she is insecure and freaking out about her husband's knee replacement and needs handholding. I agree with cutting people out. However, I have made the mistake before of being too curt or addressing problems a bit too contentiously which have led to unnecessary fights. For example, when her friend bitched about me not joining them for a drink (it was gym-time and I was not consulted), I told her curtly I was busy, and sure enough the…	/r/askMRP	07/03/17 08:21 PM
1	FR - No Butt Hurt.... Now what Two problems: You're not striking when the iron's hot. Don't wait for her to dry up and then initiate. When theres flirting and the juices are flowing, stick it in. Need more dread. I cannot emphasize enough how important that is.	/r/askMRP	28/02/17 11:10 PM
–	In laws OK thank you. Strong frame works wonders for relationships undoubtedly. However, does a strong frame outrank and outweigh a woman's history and loyalty to her own parents?	/r/askMRP	28/02/17 09:52 PM
–	In laws This is how it is handled the vast majority of the time. I do believe she understands their game as she herself admitted her mother is being manipulative to guilt us into visiting. She came to me and said "I'm tired of it and don't know what else to do. Can you please talk to them?" I offered I can talk to her mother and put this nonsense to rest, but she asked me to just call her father and check in on him, that he is understanding. Turns out, he was just a pawn in his mother's game, which resu…	/r/askMRP	28/02/17 09:49 PM
–	In laws Allow me to clarify. I do not care for her parents, I don't think about them, etc. I don't know what they think of me, nor do I care. Her father is also a physician, but is neither professionally nor financially anywhere close to where I want to be, and therefore I believe I have nothing to gain from his "wisdom". Within 10 years, more likely 7, financially we will be in a situation equal to him, and both my wife and I have a solid 30 years of work ahead of us before even considering retirement.…	/r/askMRP	28/02/17 09:44 PM
1	In laws AA works great on my wife, and even better on nieces and nephews. I never thought to try it on in-laws though. I admit it can be fun to stir the pot, but I also don't want to get into a shit war with people across the country unless there is something to be gained (ie they stop trying to manipulate their ways into my life and back off).	/r/askMRP	28/02/17 08:27 PM