| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 36 | WSJ Op-Ed Writer Encourages Dr. Jill Biden to Drop the 'Doctor' Honorific | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | McKermette | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 07:48 PM |
| 15 | Journal Publishes—Then Retracts—A Ridiculous Article about Inappropriate Social-Media Content for Medical Residents | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | McKermette | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:45 PM |
| 8 | What an introduction. | THINGS SCROTES SAY | McKermette | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:30 PM |
| 2 | 52, Not 43 (Sorry, Can't Fix It) 🙄 | LIES MEN TELL | McKermette | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:46 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | WSJ Op-Ed Writer Encourages Dr. Jill Biden to Drop the 'Doctor' HonorificHow disrespectful. She’s a hard-working and a good woman who deserves to be called a doctor. Epstein is just a jealous mister who thrives on tearing down women. Totally agree! I abhor when politicians make ad-hominem attacks against each other, but at least they're the candidates. Dr. Biden has made a career of promoting education for children and adults, not working in politics. She isn't the one running for or holding a formal office. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 09:05 PM |
| 128 | Straight men shouldn't be OBGYNs- what are your thoughts?I saw a male gynecologist for an annual exam while I was in graduate school. Two years later, I got a letter from the hospital, stating that he had been taping patients using a pen camera for many years and had taken his life after the discovery of a server farm for the videos in his basement. The police have my information and have (thankfully?) never contacted me about finding a video from my appointment. So, that was fun. I'll never trust a male gynecologist again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:17 AM |
| 20 | I wish I had taken a screenshot of my initial statement, but I'd like an opinion on a recent interaction that pissed me off. Situation in comments.Really quick That wasn't "really quick." People who need to write that much to explain their behavior are either lying or groveling, neither of which are attractive traits. 🙄 I wholly support you blocking him everywhere and instead finding a guy who can communicate proactively how he feels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:46 PM |
| 58 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡what a turn off to go out with a man who can't afford your dinner? Absolutely. I anticipate the men with whom I go on dates will pay for my dinner, even though I can afford to pay the check. I want to date men who have a similar view on money and experiences as I do; the tone set for who pays for meals on the first date will last through the end of the relationship. The way the original poster framed the discussion is what bothers me—he messages a woman with whom he has not spoken on the phone o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:41 PM |
| 7 | Why is it always the first instinct to ARGUE with a woman’s opinion? I unmatched before his response. So annoying.Why even ask if you know the "right" answer? Also, this is a dumb question. Glad you unmatched him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:51 AM |
| 2 | What an introduction.Too true, lol! Such bravado reminds me of men who like to brag about the size of their ... situations. It's always less impressive than one expects! 🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:44 AM |
| 6 | What an introduction.You're so right! I can't handle such lame, short-sighted excuses. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 02:44 AM |
| 13 | Why are male dating app profiles literally the most bland things one can waste her time reading with?Definitely a reason to swipe left! I've found that men who have a woman in their photo either are trying to make you jealous (like you describe) or claim that they don't take a lot of pictures (leading to the only photos in their camera roll having a girl in them). Like, try harder, buddy. We women sometimes have to take 45 pictures to find a couple of gems; you can, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 02:42 AM |
| 16 | Why are male dating app profiles literally the most bland things one can waste her time reading with?You're so right! Several times a week, I see a man's profile that has one or two very poor photos (that are blurry, from far away, and/or feature a group of guys with no indication of who owns the profile) and no bio. What are these men hoping to achieve? I assume they're using such a non-specific profile voyeuristically—to browse at what's out there anonymously—rather than approach dating seriously. Obviously, I swipe left on anyone who doesn't author a bio that looks like he didn't put in at l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 01:39 AM |
| 22 | What an introduction.From Hinge. This winner chose to introduce himself by liking a photo of mine and adding the comment, I give the best mustache rides. GROSS. We’ve never even met, sir, and you’re already bragging about your sexual skills. We’re strangers, ugh. Blocked and reported to Hinge as sexual content. ‘Bye. ✌️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Journal Publishes—Then Retracts—A Ridiculous Article about Inappropriate Social-Media Content for Medical ResidentsOoh, health care consultancy? First time i've heard of that! I'm about to do my own research on it but do you mind sharing what you do in your position? Happy to answer any questions you may have! I really enjoy my job and feel lucky to have found a position that's such a great match to my short- and long-term professional career interests. My subspecialty is a bit niche, so I'd rather provide specific details about my job via DM (as I worry about doxing myself). Feel free to send me questions! … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:09 AM |
| 8 | Journal Publishes—Then Retracts—A Ridiculous Article about Inappropriate Social-Media Content for Medical ResidentsAbsolutely agree. I worked in research at a hospital before attending graduate school; most of the physicians with whom I worked were socially awkward, mean-spirited individuals who didn't think you had value unless you went to medical school (and completed residency in a competitive specialty). Glad I've leveled up to a position in healthcare consultancy, where I can tell the doctors what to do. 💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:39 AM |
| 11 | Journal Publishes—Then Retracts—A Ridiculous Article about Inappropriate Social-Media Content for Medical ResidentsIn the August 2020 issue of the Journal of Vascular Surgery, seven authors (only one of whom is female) summarized results of a social-media evaluation for vascular surgeon residents from 2016 to 2018; here’s the original article for reference. One criterion for which social media content was deemed unacceptable was ‘inappropriate attire’ (whatever that means). While the authors didn’t find statistical significance between genders on any metric they analyzed, this publication has now been retrac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Interesting...still researching the validity but this is why we protect ourselves!Interesting. Thank you so much for your information. 😊 The news article cited this as the resource, but I’m not entirely sure if JAMA is a valid scientific journal? Of course! JAMA is one of the two best medical journals in the United States (there's also the New England Journal of Medicine). A research letter requires less rigor for publication than does an original investigation, which would need more participants, more robust research methods, and more meaningful outcomes (e.g., statistical s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:47 AM |
| 14 | Interesting...still researching the validity but this is why we protect ourselves!I'm a scientist (a researcher in public health), so I'll chime in on the validity of the article title cited by u/thegypsybean. Here's a link to the original publication; it was released through the Journal of the American Medical Association in May 2020 as a research letter. Among the 38 SARS-CoV-2-positive men from one hospital in Shangqiu, China, 6 (or 15.8% of study participants) had virus in their semen; 4 had an active infection, and 2 were recovering from the disease. There are several fl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:48 PM |
| 220 | I’m actually disgusted and lividI can't watch him for this long. That statement infuriates me. Many men with children behave more like babysitters than parents; this mentality adds to the disproportionate mental load women have to bear in a relationship. Having a kid means committing to a potential 24/7 obligation for 18 (or more years); things get easier as the child gets older and when there are amenities (like school, social events, or babysitters) available. That's not right now. It's a terribly trying time for everyone; y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 12:43 AM |
| 8 | How important is it to know how long he’s been single for?The amount of time between relationships can really vary because of so many factors—the amount of time they spent in the relationship, their emotional mindset following the break-up, whether the break-up was civil or traumatic, etc. Personally, I like the question, "What did you learn from your last relationship?" It's a little more focused than just asking a general question about the last woman whom they dated and starts the discussion out on a positive note. I 100% agree with u/cutsforluck th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Anytime I consider OLD again, I just look through a folder on my phone of fucked up things men have said to me. This is a particularly odd one.I don't even think it was a matching situation. I'm not even sure, think this was the Facebook option and they can send you a message or could at that time and you could open and accept or reject it. Lol. Oh, gotcha. Women aren't safe anywhere, clearly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:54 AM |
| 28 | Anytime I consider OLD again, I just look through a folder on my phone of fucked up things men have said to me. This is a particularly odd one.Lol right? I also do not and have never resembled a calvin klein model lol. Far from that. Making me think it was a common copy and paste message anyways. Ugh, the idea that he sent such a gross message to multiple women with whom he just matched makes it worse... Now I think he's creepy and unimaginative, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:02 AM |
| 93 | Anytime I consider OLD again, I just look through a folder on my phone of fucked up things men have said to me. This is a particularly odd one.What a creep! I hate when men link a woman's attractiveness to her relationship status—we can be both pretty and single by choice, after all. Such a question implies that being single is a bad thing and that it's obvious we should have found partners simply by virtue of our appearance. As though personality, compatibility, interests, emotional intelligence, attraction, etc. aren't factors when selecting a person to date. Also, why would that information be any of his business? Way to start a con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 10:07 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Good on you for sticking to your boundaries, and seeing his low effort attempts for what they were. Thank you! I'm sure things would have only gotten worse if I had compromised on my standards for the first date. I'd rather save my mental energy for someone who values my time and is generally more considerate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:20 PM |
| 7 | Nvm spends his savings plus his fiancé’s savings, for their wedding to buy a new game,The actions of this NVM could be a blessing in disguise. After all, losing her contribution toward their $8,000 in savings sucks, but it may be cheaper than paying for a divorce from this loser in a couple of years. Here's hoping the OP considers his actions a dealbreaker and leaves him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:13 PM |
| 39 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Long-time lurker who made an alt account just for FDS. So thankful for this community of amazing, empowered women! I matched with a guy two weeks ago on Hinge; we transitioned to texting last week. Rather than ask me out on a date in advance, he texted me last Wednesday around noon saying that he felt like grabbing a drink that evening (to which I didn't respond because, I don't know, I was at work). Cut to 4:30 PM when he calls me. Still at work. I texted him when I left the office that I had a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 01:36 AM |
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