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| 1 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?That’s a good point | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Yea I just talked in an earlier comment about how I was a hypocrite haha. I use YouTube and Reddit on weekends and I talk more about this in that comment | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?That’s a good point | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Happy for you! Hope all is well. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Happy for you man! I hope all is well! | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?I agree | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?This is a really good point | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Yea I don’t use dating apps or pick up girls online so I would have met them in person and talked to them and then got their number, and asked them on a date etc, or I would meet a girl through a mutual friend or a girl I already know. So the catfish scenario wouldn’t relate to my question. But there may have been confusion between what I meant and what context. I meant ‘is it weird if I meet a girl and tell her I have no social media’ but it’s not weird and I have now realized that. But I’m not… | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Exactly it depends the type of girl. Girls that follow trends and are not open minded would care that you don’t have a social media so she can monitor what you do and brag to her friends about you. Girls that are open minded and not phased by social norms wouldn’t care and would just you based on how you actually are as a person, boyfriend, etc. But it also depends on context too so every case and person would be different in some way. In short, not everyone is compatible or has chemistry so any… | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?That’s exactly it too. We seek acceptance from so many different places that it becomes destructive. Check out The Social Dilemma on Netflix if you get a chance it talks about exactly what you said. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Ayeee I’m rooting for you | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Okay this is what I expect too | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Ahhh this joke could have been so much better lol always appreciate humor though | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?This is exactly the point I wanted to make but I thought it would get no traction. Why do I need to participate in social media to seem trustworthy and like I’m not hiding something? But it is a logical rationale to a lot of people in our current world. And it’s scary how hypocritical we can all be too if we do introspection. I say I don’t use social media but I use Reddit YouTube on weekends. I just have little to no social media presence. Having an account brought out an ego in me to force thi… | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Aren’t you the same guy who said he had a girlfriend haha? But point well taken. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?I’ll save this conversation for my next TedTalk hahaha. Thank you again for your responses. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:22 PM |
| 10 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Yes. This is my desired mindset as I have worked on myself, my hobbies, and my work more lately. I 100% agree. I actually have more girls reaching out to me now and genuine conversations than when I had social media lol. Funny how that works. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?A very interesting conversation about this was Jordan Peterson (controversial guy I know lol I only watch him for motivational stuff mostly) he said that men date across and below their social/economic status in society and women date across and above their social/economic status. I found this to be true in my experiences and colloquially in stories, movies, pop culture (Ex. King deciding to marry a peasant girl) (Ex. On the other hand, women typically avoiding broke men like the plague) but I w… | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?I appreciate this response! I felt like I was the only one lol. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?You explained this really good I like your points too. I can see what you mean now. That’s how most girls I know think lol. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 03:12 PM |
| 12 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Constantly comparing myself to others and looking for mental health tips on social media and constantly seeking validation. Seeking to conform to every trend and realizing I didn’t know who the hell I was. My mental health and work ethic and relationships have grown stronger because of it, but it’s much more work. I’m seeking therapy now to just talk some stuff through and figure out who I really am outside of my work and friendships (and social media I guess you could say). I really just want t… | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Couldn’t they figure that out by watching me in different situations? Asking my friends about me? Or just spending a couple of dates with me :) There’s other ways to do what you’re saying, but if you can tell me something that is needed through social media I would agree with you. And it does matter the type of dating...If you are doing one night stands a girl can know you from social media and know you have social network and want to be with you, therefore social media would like you said show … | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Haha I hope | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?You’re right | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 02:25 PM |
| 9 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?I have LinkedIn | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 02:24 PM |
| 10 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Hot Take: If/when I become rich as a man I’m going to be more selective and look for a girl that makes money too. Instead of spending my money flying girls out to vacation spots and buying them new bags and stuff so they like me. What do you think? Also I agree somewhat with your statement | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Facts!!!! This is exactly what I was thinking about, but in all reality it doesn’t matter that much because I’m not trying to pick up girls I’m mostly interested in serious dating outside of work and self care. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 01:44 PM |
| 5 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?No social media presence for a year and haven’t been laid in a year... 😳 | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Woah luckyyyy | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 12:42 PM |
| 10 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Some times yea because people typically pre-vet potential dating partners by looking at their social media. It makes sense but its so stupid in theory. Because people personally cultivate their social media pages to look a certain way so you would only learn stuff about them that they wanted you to learn. Similar to how on the first date people only talk about good things and what they want you to know. But that’s a good point I’m not sure if the majority of people around 20-21 would care | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?An easy way to communicate? ... like texting or calling? I don’t see social media as a way to communicate at all, it’s just a way for self expression to your network of friends. But I do have Snapchat still I forgot to add that | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 12:36 PM |
| 86 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?Fuck this is such a good answer. I agree | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 06:03 AM |
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