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| 1 | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.Thank you so much for saying the truth. I’m diagnosed, I can’t tell you how enraging it is to see it mentioned like that. The conversation starts with telling the truth. It’s not a good faith conversation to classify all autistic people as “ill.” Tell me you’ve never met an autistic person without telling me you’ve met an autistic person. It’s a type of fucking human being, not an animal to be caged. Wtf Is wrong with these people who call it that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 09:24 PM |
| 1 | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations“I don’t give a damn dude” Blames a population of minorities for procreating and pushes the narrative it’s responsible for the downfall of society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 09:55 PM |
| 1 | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsI’m almost one of them in certain regards (dx with several disorders) I need all kinds of help with basic things as a 25 year old but guess what, that doesn’t make me less of a person, or deserving of love, or anyone else that does too. It just means I develop, grow and learn differently. Sorry. Leave us alone though, we’re allowed to procreate if we want, thanks. You have a distorted view, you’ve been taught to blame an entire group of picture rather than question the system that oppresses them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 08:50 PM |
| 1 | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsChange the system, leave the fucking people alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 06:09 PM |
| 2 | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsOh no, more autistic and ADHD people for me to relate to, be friends with or date, boo fucking who. It’s a natural biological preset, it’s never going away. Cry me a river you weird fucking eugenicist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | What are single men doing wrong?Oh okay, my apologies then. You are right that it’s an additional challenge, there’s no denying that. Just be careful about internalizing those thoughts that it somehow makes you worth less. I guess I took it that way from how it was worded. You probably know just like me how it feels to read that coming from people who aren’t autistic, and it can hurt and be angering. I send you kindness and compassion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 02:31 AM |
| – | What are single men doing wrong?You say autistic people are doing something wrong simply by being born the way they are? Is that so? It just comes across as a personal bias against autistic people. It’s kind of hilarious that you would probably define yourself as normal for thinking that way. The only thing that’s not normal, is looking at a person and deciding their worth less for being who they are. Do you even listen to yourself? I was just diagnosed with ASD and ADHD at age 24 a year ago. The way you lump autistic people i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it.Dude, holy shit that is too relatable, Idk if you remember me from other threads, (I’m autistic as well) but girls say the EXACT same stuff about me and honestly the more I keep being myself and not suppressing it it’s a good thing. It’s very true and what you’re saying is totally spot on. I like more down to earth people. I like talking about emotions, I seem to be way better off connecting, forming relationships and making friends with girls and guys that think this way. Hyper masculinity is l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 01:12 AM |
| – | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manI agreed with what you said. I take responsibility for myself as often as I can, I am not the main character trust me I don’t think that highly of myself. It just sounded like you were aggressive the way you wrote. I’m an AuDHD guy and I know autistic PEOPLE tend to lack accountability, it’s both a guy and girl issue caused by trouble understanding social situations because of brain development differences. It can be learned it’s just harder for us. There is no overnight fix. Autistic people des… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Perspective on autistic dating, from an autistic womanI totally understand. Every person is allowed to handle it their own way. A lot of us like myself just get exhausted from the constant misunderstandings or mistreatment, sensory issues with going outside, going to work, being in cars, whatever. The list just goes on and on, alot of us deal with regression post diagnosis, all kinds of crazy shit. It’s very complicated, too much to go fully Into detail here, and the more you piece it together you realize your personal lived experience is radically… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 04:13 AM |
| – | Perspective on autistic dating, from an autistic womanI do, and it is not a lie. Getting clinically diagnosed recently has been really hard on me. I have a lot going on. I like to talk about my experiences with people on Reddit. I am in a lot of the communities and have many autistic friends. Anywhere there is discourse about autism I get involved, I’m very passionate about it. I couldn’t sum it up in a Reddit comment. The way these things have shaped my personality have given me a-lot of natural joy. I am a super excitable in how differently I per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 03:48 AM |
| 55 | Perspective on autistic dating, from an autistic womanHey, from one autistic person to another. I want to tell you this might not be the best place to discuss topics surrounding the nuances of autism, a couple of the last few posts and comments made here in the last few days were some of the most presumptuous, ableist garbage I ever had the misfortune of tainting my eyeballs with. I value, respect, appreciate and understand your perspective. I’m a young guy, was diagnosed autistic, ADHD with 2 other disorders 6 months ago at age 24. I totally under… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 02:37 AM |
| – | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manThese are the same people we can never be good enough for. That just hate autistics because of a single experience. They don’t change, and they will never know how much harder we have to work. It really breaks my heart, I wish I could give you a hug. It’s 2024 and this is the way non autistic people talk about autism. We have a lot of work to do. It will catch up to them, you get back what you put out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 01:54 AM |
| – | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manThis sub has a lot of ableist attitudes and discussion. It’s true that anybody should be able to be rejected for any reasons. However from the perspective of a diagnosed autistic and ADHD person the entire post is all generalizations and assumptions. There’s no nuance about the different ways autistic people present, or even acknowledgement. They’re just trying to make out all autistic people to be this mass unloveable group of people. There is a lot of hatred and it should be openly denounced. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manOf course it is, there is merit to what they are saying and I know. I am in full agreement. I’m dx’d with autism and ADHD, we should never blame others for our issues, we should work to better ourselves and grow every day. But you can take the rotten, condescending, hateful tone out of it. Like we get it you don’t like people with disabilities. They just come across as a worthless nasty loser. I’m not triggered, ableism and hatred towards minorities, disabled people, women, it doesn’t matter who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?Okay then, that’s fine. It hasn’t been too much hope, that’s been my experience, I’ve had the privilege of dating a lot of really beautiful people, that I thought were 9’s or above that yes, have been able to look past it because I was a good person otherwise. I could factor in looks but that feels disrespectful towards you, to me. People have said a lot of nice things about that to me (you’re hot af! you’re a 10!, whatever) but it shouldn’t be over represented when talking about this. It also m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?“Rules I have to abide by” I wish you could hear how hard I just laughed. What the actual fuck are you talking about? I’m not entitled to anyone or anything. I just listed my personality type. I’m not arrogant about myself. I don’t expect things from people. I’ve dated a lot of very kind, beautiful people, grown and learned so much, and I’m diagnosed with autism, ADHD, and 2 other disorders. You can think whatever you want. You’re not autistic, so everything you say holds no weight. You just sou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manI’m diagnosed with ASD, ADHD, an anxiety disorder and a mood disorder. And I’m going to tear you apart because this is not a kindly written post, and should go down as an example of how NOT to have discourse about anyone with disabilities. It’s funny you claim you’re autistic OP, because I notice you aren’t in any support or hangout groups on Reddit. So obviously, you aren’t taking part in any real group conversations around autism. And it shows, your post is riddled with assumptions about what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manThis subreddit just gets crazier and crazier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manDon’t let it, there is something very wrong with the attitude and tone OP is using | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:10 PM |
| – | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manYou need to shut the fuck up with that tone. Talking that way about autistic people is disgusting. There’s a-lot of aggression and hatred in the way you write. What the fuck is wrong with you. Yes it’s something that should be worked on in life, I’m diagnosed with it and I work hard at growing, but disabled people are totally allowed to complain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:01 PM |
| 11 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manThank you for saying the truth, and I’m thanking you as a dx’d autistic person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 04:53 PM |
| 4 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?I’m not entitled to anyone or anything. But autistic people are definitely not equivalent to morbidly obese people. I thought it was so fucking funny but actually unironically the silliest thing I’ve ever read in my life. I didn’t think it would be worth it to explain anything to someone that thinks this, so I just shit posted at you Im diagnosed with autism actually, and I’m living proof that autistic people can find love. Thats what makes it so funny. There are so many autistic people lurking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:57 AM |
| 5 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 04:45 AM |
| – | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?<image> Nice sweeping generalizations bro 💀 those “few men” can’t inform your entire opinion. Especially if you’re not autistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?And hey, I know that's not right to behave that way, I'm sorry they did that to you. And I'm a dx'd person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Women should avoid dating late bloomer men“I ViEw tHeM aS pEoPLe” “yOuR aUtiStiC wE cAn’t dAtE aNyMoRe” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menThat post had great reception, and came from a community of people you probably don’t understand or look down upon, as your now telling me while your true intentions come out. So nice job, your just further demonstrating how unaccepting you are of different kinds of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menWe all know you don’t care, that’s why you got called out. For being a piece of shit 🖕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menYeah take the L buddy you’re going to screenshot my comment history lmao. You got fucking served, caught spewing some ableist bullshit. Sorry one autistic person won’t let you walk all over them with assumptions and generalizations like you do with everyone else 🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 08:58 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menYes you are qualified to, but only about matters you’re educated on. If you inform your decisions off of a generalized opinion about autistic people, and decide that’s the reason you’ll never date one, thats shallow, sad, and bigoted. That would be like me saying I’ll never date people of a different skin color because I “heard they were bad and different” but not actually knowing enough about them to inform my statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 08:48 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menLol, I’m not asking you on a date. I never moved any goal posts. I know autistic people can be hard to date. I’m just telling you, before someone else does, you aren’t qualified to not date someone at the first mention of autism, because you aren’t educated about autism enough to know how its effecting the person in front of you. You view an autistic person as a generalization of whatever little you know about it. Thats not what people who “think autistic people are people” say or think about th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 08:41 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menI never said you had to. I said If you really viewed them as people, you wouldn’t discriminate based on it alone. You would naturally get to know the person and consider the other aspects of their personality, because again, we’re all different. You wouldn’t reject the person for it without knowing anything else about the person. (“You’re autistic, bye!”) You would get to know the person first and then decide. Lets say you had a date who you are hitting it off with for a few weeks, and they open… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 08:24 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menI’m sorry I don’t want to be mean. But you just said autistic people have a “defect”. Autism should be assessed on a case by case basis, meaning you should approach them on a personal, individual basis. They are all different from eachother, we aren’t going to look the same as the next one. You can’t write off people based on something when you don’t know enough about how it presents in them. And you’re making it easy to see that you lack that insight. But yet simultaneously claiming you see the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 08:14 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menAutism isn’t a black and white thing that should sit at the forefront of how people decide to get into a relationship or not. That might be the most shallow shit I’ve ever heard. People who think that are beyond pond scum. I’m diagnosed, you saying it doesn’t apply to you makes plenty of sense because you would call that a “defect”, and attempt to dehumanize the person with it. We are human beings, we should be accepted for who we are, for christ sake you clearly do not understand autistic peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 08:01 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menI agree completely, it’s kind of unsettling. Sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 04:46 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menWomp womp, sorry asshole but we autismo’s are staying in the gene pool whether you like it or not. Neurodivergent people deserve to love and be loved whether you think so or not. You don’t know all autistic people and what they’re like at all. One bad experience isn’t enough to generalize. You don’t have the character and resolve that autistic people have, you are spineless. You would turn autistic people down who want to grow and improve as people because of their condition? Are you actually se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 04:36 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menNo we’re not, I’m actually dx’d autistic and I don’t want to see to this shit in these discussions. I don’t go around saying shit about different types of people. I don’t like to harass and poke fun of others. This is so offensive and rude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingI’m sorry, no not level 3, only 1-2, I meant had to go somewhere after I hurt myself, I don’t mean to be agressive I’m just nervous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 05:11 AM |
| 1 | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingIt’s not how you type, it’s the way you think of it all. It just shows… it did with your comment to that other person too. There are a lot more behaviors than just those ones. Some of them are more overtly negative, such as hitting my head into walls or scratching and slapping myself. There’s all kinds of behaviors you might not know about, it can be life threatening, and the difference between me and you is I can’t control myself. I loose control over myself involuntarily. A passenger in my own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 02:24 AM |
| – | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingListen I mean no ill will, I am upset with you because what you told that guy was wrong, he is right that you aren’t autistic so you don’t know how it’s different or what it’s like. You are correct, I am not normal, I am a diagnosed person, I don’t know what it’s like to be normal. You talk like someone is not autistic, I am involved in nearly every autism sub on Reddit and you’re talking like someone who doesn’t get it. And again, autistic people don’t mask the same things, to the same frequenc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingIf you want to seriously talk about autism then you can start by not using the “high functioning” derogatory slang. Useless and outdated terminology that doesn’t account for the varying, dynamic complexity of capability that autistic people face. Functioning is fluid. There is no “set” functioning level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 12:12 AM |
| – | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingDude, you were flat out wrong across the board, I’m diagnosed clinically and I’m telling you you’re fucking wrong. Not only were you wrong, but the other person is right about precisely that fact. You’re not autistic so you don’t know what you’re talking about. Nothing you said adds anything to the conversation. All you did was talk out of your ass. You are automatically removed from the conversation about autism by not being autistic, that’s how it works. I don’t go around trying to say shit ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Despite progressivity, has the treatment towards Autistic men by women worsened in recent years?I don’t use my autism to victimize myself at all, not even close, I got diagnosed at the age of 24 6 months ago. ASD ADHD inattentive type and two other things, I spent my entire life without knowing. I just thought I was broken and insane, I would fall under the minority of people who had too many sensory issues then, they are really bad. The world is generally overwhelming and I get overloaded quickly. It’s not something I can “teach” myself to deal with, I just have way too many issues to han… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Despite progressivity, has the treatment towards Autistic men by women worsened in recent years?I’m dx autistic so you’re essentially just explaining a lot of my own problems to me. There is no singular universal presentation of it, some people like me can be extremely hyperemotional and sensitive, but I’ve got a diagnosis of comorbid ADHD, and 2 other mood/anxiety disorders. I mean I agree with everything you said but I wouldn’t compare it to being gay or something. The sensory problems are a disabling trait, a lot of the “disabling” issues are not social ones. But even then in a group of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Despite progressivity, has the treatment towards Autistic men by women worsened in recent years?That’s comparing a neurodevelopmental brain abnormality with a sexual preference. One of them really fucks with you and your entire life, ability to live independently, talk to people, have a job, care for yourself, have healthy relationships, to communicate properly, every second of every day for my entire life. The other just has to do with who you like to… have sex with or date…? That makes no sense, and contributes nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Despite progressivity, has the treatment towards Autistic men by women worsened in recent years?In my experience, being a late diagnosed autistic and ADHD guy that has grown up in western culture, I have dealt with significantly more toxic masculinity for me being sensitive shy and emotional than anything else. Women would have to inflict it throughout another lifetime for it to compare with the mistreatment my fellow men have done to me growing up in the USA. Women just don’t understand and might be more avoidant. They are a bit more receptive in a subtle way. Surely I have met women that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Despite progressivity, has the treatment towards Autistic men by women worsened in recent years?It’s more varied than your brother’s single presentation, autistic people suffer differently from different things in different ways. I am diagnosed clinically with ASD and ADHD so I know what I’m talking about. If you sat a bunch of diagnosed autistic people in the room with your brother, they are still going to leave the room having a bunch of disabling difficulties with things maybe you don’t have. It doesn’t make them “less autistic” because they aren’t exactly like your brother. They are, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 06:58 PM |
| – | Despite progressivity, has the treatment towards Autistic men by women worsened in recent years?I disagree with pretty much all of this and I’m diagnosed with ASD and ADHD at a clinical level. It defines your life from the time you are born, it colors in all my thoughts, feelings, perceptions, every single aspect of my thought process. It’s responsible for making me the person I am. Admitting that is not “victimizing” myself, it’s being comfortable with myself. I developed a stronger sense of self and am able to better define my limitations in life, leading me to making better decisions an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Despite progressivity, has the treatment towards Autistic men by women worsened in recent years?Dude it’s a disability, you have to have disabling traits to get the diagnosis. I agree it’s a disability within society but certain types of sensory issues I have (issues with lights noises and clothes) are not going to be accommodated in the future. They are our responsibility to take care of (I am dx’d ASD + ADHD) A lot of us have great and positive things that make up for us but do in fact experience functional impairment so. Be careful where you tread it’s not really as simple as your makin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do men get so much hate from women nowadays when lesbians have the highest rates of divorce & domestic violence and their relationships don’t last?I mean, it's unacceptable regardless of whether its men or women doing it. Men deserve hate for being abusive, and so do women. Why should anybody be let off the hook for it? Your post reads like "yeah I might beat people but I don't beat them as much as women do so why would women hate me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Do men feel less guilty about dating autistic people compared to women?I'm diagnosed, It's just a different way of existing. It should be considered neutrally on a case by case basis. It shouldn't be labeled as universally negative. What I mean is don't call it bad, and don't call it good either. Someone who isn't autistic can't even speak on that because they aren't living our experiences. If you took it away you'd take me with it. It comes with positive and negative things like anything else. For me it's disabling but it came with some unique positive qualities. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:52 AM |
| 7 | Do men feel less guilty about dating autistic people compared to women?Okay fine I’m a dx’d autistic guy, between level 2 and 1. I’m 25, I’ll just keep it real with you. Every single autistic person is different from the next one. Anyone who makes any kind of generalizations about an autistic person after they find out, or uses it as a reason to back off, is probably misguided or discriminatory at best. As an autistic person, it’s your job and your right to redefine what autism looks like in the context of your relationships with people. You could be very good look… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableI mean, the answers in her statement. In her society, they would have no place. Disgusting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableSo I bet you view autistic people for example, as useless don’t you? Should all disabled people just die off alone then? You need to wake up and fix your warped deluded subhuman shitty mindset. Being loved for who you are is normal psychological functioning. If you view people as a wallet, if you look at people around in terms of what they can provide and nothing more, YOU are the broken one. It’s YOU that needs to change. Just because the system we live in enlive in encourages this train of tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that autistic women have much more attractive traits than autistic men?This is very well said and summed up. I’m also on the spectrum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 05:47 AM |
| 4 | Impact of aspergers/high functioning autism on menI’m on the spectrum and I’m just here to endorse this comment. It’s true, socializing gets so much easier. It gets easier to just be yourself in general. But I would say weed works better than alcohol and a certain amount must be used | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Women...ALL WOMEN...hate men who act like pussiesSensitive musician checking in 😅 we have our own little niche | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 12:16 AM |
| – | ‘Quite depressing’: Incel community was so sad researchers studying it felt badPlenty of autistic people don’t want to be associated with fucking incels. There are plenty of autistic people who are working hard to better themselves instead of spewing heaps of toxic festering nonsense online. I’m autistic and I’m not an Incel. It’s not my fault so many other people are pathetic enough to believe women or anyone for that matter owes them anything. That’s a failed, sorryass generalization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:32 AM |
| 1 | A little help?I wish I could... but I know how much she likes me... hence why I can't and I feel I need to save it | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 04:45 PM |
| 1 | A little help?Well I'm 17, she's 16. She's beautiful and is her own person, she doesn't care what others think of her. She just seems so nice. I'm sure she thinks I'm a bit of a beta, but she waited 8 months for me to say something, so she must like me a hell of a lot. She's friendly to everyone, which is odd because when she rejected me I asked "so we're just friends?" And she said "fine, we can be friends I guess." She's kinda distant if I try to talk to her and doesn't really answer much. I just want to br… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 04:28 PM |
| 1 | A little help?I learned a lesson from this, so how can I change her perspective of me? Idk... I don't see this being too difficult to fix if she truly likes me | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 04:17 PM |
| 1 | A little help?What do you mean while I still can? This can still probably work out if I try to talk to her casually when school starts again... | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 03:57 PM |
| 0 | Help with a confusing ass girlOkay, but I think she lost interest because I gave off a pussy vibe, if I man up with her I might be able to do something, I just don't see her now because school ended... I can message her, that's also just kind of beta though | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Help with a confusing ass girlI know... I probably just made it appear that I don't have any balls and am unconfident because I didn't do anything. Maybe all I have to do is prove her wrong, and It'll be fixed... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Help with a confusing ass girlWell, say I want to re-attract her, she was definitely interested in me at one point. We're not in school right now, so it'd be hard for me to find in her person, but what can I say to her through text to at least try to get her to open up? She seems a bit distant because we haven't necessarily met yet. How can I make her comfortable,interested, and show her I want to know more about her, even though she knows I like her and said we could be friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/16 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Help with a confusing ass girlI am pretty focused on my own life currently. I actually have never had a girlfriend because I haven't tried a lot with girls, which is the root of my problems. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/16 10:21 PM |
| 0 | Help with a confusing ass girlI just got out of school though, and I don't see her. I've tried to talk To her through messaging, and she's very distant. How can I show her I've got balls, make her interested again if I can't talk to her? How do I do that through direct messaging? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Help with a confusing ass girlThanks for your advice everyone. It means a lot. I feel like she's trying to play it cool, we established that were somewhat "friends," but she said she couldn't make it to hang out at an event because she's "going for road trips with her boyfriend" she also doesn't have a bf, 100% confirmed that from a friend that knows her. I acted completely unfazed by her fake jealousy/boyfriend excuse, played it off humorously, said I hope she has fun, and literally stated to her I'd contact her again in a … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/16 09:17 PM |
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