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I’m going to disagree with you here. People have to have a certain constitution within themselves in order to accomplish inner game. It comes naturally to a few. Some are lucky enough to have a father figure in their life that taught them this kind of stuff. But for the rest of us, on our journey, we stumble upon material like this and start to realize why what we were previously doing was wrong. And I can say I’m having much better result in recent times compared to the last few years after the…
/r/seduction25/04/25 11:34 AM
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As somebody who previously struggled even more because of autism, these are guidelines that I wish I knew much earlier in my life. But I have been learning them over the past few years from other sources that I have been consistently using to help guide my self training.
/r/seduction22/04/25 02:05 PM
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Years ago, I had an invite like this, and the girl was like model type hot. We did it a few times that night. Then she just turned evil on me the next day. Never knew what the actual trigger for that was. I’m talking she just got really mean over text message. Maybe that’s why she was single. She was hot, but she was Looney Tunes. Weeks later, she randomly texted me apologizing to me, but then I never heard from her again.
/r/seduction29/03/25 02:26 PM
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Doing it too fast can also lead to that result. But I never told you that women are simple creatures because they are anything but. Everything here is a guideline, but it’s going to come down to the individual woman as to how fast to play things or what your strategy is. And you can only learn how to read that by bombing out a few times.
/r/seduction11/02/25 12:39 PM
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I had the same issue when I finished and it went to calculate my score. I figured it was just acting like an actual woman by ghosting you. 😂
/r/seduction11/02/25 10:45 AM
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You would be better off getting a little remote button for your camera shutter to preserve the image resolution. Because you’re going to want to optimize the composition afterwards, which often involves cropping, so the extra resolution is going to come in handy here. Sometimes something like that comes with tripods and selfie sticks.
/r/seduction06/02/25 09:39 AM
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He’s right. It’s not the way the dude looks. These are just terrible photos. Like pretty awful. At the very least, they need to be taken from much further away(short focal points on phones reduce subject viewing angle and flattens facial features). Doesn’t look like he uses any image editing software either, which would help tremendously with the composition when you’re dealing with shooting things with a cell phone. Plus the pictures need to be a lot more varied. You shouldn’t be able to flip t…
/r/seduction06/02/25 09:13 AM
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ChatGPT be pimpin 🤣
/r/seduction05/02/25 07:15 PM
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That’s because you’re pretty much insinuating you will never be able to give them sex, instead of a temporary problem that you might have to work on. And telling them about your erectile problems indicates low confidence, pretty much a dealbreaker on the dating market. Also makes them think your focus is just on sex. If you fail in the moment, don’t make it a big thing. You don’t need to prepare her for disappointment. If you ruled out medical issues, it will eventually happen. And not all women…
/r/seduction19/01/25 12:16 PM
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I have a tendency to fail on the first encounter because of anxiety. One girl I was with for nine years. I failed with her the first time and had plenty of good sex with her after that. A one off failure is not a big deal for somebody who is really interested in you. It’s how you deal with that failure. Do something else to her to show her you care about her end of the experience, even if your end is not going as planned. If she thinks you’re trying too hard at that point and tells you to chill,…
/r/seduction19/01/25 01:11 AM
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I find that many women avoid it as soon as they hear the word. But my first one I was able to share it with and not have her run away. She just wanted sex… multiple times. But she was very accommodating for me because she knew and it overall was a very nice experience. The first time doesn’t have to suck. But it’s probably better if she knows. But she might run away if she knows. So you might just want to share that information and find one that doesn’t run away because she could turn out to be …
/r/seduction10/01/25 02:51 PM
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Your username is perfect for this topic 😂
/r/seduction10/01/25 12:46 PM
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there are many things that could be going on medically speaking and psychologically. Or it may be nothing at all. It is possible that you were doing it wrong. Most women are not good at manual manipulation on us, some are but they are not in the majority. Focus more on the sensual stuff possibly, like kissing, scent, etc rather than just focusing on "getting it to work". He is probably embarrassed at this point and feels a bit of pressure when you try. But most of us have no problem moving on fr…
/r/seduction16/07/24 12:25 PM
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Well you want to make sure the scalpel is sharp and start at the top of the abdominal cavity. And hopefully she is a frog 🐸. Because a doctor asking these sort of questions would make me quite nervous 😛 I'm just kidding. This is actually solid advice but something else popped into my twisted head with that title 😂
/r/seduction09/05/24 10:26 AM
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you have to get to the point where you have the confidence to run off of your own script though and I know that's really difficult. I'm on the spectrum myself 🤷‍♂️ I have a decent amount of dating experience but most of it was not early on. oh yes, if you're really bald, just shave it all off. Then it looks like something that you chose rather than something that you are not fixing, in the eyes of women these days 😉
/r/seduction07/05/24 12:44 AM
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From what I see, jacked bald dudes are in. If you get into good shape and don't give them too much attention, they are going to notice you. What do you have to work on from there is your openers. You don't just go up and approach. One way I have done it is if I'm standing around waiting somewhere and observe something noteworthy, I'll start a conversation with the person next to me. Doesn't matter if it's a pretty girl or not. But do also hit the pretty girls. and conduct the conversation in the…
/r/seduction07/05/24 12:38 AM
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Not proud of it but I did not knock a guy out once years ago but that was because he knew. The punch in the face was not for her but for his disrespect towards me. Afterwards, I washed my hands of both of them. Of course, if I knew then what I know now, I would have dumped her way before that.
/r/seduction02/11/22 08:36 AM
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His response was reasonable, honestly. She’s probably running game on him left and right. He made no direct threats. I would say you’re fine. Just don’t contact her again. Women who do that in a committed relationship are trash and not worth your time.
/r/seduction02/11/22 08:30 AM
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Just follow your nose buddy 😂
/r/seduction01/11/22 01:49 AM
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I disagree on conversation number one. He made a lighthearted wedding joke which actually does work sometimes and I think she responded very well. I personally think it was him qualifying himself too much, keeping the conversation too long, and the over the top complements on the third conversation, which I definitely agree with you on. I don’t think she took him seriously on the wedding comment and neither did I. And really guys, please stop the shallow tattoo complements. I mean if you have so…
/r/seduction30/10/22 10:00 PM
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Nope. Just become Casper The Friendly Ghost without a single sign at all for awhile. You don’t get her off balance by telegraphing your every move…sheesh
/r/seduction30/10/22 03:13 PM
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Content of the conversation wasn’t too bad but it was too long, IMO. It’s tinder. You should be talking about tonight or later today. Not a week or several days down the road. They will lose interest by then. There is a very low signal to noise ratio for women on tinder. And try to avoid mentioning the tattoos so fast. Women get compliments on those all the time and from what some tell me, they hate it because that’s what every guy comments on. Which goes against the general idea that you want t…
/r/seduction30/10/22 10:03 AM
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I still think it’s reckless pursuit of profit. It’s way too easy to connect these future health problems with the vaccine. I mean look what happened with stuff like talcum powder. But in the big picture, does it really matter why they created this vaccine? We both believe the shot is dangerous and should be taken off the market. I have first-hand testimony as to the effects that I suffered from the shot. I’m glad I didn’t take the other three shots for sure. But we need to stop arguing with each…
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:29 PM
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Visited that theory myself but follow the money. Patients that die off are not profitable. Same as patients who are cured. Do I believe potential problems were brought up and they were most likely ignored? Absolutely. Profit is king. The vaccine itself has a scientific basis but it’s very flawed science. Plus the government would have much more efficient ways to control population, without us even noticing right away. They could even blame the Middle East if anybody caught on. Your body either r…
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:39 AM
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Depends on your fitness level. I had some problems and part of it might have been my fitness level at that time. I have seen old people get it and not have any problems whatsoever. I’m not advocating it by any means. If 1% have adverse effects, that’s too much. I might have stated my post wrong. I did start with walking but ramped it up pretty quickly. I am in pretty good shape now and I’m not worried about a heart attack of all things. I’ve been doing this now for over two years straight and fe…
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:14 AM
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I’m actually going to share something that has nothing to do with seduction. Because it’s relevant to that situation. I got the first 2 vaccinations because of my employer at the time, and had a very bad reaction to the second one. Never felt the same either. In pain, weak, tired, and depressed all the time. And yes, I was getting chest pain a lot. I started working out hard, not to impress women, but to fight what was happening to me. I am feeling much better though I feel like whenever I stop …
/r/seduction28/10/22 01:37 PM
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If you are taking it for something like anxiety and it has a positive affect on your disorder, then I would say definitely yes. But this is not going to be a one size fits all thing. I would definitely go with the high CBD strain because CBD does have a positive effect on anxiety and you won’t be taking enough THC that you’re making a fool of yourself.
/r/seduction27/10/22 12:01 PM
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Truth, in my case. My longest relationship was 9 years and she was awe struck by me. I had confidence issues big time back then so I always thought she was crazy. Same was the case for my ex of 6 years who I have been possibly working things out with. So that one might end up being even longer. But now I am giving her what she has always deserved.
/r/seduction23/10/22 05:16 PM
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It’s OK to want a companion or a night of fun and to go after it. But you should be aware of what you bring to the table and ask yourself if what she brings to the table completes the meal. Never set your heart on any girl until the meal is complete. But girls and focusing on yourself are not mutually exclusive. It’s the fact that some guys let one or the other rule their life. Yes, you can focus on yourself too much as well. You have to effectively interact with the world outside of yourself. E…
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:32 PM
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Break cold for about a week. She may text you during this time. She may not. If you really like her, you can contact her one last time. Maybe genuinely ask her how she has been. That question would be a perfect opportunity for her to bring it up if she’s still upset with you, but has cooled down enough to give you a response. you didn’t come off as needy and clingy in the meantime. Then you can tell her it was a joke and that you didn’t mean to hurt her feelings. Maybe say something like, you li…
/r/seduction18/10/22 12:01 PM
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And speaking of Adderall from the other comment, one of the best ways to know she’s interested in you is she will literally start talking your ear off, most of the time. I find this to be especially true if she initially seems like the quiet type. It’s like all that time she didn’t spend talking she makes it up with you. I never used to but as I got older I kind of find that cute. Figured I would add that because a good number of posts here are about reading the room, which is vital.
/r/seduction18/10/22 11:47 AM
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What do you mean? There’s actually a lot of good stuff in there. Not all of it is going to work for everybody but this was a very comprehensive write up, among ones I have seen here. If one of these things doesn’t work for you, I can say with certainty you’re not doing it right. I have legit used a few of the things here and gotten laid easily. In fact, I really enjoy engaging in the push/pull technique. Try it sometime. It’s fun even when it doesn’t succeed 😉
/r/seduction18/10/22 11:28 AM
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The way you describe how social situations drain you is what convinces me that he might be right about you having social anxiety. It’s a much too familiar feeling for myself and it still occurs but I have much better social stamina if that makes any sense. Now I only feel that after spending maybe too much time with people. I used to feel it in less than five minutes of just trying to talk to somebody. It’s the anxiety of the situation just sucking out your energy and sometimes you don’t even kn…
/r/seduction11/10/22 11:40 AM
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It could be social anxiety. I have suffered from it for years and still fight it, despite a massive amount of progress. The degree that social situations drain me is much less but still very much there, despite me interacting much more competently than I ever did. I was at that point described in your first paragraph. I am not like that anymore but I still have social anxiety. There are different degrees of it that manifest in different ways. Don’t just dismiss that because it’s a serious issue …
/r/seduction11/10/22 11:30 AM
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I have seen people with much less to work with work magic. Your looks are not your problem.
/r/seduction10/10/22 01:14 AM
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I guess I should give the OP my two cents as well. Penises come in all shapes and sizes. There is a wide range of what would be considered normal. But what is depicted in porn should never be considered normal. It’s fantasy and a good amount of it is fake. Some people are just freaks of nature, as well. The only time to worry about a curve is usually when you get older and you can’t get a relatively straight erection. But you’re nowhere close to crossing that bridge, which would indicate a blood…
/r/seduction09/10/22 12:39 PM
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Not so much a fun time. I find some of the reading entertaining, though I feel less compelled as time goes on to respond to those who just choose to have a negative opinion of women, rather than working on themselves. I will admit that does get old. But it reminds me of how far I have come.
/r/seduction09/10/22 12:32 PM
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I don’t know about that. As somebody who is extremely successful, but was very unsuccessful earlier in his life, I actually find some of these posts very amusing. But then again, I’m here to help others and our OP needs to gain some more experience before going and doing that around here 😛
/r/seduction09/10/22 11:24 AM
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But you are making the false assumption that the OP didn’t have these feelings before he expressed them to her. Was he ever a safety issue to this point? So what changed now that he made a few key strokes expressing what he had already been feeling? The OP might be socially awkward, but nothing about the situation changed after his awkward 5 second drunk text. Yes I know being drunk is no excuse but it really just does not seem like a huge deal unless she had some past trauma. It’s not normal fo…
/r/seduction05/10/22 03:24 PM
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I’ve gotten texts from girls later than that asking if I wanted to come over. One, who was a friend of mine(not close, but knew her for years) was as bold as to text “Please come over and fuck me. Me and ——— just broke up and I am so pissed. Please, I really need you right now”. I was a little stunned by how bold that was but not offended, in the least. I actually never knew she found me that attractive and since I was single at the time and thought she was pretty attractive, despite being crazy…
/r/seduction05/10/22 02:58 PM
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Jesus, what happened in your life? Most guys, even these days, I believe would never even dream of forcing themselves on a woman. There are some dirtbags, of course. But the OP really has not given any reason for anybody to believe he is that special kind of dirtbag, from what we know, of course. That’s why I said if he’s telling the truth in my post.
/r/seduction05/10/22 02:42 PM
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It depends on how you act on it. You could want to murder your boss but if you put that energy into lifting some weights instead of grabbing the butcher knife, you have just acted on those feelings, but in a positive way. He left her a text expressing an interest in a slightly joking manner, that she had every option in the world to not act on. She decided to turn down his offer, which is her choice. But to shame him for just showing his interest is ludicrous. by the way, I generally hate bosses…
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:21 PM
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But there are just certain things you should not apologize for and your feelings happen to be one of those things. I mean you could say that you’re sorry that she feels that way(but do not apologize for your feelings or acting on them) if you happen to really care. But it really sounds like she’s going to be out of his life soon and I don’t see this particular interaction being worth his effort or his dignity. He would be much better served by just giving her the “Next!” treatment and putting hi…
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:14 PM
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True shit, but I have a feeling that many of the guys here have a problem even approaching women without appearing nervous. I mean and I think girls around here are seeing that kind of thing commonly. I was just talking to this hot girl who works often solo at one of my favorite lunch spots, as I always do. There is a particular item there that is a pain in the ass for her to make that I happen to like, along with many people. She told me that I am the only person that she doesn’t complain about…
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:04 PM
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By the way he’s saying to change it, I think he’s just telling people to dress well and groom themselves well, not in so many words. It helps, but some dudes just don’t have masculine features so their masculinity must be portrayed through their actions, which I encourage even if you’re Brad Pitt.
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:55 AM
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Screw that. She is going to be out of his life soon. I would probably just tell her to have a nice life. He does not have to apologize for his desires or expressing them. He sent a jokingly suggestive text expressing his desire and left it at that. He didn’t do anything inappropriate. If she’s uncomfortable and he is telling the truth about everything that he did, it’s clearly on her.
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:41 AM
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Not always. You have to add up the red flags and use common sense. I know sometimes high karma people make new accounts if they intend to say something that will get downvoted. And this is a subject where there are a lot of people selling snake oil. My comments regularly point out some of this snake oil making the rounds not only on Reddit but in the commercial dating and adult industry, as well.
/r/seduction04/10/22 12:10 PM
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I’m just telling the guy to be careful because it does come off as sketchy when you want to only give advice on a public forum in a DM. I figure there must be a reason that you don’t want it to be part of the discussion for the benefit of others. I mean isn’t that the point of a public forum to begin with? If you feel like people might downvote the hell out of you for it, there might be a reason. But knowing me if I was in your shoes, I would still say it if I thought it would help others.
/r/seduction04/10/22 11:47 AM
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Be careful. Most scams start with low karma and a DM, if you get my drift. There is a lot of information here to help you along. Stuff that probably has been kept secret for years, outside of certain circles. My point? There is really no seduction method that is legit that can’t be shared here unless somebody is trying to make money off of it 😉 my thoughts are you are investing too much into each conversation you have with a girl. You have to come from a place of abundance, not scarcity. At leas…
/r/seduction04/10/22 11:00 AM
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It just sounds like he’s compulsively thinking about them as nature intended. If he stopped thinking about them, something would definitely be wrong. Go ask nature. I don’t make the rules. It’s a matter of thinking from the right frame of mind and channeling those thoughts.
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:53 AM
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Good bot
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:44 AM
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Listen, we can’t tell you in a subreddit how to psychoanalyze the guy and guess what he’s thinking. One big problem is we don’t know him in the first person. Like I told many of the guys here, you’re going to need to grow a pair. If you intend to have a committed relationship with him, you need to be clear about those intentions. If after three months of seeing you every day he up and leaves, at least you would know now instead of having your head stuck in the sand. Avoiding reality has about 0%…
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:13 PM
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He seems really salty about some experiences that he’s had. I did try to talk some sense into him about that but it appears his post in this thread was before I went and did that. His negativity unfortunately is a self feeding loop. Negative attitudes produce negative results and negative results promote the negative attitude. It’s a cycle that some guys here really need to break.
/r/seduction03/10/22 11:51 AM
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It actually was the beginning of a play for me once. When a friend didn’t seem that upset by it. I said I’m sorry, I shouldn’t have done that. Left a moment of silence and said I’ll apologize for this later and really kissed her. Things turned much hotter after that 😉
/r/seduction03/10/22 11:06 AM
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Well, it sucks feeling hopeless. We can’t give you a magic bullet. All we can do is give the tools. And maybe my assurance that I have seen some pretty sad and pathetic people evolve and grow. I am sure whatever you are working with right now is not half as bad as a few cases that I have seen over the years. so it is unfortunate that you are giving up. I understand that you are frustrated. But what does giving up get you besides maybe some temporary relief from that frustration and a lifetime of…
/r/seduction03/10/22 03:14 AM
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What if? Are you afraid to find out or something? Some approaches work better for some people than others. But you have to find your own voice, so to speak. That’s why there is so much different advice here. And it could all be correct. There is not just one way of going about it. In fact, your way should be your own as much as possible. Drop the idea of practically reading from a script, like some people here are looking for. There is no script. You have to learn to read her.
/r/seduction03/10/22 02:52 AM
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Grocery store is one of the easiest places, my man. Let me give you a hint: women enjoy being helpful. Ask her if you were making her dinner which of something would she prefer and show the items. You can bs a little and act like you’re ready to put on a feast or something. Very easy to escalate if she takes the bait. You pretty much already subliminally suggested making her dinner 😉
/r/seduction03/10/22 02:44 AM
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Some trans women are some of the most socially competent and delightful people that I have met. But I am not attracted to them. But they make quite good wingmen if you do the wingman thing.
/r/seduction03/10/22 02:37 AM
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I get it. You’re feeling frustrated and perhaps a bit bitter. But let me ask you something. How do you expect them to have a good time and be comfortable around you if you’re not having a good time? Maybe the bar isn’t for you. Much of what has been taught here is how to frame things to put the interaction on your own terms. One part of that is possibly doing it where you’re most comfortable. Sure, you can approach in a bar but it’s probably not a great idea if you don’t like hanging out at bars…
/r/seduction03/10/22 02:34 AM
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That’s your problem. You were super into her in only a couple dates and you didn’t even sleep with her. Even if you slept with her, you should still have the frame of control of the situation, and that includes your emotions. Can’t commit to a woman if she hasn’t shown you commitment first. And even then, make sure she is right for you.
/r/seduction29/09/22 12:51 PM
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Being numb is never good. It should be more realizing it’s not a reflection on you. Might not even be one on them. Everybody has a preference. You don’t have to change who you are. Just become a better version of yourself. One that you can be proud of. Others will be able to see that. And if you don’t come off as creepy and they are rude, then it is a reflection on them, not you.
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:34 AM
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Get the e-book then. There’s solutions for almost every situation these days.
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:26 AM
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I was actually doing that at one point and had to slow down 😂 and my numbers are modest compared to some of my friends. But the first skill you have to learn is to love yourself and be comfortable in your own skin.
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:25 AM
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And I’m sure women can read that attitude of yours from 50 miles away. I am serious and not being insulting by telling you you really need to work on yourself first. Women should not even be on your radar right now. Take it from somebody who has learned many things the hard way. And most women generally don’t approach. Doing the approach is what half of the posts here are about. But none of that is going to help you if you’re broken inside. And you can’t expect a woman to fix you.
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:22 AM
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Not saying to go out there like Boomhower from king of the hill 😂 but you need to create the opportunity. It will never create itself. Well, I shouldn’t say never. But let’s say it for our practical purposes because it’s not the norm.
/r/seduction26/09/22 11:07 AM
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When you realize you don’t have to be every woman’s(or people in general) cup of tea, you won’t even feel the need to say that. Some people around here are 40 year old virgins not because they are truly undesirable. But because they never played the game, as much as they walk around here acting like they lost. I mean yes, you automatically lose if you don’t play. But they also have to stop thinking in the past tense not only about what happened but thinking that they lost. You only continue to l…
/r/seduction26/09/22 10:32 AM
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You can’t worry about the mood being right. That’s why I never used to make a move. It wasn’t that I was really afraid of success or failure. It was that I was never sure if the time was right. You have to shoot your shot. Look her in the eyes and get up there before she’s leaving and shit is even more awkward. You can worry about how you feel later. But once you got the balls, I guarantee you will feel much better about yourself, even if she rejects you. That goes back to one of my first points…
/r/seduction26/09/22 10:18 AM
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Happened to me several days ago. I felt annoyed for about a couple hours, maybe a little less, then I got two phone numbers instead of one 😂 and actually I am great at taking rejection. But I can’t stand cowards who like to ghost. I honestly never give a woman another chance if she does that. To me, it’s a red flag that she has deeper issues. And I’ve had some of them regret doing that to me in the past and seeing where I am now and now wanting a piece. I just be like you were offered a nice ste…
/r/seduction26/09/22 10:03 AM
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Capitalism at work 😂
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:43 PM
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It’s because being a cocky loudmouth can be fun. I won’t lie 😂 But I know I have said in another post that if a woman is into you, if you’re having fun, then she will likely be having fun. I know I have said it recently. So don’t stop having fun. It’s good for you 🙂
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:41 PM
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I think this is pretty much why online dating is discouraged around here. These women go on there for their ego because even the ugliest still get a decent amount of attention in an online dating environment. It’s a supply and demand equation. Where are the men heavily outweigh the women. Now, men who know how to do proper approaches are in very short supply. And that’s why it’s talked about so much around here.
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:36 PM
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You are way too uptight about saying the wrong thing. It’s more in how you say things than what you are saying. Make it fun is the best advice I have for conversational direction. I once got a date while totally ripping on her shoes. Of course, she pointed them out and was laughing about them to begin with. I’m not telling you to just come out and rip on her lol I’m just telling you to keep it fun. If she vibes with you, she will usually be having fun if you are.
/r/seduction24/09/22 03:11 PM
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Never been a fan of this technique. How would you like somebody walking up to you making some kind of assumption about you, even if it was correct? It’s not even the creep factor. It just seems genuinely rude. Now once you get into a conversation with somebody you could say something like I bet you like Mexican food or something like that. Casual stuff that might lead to a date idea later. But stop trying to prepare a script for yourself and enjoy the interaction.
/r/seduction23/09/22 10:15 AM
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Here’s a concept: talk to them just for the interaction. Don’t have any investment in the outcome whatsoever. Just stop trying to get a date for right now. If you’re invested in the situation, you will screw up. You’re trying to get the hang of these social situations, so you don’t need to chase them off by being thirsty. Then hopefully you won’t chase them off.
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:56 AM
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Sort of creepy, honestly. It’s not direct. It would come off as very cowardly. I would either wait for another opener or forget about her. More opportunities will come. That’s one thing that’s touched on a lot here. How to seize the opportunity while it is there. I know you might be kicking yourself but I’m not lying when I say you’ll get another opportunity and you’ll probably forget about her. I think some of you guys watch too many romance movies. They might be good for getting a girl in to h…
/r/seduction21/09/22 09:59 AM
2

Some women don’t know how to react. They are not generally used to it and are almost never expecting it. I just got the number of this hot chick I was sort of acquaintances with years ago. I would have never been her type back in the day nor had the guts to approach her. Here’s why I mentioned this. At first, she was stunned and actually froze. At that point, you have to keep the conversation moving but don’t just move off to another topic. Because it just sounded like the person that you approa…
/r/seduction21/09/22 09:17 AM
7

It is whether you volunteer to compete or not. You will always be stacked up against other people. But you know what? I’m glad it’s a competition. If nothing else does, it forces some men to actually become men. It gives you control. The only time I wasn’t glad of this was when I thought I couldn’t compete. The I can’t lose if I don’t compete mentality is an automatic loss.
/r/seduction20/09/22 01:30 PM
2

That’s where you got it wrong. The prize isn’t another person. The prize is self improvement and everything else it brings.
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:59 PM
2

Do you know why your mental health is suffering? It’s because you’re giving them that power. Stop it! This is supposed to be fun, not overly serious. But really, you do need to deal with that mental health stuff before bringing your baggage over to some unsuspecting women. Not only will they be much happier, but you will too. You have way too much invested in the outcome. Go approach an ugly chick that looks friendly. Don’t lead her on but get conversations going. I’m thinking that might go pret…
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:28 AM
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Just do you and socialize with women along the way. Tinder isn’t exactly the dating scene. It’s a predatory app that has monetized dating. Sure, I may have benefitted from it in the past, but it is still a very predatory app that is not representative of the dating scene. Want to get better with women without dating? Then just socialize with them on the street or wherever. You don’t need to be looking for a date.
/r/seduction17/09/22 04:37 AM
3

It really isn’t, as long as he doesn’t start acting all insecure about it and warning her that he might not know what he’s doing and all that. Insecurity kills attraction. It doesn’t have to be necessarily insecurity revolving around virginity.
/r/seduction17/09/22 04:18 AM
1

Prepare her for disappointment and she will be disappointed. He would be better off picking up the Kama Sutra and reading it 😂
/r/seduction17/09/22 04:14 AM
1

Well, if you happen to be right, then she should already know shouldn’t she? I don’t know. I pleased the first girl that I slept with enough that she kept coming back time after time. I think a lot of things come naturally. I can’t really say whether you’re right though about her being able to tell because it’s been over a full generation since I was in that boat 😉 maybe the first girl I was with could tell, but she sure as hell wasn’t complaining. And I didn’t think I was good at all that first…
/r/seduction17/09/22 04:08 AM
1

Most women would actually react like this to the mistakes that you have made. I am not here to beat you up over it. I just want you to realize it so that you can do better next time.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:52 AM
2

He made a huge mistake by contacting her when he was drunk and acting needy and desperate. I don’t agree with your comment though for one reason. I think if he texts her yet again after the previous interactions, without letting her come to him first, he will just come off as more needy and invested in the outcome of the situation. This will cause her to lose attraction even more. Best advice is to chill, at this point and get your mind away from the situation. OP needs to be in a good frame of …
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:46 AM
2

Often times, it is a very distinct possibility that she met somebody else when they suddenly become distant. But the key word here is sudden. This wasn’t sudden. This was triggered by mistakes on your end, and hers as well. Remember that in my other post I said that your first mistake was not maintaining your own space? She too was also making the same mistake by not maintaining her own space in the beginning. But you also have to own your part and move forward.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:35 AM
1

You needed to keep your own space. That was your first mistake. Spending all day and all night with her in the beginning will just kill the attraction. Factor in that she hasn’t been in a relationship in a while and that becomes even more true. Then you admitted it, you started acting crazy. Right now, you just need to stop focusing on that one. Not saying you have necessarily blown it, maybe you have, but if you keep obsessing you definitely will. Get yourself back out there and get socializing…
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:23 AM
2

Of course, if one respects themselves, they do not choose these toxic feminists as potential partners. you don’t always know when you meet somebody but it should not take it too much time together to figure that out and not waste any more of your time.
/r/seduction16/09/22 07:36 PM
3

He won’t get pity from me. Maybe some weights and a self help book or 2, because those might actually change his life…
/r/seduction16/09/22 07:30 PM
2

Yes, absolutely, that is one thing I was trying to convey to the OP.
/r/seduction16/09/22 07:27 PM
1

Well, chicken, meet egg 😉 Women have to respect you in order to be attracted to you. The best way to achieve that is to always be true to yourself, even when it’s difficult. Even if it means being alone because you’re comfortable with your own company. once you achieve that, it changes you automatically and women tend to notice that. If you need something to do for now, my best advice is hit the gym. You can gain a lot of social connections and what it does for your body and mind for this and ma…
/r/seduction16/09/22 07:23 PM
2

I was always told I was good looking. You might have it easier in some ways, but you have to be even better at picking up cues. Why? Because many of them will get shy around you and try to hide the signals that they are letting off. Fortunately, once you have a feel of what to look for, many women do not hide it very well at all. Of course, I had an extra challenge therein. I have Asperger’s, which can make social cues challenging. Being where I am now involved studying social interactions until…
/r/seduction14/09/22 11:09 AM
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One alpha trait is knowing how to make women feel comfortable and safe. So of course you can’t be acting like some ‘roid head 😂
/r/seduction14/09/22 10:48 AM
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I disagree. At least with the first part. I think he was perfect to that point because if he can’t show any emotion at all at this point, it probably doesn’t have the kind of future that OP wants from it going forward. I remember saying something similar to a girl and it turned into a great long-term relationship. Where he screwed up was rambling on too long without setting up another meeting. That’s a big no. In the beginning, you text with purpose and leave some mystery to keep the attraction …
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:22 AM
2

Some girls used to scrapbook their whole lives, now much worse, they Facebook it instead 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:18 AM
1

Most of what you say here, race has absolutely nothing to do with. Sure, some women don’t like black or Indian guys. Some don’t like white guys. It’s a preference, like other physical features. But there will always be those who either prefer men of whatever race you happen to be or those who really don’t care. But thank you for bringing up the elephant in the room that I have gotten so much flack for in various places. Racial equality is a serious issue and nothing I am going to say changes tha…
/r/seduction13/09/22 11:59 AM
1

Hey he was the one who going all Sodom and Gomorrah on people 😂 of course there’s going to be some opinions on that but I almost wonder if that’s the reason that he made the post in the first place 😉
/r/seduction11/09/22 01:41 PM
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Because I was agreeing with you. Science is the furthest thing from factors that this guy considers. I think he has some Bible related hangup about people who may have slept around a little bit.
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:47 PM
1

Jesus Christ lay off the steroids. I was talking about what the OP said about kings having mistresses and all that. Those are biblical time values. His other posts have similar judgments about women.
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:42 PM
1

Oh my God I knew we had a Bible thumper here 😂
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:38 PM
1

They removed your topic for a guidelines violation. That’s why you can’t reply. But they did tell you where you can post it.
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:36 PM
1

Wait it’s that guy? I rarely keep track of the names of topic posters unless they post very frequently. I think I gave some advice over there. Now I’m curious if I did 😂 Edit: Well shizzle, I guess he has a fascination with promiscuous women. No judgment on that point. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/xb6or1/is_it_worth_having_a_girlfriend_like_this/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:27 PM
3

I guess it must not have ended well 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:25 PM
3

Virgins are generally the most unpredictable, in my experience. I believe the reason to be is that they don’t really know how they are going to feel after they have done it because they never did it before. Not saying that all of them would be a bad partner. Not at all. But if you want somebody who knows what they want, usually those people have a few bodies under their belt. Or is it under their dress in this case?
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:12 PM
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Thanks for that. I almost snorted my chai latte out my nose when I read that comment 😂
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:03 PM
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For me, it’s for low quality posts that detract from the community, but I usually only bother in cases of blatant misinformation. It would be pretty silly if all of your karma was based on how many people agree with you 😂 So I guess thank goodness there are people like me right? But you did prove my point once again. You care way too much about what other people think. How do you expect to ever be happy? I am literally not worried about that shit. And I have plenty of respect around here. That d…
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:48 AM
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As per my other post, I would play it but none of the questions would actually be serious. It’s a license to be a little goofy and maybe get her laughing. Laughing has some very good physiological effects, when it comes to your endgame.
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:46 AM
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Don’t engage her intellectually too much in the beginning. Challenge her a little bit but you want to keep her in her feelings, not in her thinking mode. You will never get to her through logic. You have to make her feel something. I would steer her towards more playful and silly questions. Get a good laugh going and breaking the touch barrier is child’s play. The game probably won’t last too long. Then you can start being as suggestive as you want(within social norms).
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:44 AM
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I love how you downvote everything just because you don’t agree with it. It further shows your maturity. But again, you care way too much about what people think. I don’t know if I would marry a porn star to be honest with you. It hasn’t been on the table. I guess it would depend on the porn star. I mean I would have no problems sleeping with one(and have). I think for a relationship she would have to be retired from that work. There is one that lives around here that I kind of liked but I haven…
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:33 AM
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Yes I do. And I’m not about to share those kind of details with them because it is none of their business. It doesn’t even matter if your family or friends like her, as long as she is a healthy choice for you. Are you happy? That’s all that matters. You can’t be a people pleaser. Some of my worst partners of my past were people that my family liked 😂
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:29 AM
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Do you need all of these men to admire you? Is that what a woman is to you? A trophy? Something to brag about? do you think landing a virgin is going to make you some sort of idol among your friends? My dude, you really need to grow up. When you’re with somebody, whether it is for the night or a long-term relationship, it is about you and her, nobody else. I really hope that you see that soon.
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:26 AM
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There’s no way this guy could have a high body count. I am being serious. He is so judgmental and insecure that women would just tear him apart 😂
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:20 AM
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But that’s totally different than why I ripped his post apart. He’s judging these women saying that they don’t make good decisions and are mentally ill essentially. There’s a difference between having a preference and being judgmental. You are the former and OP is the latter 😉
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:19 AM
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1-why are you making assumptions about people? 2-WTF! Are you a devout Catholic or something? It has absolutely nothing to do with their decision making. And there are many steps that women can take to stay safe. Some of the smartest women I know in the business world have a triple digit body count. Don’t ask me where I got that information 😂 but you need to chill on the being judgmental. Women will pick up on that whether they have had one or 100 bodies. 3-do you not think you’re better than th…
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:14 AM
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Always try to be playful. If she stops having fun, that’s when she’ll lose interest. I swear that’s the most common issue around here. Guys just taking the interaction way too seriously. When it comes down to being playful or serious, always take the playful route. But absolutely remember what she tells you about herself. Girls love that.
/r/seduction11/09/22 11:04 AM
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We’ve all had at least one of those, I think. But those people telling you to just move on are the ones looking out for you. There is a reason that she hasn’t talked to you for six months and hasn’t really given a crap and still doesn’t give a crap. And it’s not some bipolar mood swing. That would be one crazy long mood swing. I mean do what you want but you can definitely find good sex without having a load of baggage clogging up the bedroom and your proverbial house.
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:55 AM
3

I thought it was wrestling? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:47 AM
3

That depends on what you talk about. If you start talking about your Star Wars collection, then that might come off a bit nerdy, not that there’s anything wrong with Star Wars 😉 I probably would get playful about the comment about the face.
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:41 AM
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Jesus dude. What signals are you looking for? You have to make that opening yourself. She’s not going to just chill with somebody she just met and try to kiss them out of nowhere. Well, not usually. Break that touch barrier if you haven’t already before she ends up thinking that you’re gay. Then look her in the eyes when you feel the moment is right. You have to lead so that she can follow. Get my drift?
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:35 AM
1

The weed had nothing to do with this. Leave the weed alone 🤣
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:30 AM
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Yeah I’m not really buying this guy‘s story. Multiple women calling him cute? He’s definitely trying to brag on the Internet. And if his confidence hinges on what people on the Internet think, there would be no way that he is smashing “multiple women”. If he was that worried that he was screwing things up because he was being called cute, said women would have eaten him alive due to his lack of confidence already. Or maybe they did and he wants some help with that. But then he should just ask di…
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:27 AM
3

Well if he took out the strap on and gave it to her, I guess then she might be wondering 😂
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:21 AM
5

You guys are killing me 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:18 AM
0

Dude, she doesn’t think you’re gay or a beta if she just slept with you, unless you go with the kind that will just sleep with anybody. That’s actually kind of a unique after sex habit and she was probably amused by it. Cute is one of those words where it depends on how it’s said. But it sounds like you’re doing just fine. Relax.
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:14 AM
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I bet you think all of those red flags are a carnival. Definitely not girlfriend material. Not because of how many people she has slept with. That’s honestly not an issue on its own. Usually when every single one of her exes are douche bags, in someway she is the problem. Either she is making bad choices in people she chooses to be with, or she is causing the relationship problems and won’t own up to her part. Neither scenario is good. The fact that she seems to be talking about her exes a lot i…
/r/seduction11/09/22 04:58 AM
2

I’ve gotten shit for telling people to hit the gym when they say they are depressed and never go out and wonder why they can’t get women. It’s a fantastic start for all of those problems 😛
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:41 PM
1

They give the worst advice, coming from somebody who suffers from Aspergers and used to struggle. I think that’s why I like to help out sometimes 😉
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:36 PM
1

I don’t know how many people like me there are here, but I stumbled upon this sub and found some of the stories entertaining. I like to help out, on occasion, as well.
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:31 PM
0

It’s called tact or the art of speechcraft. You should be able to turn her down without deliberately ripping her heart out of her chest. She might be hurt about getting turned down, even if you do it correctly. You can’t do nothing about her feelings. You had nothing to do with her liking you in that way and leading her on is just going to hurt her much worse and might even get yourself hurt. I get where you’re coming from, in a way. You don’t want to mix work and romance. I’ve been there before…
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:21 AM
2

What in the world? I read that post and it’s a totally different situation. The situation in that post is a guy who just doesn’t have the balls to do anything about it when a girl likes him. It’s a great post but reminds me of how I was as a teenager into my early 20s, sadly. You simply don’t want the attention and are trying to turn her away in a polite manner. Just simply tell her you don’t like to mess around with coworkers. Whether you want to invite her to hang out as friends is a judgment …
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:09 AM
1

Look back but only for a few seconds then break eye contact. Does she fix eyes with you? Does she smile? Maybe looks back at you sneakily if you walk away? All good signs for approach. Usually she made up her mind in the first few seconds whether things can go past looking. Whether they can go past talking is up to how you approach things. I can tell you one thing. You will never succeed if you don’t approach. Why are you so afraid of rejection? Given the point that I already made, you have lost…
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:02 PM
3

And one who is irresponsible with her choices in men has many possible underlying issues you are choosing not to see because of your infatuation. Stop idolizing her! A better her means just that. Somebody better than the floozies you are smitten over. Keep working on yourself and it’ll work out 💪🏻
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:30 AM
1

It’s not where you meet. It’s what you do from there. Do you somehow think you’re better than somebody who met on Tinder or similar? I met the most meaningful woman in my life on what was probably the worst dating/social site(anybody remember Meetme?). And I usually do much better in real life, but we are not even talking a normal dating site lol. But does that even matter if you escalated it to the point that she comes to meet you in person and you have a meaningful time together? Definitely no…
/r/seduction04/09/22 11:32 AM
2

State your thoughts but you don’t need a reason most of the time. It’s unnecessary and can actually hinder you. It’s also a very empowering thing once you get used to not explaining things. You feel a lot more sure of yourself.
/r/seduction03/09/22 02:24 AM
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Never had a problem stating my opinion but that middle paragraph is vital. It’s what turned everything around for me, quite literally. I suffer from Aspergers and would overly explain a lot of things, which wasn’t actually qualifying but it dawned on me it could be perceived as such. Then one day I decided to just tell myself to shut the hell up after stating my opinion on things. Just leave it there. Keep answers direct. No matter what it was. Other than hitting the gym, that made the most diff…
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:25 PM
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You are much too concerned about the outcome. Go into it with no investment in the outcome. Treat it like any other skill you would like to improve. If you’re invested in the outcome, you will screw up. Once you learn to let that go, that’s when things will go your way.
/r/seduction02/09/22 12:03 AM
1

Really? I see lots of men walking around here like that pussy has a very short leash on them. 🐶Of course, these are low value men.
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:31 PM
4

My last two relationships weren’t even on my social media. I mean I didn’t claim to be single or anything. Just never had them add me on social media and neither of us cared.
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:04 PM
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Just tell her you hate social media. You don’t need to offer any explanation. Offering explanations demonstrates low value. Or worse, a nice guy. And it doesn’t mean you’re nice.
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:02 PM
1

Every woman who has ever asked me for a picture of myself was into me. Now X-rated pics can be a different story. That is dangerous territory. If she sends you some, fine. You can still choose not to reciprocate if you are not comfortable. But a regular picture, that’s a good sign.
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:58 AM
3

Well one that I’m reading off of you is that you are texting her to get a response, at which point you will feel good when she responds. Her response validates you. That’s a self validating behavior. It’s definitely not limited to that. But that happens to be an extremely common one and one that would really make her lose interest quickly. You should be confident that she would want to respond to you. if she doesn’t, then you have options. And your life is complete with or without a woman. Play …
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:15 AM
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I’ll tell you a true story. I took her on a hiking and movie date(hiking allows relaxed conversation and a lot of casual, playful touching). We got to know each other through talking and I ended up saving her from falling down a few times by grabbing her hand which broke the touch barrier. Escalated to holding hands. Which escalated further in the movie theater with our arms overlapping each other. At the point we were both leaning into each other I gently put my arm around her and ended up hold…
/r/seduction31/08/22 11:47 AM
1

Consent is a real issue even though a few here are too uptight. That being said, I don’t think going from the hand to the waist is really a great idea. I mean one Avenue might be to get you both really laughing and then maybe touch her arm a few times and if she is ok so far, then pat her on the back in a joking manner or go for a hug if you’re really having a good moment. The back is legit in the right circumstances and a hug is legit if she reciprocates. if she fixes eyes with you, then you ha…
/r/seduction31/08/22 11:23 AM
1

Go for it. I had a girl do this not that long ago and while it wasn’t a match from heaven, it was definitely a fun few months. What happened was in the last hour she ended up texting me asking if we were still on. Any number of things could’ve happened. And yes, you could also be a backup plan. But that doesn’t matter really. It’s what you do when you’re out with her that will seal the deal.
/r/seduction30/08/22 01:20 PM
2

You got me. Mostly because I have had people actually tell me that and be serious. Then I get to thinking, I know most of these people are not virgins. I feel sorry for their partners 😂
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:42 PM
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See that’s your problem. Not the fact that you are skinny. The bad news is you are going to have to take ownership of this problem. But that’s the great thing about this as well. You don’t need to do anything drastic although I would definitely encourage continuing to hit the gym. The things it does for you are amazing. but all you have to do is get yourself 30 seconds of courage from time to time. And remember, they are people just like you. Do you remember the last time one of the bros chatted…
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:01 PM
2

How is it a myth? It’s a very real response to certain types of stimulation. There’s actually a few ways it can happen but which is best depends on you and her. I think the popular myth is that women often fake it. An assertive woman(the kind you want, ideally) would not feel the need. Especially if she’s secure with you. Then the two of you can work on making it happen next time if it didn’t happen the first time. But the biggest point that seems to be missed around here often is just have fun …
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:13 PM
1

My problem in the past was choosing the wrong ones. It turned out really not to be a me thing directly. But it was me in the end because I realized I was attracted to a certain type that was bad for me. I now recognize and avoid that type. There are many other types of wonderful women even though the type that I spoke of sort of was like the forbidden fruit LOL
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:07 PM
1

Overall good post. But we don’t call the genuinely kind, generous, and caring man a “nice guy” nor would he ever claim to be one(unlike the “nice guys” we frequently refer to here and who frequently post). We call them good men. Nice guys are lying, spineless, incel weasels 😉 Just thought I would clarify that.
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:23 AM
1

It can narrow your playing field. But what you got to ask yourself is what prize are you playing for? You want somebody you can relate to, at least on some level. Faking interesting conversation would not be a very fun endeavor. That being said, I generally try to stay away from politics because you’re always going to disagree about something, even if you 2 are generally on the same side. You can usually figure out where somebody stands by just spending a little time with them and finding out wh…
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:10 AM
21

Sounds like a very expensive date. I’m sorry I just had to 😂
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:48 AM
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I was honest with a few about my numbers, which had mixed reactions. Although it only once kept me from sealing the deal. But usually I make a joke out of the question like telling her that I’m a virgin. If she tells you you’re full of shit, tell her that she is hurting your virgin ears and that she could probably do something about the virgin thing. But keep it playful…
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:23 AM
1

It’s actually a great piece of advice that used to confuse me too. It’s just basically saying you should be putting more into making yourself happy than trying to impress members of the opposite gender. When you do take care of yourself and your own wishes, you are happier and more confident. Women notice that.
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:50 PM
5

That’s something you have to work on yourself. Because that’s baggage that a potential partner of yours should not have to endure. Neither should you if the shoe were on the other foot. Insecurity destroys good relationships.
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:12 PM
13

Revenge for what? Your insecurities drove her off. You kept listening to other people about everything and confronted her. You still come off as very insecure with this pettiness. Do you blame her for not wanting to be in the relationship? Maybe she should have broken it off before seeing somebody else but then again it doesn’t sound like you guys were really all that serious, to be honest. I’m sorry man love hurts but it doesn’t sound like your hands are clean in this mess. Just learn from the …
/r/seduction23/08/22 03:40 PM
2

Jesus dude. You act like you’re talking to some alien civilization with a different language. Why do you stress having something to say so much? If she likes you, she will have things to say that you will surely have something to contribute about. just enjoy the interaction. Women may have different things driving them, but they are still human beings like you and me.
/r/seduction23/08/22 03:34 PM
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Flakes on Tinder are typical, though I wouldn’t say it’s without value. I got some nice ones on there back when I wasn’t getting out as much. As to your other concern, make sure you are keeping self validation behaviors in check. By the way you describe yourself in the past, you probably have a history of these and might not even be aware of it. Just because you are confident in your body doesn’t mean that you are not doing this subconsciously. The thing is to think about why you are doing them …
/r/seduction23/08/22 03:25 PM
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Dude. You just started seeing her. One of the first rules of dating is always assume she is probably boning somebody until it’s known that she’s not. There is no commitment on either side after one date unless you both have serious issues. I mean if you really know this for sure, you can choose to have your fun, which always has the possibility of something more serious down the road or not. Or you could walk away, but with as paranoid as you are, I think you will be walking away from many oppor…
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:42 PM
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The overall strategy worked. The line didn’t make her fall into bed with me but it made her laugh(a little too much), which is rarely ever a bad thing, unless it happens right after you drop your pants and you don’t happen to be wearing clown makeup or a funny shirt 😂
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:47 AM
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Yeah I think he is but I have actually gotten away with this one. Of course, it was not my first interaction with said woman. Things were already going great and I said it in a very joking manner after she said something low key provocative to me. But please don’t use it as a pick up line 😂
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:43 AM
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Most likely, it was the way you were raised. Western civilization, until more recent times(but we still need work), used to portray sex as a taboo, or in the really old days, something for marriage. Especially if kinks are involved. It’s really a shame because it makes people ashamed of their bodies and to express themselves sexually. It’s so deep rooted that people might not even realize this is what’s going on. I believe it stems from religious dogma of the people who settled our country to be…
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:36 AM
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You are thinking from a logical point of view. Women don’t experience relationships through logic. They do so through emotion, which I know I have stated several times but it is something that governs nearly every interaction you will have. I don’t think it’s so much of reminding her of past relationships, because honestly, she should be over that relationship before she steps out with you. It’s more that you will give off the impression that you are not over your exes or your past, which is a h…
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:31 AM
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And you have a good reason to be skeptical of some of them. Some of them are outright full of shit. But there are some with legitimate technique out there. You are not wrong in thinking that they need an emotional connection. It’s just probably not the type of emotional connection you are thinking. It doesn’t have to be a deep connection per se. It can be intense and passionate but the point is you have to make them feel something or you will not get anywhere.
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:31 PM
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Actually, it all makes sense when you realize women are very emotionally driven. Factor that into your logic when thinking about your approach. But don’t think about it too much 😂
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:08 PM
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She shouldn’t have too many needs at that point(if she already seems needy/demanding, watch out!). You haven’t even gone out on a date yet. I usually short text back if she asks me something but try not to let it turn into a full conversation. Those are for the date itself.
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:44 PM
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It’s really not good advice. It would make you sound like a complete idiot. But I don’t think some of the women who chime in here purposely give bad advice. They think that’s what they want. Just like they think they want one of those so-called nice guys. And if you realize what those are really made of, nobody wants one of those 😂
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:35 PM
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I went with yes and didn’t regret it. You do you. One valuable skill I like to encourage in myself and others is being creative, especially with dates. That’s when you really enjoy dating. I personally like the idea. OK I will tell you why I like the idea, despite it being a romantic movie stereotype(women love this stuff. Pay attention to common themes in chick flicks and see how they respond emotionally). It’s quiet enough to have relaxed meaningful conversation without having to yell but it’s…
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:30 PM
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I took a girl doing that a couple weeks ago. We ended up quitting early and doing something else because it was really hot outside 😉 but I would make the first activity something you normally like to do just so that you both can be comfortable.
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:11 PM
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But don’t make it something stupid like will you go out with me or some silly shit like that. Maybe a little small talk but not too much. Figure out something you would normally want to do by yourself that might be fun to have her along for and invite her along, which frames the situation very differently. Remember to lead but don’t let your hunger dictate your actions. Your nerves are there to protect you from situations that make you vulnerable but this is a situation where vulnerability is pr…
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:06 PM
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Not like you’re misrepresenting any material fact. She technically did give it to him in the group chat. Obviously, if she really didn’t want him to have it, she would have done it privately. She may have even been deliberately leaving an opening.
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:00 PM
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You guys already talk. Honestly, I would text normally and play it off like she gave me her number and forgot 😂 if she asks when, I would just be like a while ago I don’t remember.
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:42 PM
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It’s something that everybody has been through. Most women are not going to run around bragging about banging a guy who didn’t get it up that night. One is that most women are very concerned about being seen as whores, even though that might not be the case. And hey if she is one of those whores, I am pretty sure her talking shit is not going to really influence her friends one way or another. Go after one of them maybe. And the value that I am talking about is the value that she perceives you a…
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:29 PM
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If she really is a one night stand, why are you so invested in what she thinks of you? Are you deep down afraid that it’s going to happen again? Seems to be things that are in your control that lead to the rather unpleasant end of the night. So there is that. It should be empowering to know that you can change the outcome easily. As to her, I would not advise chasing a one night stand. The best thing that can happen is you might get it one more time but it’s more likely to be out of pity because…
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:13 PM
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Bullshit dude. I have Aspergers and approaches like yours promote the notion of people like us being creepy to those who do not understand. What you are doing is called catfishing. It’s nothing new or groundbreaking. It’s an epidemic. You have to work on your conversational skills, which is a very difficult area for people like us. But the quality of the women that I can cold approach has improved massively over the years. But you should never really cold approach even though that’s what we call…
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:52 AM
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I tell people to be themselves all the time even though some of these supposed pick up artists seem to dislike that advice. Maybe themselves isn’t enough but that’s my advice for most people. Your autistic friend, by the sounds of it, could not help being himself and I think that actually helped him.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:44 AM
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Just laugh at her and tell her okay you got me. Then be like if people I hate love me this much, imagine if I actually started to like you. But say it like a joke.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:36 AM
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Yes you are. But don’t back off on the physical contact and no I love yous or I will really have to send you a smack by USPS, which means it may or may not arrive. But you’re doing well. The first time falling asleep was good. But make sure she doesn’t fall asleep this time. Get her some ”coffee” but start out by really having coffee 😂 it is a good day because I feel like I am getting somewhere with the one that I should have never let go.
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:24 AM
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Well that is something that I actually agree with him on. Definitely love my dark meat for sure 😍
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:14 AM
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Well besides being an embarrassment, your post is off-topic. This sub is about seduction. I believe there are many dating subs that might serve your needs better if that is what you are after. See, I am a sarcastic jerk sometimes but I also like being helpful 😉
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:19 PM
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That wasn’t very seductive at all 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:17 PM
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Do whatever you’re into but start breaking that touch barrier more casually than your starting and ending hugs before going for that. Brush her casually. Maybe reach over her for something and rest your arm on her for a few seconds. Touch her hand when you give or take things from her. Eye contact is key but don’t make eye contact for so long that it becomes awkward.
/r/seduction12/08/22 12:48 PM
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Basically a person that is a non-threatening friend. That’s what I mean by that. But not as a potential mate. She tells you everything but gives you the typical type of excuse for why not now. There will always be a reason that it’s not now. That is unless you change the dynamic of the relationship. You don’t ask her to be friends with benefits. You’re doing it wrong. You make moves like you would with anybody else and see how she responds.
/r/seduction12/08/22 12:32 PM
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Multiple women until one gives me a reason to commit to her. So I guess my endgame is one woman. But there is no way I’m going to practice serial monogamy along the way. Not only is that no fun, it could rob you of the opportunity to meet that one woman who changes everything.
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:36 AM
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I gave you the most valuable piece of advice that has been given so far, honestly. You are just looking in the wrong place. You really need to look inside yourself and figure out why this is annoying for you rather than fun. If you’re having fun, then most likely she will be having fun. You should enjoy the full interaction with a woman, not just how many ever minutes you’re spending hitting it lol
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:52 AM
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If the human mating ritual is anything but fun for you, you’re doing it wrong. Nobody said you had to be all fake. Just follow the dance and then take the lead. I am being real here when I say this shit should be fun for you. It might be time to take a look inside.
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:54 AM
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Maybe that’s because he’s autistic enough that he never was not being himself. I give that cliché advice a lot but it’s cliché for a reason 😉
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:47 AM
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You try way too hard man. Women hate that. If you’re looking for anything more than the night, she will see right through you and eat you alive. I am not saying this to be mean. I also suffer from a form of autism and have been there. But please stop trying so hard.
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:38 AM
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First, talk to her like she’s another human being and stop putting her on a pedestal. You are setting yourself up for failure before you even begin. What do you normally talk about with people? Do people normally like talking to you? If so, try being yourself and see what happens. And get used to talking to women will you? They are just other human beings just like you.
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:22 AM
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Nobody said you had to. But you got somebody here whose circumstance might warrant it. The meet in the middle date. Of course, if he’s willing to wait, he could use the first date as the seduction and make the full trip next time.
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:20 AM
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Ever heard of hotels? Get yourself a nice luxury suite and some fine wine and nice music 😂 yes, I have actually done this. But if you want to see her for more than one night, Motel 6 isn’t going to cut it. While how rich you are may not matter, a woman never wants to feel cheap. Even if she is only looking for cheap thrills for the night 😉 by the way, only casually bring up the room when it feels right and make sure you both pay. You don’t want to be perceived as lower value by being willing to …
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:15 AM
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Right now, you are like that homosexual friend that she confides in. It’s not necessarily the worst place to be in, which is what it seems often portrayed to be. But she doesn’t see you as somebody to take charge of her body and soul. She sees you as a friend. You will have to break that dynamic. Even though it shouldn’t, there is a small chance this could cost you the friendship. So you might want to think about that for a second. The fact that you guys hugged already is actually a pretty good …
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:08 AM
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Excuse not to escalate? Why are you looking for an excuse not to? I want you to really ask yourself that because that statement is very telling. What are you afraid of? Rejection? Well, that’s a given if she starts thinking you’re chicken shit and loses respect for you. Read her eyes. When she looks at yours, get clumsy and accidentally brush her body or arms and see how she responds. If she doesn’t pull away or even prolongs the contact, you have your opening. Stroke her hand or rub her wrist. …
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:01 AM
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It’s been about a week and I’m 43. Just focusing on getting some bills paid recently. Much easier to enjoy yourself when you don’t have debt over your head. Are you really just asking this question or are you looking for help?
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:52 AM
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You will know what move to make because she will give you the opening usually pretty overtly if you’re really taking this advice to heart.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:50 AM
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Those are the kind that you bang for a night and throw out or, better yet, just leave the hell alone because chances are she has more baggage than Amtrak. At very least, she is of very poor character. A person like this can never have an equal relationship with you, even if it is just sex. They are way too wrapped up in themselves. Do you really need to feed an ego like that? Which is all some women have because they have no confidence. But they will feed off you to build their own ego. Don’t be…
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:42 AM
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I would study the alpha male traits and then think long and hard about not only why women would find these things appealing. Think about what other ways they can benefit your life. These are pretty much the social, intellectual, and instinctual skills and mindset us men used to learn very well growing up, but has been lost in modern day teachings. Some men naturally have many of these. But it’s all about perspective and mindset, thus anybody can develop such traits. I personally became self-empl…
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:29 AM
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He had the moves on her then you awkwardly asked her out? Not much chance of success there, nor is there in the mindset that you need somebody to help make moves for you. Hell, you didn’t even need a wingman back in the days when clubs were the popular place. You just need to be aware of your surroundings. Women are giving us clues all the time but most are not going to flip from a guy that has already got their game going to that guy who weirdly asked her out, out of nowhere. That might work if…
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:15 AM
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My Corolla gets lots of looks and I didn’t get that particular type of car for that. I got it because it would be an excellent car for my work. But maybe I got the rims, chrome trim, and the paint job to turn some heads because it is fun 😉 I live with family because I have been helping out my grandparents, which is one reason I came back to my region. I still get plenty of play. And while I would rather have a nice place(place is nice but I’m not alone), it doesn’t seem to matter very much when …
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:25 PM
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There are times though where some of these women look better in person. They are using the filters because they are self-conscious but they really are good looking women. One of my exes looked a lot better in person despite heavily using filters online because she was self-conscious about how she looked. I used to tell her that the real her was an improvement, but I don’t think she ever believed me.
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:48 AM
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Are you sure that those 10s that you are seeing online are not a product of Snapchat? 😂
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:55 AM
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Older women have always noticed me. I noticed that the younger ones noticed me over more as I became more vocal and less quiet over the years. I think older women can see inside introverted guys more, due to their experience. Younger ones you almost have to broadcast your interest, but then they eat it up 😉
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:13 PM
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And if you can’t muster up the courage. The method that I used years ago is what I like to refer to as the Boomhauer method. If you ever watched king of the hill back in the day, you might know what I am getting at. Turn it into a numbers game and maybe even start with women that you might not be really attracted to but you might want to make it one that you think you can be friends with in case you do succeed. of course, some advice I see posted here can help you with the actual conversation. B…
/r/seduction08/08/22 02:05 PM
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I do pretty good in the course of food delivery without even really hitting on anybody. I am a little outgoing and flirtatious by nature. And no, it’s not the customers. So stop thinking of the old image of pizza delivery guy getting invited inside. That only happened to me once when I was a pizza delivery driver years back. But if you are confident, speak to them softly and slowly, and look them in the eye when you are talking to them, you can get quite a bit of attention from waitresses and ev…
/r/seduction02/08/22 04:44 AM
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He usually executes very well. One thing I think people overlook is sometimes it’s ok to let the conversation die and reframe later. Sometimes it’s the smart thing to do.
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:05 PM
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An honest no or I don’t know and a follow up. Girls can sniff out hungry beta yes men from a mile away. Respect her, listen to her, but be honest about your opinions. Good women like a man who thinks for himself and doesn’t appear to care about their opinion in regards to his own choices and preferences. Be creative with your follow up, but short and concise. Shift the frame of the conversation back to her.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:57 PM
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If it is you, it is probably your confidence. But that is only a guess without seeing the conversation, which I would never encourage sharing. I am just getting that from the fact you automatically seem to blame yourself and are proceeding to work yourself into a state of anxiety over 1 conversation without considering it could literally be anything. I recently had a girl go missing in action for a couple of days. Then she texted me out of the blue and set up a date. She got really busy and didn…
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:14 PM
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Yes, it does, but probably not in the way you think. If you appear to take care of yourself and carry yourself confidently, it will not go unnoticed. The fact that you have a big nose might not be so relevant. That is, if you have a big nose.
/r/seduction13/05/22 04:18 AM
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That would be a chicken and egg problem. I mean there are websites for that but you do have to be aware of the scams going around. Do your homework. Being scammed would probably hurt your confidence even further 😔 but imagine not having to worry about whether you are her type. Because you know you could have some of your type already. But it is your journey.
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:52 PM
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Sounds like you need to work on your life. I became nearly irresistible when I stopped putting undeserved work into a dead end job and started getting just enough independence to work on me and taking pride in it. Literally not even trying and I have to fight them off. It is as they say that the key is confidence. What they don’t tell you is how to get it. I believe the key to confidence is to live a life that gives you meaning. By the way, I do have Asperger’s and felt like I was doomed to a si…
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:19 PM
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I would kind of use the hate as an advantage. If people tell a woman not to do something, including seeing a certain guy, often times she will want to do it even more. So you might even want to show your traits that they don’t like a little bit and get them talking after you ask her out. Now don’t go out there and be an asshole. Just be yourself. Women love men who are secure. My current girlfriend was about 50-50 in terms of whether her friends liked me. But she had already heard all the suppos…
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