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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 85 | NEVER call a man attractive to his face.Absolutely they think they are hot. On my last OLD profile I filled out the the “You” part with something like you are HANDSOME, health-conscious, fun, reliable and whatever. Literally the first thing was HANDSOME IN CAPS and they didn’t read or care or hilariously thought they qualified because they all would swipe me first . It was pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:30 PM |
| 37 | This isn’t the flex you think it is…I hope a gay man wrote this because it would be too disheartening that there are women putting this out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:34 PM |
| 24 | Some additional ideas on what to vet for.Ha! I saw one here someone share a tweet or something about the next time you hear a man say he’s a boob or ass man say “really? I’m a girth girl myself”. Really looking forward to using this irl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 04:45 PM |
| 3 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉R u ok sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 04:13 PM |
| 27 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉Addiction is a disease 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:29 PM |
| 107 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉David schwimmer looks great! All his hair, healthy body weight and posture, I’m surprised! Maybe it’s a bad angle for Leblanc? Don’t want to diss Matthew perry because he is said to still be struggling :( The women of course 💯 but I follow them on ig so it’s not that big an impression seeing them here. They just look normal to me (as in not “good for their age”). I also find Lisa to look the best and she’s the oldest. Maybe someone with actual knowdledge can confirm but it seems she went easier … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:27 AM |
| 7 | And the award for pickmeisha of the year goes out to... my own MIL. The very definition of slavery is unpaid labour smfhYah but your boss is not gonna make fun of your looks cheat on you give you an std verbally and emotionally abuse you won’t rape you won’t hit you won’t drive you crazy won’t roll their eyes and walk away when you’re crying and accuse you of being dramatic . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | My heart hurts.Yeah i mean you can’t find someone who meets ALL your standards but id rather “settle” for a great guy who’s faithful, healthy, treats me right and is 5’5”. There nothing about being 5’5” that would keep a man from being a great husband and father. Just because you can’t have it all doesn’t mean you can’t choose strategically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 07:34 PM |
| 43 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallYoung Johnny depp was so handsome :( Im surprised Cage looks the best of them (to me). He’s always been cringey but he to me at least, he just looks old but didn’t puff up and doesn’t have the weird alcoholic bloat Leo and Depp have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 07:10 PM |
| 14 | I wish I would have known to act like this when I was a teenager. Genx is self taught. You love to see it.I am from 1986 and just realized my shitty ex was gen x (1980). No wonder WOW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 07:08 PM |
| 2 | My heart hurts.Oh gosh sorry to hear. The sunk cost is too damn powerful, added to the “shame” of a “failed” relationship regardless of whose fault it was. It takes so much strength to go against this. The sad about the baby is that addiction also has generic components, I’m not an expert but I always read this, and if you breed with an addict you May increase the chances of having a child with a propensity for addiction too. I feel for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 05:51 PM |
| 13 | My heart hurts.This is so scary, I can’t imagine how you begin to heal your ability to trust after this. The only good thing for her is that everybody else was also shocked AND it was concrete actions that she can latch on to when her mind f*cks with her... in cases of emotional abuse poor victims nobody believe they were the victim everybody just finds it unbelievable they guy would act that way so they don’t believe it. I hope she’s okay. I guess this also shows in a sense that men are their own worst snitch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:55 PM |
| 44 | My heart hurts.These fucking parents wtf This is a fear I have during the vetting process and the common belief of engagement in a year. My ex really showed red flags about 8 months in, in a relationship that ultimately went on too long. But by the first 14 months we agreed to marry he was still good (then pandemic and we were stranded in separate countries). The red flags were for instance he called me an idiot during a fight, or would hang up (long distance). And it really was infrequent enough for me to rat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:27 PM |
| 32 | If you're *really* married, how come you're on FDS?I will be browsing fds as they lower my coffin into the ground idc Im here for life and then some | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:08 AM |
| 7 | And this is why you demand more for yourself and set clear boundaries and expectationsThank you for your answer and taking the time to type that out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 10:33 PM |
| 176 | I don’t know who needs to hear this ,but if you don’t like his past, you are not obligated to stay with him.Even if you didn’t recently find out. Even if you knew and talked yourself into staying, you can change your mind at any time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:50 PM |
| 91 | Yet Another case of a Man and His Fetish Destroying a Woman. Porn Isn't Just Fantasy- It Has Real World Consequences for Women! If He Watches Porn Throw Him Out 👏🏻Im sure her parents didn’t “not do anything”, they probably just ran out of options and if she wasn’t a minor they couldn’t commit her in the US at least. No way what this scrote is saying about her parents sitting by idly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:35 PM |
| 116 | Straight from the horse's mouth: How LibFeminism "empowers" womenThey always know. The question is: if men know, why do so many women still not know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 06:01 PM |
| 68 | Please let’s help her. I don’t know what to do. Please help.This is beyond FDS. This is abuse and a criminal issue :( this is one for the lawyers and the pigs 👮♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 12:56 PM |
| 7 | Gaslighting at its finest!This is incredible I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | I have recently hit my prime age of 40, my life is JUST STARTING and I would like to have kids someday. All the 19yo ladies get in line! And NO post 25yo grandmas!1!!I was unaware, precisely because the post didn’t say anything about the man. Like I replied somewhere else: I am supposed to know every single man hater on the internet by face? Or just assume that if he’s posted it’s because there’s a credible source. What’s “anti-fds thinking” about me asking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 03:24 PM |
| 1 | I have recently hit my prime age of 40, my life is JUST STARTING and I would like to have kids someday. All the 19yo ladies get in line! And NO post 25yo grandmas!1!!Wow, you’re “Not even gonna ask me to think like someone who discovered FDS today?” What’s your problem? As far your flair goes, you’re the newbie. And as you can see from OPs reply, this guy isn’t a LVM because of his looks, rather because of the philosophy he spouts. I suggest you think twice next time before you behave in such a condescending manner to fellow members. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 02:22 PM |
| 1 | I have recently hit my prime age of 40, my life is JUST STARTING and I would like to have kids someday. All the 19yo ladies get in line! And NO post 25yo grandmas!1!!Thanks for answering instead of downvoting. Obviously I’m not acquainted with this guy picture and sans any reference or source in the post, I think it’s fair to question why make a presumably person a poster boy for LVM without any behavior on their part just their looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | I have recently hit my prime age of 40, my life is JUST STARTING and I would like to have kids someday. All the 19yo ladies get in line! And NO post 25yo grandmas!1!!Was this guy on a dating app writing something similar? Otherwise I think it’s cruel to just select a random individual to make fun of his looks and project this negativity on him. LVM aren’t so because of their looks, and if we don’t really know he’s being one, we shouldn’t be mocking him casually on the internet imho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 11:43 AM |
| 1 | We’ve all heard of the No Contact Rule for either getting over or reconciling with an ex. Can you tell me your stories of falling off the NC wagon and getting back on?Thanks! He was for the most part what I Considered HV and I think I killed a lot of attraction acting so jealous and insecure over the IG thing. But I tell myself, at the end of the day, in a real relationship you should be able to be insecure and show it, you should be able to be extremely vulnerable and show your weakness without that turning into a power struggle where you end up devaluing. A considerate partner would be, well, considerate and think “gee this is so stupid but obviously it mea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 01:34 AM |
| 1 | We’ve all heard of the No Contact Rule for either getting over or reconciling with an ex. Can you tell me your stories of falling off the NC wagon and getting back on?Thanks for answering. Curious as to why you say he’s depraved though? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | We’ve all heard of the No Contact Rule for either getting over or reconciling with an ex. Can you tell me your stories of falling off the NC wagon and getting back on?Lol did you at least take your pajama pants with you or leave them there and just ride off into the sunset with his boxers? 🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 01:18 AM |
| 1 | We’ve all heard of the No Contact Rule for either getting over or reconciling with an ex. Can you tell me your stories of falling off the NC wagon and getting back on?I think they’ll get married because he’s just 39 (and we had been discussing marriage and she’s 35... and the originally broke up because he wouldn’t marry her on account of them “fighting a lot”. He made a forever girlfriend out of her, from ages like 24-30, so I pretty sure it has to be serious now or she wouldn’t be fucking with him at all. Thank you, i am definitely in NC this time. I guess a part of me thought he didn’t want the break up and we’d patch up but yah. Hurts though 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | We’ve all heard of the No Contact Rule for either getting over or reconciling with an ex. Can you tell me your stories of falling off the NC wagon and getting back on?Omg yes. I was telling myself what I wanted to hear and rationalized it like wElL pRoToCoL wOuLd iNdIcAtE tHaT tHe DuMpEr HaS tO bE tHe OnE tO rEAcH oUt dUh and then I got left on read thrice👻👻👻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 01:13 AM |
| 1 | We’ve all heard of the No Contact Rule for either getting over or reconciling with an ex. Can you tell me your stories of falling off the NC wagon and getting back on?OMG this is so outrageous a part of me wants you to be making it up for my benefit! Thank you for sharing. It’s when you were doing so good and exited though the Front Door, the Big Door, the Door of Elegance only to come back and have yourself escorted out by security through the Little Back Door to be alley. Thank you for sharing! 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I deal with my lingering anger?I have literally no basis but my instinct tells me the man in this story is interested in somebody else | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/19 05:28 AM |
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