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I’m more of a pessimist when it comes to how little personality matters and the huge impact of looks but this guy looks goofy as hell to me. Not very attractive tbh. He over does it and doesn’t seem to understand how proportions and harmony works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:58 PM
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It’s true a lot of feminine men/femboys are highly desired but they’re also held to a higher physical standard, if you do happen to be the one who meets those standards then it can be very rewarding. Although even those feminine men tend to have a lot of masculine traits like tall stature, low bf, visible jawline, other sharp features etc. If your average man started wearing makeup and started cross dressing he’d be more likely to get hate crimed than get a date let alone laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:46 PM
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I don’t see how that changes it being a social construct, if you have wildly different socialization for two different groups then of course you’re gonna see measurable patterns along with the group that doesn’t get socialized with a very traditional idea of their assigned group. I think you underestimate how big a role social constructs play in conformity. Conformity is always measurable, even by nationality which too is a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:33 PM
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I don’t think you can get regular ass men to normalize it since most are driven by self interest and will do anything to have a shot in the dating market. The only way to get what you desire is to constantly push feminine men/masculine women in a positive light in the media bc they’re the only ones capable of starting trends. Just look at Korea for example, it’s fairly normal for men to be feminine over there since that’s the standard their media has set for them. Granted that they’re still not …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:25 PM
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She’s saying you’re free to not conform to traditional gender expectations but then don’t bitch about women not romantically/sexually desiring you. Since most women desire traditionally masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:16 PM
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There are levels to social constructs, gender happens to be a legal distinction so naturally there are statistics for it. Not to mention the vast majority including the most egalitarian people identify with one gender. Technically names are social constructs too yet everyone has one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:14 PM
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Exploitative would be if it wasn’t mutual, wanting casual sex and sexual validation from women is a two way street thing. How would you even feel validated if it wasn’t reciprocal?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:33 PM
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That doesn’t sound like validation as much as just permission to exploit someone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:03 PM
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How short we talking?
/r/BlackPillScience01/04/26 07:16 PM
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Can you elaborate why you think that is?
/r/BlackPillScience01/04/26 07:09 PM
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I know exactly who you’re referring to lmao the rules are ridiculously biased
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:20 PM
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That’s the purpose of a debate sub though? To challenge your beliefs? You don’t have to date someone you just have to think about why you reject or accept certain people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:49 PM
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If the only thing stopping you from being a bad person is keeping your beliefs to yourself then I got some news for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:48 PM
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Does she not wanna be there as much he wants her to be there? Does she not wanna have sex with him as much as he does with her? If it’s not completely reciprocated then what’s even the point to this? Why not skip the extra burden and just hire an escort instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:41 PM
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One thing I don’t understand is that how they’re so extraordinary at so many sports like out of the world extraordinary despite having smaller bodies. It’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:10 PM
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I suppose there’s something extraordinary about you that sets you apart from others, the average short trans dude would have a very hard time getting into female relationships and hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:02 PM
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I think you get to be a person once you a pass a threshold of what constitutes as an acceptable man and you do things to maintain the image she has of you in her head. Before that you’re pretty much just an object who will be internally rated as very low, low, high, and potentially high.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:23 PM
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I agree, the only productive way to go about this is to self reflect and ask yourself why don’t you find them attractive? And then after spending some time with your thoughts if you honestly share your answer whether it’s some implicit bias or if you really can’t make sense out of it that would eventually help get to the bottom of it. If every person did this society would overall be less divided. The lack or presence of physical attraction is a symptom of how you feel about someone. There’s som…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:21 PM
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Like I said, everything’s always a non issue when you’re the one in the privileged position. If people justified it it’ll lead to less ignorance and overall betterment of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:48 AM
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Everything’s always a non issue until it affects you in any meaningful way. No, people should be questioned why they do what they do, you’re allowed to prefer what you prefer for whatever outlandish or rational reason but you gotta justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:44 AM
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Same with racism and heightism, I think we should just accept women are hardwired to only want men that other men and women put on a pedestal. They’d rather stay a cat lady than be with a man that brings down their social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:14 AM
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Women have saggier skin sure but they still rank higher on perceived beauty from both genders. Women just do more stuff bc they’re conditioned to base their value on appearance. If you compare exact same age group men and women, women look a lot better. I mean in all honesty they both look like shit but women do look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:37 AM
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Middle aged men are not more attractive than middle aged women, not by a long shot for multiple reasons: Men have a lower threshold for what’s considered attractive so women at any age would still have more potential suitors than her male counterparts. 90%+ men go bald in their lives, for most of em it starts as early as in their twenties and that for most men significantly reduces perceived attractiveness and makes them look older than their age. Women on the other hand lose very little volume …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:24 AM
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Make do with platonic connections, or get a shrink.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:05 AM
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I mean it ain’t wrong, just not elaborated very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:04 AM
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A lot of it is just bots it’s kinda hard to prove the real numbers when manipulating numbers is a common practice to push an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:03 PM
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People are still fairly monocultured if you only interact with the ones that aren’t chronically online. The more chronically online someone is, the less likely you are to have similar interests, unless you happen to be chronically online on the same platforms as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:53 PM
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That’s not the worst thing in the world considering women value good genes over morals, values and basic ability to empathize.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 11:41 AM
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I said global 10-12% are 6ft Around 1% or less have a 6 figure income 75-80% neurotypical Full head of hair 60-70% Above average facial attractiveness 10-20% Social fame 1-3% After generously multiplying it amounts to .002% If you do only US even then it comes out .8% Get your sources checked, or better yet, stop making them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:45 PM
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Yes those “loads” still only make up for less than 1% of men worldwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:30 PM
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I exclusively like masculine men I don’t date bi men Can you not see the implication? Like seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:05 PM
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Yes include all those topics but we’ll just look the other way that you’re bi yourself and but refuse to date bi men. Your comments imply bi men can’t be masculine which is pretty hypocritical if you think of yourself as a feminine bi woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:02 PM
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No but why don’t you wanna date a man who’s been with a trans woman before? How could you possibly justify that without the reason being transphobia? And if you’re not willing to give a reason then you can’t blame us for assuming it’s out of bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:00 PM
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Decent amount of social fame, 6ft+, 6 figure income, neurotypical, above average facially with a fit body and a full head of hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:58 PM
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You keep it vague because you know the actual reasoning will make you look bad. Tired of this gaslighting shit. And no that wasn’t a personal attack if you’re gonna be offended at any small counter argument then maybe debate based subs aren’t your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:13 PM
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Where’s the personal attack part wtf? I’m not making up a narrative, most people don’t wanna look deep into their implicit beliefs because it breaks their worldview. It’s human nature, you’re not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:04 PM
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You joke but top 1% do have big ass harems
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:52 PM
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Most attraction without a doubt has conditioning behind it, you’re just too scared to look into your implicit biases which is fine but being in denial that social and sexual conditioning exists is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:49 PM
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You’re usually very aggressively progressive is all, so it’s surprising. Still curious why you wouldn’t wanna date a bi man? Like of course you’re allowed to have whatever preferences but I’d like to know the reasoning/rationale behind it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:04 PM
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Because they’re not actually progressive it’s a mix of virtue signaling and leaning left when it suits them, this is most “liberal” women on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:00 PM
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Not even a bi cis man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:59 PM
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For someone who has a condition that messes up his body proportions, his face looks really good. Straight nose, very square jaw, nice doe eyes, thick head of hair and thick facial hair, what more do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:22 AM
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He’s facially well above average and has the fame effect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:28 AM
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It is literally peak cuck behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:46 AM
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Yes because you’re the centre of the world and everyone should cater to you even at their own expense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:46 PM
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Imagine traveling halfway across the world for a date only to find out you’re not compatible, for the hundredth time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:45 PM
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Cat* lad And there are women who believe that on this very sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:01 PM
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Well for one your profile isn’t public, two I’m not gonna go through hours worth of comments to show you what you say. If you’re just gonna deny it knowing full well you disagree with those comments then this isn’t worth it for me, have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:59 PM
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There’s a lot more on the physical side they don’t think about too. Like there are many young, fit, responsible and financially stable men who are facially unattractive, short, have thinning hair, have bad teeth, have poor skin, have weak physiques but these traits can’t be moralized in the same way so they don’t get talked about. The reality is a physically unattractive, more reserved man will have a much harder time dating than an attractive, confident 40 year old former player with two kids. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:17 PM
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Curious why you think this is true but you usually disagree with the male version of this comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:59 PM
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I’m pro trans but that’s not how it works, I wish everyone could be what they wanted but that’s just not how it is, for someone to be “female” they need to have XX chromosomes, for someone to be “male” they need XY chromosomes. You can present as a woman and wanna be treated as a woman that’s fine but changing your sex isn’t something that’s possible. Perhaps in the future if the technology is ever available.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:54 PM
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Suifuel
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:06 AM
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You’re 16 ffs, get out of this sub before it rots your brain out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:22 PM
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Tens of thousands of years of evolutionary biology?????
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:24 AM
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Old enough to participate in a war old enough to date, it’s not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:22 AM
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And women trash shorter men because they prefer tall men, it’s the same shit as the original comment. It’s not gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:20 AM
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Weapons still take quite a lot of skill and massive physical exertion to use, it’s still an uphill battle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:43 PM
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Usually it’s a betabuxx situation, they have to let everyone know that they’re only together because he provides her with resources and that she’s way out of his league in every aspect possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:06 PM
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Since when do you need a medical degree to claim someone as abusive? If you mistreat people for no reason you’re abusive that’s the bare minimum bar for it and it goes way higher than that when you see the stories of these women on Reddit. Like yes your bf who physically hits you, gaslights you and tries to hook up with other women while you’re in a monogamous relationship is abusive. Don’t need no medical license for that be fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:41 PM
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Commenting so I can read the comments when it gets nuked
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:56 PM
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Bit of an extreme example don’t you think? Wouldn’t you be offended if I constantly brought some radical feminist who believes all males should start off in prison and work their way out?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:23 PM
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I wouldn’t really call it bad behavior since they all know what they’re getting to, it’s on them now to take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:17 PM
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I didn’t say it’s feminism’s fault, it’s more just factors out of your control which blue pill refuses to acknowledge. According to them everyone has agency enough that they can date if they’re pleasant to be around which is clearly not the case, there’s much more to it than just being a decent person. You likely fall under a cluster A personality disorder you should get evaluated because once you do there are sources out there that can help you. Your condition isn’t that abnormal there are peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:20 AM
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Then why tf are you still blue pilled lmao do you not see how rigged dating is? You spent so much time and energy trying to get a gf while some men just have to exist they ain’t even gotta try
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:07 AM
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“When I was single” and “Doomed to a life of sexlessness” are two very different things, one is just a normal phase, the other makes getting up in the morning not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:56 AM
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People would be happier if they accepted where they stand. Whining about it certainly wouldn’t move them up the ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:40 PM
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No it doesn’t and you don’t even bother making an argument, if you’re gonna be low effort about the whole thing then why make a post at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:52 AM
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So you’re just gonna ignore all that I said? I’m just supposed to blindly support a group who can’t stop gaslighting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:32 AM
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I would understand it except women on the internet would have you believe they can sense all the shit that’s wrong with you irl and then continue to be with their 6’4 square jawed bf even though he can’t be bothered to wipe his own arse. I just don’t like how the standards once there’s primitive desire and that they won’t even acknowledge that it has little to do with manipulation and more to do with them not wanting to let go of someone with elite genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:38 AM
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LEAVE US ALONE lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:09 AM
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Women have the privilege to “evolve” because supply and demand is skewed in their favor. They can be independent or dependent, dominant or submissive, short or tall, it makes very little difference they will still on average have loads of potential partners. Not the same case with men they have to fit in the little box of masculinity if they want a chance to succeed in the dating market as an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:36 AM
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Why shouldn’t she respect him? Respect is the default you should give to people until they prove not to be worthy of it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:34 AM
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You didn’t use it as an analogy you used it as a direct comparison, pigeons might not able to tell what actually leads to reward but humans can, at least at a way higher level. I didn’t even make an all aspects argument I’m strictly talking about what leads to rewards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:02 PM
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they have a similar mechanism Yes no doubt there are similarities but humans are inherently more complex and insightful. For a surface level thing it’s an ok experiment to compare us with but like I said it lacks complexity. I don’t think you’re giving men enough credit when they form arguments about what women actually want. I didn’t say women lie and men are honest that’s a black and white way to put it. I said men are relatively more able to see the clear picture because being a man already c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:22 PM
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You think pigeons and humans have the same level of introspection? Even the smartest animals are quite dumb compared to humans when it comes to connecting the dots between what leads to them getting a reward and what leads to punishment. If you want to use an experiment as an example cite one that has humans and to be clear, humans with average intelligence. women bad men great That wasn’t the point at all way to be disingenuous about it. Point was men are usually more accurate about their asses…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:51 AM
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Observation is the most reliable teacher there is, the issue with asking women about the “truth” is that what they believe they want vs what they actually want has a pretty big discrepancy. People wanna believe they’re just and reasonable and prefer morally right traits over superficial ones but that’s not usually the case with either gender. I do think that asking men what they want is relatively more accurate because society aggressively demonizes us since a very young age it’s near impossible…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:35 AM
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“The 90% of men that I’m not attracted to will fuck anything, the top 10% that other women compete intensely for have incredibly high standards since they can get their pick of the litter anytime they want”. It’s not contradictory when you learn to read between the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:48 PM
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Anything that benefits them is feminist, anything that forces accountability on them is misogynistic. It’s pretty straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:14 PM
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It’s men not “males” don’t be misandristic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:22 AM
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Rules only apply to men you should know that by now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:47 PM
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Well those men obviously don’t have my support, can’t ask your partner to look good their whole life if you yourself can’t be arsed to be in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:05 PM
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For the duration of pregnancy and a year or two after sure, after that excuse don’t work no more. Men usually have low T starting forties to fifties, you don’t see them bitching about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:13 AM
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Still in your control though, got time for all that but not for 30 minute cardio a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:43 AM
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That does make sense, typically attractive men are sexually experienced and typically attractive men have a strong halo effect on women so they get treated well by them which forms a positive feedback loop so it’s not a surprise they have more of a positive view of women since their experiences with them are on the positive side.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:19 AM
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Those men with belly’s do still have broad shoulders right? And fairly big arms? Fairly lean face? A little chub in the belly doesn’t mean a man isn’t physically active or even conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:04 AM
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Those husky men are usually naturally broad or already work out and aren’t shredded, women are bad judges when it comes to what a natural male physique looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:01 AM
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Switching goalposts from “you don’t know what I think” to “why do you care what I think” once you’re called out, classic. I dunno why I bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:16 PM
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No I didn’t say “I think” because I don’t think I know, he’s objectively attractive, there are physical and social markers of attractiveness that are undeniable. Conventionally attractive is called conventionally attractive for a reason. If she went “lol he’s 5’9 that’s comically short” what do you think is the implication for men in the 5’0-5’5 range? Same logic here. If he’s mid then we ain’t even human.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:10 PM
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This ain’t about me in particular if he’s mid to you actual mid men would be hideous to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:01 PM
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Preferring Zack Efron over Brad Pitt isn’t a taste they’re both conventionally attractive at the end of the day. Besides she didn’t say “I think he’s mid” she said he’s mid like it was an objective statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:00 PM
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If a very above average man is mid that implies the average man is ugly, god knows where she’d rank an actually ugly man. Not a reach to say she likely don’t even see them as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:46 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:00 AM
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If he’s mid I’m probably not even human to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:08 AM
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He’d love that <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:33 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:45 PM
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So the person sheltering the homeless one is the hobosexual right? The other one is just taking advantage of them that ain’t a sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:03 AM
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They’re not attracted to them for being homeless they’re attracted to them regardless of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:33 AM
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What’s your definition of an average looking man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:57 AM
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I said I don’t even have to ask them out for them to be uncivil to me due to my ugliness. I didn’t say I’ve never asked them out. Can’t tell if you lack reading comprehension or are just as disingenuous as every other blue piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:28 AM
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Nope I’m ugly enough that they’re disgusted just by being in proximity, I don’t even have to ask them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:02 AM
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It’s hard to put in effort when you’re constantly humiliated and berated for showing interest. Sure with enough resilience you could land a gf but is it worth or going through all that trauma? Not to mention the trauma won’t ever go away bc you know damn well that most women find you utterly repulsive and you just managed to luck out with one. Modern dating is a zero sum game for anyone who has to put extra effort more than any normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:55 AM
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Average is 3 far as I know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:08 AM
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It is relevant, you just don’t like that it’s relevant because you’re ridiculously conservative yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 08:36 PM
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That’s not how it works irl, people treat you more off their preconceived notions than your actual behavior. The cashier who smiles at everybody but you isn’t gonna get to personally know you before she decides you deserve as good of a treatment as any other person. Same goes for every social hierarchy. Every once in a while they might see you as “one of the good ones” but that doesn’t mean that it wouldn’t always be an uphill battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 10:54 PM
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I believe you I just made that statement because people keep downplaying online rage baits and online trends. I don’t think men in specific have much of a backlash against them just for being men. There are however groups of men who suffer irl due to online propaganda campaigns.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 10:15 PM
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“Several” instances do not justify a generalization of thousands if not millions of people. There also have been instances where men have killed other men in male restrooms why don’t we fight for that then? There’s some amount of risk in anything, what justifies concern is the odds of something bad actually happening which is very unlikely here. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:53 PM
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No man who has the intentions of doing that is gonna go through that much trouble to invade their privacy you’d have to be a conspiracy theorist to think something as outlandish as that. Even if someone did try to pull that shit they’d get kicked out immediately it’s not gonna work in their favor. I mean you really think a man with ill intent is gonna change his entire gender just to assault women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:46 PM
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The real world only feels different because there are obligations at play. You don’t really know what people think until you see hoards of them agreeing with a sentiment online. People aren’t authentic as long as there is risk for negative consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:38 PM
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A trans woman using a men’s restroom often faces significantly greater risk than a woman would face from a trans woman using a women’s restroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:35 PM
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It’s just tribalism wrapped in a different package.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:33 PM
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It’s extremely unlikely that a trans woman would pose a threat to you in a female only space. If that possibility alone is enough to justify excluding them, it’s worth considering why the same concern isn’t applied to cis women, since the risk of harm from any individual is never zero. If the standard is absolute safety from all potential risk, then the logical conclusion would be advocating for fully individual spaces rather than singling out one group over a very low probability scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:32 PM
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What they mean is that there’s no real reason not to treat them as women in everyday social situations outside of medical contexts or personal dating preferences. In most interactions, it doesn’t cost you anything to refer to them as women, and socially it makes no practical difference. For example, if you’re interacting with them at work, you likely won’t see them outside that setting, so using the terms they identify with is simply respectful and considerate. It can support their sense of iden…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:28 PM
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You think people’s view change soon as they step outside? The only thing that changes is that there’s real consequences to saying the shit they say online. They still have the same views and biases they just keep it to themselves and it shows in forms of passive aggressive behavior, trying to stop people from climbing the social ladder etc. This is how all systematic biases work people don’t outright say anything they just keep you down the social hierarchy without making it overt so you can nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:11 PM
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Not wrong in over half a decade loool I can’t even be arsed to argue yall are too self absorbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:38 PM
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I find it fascinating that she’s been making arguments here for half a decade if not more and has never once admitted or considered that she could be wrong about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:38 PM
5

Why do you assume he doesn’t have them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:18 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:06 PM
3

As opposed to you commenting daily on this sub which is the very definition of a happy fulfilling life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 12:53 PM
5

Why didn’t you ask him out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 10:06 AM
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There’s no injury that fixes autism lmao what are you on? Even low inhibition wouldn’t do shit at that point. Once the environment has shaped the first 20 years of your life there’s no going back you’re done unless you’re some one in a million person who therapies their way into being normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:12 AM
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If you were physically Chad you would already have the positive reinforcement loop to get you there. No one’s going from Chud to Chad in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:55 AM
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Genes do play a part and even if you remove that from the equation it’s pretty much a snowball effect from how your childhood and adolescence went.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:44 AM
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It’s looks, neurotypicality, low inhibition and good environment. All pretty much out of your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:38 AM
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They want men like a little boy wants a toy, they fixate on it without any self reflection whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:30 AM
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They can’t it’s genetically determined
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:28 AM
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You’re never gonna get the right answer they’re not even honest with themselves what makes you think they’d be honest with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:31 AM
1

Just because you’re not aware of the reason doesn’t mean there isn’t one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:19 PM
4

I want kids because I want them Wouldn’t you be better off thinking the actual reason behind it? There’s always a reason you just have to be willing to dig below the surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:10 AM
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Any number over 20 is too high for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:43 PM
2

Halo effect applies regardless of sexual orientation. Plus the male audience are just the loud ones he has plenty of women swooning over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:11 PM
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None of those things have anything to do with physical attractiveness. As long he’s physically attractive people will reward him they can’t help themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:41 PM
2

Let’s say it was the case, what do you think her spouse should do? Knowing she’ll never be as attracted to him and she is to conventionally attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:18 PM
11

Gotta be heartbreaking though to see your spouse have such primal attraction for someone, something you’ve never seen in her eyes when she’s with you (which I’m presuming is the case here).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:48 PM
2

Top 5% is a hyperbole, the combination of all your traits do likely put you in top 20% though if you can be feminine without turning off most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:37 PM
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Of course they’re not gonna say it irl they don’t wanna come off as backwards or bigoted. Only on the internet do people let themselves loose because of anonymity and lack of consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:34 PM
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Human
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:50 AM
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It isn’t oppression but it is prejudice, you just look the other way because you’re privileged enough not to be impacted by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:14 PM
0

Picture meeting a man you connect with completely inside and out whose values align with yours, someone you can see a future with. Then you learn he’s been with a man before, and suddenly your attraction disappears. Still think it’s just a preference? Religion isn’t a good comparison because of clash of values and incompatibility. Someone being bi doesn’t cause incompatibility, being bi doesn’t shape your fundamental values.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:13 PM
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Most if not all preferences are rooted in biases and prejudice if you look hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:01 PM
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Most women identify as progressive though so even for them there’s a disproportionate amount that won’t date a man who’s been with another man. With conservative women you know head on what you’re dealing with so at the very least it doesn’t feel disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:00 PM
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Just search “bisexual” in this sub, and you’ll see most women performing mental gymnastics while failing miserably to hide their biphobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:48 PM
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No one called it oppression they simply said their beliefs don’t match what they want in a partner which is usually a mix of lack of self awareness of one’s conditioning and not willing to acknowledge their implicit biases unless it directly impacts their own quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:45 PM
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One anecdote doesn’t disprove the common trend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:41 PM
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Shaving is a lot easier than making fat stacks or strength training, most women know men prefer slim women and they still don’t bother to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:59 AM
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Nothing against sex work but the way OF creators infiltrate everywhere and exploit male loneliness is pretty overtly predatory you’d have to be incredibly ignorant not to notice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:32 PM
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Yes because the dosage is extremely low to avoid other body changes like voice deeping, facial hair etc. If you gave them the male equivalent testosterone then their libido would very likely shoot up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:08 PM
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Not really, 40+ cis men who experience lower libido and ED are prescribed testosterone therapy to get their interest back in sexual activity. Cis women who experience lower libido also get testosterone therapy but in lower dosages to avoid body changes. Testosterone plays one of the biggest if the not the biggest role in high sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:58 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37678647/ Current testosterone use was associated with a greater interest in sexual activity (β=6.32; 95% confidence interval, 4.91-7.74), higher ability to orgasm (β=1.50; 95% confidence interval, 0.19-2.81) https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24165564/ In retrospect, 62.4% of trans women reported a decrease in sexual desire after SRT. Seventy-three percent of trans women never or rarely experienced spontaneous and responsive sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:54 PM
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It’s pretty much common knowledge in trans spaces that mtf folk lose libido post hrt because of a significant drop in testosterone and with ftm their libido goes through the roof. Many if not most trans women also get ED due to lack of test.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:47 PM
3

Nothing makes you a man or a woman apart from identifying yourself as one. Drop the ego shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:56 AM
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Where you stand shouldn’t matter when you’re ranking other people on a scale. Date whoever you want but you don’t get to call average men ugly provided you’re here to argue in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:53 PM
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Not really, only reason you think is because you rate average/slightly above average men as ugly and that eating gets lower the more resentful you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:31 PM
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It’s not main character syndrome to not wanna be seen as a loser. Would you be happy just observing other people reach their milestones while you just watch from the sidelines and your life passes you by?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:29 PM
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Just date ugly men and you won’t ever be the side piece
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:48 AM
1

How’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:18 AM
3

Treat others as they treat you and not being a dick is oxymoronic. Besides I don’t mistreat anyone I stay tf away after realizing I’m too low down the social ladder for people to be decent to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:43 PM
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Not an option when people see you as fundamentally lesser until proven otherwise. I don’t wanna jester around to get basic decency from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:29 PM
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I see, didn’t mean to witch hunt or nothing I was just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:33 AM
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Nah the takeaway here is that you’ll be fine as long as you have one highly valued feature that compensates for the other shortcomings. Your height alone probably saved you from singledom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:31 AM
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Is that the same person you’re referring to in your 5hr old post? How do you adore him and resent him at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:26 AM
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Yes it is and it’s so widely known it’s absurd to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:19 PM
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Your aunt doing something ≠ an entire culture doing something. Your average Japanese is absolutely more darker and yellower you’d know if you put them next to a white person they’re appallingly pale and pink it’s too distinctive. No it might not be white worshipping to get double eyelid surgery but trying to erase a predominant trait is still saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:44 PM
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Reality is exhausting for you? Sounds like a skill issue on your part
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:06 PM
2

Yeah because darker skin meant you spent more time in the sun which meant you were blue collar, it was a class thing before. Now it’s more about proximity to whiteness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:27 PM
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You can absolutely still do that, if you’re white.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:30 PM
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Not really they seem to idealize light skin with pink undertones and try their hardest to be as light as possible through extreme means. If that’s not white worshipping what is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:29 PM
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You said straight means upholding hetero norms, you can be straight and reject gender roles you can gay and uphold them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:29 PM
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Straightness has nothing to do with behavior it only refers to being only attracted to the opposite sex. You’re confusing sexuality with how feminine or masculine presenting someone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:24 PM
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You realize not all gay men are feminine or flamboyant and don’t go announcing their sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:10 PM
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“Your eyes” don’t change the objective definition of what it means to be straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:10 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:26 PM
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Here we go with the gaslighting again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:49 PM
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What was the original comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:09 AM
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Yeah pretty much this, you likely already met the looks criteria and the talent was just cherry on top. At best it made you stand out a bit but it’s not something that can carry you alone unless you’re in the top 1% of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:43 AM
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Eggs bread milk beer and packaged food
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:48 PM
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Not only do you get your foot in the door but they’re also more lenient about you messing up, you get way more leeway than the average person and then the assumptions for you messing up are also on the more positive side. Pretty privilege is the best thing that can happen to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:12 AM
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Confidence is pre installed in everyone, it slowly deteriorates with a cycle of negative experiences and vice versa for positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:07 AM
1

How you know he’s an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:49 PM
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Sure but I wish they were less cruel about it, a simple civil rejection I’m ok with but humiliation is where I draw the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:34 PM
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I’d argue it’s way harsher on men especially if they lack neotony.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:26 PM
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They didn’t fix up to make it look more like him though? And the changes aren’t small either they changed the mid face, lower third, widened the smile, whitened the teeth, added a little tan and made the nose more symmetrical. That’s a lot more than just “filters”. Now if you were an influencer or something then I can see why someone would do that but this man right here is a victim why’s he being changed for the sole purpose of looking more appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:06 PM
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Yes Luigi does have thousands of male supporters too but that’s also partly because of his looks, people give preferential treatment to others even when they’re not sexually attracted to their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:58 PM
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That’s sickening do you deserve less empathy for having less than perfect features?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:57 PM
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I think women are instinctively turned off by my lack of charm or personality, my trauma has left me a shell of a human being being and interacting with women traumatizing me even more and just reinforces my perception of them hating me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:06 PM
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Sure but most men don’t look good enough that they can get hook ups without being charming
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:07 PM
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Misandry is indeed worse, in the real world literally no one gives a shit about male specific struggles you’d be ostracized anywhere letting that shit out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:58 AM
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How are you red pilled if you can’t get hook ups? It’s a prerequisite according to other red pillers I’ve talked to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:02 PM
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Damn that’s rough sorry to hear that, I fear I’ll have a similar fate if not worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:07 PM
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You preach about personality and make ableist statements at the same time, how does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:07 PM
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How old are you if you don’t mind? And when you say only date do you mean the only date with her or in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:58 PM
2

What are you saying then? They shouldn’t exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:32 PM
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Why is someone’s existence so offensive to you? Trans people have always existed just bc they were shut down for most of human history doesn’t mean it’s a new concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:06 AM
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Most of your arguments are based on outlandish guesses anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:02 PM
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Most men can’t even get a date, how do you sabotage something you don’t even have? And even if this was the case this isn’t the only problem that exists how does this prove anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:32 PM
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It’s a western majority sub so statistically most are cis and white + people of any race can be racist why wouldn’t you wanna invite say an East Asian to some culturally arab event? Yes they are everywhere but you’re still in the majority group in that environment, in a cultural event you’d be the minority so it’s a good test to see how comfortable and respectful you are around them. Splitting hairs over nothing smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:22 PM
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That’s insane I don’t think you have a single clue how bad the child care system is, the odds of getting adopted alone are very slim let alone getting adopted by a sane couple. Adoption should be the last resort if neither of the parents are capable of providing a physically and emotionally safe environment for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:31 PM
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They could make better choices and be more thorough with the vetting process but once it’s done it’s done, once the baby is out there’s no going back and it’s better off with one healthy parent that only has to worry about themselves and the baby as opposed to one healthy parent who has to worry about another adult on top of the previous shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:29 PM
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What if the father is a deadbeat or abusive or incompetent or just doesn’t wanna raise his kid? Co parenting while separated still counts as single mom on the dating market, single refers to relationship status not number of active parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:16 PM
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Reddit is fundamentally a waste of time, pick your own battles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:13 PM
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In a lot of situations the relationship goes downhill after the baby is born. What do you suggest they do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:10 PM
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Then why are you even engaging with the post? This is a debate sub you’re supposed to challenge views not throw tantrums.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:09 PM
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But if you ask those questions straight away even though it’s subtle they’re probably just gonna tell you what you wanna hear, I think a better way to go about it is invite them to certain environments. Like if you wanna see how comfortable they are with POC or lgbt folk then invite them to a cultural event or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:03 PM
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Most blue haired liberal women aren’t actually liberal anyway it’s almost always performative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:49 AM
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Most women don’t use dating apps, at least not for finding a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 06:57 PM
2

How do you feel about adopting?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:16 PM
2

Just using sunscreen and not drinking/smoking yourself to death is good enough for most people and they still can’t be arsed to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:31 PM
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What was your response?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:29 AM
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How’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:29 PM
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It is relevant though? She isn’t putting any effort into her appearance and at the same time complaining about not being able to find attractive enough men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:55 PM
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The comment you replied to asked you about real life, no one says “male loneliness epidemic” irl. Protests are a whole different thing it’s a political movement and to reduce it to “complaining” is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:17 PM
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Most of that is their idea of what small talk is, they’re not actually complaining it’s just to avoid awkward silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:33 PM
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Money doesn’t get you authentic desire, at best it amplifies the attractiveness of preexisting desirable traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:36 PM
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Monolithic when convenient? Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:18 PM
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Accentuating your own traits is literally the only option they have, if there was a gym to get a bigger stronger jaw they’d do that too. Most of the looksmaxxers still have severe body dysmorphia after doing anything they can in their power to be considered attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:14 PM
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How would you even know though? People don’t go announcing they consume blackpill content and that they have low self esteem bc of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:58 PM
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No but I don’t see FDS or whatever the equivalent is on billboards either. It’s the constant flood of roided-out bodies, comically wide square jaws and 16yo hairlines in magazines, billboards, and ads don’t even get me started on the height thing. Men have so little diversity as to what constitutes an ideal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:47 PM
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What I meant was men consuming looksmaxxing content and internalizing their physical shortcomings is fairly common now, of course people who actually put in the effort would be fairly low bc most of these people just get too depressed and hopeless to even do anything about their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:31 PM
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No leave the house and stop engaging in rage bait content bc it reinforces your algorithm to give you more of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:23 PM
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Nah it’s mainstream now it’s not 2010 anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:20 PM
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Online is what real life would be if people could freely speak their minds, can’t convince me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:33 PM
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Reddit is full of confessions like that though and I’m aware some are larp but a big chunk of them are too detailed and old to be fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:53 AM
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I’m curious where you were when it was the women making back to back homophobic posts a couple days ago? Didn’t see you in the comments calling them out like you do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:14 PM
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That “innate” level is called prejudice, you can be a masculine bi man you can also be a feminine straight man how you present yourself has little to do with your sexual orientation. Matter of fact most bi men I’ve come across are masculine presenting so I don’t even know how you’d discriminate against them before they outright tell you they’re bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:29 PM
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Yeah but most men aren’t gay so the demand is low + hooking up as a gay man is ridiculously easy. No one’s gonna let you cheat the system for something they can get with a couple of clicks and free of cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:45 PM
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you can give out bjs for favors and show off your holes for money no one is stopping you It’s not about anyone stopping men it’s about supply and demand, exploiting sexual favors to climb a ladder is not an option for 99.9% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:33 PM
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You’re entitled to not wanna date whoever you want for whatever reasons no matter how outlandish however most of the “preferences” are indoctrinated into us by society it isn’t some conscious choice you’re making so believe it or not it does come from a place of prejudice or discrimination even if on a conscious level you don’t hate bi people. You can all sorts of biases without realizing you have em and the main issue is that people refuse to self reflect when they’re called out on it because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:50 PM
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No you’re not bigoted for not being attracted to a certain gender but no one ever calls it sexist because the “sex” part of bisexuality refers to sexual orientation not gender. I don’t get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:15 PM
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It’s not bigoted to not be bisexual but how do you explain not wanting to date a man (the gender you’re attracted to) because he was involved with a man (the gender you’re attracted to)? How does that clash with your sexuality? If you’re initially attracted to a man and get turned off after learning he’s bi then yes that does sounds like bigotry to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:49 PM
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You’re comparing dating a black woman to eating spoilt food?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:41 PM
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Ok but can you explain why it is a preference? And are you sure it’s a preference as opposed to a strict criteria?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:35 PM
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If you think you’re in the right why not make actual arguments instead of whatever this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:34 PM
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Not a big deal only until it happens to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:31 PM
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No one is calling it sexist, because bisexuality isn’t a gender. The issue is that it can be biphobic or homophobic to reject a man or woman (someone you’re otherwise attracted to) solely because they’ve previously been sexually or romantically involved with someone of the same gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:29 PM
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Depends on how you define long term, I didn’t exactly mean lifelong I meant like 5+ years. Relative to open relationships monogamy works out pretty well long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:06 PM
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No one’s forcing you to date anyone it’s the mental gymnastics people have a problem with, as long as you admit to be biphobic no one really cares there’s no argument to have after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:04 PM
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She’s still an exception most open straight relationships don’t work out long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:47 AM
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Short height can be a sign of stunted growth or at times women don’t want their future kids to be short so it makes sense. Fatness can be a sign of a bad genetic predisposition or lack of discipline or a symptom of an unhealthy lifestyle. Sleeping around too much can be a sign of issues with commitment or intimacy or sometimes even sex addiction. All these things you mentioned have actual physical and mental drawbacks, being into men isn’t a symptom of anything bad it’s a massive false equivalen…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:15 AM
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Turn off is basically code for “I’m disgusted for reasons I don’t understand” It is “phobia” but it’s so deeply ingrained they don’t even know it’s there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:11 AM
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It’s different for gay couples though, open relationships not working out is more of a straight issue and it also involves non sexual gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:27 AM
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Those people are also competing against professionals though, what if this guy is way better at hiding, not leaving trails and gaslighting than his wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:23 AM
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It’s not inherently racially charged it’s the way she phrases her comment and the constant anti immigrant remarks and name calling and all that. It’s similar to dog whistles like you can’t prove it because they keep it purposefully vague but you get the racist undertones of the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:56 PM
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You only believe that because you belong to a privileged group, generalizations against your group doesn’t affect your day to day life or your career trajectory or how receptive people are towards you. What race is foreign? You were clearly referring to non white people it doesn’t have to be a specific group in order to be considered racist rhetoric, are we gonna pretend you’re referring to Italians or Russians or Czech folks? You’re being purposefully vague so you can deny being racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:07 PM
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I was trying to make you understand how dumb your generalizations are but there’s no point you don’t engage in good faith anyway. Also there is a rule against racially charged comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:33 PM
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It’s no different than saying all women are x or all men are y, your generalizations are backed up by nothing you just like throwing poc under the bus every chance you get without any evidence whatsoever and it’s not just “pointing out” most your comments are incredibly hostile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:24 PM
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For some reason mods don’t do anything about her she’s been making bigoted statements for years now she ain’t even subtle with it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:11 PM
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Why not hear the woman out in this scenario before calling her a turd? You aggressively attack people based off assumptions and then you’re surprised at people getting offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:51 PM
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/s?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 07:38 AM
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But sleeping around and doing drugs doesn’t make you a bad person or a criminal though (in the regular sense)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:40 PM
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🌽⚽️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:18 PM
3

He’s so eager to put down his own gender he doesn’t even make arguments it’s all just condescending shit without even reading the comment he’s replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:16 PM
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They can sleep around and get unstable partners with either mental health issues or addictions but getting a stable partner with a decent job who treats you right? That would be next to impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:07 AM
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If they want a stable sane partner then they kinda are
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:12 AM
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I think it’s completely valid to not wanna date someone with mental health issues including depression but calling it a red flag feels disrespectful since it’s something involuntary. Also my initial question had depression as a thing of the past not something ongoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:05 AM
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Why is it a red flag? It’s not really in your hands and rotting in your bed for days on end is not exactly enjoyable no one chooses to be severely depressed and you’re making it sound like a voluntary moral failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:42 AM
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I got a question, is it still a red flag if it’s due to severe depression in the past? Can’t expect to get laid when you can barely get out of bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:00 AM
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It is because that ruins your reputation in to every mutual you know and the people around like if you ask someone out from a friend group and she labels you a creep you’re basically barred from that group and any other mutual group you have in common bc the word gets around fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:54 PM
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Usually it’s just being oblivious to what your social standing is like you can’t be ugly and behave like a Chad it doesn’t add up which makes it creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:59 PM
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It’s not male feminists they have a problem with it’s that you put down your gender by using terms like manlet or doughy or whatever the fuck. If that’s not simpy I don’t know what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:52 AM
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I think they’re less chronically online than American women and hence more sane and grounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:31 PM
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There are plenty of conservative women they’re just not loud about it bc it usually wouldn’t work out in their favor as far as social acceptance goes. Besides if you take out the gender roles and sexism part, many so called “liberal” women share the same views as conservative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:25 PM
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Isn’t actually going against the grain if it’s “horrible fashion” and you’re doing it because you like it and you’re passionate about a certain sport? I really don’t see what’s so wrong with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:21 PM
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It’s a generic brand that we know we can trust it’s not even a trend thing and you don’t even know who advertises it ffs you just threw a random name out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:05 PM
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Because Reddit attracts a certain demographic of women that aren’t the accurate representation of the average woman you come across.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:18 PM
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That isn’t much of a counter argument though, if you must whine about people making posts and wanting to debate on a debate sub there’s a daily discussion thread you can participate in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:34 PM
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Pointing out someone’s race as passive aggression to maintain plausible deniability is still racism I hate to break it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:27 AM
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You don’t have to be violently hateful to be racist stop playing dumb you know what you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:21 AM
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You’ve literally made several racist comments and you’re still here, if it was a man he’d be nuked permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:13 AM
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Jesus Christ again with this shit? You bring this up every post he makes isn’t witch hunting banned from this sub? Or do rules only apply to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:45 AM
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The difference is that they’ll never have agency and never whine about their owner being a control freak, says a lot about the antinatalist pet owners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:48 AM
1

What exactly is repulsive about not being a virgin? I’d prefer specifics here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:14 AM
2

Good grief this thread is depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:38 PM
5

That still requires good bone structure underneath, an ugly guy with all the skin care and lack of facial fat will still look ugly it’s lipstick on a pig. Good on you for still pulling at 5’7 but it ain’t the gym it’s your set in stone bone structure that was predetermined before you even knew what it means to be conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:56 PM
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I dunno you tell me, how do you reckon you get a ton of likes on dating apps? No gym for hair face race and height you give yourself too much credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:36 PM
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Lol it has nothing to do with that it’s your genes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:30 PM
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.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:15 PM
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You’re privileged then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:29 AM
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I don’t think she represents the average autistic person, she sounds like she has some other issues that are much harder for you to pin point as opposed to something more overt and obvious like autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:36 PM
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No looks are also more important for men to have, a below average woman can still get into relationships and have her hook up phase easily if she drops her standards a bit, a below average man can’t even if he goes dumpster diving.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:34 PM
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Yes but you gotta be tall, make good money, have a fairly full head of hair with good skin + be in good physical shape. If you have all that covered then you can hook up with mid twenties men and women all the way up to your 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:42 PM
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Make that twice in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:43 PM
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Nah there’s very rigid specific standards to be perceived as exotic in a good way especially for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:10 AM
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It is way more often for women than for men though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:09 AM
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Some amount of that is healthy and preferred by most people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:57 AM
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How’s carrying heavy stuff and driving you out toxic masculinity? What part is toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:16 AM
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Threatening in what sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:24 PM
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It’s so rare I immediately thought it was larp, I’m still unsure tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:03 PM
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I sure hope this turns out to be the case for me bc my early twenties have been wildly depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:11 AM
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am I just hated bc I revealed that I’m a cis woman on reddit Reddit is the most pro woman site there is what’s with the perpetual victim complex 🤦🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:28 PM
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You’re like a living AFBB meme
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:14 PM
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That’s not surprising considering men have no real support system for them and the fact that they’re constantly bullied by both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:11 PM
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Millennials were and are pretty much more progressive in every area than genz and gen alpha and I say this as a non millennial.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:34 AM
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You’re ain’t short 🫩
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:04 PM
3

Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:01 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:29 AM
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And gamble on your kid’s life? They get half your genes too you’re just repeating the cycle of misery for your own emotional fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:24 AM
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It’s only hypocritical when you judge them for not meeting the standards you yourself don’t meet but just wanting it in a partner is fine imo. Also short women should just consider adoption yall just breeding more suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:10 AM
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That underscore clearly states your username game is weak
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:08 AM
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I don’t even think it’s fair to say it’s left leaning there’s just so much irrational favoritism like some groups are A-okay to be bigoted against and others will get you nuked to oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:07 AM
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I agree but just bc there are bigger issues doesn’t mean we oughta dismissive the (relatively) little ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:25 AM
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No but it does contribute to body image issues which can be pretty debilitating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:00 AM
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No one likes passport bros not even other passport bros
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:05 PM
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Doesn’t make it any less racist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:14 PM
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????
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:14 PM
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She’s my fav schizo poster
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:04 PM
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I believe they can if they’re willing to go through enough trauma and trial and error
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:34 PM
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I’m guessing you’re asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:19 PM
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What kinda social circle do you have where it’s embarrassing to have a partner? Or is it embarrassing to have a partner who doesn’t get your friend’s approval?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:24 PM
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Would you consider 22-18 or 20-25 age gap relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:36 AM
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Whatever stay mad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:11 PM
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?????? Anglosphere = white majority countries Fym Singapore 😭 and you skipped Scandinavia of all places??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:31 PM
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Are you a virgin though? Do you not have any good and adventurous memories from your youth?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:47 PM
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No it is gender inequality only difference being it’s against men so of course you refuse to take it into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:49 PM
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Women are flying out while men are getting drafted against their will so yeah I’d say so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:22 PM
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Because they’re not progressive places and they’re not in the west are you dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:16 PM
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Why wouldn’t Ukraine be used? It’s in the anglosphere and there’s no gender discrimination against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:01 PM
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I’m convinced not caring what the vast majority of people think or how they perceive you is not a real thing unless you’re a narcissist or have high aspd traits. It’s just not possible for regular people and the ones who say that they don’t care usually don’t realize how much they care until people actually start looking down on them and start excluding them or treat them with passive hostility. It’s like their obliviousness to the importance of social validation comes from a place of privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:41 AM
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You said distant, aloof and I wouldn’t be sure she loves me. I need someone affectionate, cuddly and someone who frequently shows their love for me so I don’t have to question it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:34 PM
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She’s not fulfilling my needs either and it’s not cheating if I’m letting her know what I’m doing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:30 PM
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If I have to choose one then the second one I guess? First one is a disaster waiting to happen and if the second one is really as peaceful as you say she is then I could date other women simultaneously she’d be chill about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:55 PM
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??????? You’re not even subtle anymore 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:19 PM
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Sounds like a miserable life tbh. Is sex the only thing you care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:26 PM
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Yes of course they do, evolutionarily if most people think low of you your chances of survival and reproduction reduce drastically. Hell you might even be killed by your fellow men for being too genetically weak or unlikable or uncooperative or whatever. It’s unnatural to expect people to not care how the vast majority of people perceive them especially the opposite gender and the fact that you’re oblivious to this means you’re in a privileged position.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:06 PM
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Nah I’ve seen plenty of his comments not even that self hating blue pilled guy hates men as much as this “woman” hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:11 PM
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Is larping as a woman a good use of your time? No judgement I just find it a bit odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:04 PM
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They openly promote white supremacy and shit on their own men, the amount of hapa stories where the asian woman is disappointed her half white kid looks too asian is insane. You understand now why this should be called out?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:57 PM
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Can you link some?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:49 PM
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That’s a very small minority of men though I don’t think it’s fair to say that it’s commonplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:46 PM
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Bro code only exists in movies or in very very close friendships and even then men would throw each other under the bus for female validation or a chance at getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:10 PM
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It benefits women but not at the expense of her partner, it “helps” men at the expense of her partner by treating her like a sex slave. Do you really think those two things are equally as bad? I suggest you either improve your reading comprehension or do a better job of playing dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:49 PM
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They do though? You can see it any passport bro thread there’s no shortage of men calling out other men on literally any topic ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:45 PM
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They do it because they’re status hungry which is bad but not as bad as being a passport bro bc ethnic women don’t have the same power dynamic by being with white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:41 PM
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Personally no but some of these men know that they’re looking for a luxurious lifestyle so they never bring them home to the west and when they get bored of them they dump them and monkey branch to the next woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:31 PM
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They get lasered because they’re exploiting power dynamics to get all the benefits of a relationship without any of the downsides, even if it’s consensual it’s unethical to want a bangmaid. You shouldn’t expect people to turn a blind eye to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:30 PM
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Says their actions? Or the lack of pushback? Not calling out behavior in women that they would if it were men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:23 PM
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I don’t approve of passport bros because they fuck up the dating market for locals by having a big upper hand financially, racially and status wise but in general yeah I’d say it’s best for most to not care what people online think. Most of them just wanna put you down to feel superior about their mediocre life, both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:08 PM
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Gee I wonder why
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:34 AM
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“Truth” being you unapologetically bigoted and superficial? I’m afraid that’s not much of an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:00 PM
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See your bias is showing already and do you really think using social status to filter people from your dating pool is helping your argument here? Filtering out of prejudice and superficial concerns is pretty backwards maybe it’s time for some self reflection?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:39 PM
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It’s less taboo now the pendulum is swinging back
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:54 AM
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Of course it does your point is that it was an isolated incident when the reality is it happens way too often to be ignored or to be considered an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:53 AM
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Irl women still aren’t shy about their racial preferences, most women are racist as hell and only in liberal areas will they make an effort to be subtle about their biases or hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:32 AM
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Half ass raise a child so people think highly of you? Sounds unfair to the child don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:56 AM
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To different people at different times yes they can be both and that wasn’t even the point you’re either disingenuous or dense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:56 AM
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Being nice doesn’t mean you have a good personality, being an asshole doesn’t mean you have a bad one. When people say personality they’re talking about how charming someone is and how good they can make you feel, has nothing to do with morals or values or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:54 AM
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Then how come most fat women aren’t married to multi millionaires? I agree it’s easier for them but this is just ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:16 AM
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You’re still punishing people for being born in a certain country and being of a certain gender under an assumption. I like how all hell breaks loose when it’s men being generalized until it’s a certain group of men then it’s A-okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:27 PM
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I voted for Trump No surprise there you clearly don’t value human life much unless it directly benefits you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:23 PM
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Your dick decides who gets to immigrate? Some people shouldn’t be allowed to vote
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:09 PM
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I ain’t on your side dickwad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:58 PM
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Men bad women good amirite fellas
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:42 PM
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I admire the mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:31 PM
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Do you have some kinda victim complex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:52 AM
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Money helps with a particular subset of women, if you want authentic desire then money would only amplify your attractiveness if you met the physical threshold before you even had money. The only other thing that can help is fame but that requires you to be very pretentious which is a burden of its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:17 PM
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If you’re aware that it’s not based in reality and that it’s conditioning then why do you still fall for the scam?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:50 AM
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That would just isolate them more and send them down a deeper rabbit hole since there’s no other place for them to explore how rational their thoughts are and then yall wonder why people get stuck in echo chambers, it takes two to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:36 PM
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For every dude that does voice it there’s ten who suppress it inside due to fear of ostracism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:18 PM
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Likely bc online is a safer space for them with less consequences, people don’t take kindly to men whining about their dating woes irl or any woes for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:11 PM
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Right but we’re talking about people who purchase the services of those that are in the market out of desperation, no one looks down on people getting the services of a janitor or a garbage man, why should it be any different for sexual services?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 11:50 AM
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Most people also do janitorial work out of desperation, no one likes cleaning toilets or picking up trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:38 AM
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Pot meet kettle
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:23 PM
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No you just purposefully think of it as extreme in order to avoid nuance, you know exactly what the right amount of crazy is good and when it crosses the line of not being worth it but you’ll continue to be wilfully ignorant to get your point across. No point discussing things if you’re gonna argue in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:20 PM
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Why are you using extreme examples though? Using exceptions just discredits your entire point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:11 PM
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Crazy is a spectrum, if the things you mentioned were part of that crazy then most men would steer clear bc it’s not worth the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:35 PM
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Yes we do admit it that’s the point we don’t do none of that pseudo moral high ground virtue signalling bs we’re straight. Also let’s be real dating someone because they’re a gangbanger is a lot more disturbing than dating someone bc they’re hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:34 PM
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How are those things contradictory? Crazy usually means fun in bed which is why men like them what’s so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:26 PM
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Because women deny liking it but their actions say otherwise, men are transparent and more self aware about what they want and have less of a need to virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:22 PM
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I bet he’s not even 5ft he’s prob like 5’5 it’s just her disgust makes her perceive him as shorter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:58 PM
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What does history have to do with her aunt’s situation though? No one’s forced her to do this she’s exploiting that man for her own benefit on her own free will. sounds like she’s having sex with a troll Genetically unfortunate = a troll? Not very blue pilled of you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:03 PM
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You’re better off asking sex workers they have sex with undesirable men for a living
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:33 PM
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Lucky for you men’s libido is too strong so you’ll always have Chad to pump n dump you dontcha worry
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:55 AM
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2/10 rage bait
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:40 AM
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Oh look it’s the man hater again who btw also happens to be a man! What a tragedy!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:37 PM
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You’re not touch starved you want sex I’m starting to think you just don’t like the word sex lmao it’s the same fucking shit. Sex and cuddles is what solves being touch starved, sex involves touch!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:31 PM
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It is about being touch starved, particularly being touch starved from a romantic and intimate way. Hugging friends and family doesn’t fulfill that need, stop being obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:26 PM
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It is food for mental health, the fact that you only see it as pleasure proves you’re in a more privileged spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:25 PM
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Doesn’t help what else ya got?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:22 PM
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Who’s more privileged? A starving man or a man with plain bland unenjoyable bread that at the very least lets him survive? Who’s in a better position to climb the ladder and be in an even better spot? At least you have people to have sex with and you can eventually find someone who’s willing to take the time to see what works for you, a lot of men don’t even get to trial and error let alone have “good and fulfilling sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:22 PM
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No one’s asking you to accept shitty sex but you’re clearly in a more privileged position which makes our needs a bigger priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:14 PM
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That’s just you being wilfully obtuse, which again is not my fault, come back when you’re ready to have a discussion like a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:11 PM
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Jerking off doesn’t help with feeling touch starved though? Ain’t my problem your prudish ass finds sexuality nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:10 PM
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“I’ll treat my lack of luxury as seriously as other people’s more basic needs” alright as you wish
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:07 PM
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So you’re claiming that the male population has never been happy before puberty? No, needs change as you grow up, a child’s needs and wants are not the same as an adult’s needs and wants. Nothing gives them joy other than sex? A lot of things can give them joy but it’s not a replacement for sexual fulfillment, refer to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. Water doesn’t make us particularly happy but when we don’t have it we want it more than anything in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:05 PM
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No one’s asking you to personally do it but if women as a whole were more direct and honest about their wants more men would get laid, more men would have female connections and friendships and thus would have better mental health. This isn’t just helpful to men it also makes gender relations better on a societal level which is a net positive for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:00 PM
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So the only thing they care about making them happy is their dick wet? We don’t choose what makes us happy This is why women don’t care about their fake ass issues It’s a real ass issue you just don’t like the reality of it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:58 PM
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Have you considered that perhaps getting their dick wetted significantly improves their mental health and is actually a symptom of a much deeper issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:50 PM
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They’re too thin to be braided I reckon 🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:39 PM
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I just wanna be held and have my hair stroked, is that so bad? Lonely out here 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:32 PM
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Quite an example
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:42 PM
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Again with the dismissive shit ignoring how men struggle with being vulnerable, the more dismissive you are the more you prove my point of how unforgiving people are to men’s unmet needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 07:31 AM
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People on the internet are real and unfiltered, this internet not being real life shit is getting old you gotta understand what you see is a lot of what people actually believe in they just don’t voice it to bc of the potential consequences especially since they could lose their jobs over it. Internet is definitely real life in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:23 AM
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No different than being an actor or otherwise positively famous, it’s not the humor getting them laid it’s the social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:05 AM
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It’s very hard for men to get friends they can have a deep intimate connection with and wtf would hobbies do when you wanna be held you can’t be fr
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:20 AM
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For men because oftentimes men have no support system besides their partner so if they break up they have no one to fall back onto, no safety net no nothing. There are even statistics for death by broken heart and men are disproportionately affected by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:08 AM
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That’s because of status and social proof not humour
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:54 AM
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He expects it because that’s the bs he gets fed on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:53 AM
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Anyone can get chicks with enough fame and money there’s nothing special about it. Now authentic physical desire while having the stats of Danny devito? That’s next to impossible which is what most men are looking for, there’s no novelty in transactional sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:52 AM
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They can choose to a certain extent if you continue to enable them by infantilizing them then no shit nothings gonna change.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:45 PM
2

Not very blue pilled of you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:45 PM
5

You always have the most bigoted passive aggressive unhelpful comments it’s so unpleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:33 PM
5

At least they try to call out each other’s behaviour unlike women who blindly enable each other in the name of sisterhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:45 PM
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Most of the time it’s men shitting on other men so yeah I’d say they’re fairly aware
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:37 PM
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Nah women say what they think is true it’s just sad they’re oblivious to their own nature
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:56 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:42 PM
5

Not for the average man it ain’t, you seem to think average = being 5/10 at everything which isn’t the case. There’s a reason most women rate average men as below average. Perception ≠ Reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:19 AM
2

The average man is socially incompetent when it comes to socializing with women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:03 AM
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It’s about both, you just take sex for granted because it comes easy for you, if it suddenly stopped being easy you’d realize how privileged you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:06 PM
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Proves who’s the less privileged gender in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:01 PM
8

Race matters almost as much as height if not more to women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:35 PM
4

You really think middle aged women find middle aged men the most sexually attractive? They might see them as the optimal partner but there’s no way they have the same raw attraction as they would for a 20 something man. Why do women on this sub have such a hard time accepting biology? It’s not like it’s limited to a gender it’s literally just human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:55 PM
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No most 35+ women don’t want a balding man with a beer gut and bad skin, every once in a while they might be attracted to a man their own age but he’d have to have really good genes and have his shit together. Only reason women choose men their own age more often is stability but if we’re talking raw attraction then most women regardless of their own age are attracted to men in their mid twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:54 PM
5

Fr it’s easy to focus on shit outside of dating when you know you can get a partner within a week of re-entering the dating market. Men however need to treat it like a second full time job to have a shot at pulling a stable normal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:29 AM
4

Do you have a source for majority of school shooters being neurodivergent? I know they’re outcasts but that doesn’t necessarily mean ND
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:51 PM
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Either way your bar for a good conversationalist is pretty low
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:47 PM
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I didn’t say they should be forced to reply you’re making shit up and getting mad on said made up shit but it would be a good start to not use dating apps for attention and waste other people’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:56 AM
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I think he was referring to women using dating apps for validation and attention as opposed to actually having the intention of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:37 AM
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