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Larper: Lovely Absolutely beautiful Respectable Perfect Esoteric Ravishing young woman If that’s what you mean by “larper” then yes I am a larper.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:17 PM
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I am not a femcel, I am a girl blogger. I am divinely esoteric.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:00 PM
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2-3 years, 4-5 at the absolute max for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:12 AM
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The only really physically ugly thing about Lizzo is the fact that she is severely overweight. If she lost all the weight she’d be as conventionally attractive as another Hollywood celebrity. Looking past the double chin she has very nice features. Every time I’ve heard a man talk about finding Lizzo unattractive they always talk about her weight, never her objective facial proportions or features. Her personality is obnoxious which fans the flames to all the backlash that she gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:43 PM
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The fact that I was asking for robux didn’t clue you in?🥴 This honestly might be why so many of the men here struggle in dating. Nobody likes a man that can’t lighten up or use context clues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:30 PM
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X or Onlyfans
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:21 PM
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It was a joke obviously 😐 I’ve noticed that the men on this subreddit have a perpetual stick up their ass and don’t seem to comprehend satire/sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:16 PM
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Unemployed 💋
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:14 PM
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I will be making 400-500k by the time I hit 25 or at minimum 200k+. I just have a feeling I’m kinda destined to rich. Like that’s just what god has in store for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:50 PM
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Same. I just want enough money to have a decent sized mini-mansion, eat out regularly at nice restaurants, buy nice clothes and take a nice vacation like 1-2x a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:44 PM
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I can send feet pics but that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:37 PM
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Anyone willing to be my betabuxx and gift me around 800-1k robux on Roblox?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:27 PM
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Cute tbh. She did the best she could.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:33 PM
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Sometimes I lurk on r/limerence it's a really interesting phenomenon tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:55 PM
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I need a man who's completely obsessed with me to the point where he can't even get it up unless he’s looking at me. But where would I find this 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:09 PM
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Gay cowboys from the mid 1960’s-1980’s who fall in love but can’t be together so they start a decade+ affair. In 1963, rodeo cowboy Jack Twist and ranch hand Ennis Del Mar are hired by rancher as sheep herders in Wyoming. One night on Brokeback Mountain, Jack makes a drunken pass at Ennis that is eventually reciprocated. Though Ennis marries his longtime sweetheart, and Jack marries a fellow rodeo rider (Anne Hathaway), the two men keep up their tortured and sporadic affair over the course of 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:18 AM
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Brokeback mountain is actually an incredibly well written, well produced and profoundly tragic movie. I seriously think it’s better love story than the note book and the titanic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:02 AM
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Q4M: How much attention do you pay to a woman’s shoulder size?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:34 AM
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7-7.5
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:41 PM
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The men here are kinda neurotic there’s nothing really sexy about them. Our personalities would not mesh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:04 PM
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LOL! Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:58 PM
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How can I be sexually attracted to anyone from this sub? I don’t know who any of you people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:53 PM
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Ummm….idk?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:51 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:50 PM
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*manhwa, BL to be exact
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:43 PM
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I’m only sexually attracted to fictional men. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:37 PM
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Every time I hear the words “alpha” and “beta,” I’m reminded of all the werewolf/omegaverse porn/smut I used to read on wattpad back when I was in middle school
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:54 AM
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What else did you think I was? The pfp didn’t clue you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:37 AM
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Whenever this topic about black women “not liking nerdy black men” comes up it’s always quickly followed by asserting it’s because black women are ratchet, gold diggers or only want “thugs.” Black male nerds 50% of the time also prefer other ethnicities, yet they feel the need to perpetuate this narrative. They’re defending themselves by pointing out the inconsistencies in their arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:36 AM
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No. I don’t think it’s the same. They often use this narrative to perpetuate racist tropes about black women. No one really cares what your preference is, no one cares you aren’t attracted to “nerdy black girls.” Just because light-skin Keshia with the pretty face and the big booty wanted to be with her counterpart and didn’t want to listen to your ass yap about Naruto all day, doesn’t suddenly make all black women Jezebels. You are free to chase women of other ethnicities or women out of your l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:00 AM
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It’s not the “getting curved” part that’s the problem here. You are allowed to have your preferences. It’s the fact that you’re brazenly lying and trying to paint us as the villains when you’re leaving out half of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:29 AM
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Everything those girls said was 100% correct. These black male “nerds” use this as an excuse to explain away their already present preference for other ethnicities of women. Or they were chasing after women very far out of their league that simply had nothing in common with them, then cried foul when they were rejected. They all conveniently leave out this part of the story. I don’t feel bad for any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:20 AM
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An excerpt: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:00 AM
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He’s an alien.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:49 AM
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He’s an alien.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:48 AM
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What would make you say that? I’m serious, it was in fact a really good book.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:38 AM
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This is one of my favourite romantic novels. The smut/sex scenes were amazing. I definitely recommend it. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:29 AM
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Men sort women into “wifey/relationship material” or “FWB/pump and dump only” categories based off their looks and behaviour all the time. So what if women sort men into “alpha/chad” and “beta” categories based off their looks and behaviour? 😐 Like, seriously what’s the difference and what makes one worse than the other? More importantly why should anyone care? Or are you just angry you can’t get pussy? I despise it when Redpillers are selective about when they want to apply their appeal to natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:35 AM
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Half of the people on that subreddit are men. The rest are trans women. If you're looking for a cis-female perspective, it's not the place you should look.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:47 PM
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They're not gonna do it here in a place like this and in the presence of a bunch of neurotic men. You'll mostly find this in female dominated subs or pockets of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:12 PM
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You aren’t her husband and you don’t seem like a Christian either so I don’t know why you’re so concerned about the dating habits of Christian women. She isn’t obligated to share her body with anyone other than a good godly man who has taken her as a wife, which is the opposite of what you’re suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:47 AM
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Isn’t that what she’s doing by completely stopping her behaviour and living according to god’s word? Yet you want her to continue, why so you can get your dick wet easily? Once again I hope you aren’t a Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:16 AM
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Acknowledging your sins and trying to get yourself right with god >>>>>what random men think you should do with your pussy. I hope you aren’t a Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:09 AM
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It's literally right under the other comment responding to this one. If you didn't see it, you're blind buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:19 PM
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I already responded to this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:10 PM
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Half of the so-called dating "inequalities," the manopshere claims that men face sounds like they are the result of male thirst tbh. No one can fix that except for men themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:05 PM
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Extroverted, large social group, fairly good looking and funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:45 PM
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Depends on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:49 AM
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Improving their appearance to attract more or higher quality men. This includes changing their style, getting losing weight, getting plastic surgery, etc... Attaining degrees, cultivating good social circles, and strategically placing themselves in situations and settings that would put themselves in proximity to higher quality men. But they often make this look so effortless that men don't really notice how much hard work goes into it, so they falsely mistake it for pure luck when that's rarely…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:23 PM
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Women often self improve to attract the man they want. Men just don’t notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:40 PM
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lol. It’s not as frequent now but in the past yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:26 PM
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I think she’s in her mid-late 50’s and he’s in his early-mid 60’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:40 PM
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In middle school. This bitch ass boy told me I looked like a boy. He also told me my elbows were dark and I wore long sleeves to school for years straight after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:52 AM
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No. Men just don’t realize that they do the exact same thing they love to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:40 PM
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If a man ever calls you “wifey material” it means he thinks you’re stupid enough to stay in a relationship and be his servant while he cheats on you LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:16 PM
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This is why you people can never get me to seriously care about gold diggers and the men they finesse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:59 PM
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Yes. My grandfather’s partner is one. She’s been with him for decades since she was a teenager. They live together and she cooks, cleans, took care of his children from past relationships and had 3 kids by him but he still refuses to marry her, yet she stays despite clearly wanting a ring. This is all while she gets her ass up every day to work as a lunch lady. He also cheats on her. I fear ever ending up like her, it doesn’t matter how desperate I get for a relationship I’ll never let a man was…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:51 PM
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Virgin women aren’t stupid. We have sexual desires of our own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:40 PM
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If it’s an open relationship and I get to fuck who I want also then sure. If not no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:30 PM
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Yes. I don’t like older men. I’ve never seen a man who looks more attractive in 30-40 than he did at 20-25. I don’t know anyone around my age (late teens-early twenties) who prefers a man 30+ to a guy in his 20’s. I’m sure they exist but they aren’t as common as males online love to brag that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:19 PM
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Women enjoying themselves makes miserable people foam at the mouth, not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:34 PM
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Even when those women are polite in their rejection, you'll still feel humiliated. Just admit you're scared of rejection instead of hiding behind this narrative you all like to claim stops men from approaching. It's a cope to make yourselves feel better. There's nothing wrong with fearing rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:57 PM
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Sorry, that sounds so weird. I can't imagine masturbating to guys random non-sexual pictures. If I started doing this, I would assume I had some type of unresolved mental illness. If he was sending me vids of him jerking off, then yeah, I’d do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:43 PM
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Ugly unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:09 PM
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Can't. I'll be rejected. And I only saw him once, I don't know who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:59 PM
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The time I've been the most physically attracted to a guy was when I was at the mall, and I saw this lanklet with fluffy brown hair and glasses. He was wearing a white T-shirt and sweatpants. I was absolutely feral. I'm still thinking about him. He should be my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:45 PM
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Aren’t most incels sad white boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:23 PM
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Update on my incelcore Pinterest board. I got a lot of feedback, and I really tried to showcase the essence of inceldom. I think I captured the loneliness and doomerism perfectly. What are your thoughts? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:58 PM
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You see a girl and she’s dressed like this. What are your first impressions? Do you think she’s fun, cute, childish or looks stupid? What type of guy would this look appeal to? (This is my dream wardrobe). Edit: Added more pics <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:18 PM
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The vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:05 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:00 PM
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To capture the essence of inceldom. To personify the incel experience into something tangible!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:33 AM
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No. How is this making fun of them? This is for my personal interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:28 AM
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I think it’s fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:26 AM
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For fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:24 AM
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What’s crazy about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:20 AM
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No. But I’m fine rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:17 AM
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It’s Pinterest babe. Everything is idealized.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:16 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:16 AM
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Yeah. Even more on tumblr. (My femcel Pinterest board below) <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:13 AM
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I’m creating an incelcore Pinterest board. Thoughts and feedback? Edit: I updated it. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:58 AM
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I thought men loved each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:28 AM
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I was so idealistic about love when I was a child then my teen years hit me like a brick and it only got worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:43 PM
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I’m not saying it’s lower or higher. I’m just saying it’s not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:39 PM
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Women of previous generations barely had the option to choose a partner they truly liked. They needed a man for survival and stability. Women want to find a partner they actually like, and if they can't, they'll stay single, which is their right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:18 PM
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Maybe their his looks match, and he's too delusional, and you're too biased to realize it. Have you ever considered that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:11 PM
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It's unrealistic to expect women to have the same libido as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:51 PM
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I just don’t understand you guys. You all despise the idea of being settled for, yet you desperately want to brow beat women who obviously don't find you attractive into being in relationships with you. When you eventually end up in a dead bedroom with a woman who never found you attractive in the first place, you'll cry foul. You should be happy those women aren't trying to waste your time or string you along. I wouldn't want to be with a man who wants a more attractive woman but settled for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:43 PM
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AI romance will probably be extremely popular among women. Young women already use AI chat bots, as it becomes more sophisticated it’ll become more popular among the female sex. Personally once AI becomes good enough to flawlessly replicate human interactions or there are perhaps features that allow you to verbally converse with an AI bot that sounds exactly like a human man, I’m gonna be all over that shit. Literally a dream come true. You’re literally telling me I can create my dream man, like…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:58 AM
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I don’t count. I try my best not to remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:54 AM
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Sticking people with children and spouses they don’t want is a recipe for disaster. You’ve clearly never grown up in a home where the members of a household simply despise each other and their lives but can’t leave, it’s hell for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:43 AM
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In your desperate attempt to be a smart ass you couldn’t even make a response that made sense in the context of this conversation. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:03 PM
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Once again truth hurts, so you can strain your eyes until you go blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:39 PM
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The rise of the redpill is actually what caused me to fall into an extremist radfem rabbit hole when I was a teenager. I decided to leave because of my mental health and I just couldn’t handle consuming such negativity but they opened my eyes to a lot of different truths that were a tough pill to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:32 PM
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First I was “blue-pilled” then I became more “pink pilled,” I guess you could call it that, but now I’m becoming more “black-pilled” in a sense as I am now reaching adulthood. I’ll never care for red-pill nonsense, I know that much. If I meet a really good guy or my life got better then maybe my outlook would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:12 PM
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Who cares. Misogynist will find whatever justification to spew their hateful rhetoric, it doesn’t matter I say. I’m not going to suppress the truth just because you don’t like what I have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:53 PM
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Truth hurts and people like you live in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:48 PM
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No one is loved for who they are in this world. Those men don’t love those women, they just want sex. They could care less about her personality as long as she offers up what’s between her legs. They just assume introverted/shy women are naive enough to give it up without much of a hassle or effort on their part, there’s no love there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:17 PM
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What? Listen I don’t care. If you want to sleep with other people just tell them that you want an open relationship. Don’t put anybody at risk for catching something without their knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:34 PM
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Kissing is just one of the ways STD’s can spread non-sexual contact, not the only method. People still kiss despite not having sex, it isn’t inherently sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:09 PM
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You can still get STD’s through non-sexual contact. Kissing is enough to spread herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:03 PM
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Just ask for an open relationship at that point. Don’t put somebody’s health at risk unknowingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:17 PM
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People have a natural desire to reproduce and couple up, as long as there are sufficient resources available. The cost of living is high right now and the number one cause of modern day childlessness in the west and developed nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:33 PM
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Without genuine love there it just becomes a prison sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:02 PM
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I love the traditional family unit. It’s a beautiful thing when there’s genuine love there, but if it’s by force or coercion then no, I don’t want it. Edit: The men are downvoting my comments. What’s so wrong with what I said? It seems like men just want to force women to be with them so they can have available sex 24/7, a woman’s personal feelings be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:55 PM
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The world isn’t collapsing. Men are so dramatic, just because you can’t get laid doesn’t mean the world is crumbling. Humanity is the closest it’s been to utopia in its entire existence on this planet. It isn’t perfect, there are still some major flaws but it’s the closest to perfection that humans have ever gotten. Prior to modernity life wasn’t this traditional picturesque existence, stop watching 1950’s and tradcon propaganda. Almost all of these “traditional” countries that legally restrict …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:37 PM
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Do you feel afraid at the zoo?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:05 PM
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I’ve been cold approached twice. Once by a guy in his 40’s and another time by a middle school boy who thought I was around his age (I was 18 during both encounters), so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:57 AM
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What do mean by consequences? Men are simply scary, you never know when they’ll snap or get aggressive. At large you all pose the largest risk to my safety. It’s only natural for women to be wary of strange men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:42 AM
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No, Tbh. As someone who reads a lot of romance/erotic novels, the things that men do in these books only make sense in a fictional setting where the characters are already highly attracted to each other and are basically fated to be together. If a irl man acted like the male love interest from some of my favourite novels, I might pepper spray him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:01 PM
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Some do go and happen to have sex with locals. But they're just fooling around. Most are just looking for a fling and aren't stupid enough to bring them back to the USA unless they are incredibly desperate. Some girls I've seen on tik tok moved to Southern Mediterranean European countries like Italy, France, Monaco, etc...and got married to well-off men there. I've always thought about going and trying my luck in the dating pool, but I probably won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:55 PM
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A pre-nup getting thrown out is not nearly as common as men like to claim. Sorry but this is a cope men love to tell themselves for being lazy. It’s like if I decide not to use a condom and fuck raw because they sometimes break. It’s nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:26 PM
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Men ask this question to women all the time on here, literally the post right below this one is asking almost this exact question. Why do you act so sensitive when the reverse is asked of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:14 PM
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For some women porn use is an absolute no, for others they’re ok with it. For me he’d have to be willing to quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:06 AM
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Knew a girl who grew up around her brothers and father, her mom wasn’t in her life. She was a Tom boy, hung out with mostly dudes, was pretty aggressive and was always getting into fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:18 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@claaaarke?_t=8jnOnngLqsA&_r=1
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:23 PM
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Haven’t used hinge or any OLD platform for that matter but from that I’ve heard Hinge and Bumble are slightly better than tinder but work best when you live in a large city. This girl I follow on Tik Tok met a lot of seemly well put together men (lawyers, business owners, etc…) off of hinge. She would film herself going on dates to nice restaurants, NHL games, country clubs, etc…One guy took her to his house and from what I can see it was pretty nice, he had a very large and very nice backyard w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:31 AM
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Sometimes I literally can’t help but roll my eyes at the things men on this subreddit decide to throw a tantrum over 🙄 It’s a fucking pop song.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:47 PM
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Block it or mute it. That’s what I did with the subreddits that irk me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:44 PM
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Men are more neurotic and paranoid than I thought. Also, many men are a lot more sensitive and insecure than I thought. A lot of men mistake womens indifference for hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:13 PM
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So what? It's still incredibly popular with 300,000+ members.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:35 PM
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r/mensrights and similar subreddits have popped up on my recommended subreddits. Blame your specific algorithm. r/blackpillfeminism got banned for their misandry. Once again, you're just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:30 PM
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There are various men's rights subreddits with thousands of members that have been around for years. This is just a blatant lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:06 PM
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Do you also need to know what incels and FA men to look like to decide if their issues are valid or not? I despise when reddit men try and ask me for pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:05 PM
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If men can do it to us, we can do it to them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:01 PM
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I don't understand why men go out of their way to stalk female subreddits. It wasn't meant for you in the first place. Men do this all the time with FAW.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:18 PM
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A high quality man is different for different women. For some it’s a flashy rapper/athlete with multiple baby mothers for others it’s a blue collar family man. I think you just have to find your niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:14 PM
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We’re getting our lick back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:32 PM
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Theoretically I don’t mind. Just don’t be super pushy or come on too strong and have some social awareness. Oh and preferably/personally don’t be old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:12 PM
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Stop being so fucking dramatic, I didn't say any of that. She doesn't know you. Everyone is hesitant around strangers, even if they are attractive for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:35 PM
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Why would she give "fuck me eyes" to a random stranger. That sounds embarrassing and weird, especially if it's a guy you really do like or find attractive. Women also feel shy around people we like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:11 PM
10

No it isn’t. You’re a stranger and she doesn’t know you or what your intentions are. Sorry but not everyone in this world is a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:43 PM
0

My mom was still getting hit on while she was 35, a couple months pregnant, with 9/10 year old me in tow so I’m going to say no. I don’t really know any woman my age who wants to be with a man significantly older than her, me included.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:22 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:55 AM
6

Ehhhh…I think Lizzo has a pretty face. If she lost weight and got rid of the double chin she would be as conventionally attractive as any other celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:26 PM
4

Not necessarily. Sometimes he just thinks you’re easy or stupid enough to sleep with him. Or he’s just so desperate he’s approaching every woman that comes his way, hoping one will bite. Like I said he’s just acting on his baser instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:57 AM
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He just wants to fuck you, don't try and make it sound nicer than it is. He wouldn't bother pursuing a relationship with a woman he doesn't know if he didn't find you physically attractive enough to incite his lust. He's just acting on his baser instincts. There's nothing wrong with judging him to the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:37 AM
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Cold approaches and physical appearance. The entire reason a man cold approaches a woman is because he finds her physically attractive, he would’ve never approached her if he didn’t like what he saw because let’s be honest he doesn’t know the first thing about her. Yet oddly enough men want women who literally don’t know them to not judge a book by its cover and give them a chance based off of how “nice” they seem instead of their physical appearance. It’s idiotic. What other incentive do these …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:47 PM
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I don’t have friends, but if I did and they were interested and I found them attractive then I wouldn’t mind taking them up on their offer. I want to loose my virginity before I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:26 PM
3

No. I’m strictly against it. It really grosses me out. I just don’t find them physically appealing unless they look extremely good for their age but most don’t. Even then if you look back at their old photos 9/10 they looked even better when they were in their early twenties/late teens. I personally adore guys with a more youthful, fresh look. Wrinkles, receding hairlines/thinning hair and hard lines kinda turn me off. I just find younger men oddly more masculine I guess? In the future I wouldn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:12 AM
3

You can divorce your wife/husband not your child. If you aren’t going to even take care of your child you know what then men deserve to have all their money taken in eventually of a divorce, at least they’ll be contributing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:44 PM
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If you’re going to be selfish don’t become a father and possibly ruin a vulnerable child’s life if you think your personal interests matter more than a child’s wellbeing. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:56 AM
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I’d give her the best chance at life I possibly could. I’d push her to socialize, network and pick up various hobbies and talents from art, to dance and horse riding. I’d put her in etiquette classes, send her to the best school I can. I want to give her the best start in life and give her all the tools to succeed. I’d teach her how to properly take care of her appearance and groom herself in an acceptable manner that’s professional and flattering. I’d tell her to choose wisely when it comes to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:42 AM
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I agree, which is why you strive to be the best parent you can because this little person didn’t ask to be here. They’re only here to fulfill your selfish desire to have a child, the least you can be is a decent parent in return. If you don’t plan on doing that then you’re a shit person, literally ruining an innocent child’s life off of a whim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:19 AM
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People have a very one sided view of prenups. They aren’t a document you just make your partner sign, this is a red flag and something you should never put your signature on. A pre-nup is a legal agreement both parties have negotiated the terms of after delegating with their respective lawyers. It’s not supposed to be one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:11 AM
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I didn’t say otherwise but you got on the internet to proudly promote shitty and selfish fathers as some sort of acceptable behaviour, gross. Seems like you’re no better honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:03 AM
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Then what’s the point of becoming a father if you’re not contributing to the child you brought into this world life? They didn’t fucking ask to be here, how selfish. This is why I don’t care when men complain about declining birth rates and not being able to have a family. Many of you would act just like OP anyways, in fact most men already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:56 AM
21

Why wouldn’t you help raise your own child?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:50 AM
9

This is just wrong, the majority of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:35 AM
14

I’ve been cold approached once by a man aged 35-45 while I was taking a walk through a park in between uni classes. Very abruptly asked for my number. It was an insanely awkward experience, I refused instantly. If it had been a guy my age who had tried to make some decent small talk before asking I might have given him my Instagram. I would say it depends on different factors. Edit: the men are downvoting me 🙄 angry I’m not jumping at the chance to be with somebody’s grandpa?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:15 PM
14

So what? Look at things practically. You’re a complete stranger, this person doesn’t know the first thing about you. What incentive do they have to go off of other than physical attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:01 PM
10

The entire point flew over your head. Not wanting to be approached at random in public doesn’t mean you’re looking for bad boys. I have no idea where you got that from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:56 PM
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Not wanting random men to approach you while you’re trying to mind your business and preferring to be approached in social settings = wanting a cocky abusive hot asshole. Absolute mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:49 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:07 PM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:50 PM
20

Let’s be honest here there isn’t going to be a mass amount of single men who are going to willingly sign up to be the sole caregiver to child. In fact a version of this exists now, it’s called surrogacy. I’ve never heard of a single man using a surrogate, despite how many men online love the foam at the mouth at the concept of artificial wombs. You’d think they’d be considering surrogacy as a serious option as it’s pretty much the next best thing but they don’t. Why? Because this artificial womb…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:01 PM
5

I’m a virgin so take these with a grain of salt as they might change in the future. -Libido: Average-High -Penis Size and Girth: Not small but not too big either, preferably uncut -Role: Dominant with a submissive side -Dirty Talk: Praise, tell me I’m beautiful. -How Long: Long enough for me to cum at least once -I’d prefer a virgin man -Must be fine with a hairy/bushy vagina -Kinks: Must be willing to preform oral and eat ass, unfortunately the latter favour will not be returned. I’m not going …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:01 PM
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I consider any sort of kissing or physical touching to be cheating. I don’t want my partner to watch porn, I’m already trying to stay away from that unethical industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:27 PM
1

It’s a typo. Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:22 PM
12

Maybe because she actually has a decent partner to act on her sexual frustration? I get sexually frustrated all the time but the idea of fucking just anyone sounds gross. Doesn’t matter how horny I am, I’m not having sex with anyone who I don’t have an attraction to and feel comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:30 PM
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I know lol, meaning it’ll be really fucking expensive. It really baffles me how people think artificial wombs will be easily accessible to the public or affordable. It’ll probably cost more than surrogacy which is $50k at minimum. The average person will not be able to afford this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:58 AM
7

Where are you gonna get the eggs? Every time this artificial womb topic pops up, people completely forget this crucial step for some odd reason. You need more than a womb and some sperm to create a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:43 AM
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Anyone who doesn’t takes care of the child full (or most) of the time pays child support, it typically tends to be the father for obvious reasons but some women are still required to pay child support if they don’t take care of the child. Anyways many states in America are banning abortion anyways, so why should they get rid of it? In fact I think that now that abortion is becoming illegal in red states, pre-birth child support should be allowed to be in-forced at the mother’s request at 7 weeks…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:23 AM
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I find cold approaches to be very awkward. I’m very cautious of strangers and I don’t like the idea of giving my information out to them. I also really don’t like the type of men who have approached me in the past, being typically older men when I’m just walking or something. If they were closer to my age and it was in a more social setting I would definitely be more receptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:14 AM
2

There are millions of women on this earth, you’ll find one that’s a-ok with splitting the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:53 AM
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How are they wasting time? You ask them out on a date, you give them a heads up that you plan on splitting the bill, they decline. You’re making this more complicated than it really is. Once again being dramatic. There are millions of women on this earth, you’ll find one that’s a-ok with splitting the bill, Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:52 AM
1

At worse they can decide to turn you down. I don’t see how they’re making things more difficult for everyone. You’re being dramatic. Dating is exclusionary by nature, not inclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:39 AM
4

Your not going to be compatible with most people you date which is why people go on multiple to find someone who they resonate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:26 AM
3

What do you mean by correcting them? You can’t brow beat anyone into dating someone they don’t want to, all you can do is find someone who matches with your interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:22 AM
8

If having a woman that splits everything 50/50 is that important to you then it’s best you go your separate ways. Isn’t this the point of dating? To see if you’re compatible? Not sure why you would want to continue to date a woman if it becomes clear so early on you both already have opposing values.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:02 AM
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There are plenty of fish in the sea, you’re not gonna be compatible with all of them. Worst case scenario she turns you down but then you’ll be free to go find a woman who’s cool with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:00 AM
24

If you don’t want to pay then don’t? This conversation just confuses me because the answer really is that simple. It’s your money, just tell her you plan on splitting the bill and be done with it no one has a gun to your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:55 PM
2

Happily. I think a lot of people have a one sided view of what a pre-nup is. They think it’s this iron clad document a man makes a woman sign so she can’t touch any of his assets when it really isn’t if it’s done fairly. You get your own lawyer and argue the terms of your marriage, negotiate how much you get in the event of a divorce and even update it later on if you need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:34 PM
7

Yes I would leave. Marriage is personally something that I want because I desire children. Clearly our interests don’t align so there no reason to remain in a relationship, he’d just be wasting my time. I’d immediately start looking for a man that actually wants to be my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:17 PM
1

The redpill isn’t new or even particularly inventive, men being distrustful of women has existed since the beginning of civilization I’m sure it’ll continue afterwards. I give it 5-10 years before everyone forgets what the redpill even is. I agree that marriage rates will decline but not because of the redpill, they’ve been declining long before the redpill was mainstream mostly due to marriage becoming more of a luxury in today’s society rather than a means of survival. I don’t think men being …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:49 PM
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I’m a virgin but from what I heard from other women, yes. Sexual skill, penis size, penis girth, penis curve, thrusts, speed and tempo all play a role in deciding if sex will be pleasurable or not but most of these depend on a woman’s personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:25 PM
1

I want them to be direct but not too strong or overbearing. I’d like it if they were friendly with me first, not to the point where we’re close friends but to the point where we’re familiar with each other. It’ll make me feel safer than just being asked out by some random stranger. I would like them to be polite, maybe a little playful to break the awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:58 PM
1

The redpill is like any other trend it’ll get popular, become over saturated and then eventually people will move on to something new. It’s already at the over saturation stage, I give it an extra year or two before people get tired of all the podcasts and self proclaimed alpha males. No one uses this nonsense irl unless they are chronically online. You can’t magically know a woman’s body count unless she tells you or is open with her flings and hookups. You’ll never know unless she wants you to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:42 PM
1

Doesn’t make sense. Would you want a slave to prove that they are equal to you for you to free them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:43 PM
1

I mean this is a form of fairness and equality. If you aren’t going to share in any of the domestic duties you might as well pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:25 AM
1

I know I don’t disagree. I just personally want to avoid that type of situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:51 AM
1

Some people might be mad at your comment but I can see where you’re coming from. Most of the men in my life despise doing cooking, cleaning, childcare or domestic duties. They do their upmost to avoid doing it or get out of said responsibilities and I have a feeling that a sizeable chunk of men feel the same, even though they love to scream about 50/50 and fairness. Paying really is the bare minimum some of them could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:58 PM
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I mean a man paying sounds nice but I wouldn’t mind paying half on the first few date because I wouldn’t want him to think I owe him sex just because he paid for some food. Some women can afford to move through life like this because they are attractive, incredibly charming, etc…They don’t need to be fair because they can get what they want regardless. All that matters at the end of the day is if they can find a man who is willing to do those things, if they can then 🤷🏾‍♀️ Some things will never…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:51 PM
5

Both. It just depends on my mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:38 PM
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