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It's easy if you really want to quit it. Chances are you have conflicting desires like 90% of people. Gotta really ponder what you want before you die and take action.
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:18 AM
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Morality is always subjective. Your morals are not the same as Christians, or Catholics 1000 years ago, or Islamic 1000 years ago, or Aztecs, or the Chinese, or your neighbor across the street. They are always individual. Society is an attempt to push people into standardized morals, but never can because it's entirely based on each individuals POV.
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:52 PM
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This post totally sets you apart from them lmao
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:14 PM
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Morality is entirely subjective. If women are constantly following example why do they claim to be so independent?
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:08 PM
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There are biological differences between men and women. And men get far less sexual partners than women. We crave sex. Not newness.
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:07 PM
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Yes. Welcome to differences in sexes. Man's biology is to spread genes. Woman's biology is to find the best mate. Can't get a mate if he doesn't like you. Women inherently have to pander and play more to get what their biology aims for. Hense every culture in history giving them the submissive position and femininity often being more submissive. Feel free to hate your own biology though.
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:10 AM
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Tons of them running around today. Zoomers shouldn't surprise anyone
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:08 AM
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An individual is only purely unique if they have never communicated with another human. Otherwise there is learning. It's not misogynistic. It's a fact that men prefer women with fewer partners. It's engrained in our biology to spread OUR own genes. Not anothers. Otherwise survival of the fittest gets fucked like it is in the modern age. And if it turns out to be true the woman has an extensive sexual history (which is the majority of men women), it's not a draped judgement. Just a plain reactio…
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:04 AM
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Humans are extremely behavior based. All behavior is learned. Welcome to the concept of a society. Very very few individuals are absolutely unique. If they are, you don't meet them.
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:58 PM
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There's 2 reasons guys look for women. 1 is sex in which case noone gives a shit. 2 is a potential wife. I'm not marrying a whore. Too many partners splits up the bodies ability to connect with another deeply. Not gonna commit to a woman who lost her ability to physically and mentally stay connected.
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:56 PM
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Totally depends on you. Once I take a hit I couldn't care if I see another woman again in my life.
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:45 PM
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Got asked this in HS by a girl and I said I never measured. I legit never had. She lost interest after that so don't do what I did.
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:17 PM
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Dropped creating a personality and identity entirely. Just gonna live and do what I wanna do.
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:11 PM
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Yes. Are you attracted to the person you're talking to or the words that come out of their mouth? Obviously there are topics that can turn a woman off, but as long as you're using common sense, conveying what you want out of the interaction and having a good time, topics don't matter much at all. Honesty is the only stability. Stability allows you to build escalation.
/r/seduction31/12/21 04:37 AM
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Depends what you're looking for. I personally only want more mature women so I talk about anything that pops into my mind very plainly. If they ask questions I'm very straightforward. Every life is completely unique and unknown to you. Just pick anything and talk to try and see it from their point of view. It's fun to see the differences in perspective imo. You're probably overthinking what makes conversation good. Do you remember even 1% of the conversations you've had in your life? Probably no…
/r/seduction31/12/21 03:26 AM
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When has anything in life give the way you thought it would? Never? Most likely. Fear is another thought. Disregard fear.
/r/seduction30/12/21 06:43 AM
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Commitment rates from men have been steadily plummeting as a result.
/r/seduction29/12/21 03:47 AM
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Considering the amount of guys they reject, probably have an idea. But I can't blame them. It's literally their biology to get the best man possible. Nature is brutal.
/r/seduction28/12/21 09:22 PM
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She's not interested
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:40 PM
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"you think, or you know?" In a playful kind of way. Either confirms and escalates or flusters them.
/r/seduction17/12/21 03:50 AM
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Consiousness and all it's functions can neither be proved nor disproved to be chemical or originating from the physical. Living based upon assumptions is ignorance.
/r/seduction16/12/21 07:45 PM
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It takes practice, and most don't do it, but personality is inherently fake. It's YOUR personality. Whose? You. Whose this you? You are the genuine life that's always changing and completely unique. So don't be afraid to be who you genuinely feel you are. If you think you're boring, practice creativity and get interested in something. Interested people are interesting people. You might not make as many fake connections as before, but when you make the real deal, it's worth thousands of times mor…
/r/seduction15/12/21 06:38 PM
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A lot of them just want the attention and to feel like they're desired. They get their fill and move on.
/r/seduction15/12/21 01:49 PM
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If you're putting on a big mask and show, it's never going to last long. That is a massive turn off for any person. Genuinely work on yourself. Genuinely be you. Honesty is the only stability.
/r/seduction15/12/21 01:59 AM
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Yes. It's turned relationships into a me me me instead of letting go of selfish desires and coming together for something greater. This goes for both women and guys. Women are struggling to tie a man down and offer what men actually want. And too many men are focused of keeping self images good so they don't break out of their self absorbed please others to make me feel ok shells.
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:13 PM
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Stop desiring them. They can tell and it just shows you don't have enough going on in your life. If you're focused on your own life, and are a leader, women will wanna follow more. Don't follow them. Don't follow their rules. Let them follow you and break their own rules to be with you.
/r/seduction08/12/21 04:06 PM
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Only like the top 20% of guys can really hookup like that. Otherwise it's more of a girl thing. Men are usually more independent in general anyways.
/r/seduction07/12/21 04:26 AM
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If it engage you enough to reply, don't make up a reason to.
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:10 PM
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Probably mid 20s
/r/seduction06/12/21 02:28 AM
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People smash is cheap hotels all the time. It's a February staple
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:50 AM
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If you want them, they don't want you. If they know they can have you, they don't desire you. Have you ever wanted something you already had? Of course not. Women are followers by nature. Give them something to follow.
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:07 AM
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Self esteem is an internal experience. Even if you attribute it to others, it's still coming from within you. Just being projected outward. Pretty much how all suffering works.
/r/seduction10/11/21 08:27 PM
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Ignore your thoughts. They're gonna happen regardless. It's your choice to engage them
/r/seduction06/11/21 08:13 AM
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Be a decent human but keep yourself as #1.
/r/seduction06/11/21 07:55 AM
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Luck. High quality women are rarer than diamonds. Literally.
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:15 AM
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It's a trick of the mind. Stop trying to chase the idea of control and just act accordingly to the present moment. Strength comes with practice.
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:22 AM
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The trick is to be in true control. If you have to put effort into being stable, you're not in control. You're controlling. If you're in control, you can be carefree and joyful without effort.
/r/seduction26/10/21 09:17 PM
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Take yourself less seriously bro. Rids all problems.
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:24 AM
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You're in the healthy BMI range. Don't worry. And thick hips are 🤌👌
/r/seduction24/10/21 11:20 PM
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It's time to kiss her when you want to kiss her. It's easy to tell if they are gonna accept or reject it.
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:21 AM
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Look between the eyes. It's much more commanding and stable.
/r/seduction16/10/21 08:46 PM
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That's not the point. Forget the idea of finding solutions. You'll end up making problems just to make solution. Focus on building what you want for your life, and if that includes a woman, you can trust yourself to take the steps needed to make it happen.
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:04 PM
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I think post college is time to wean out behaving certain ways. Be authenticly yourself, and look for a good match.
/r/seduction12/10/21 10:51 PM
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If you're looking for a relationship that always gives you butterflies, quit while you still can. Love is from accepting despite personal desires. Wanting something is easy, truly loving takes effort every day.
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:23 PM
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Go to a festival in Amsterdam or smth lol
/r/seduction10/10/21 08:44 PM
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Find smth you're gonna do, and just say. "Hey, I'm about to go ____. Wanna come with?" Ending up in actual and genuine space with them is the goal, yes? So just start off in that space and the work is done. That's my approach.
/r/seduction08/10/21 10:37 PM
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You get in life what you create
/r/seduction08/10/21 09:23 PM
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Honestly, stop caring about how people react. Focus on having a good time, and others will probably join in. How it plays out isn't in your control. 50/50 more or less
/r/seduction02/10/21 08:14 PM
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A trick that I like is to make friends with a girl or two, and see if they can give tips to improve yourself or if they know anyone. Get across the idea you're inexperienced and want to be on at least equal ground for you first time. They should understand Unfortunately I don't have any telltale signs that show if a girl is a virgin.
/r/seduction02/10/21 08:12 PM
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try a local college. Maybe some less confident and inexperienced freshmen are around. Maybe even seniors in highschool. Where to find them depends on where u live ofc.
/r/seduction02/10/21 08:03 PM
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Won't know till you put it in. Even then you might not be able to tell. Most girls lose it in HS and middle school. Good luck. Lowering standards opens options.
/r/seduction02/10/21 07:54 PM
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By ignoring your own judgement of them. Makes everyone the same.
/r/seduction01/10/21 10:27 PM
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Having interests. Interested people, are interesting people.
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:29 PM
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Everything is temporary. Make the change you want. The medias version of love only exists for profit.
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:24 PM
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Dude same. I'm 21 as well and all the girls are way to childish to actually enjoy being around. Absorbed in pop culture and shit. Looking for just any mature girl.
/r/seduction25/09/21 11:54 PM
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Confidence is not caring you don't have experience. Just accepting the present moment exactly how it is.
/r/seduction19/09/21 09:32 PM
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If i could find one who wasn't conceited, maybe some attraction.
/r/seduction09/09/21 09:57 PM
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Deodorant application
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:53 AM
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Try feeling it more. I've found reading only shows me what I think of the room which is useless.
/r/seduction05/09/21 10:31 PM
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Interested people are interesting people. Get lookin 🔎 doesn't matter what.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:14 AM
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Type is just another word for pickiness. It changes with every person we meet. Has nothing to do with compatability.
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:57 PM
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Biology doesn't care about anything lol. It just keeps on doing it's thing.
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:26 PM
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Just google image 'perhaps'
/r/seduction22/08/21 07:57 PM
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It's something everyone has to learn through.
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:18 AM
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Now all I can think about is that stupid cow
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:44 AM
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Start with playful contact. Pushes or pokes. Focus on enjoying yourself and having fun with them. That's what works best. Everyone's just trying to have a good time 👍
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:04 AM
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2 phrases I live by. I only know my mind and only I know my mind. Failure is better than regret.
/r/seduction19/05/21 06:13 AM
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Focus on just setting up a date when you text. I hate taking over text and avoid it
/r/seduction13/05/21 01:37 AM
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Try less conversation. Giving to much of yourself away spoils any mystery and they get bored
/r/seduction12/05/21 11:48 PM
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I have no idea what you personally experienced. But you're on the right track. You can't just get rid of it as you know. Whatever sort of trauma you went through, it is a trauma because it set it's roots deep into your psychology and it effects how you perceive reality and therefore your reactions and actions in reality. If you want to truly get over it, (maybe not get rid of the trauma) but reach a point where you can recognize it happened, but still not let it control your perception, you need…
/r/seduction09/05/21 11:25 PM
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For me, if she gives a vibe of being genuine. If she's genuinely herself, I'm hooked
/r/seduction24/04/21 06:05 PM
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Today's my first day of a water fast. Time to text your theory. I hope you're right.
/r/seduction24/04/21 12:28 AM
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Try going out with a few other women. If she ever tests you, go from there. Otherwise just keep looking for someone who wants you for you always
/r/seduction24/04/21 12:03 AM
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I've had this problem a lot too. My guess is because I haven't had experiences with many women. I try to remember that whoever I'm thinking about is just another girl out of literally billions. I have no reason to get attached, and that attachment would only harm me. Try to stay cool and keep the abundance mindset.
/r/seduction18/04/21 01:31 AM
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I feel where you speaking from. Sometimes you just have to switch your shit up and go full force into what you genuinely want. This is your one chance at life. The past is the past, so forget it. Dwelling on it does nothing but waste your time by trapping your mind in it. From now on, always do you best to improve yourself in EVERY way you can think of. If you don't take charge and chase your dreams, noone will for you. Good luck brother.
/r/seduction17/04/21 08:01 PM
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Not the only but definitely is and should be a primary one for men and women
/r/seduction07/04/21 10:16 PM
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Probably a good thing. If you don't have the self discipline to keep yourself physically at least in shape and mentally focused, there is no reason someone should waste their time with you.
/r/seduction07/04/21 08:59 PM
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Having options makes girls more into you. Plenty of women do the same thing. If one seems like someone you'd like to commit to, do it if u want. You can do whatever the hell you please.
/r/seduction03/04/21 09:53 PM
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Moving to LA In a few weeks. Gonna be using the directions excuse a lot lmao
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:51 PM
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Stop giving a shit. You're one life in a history of billions for one tiny blip in a universe that is a blip in the infinity of time. Just do it. Even if you fall flat on your face it won't matter. Nothing matters so do whatever the fuck. We come with nothing and leave with nothing. We LITERALLY have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction28/02/21 03:35 PM
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Emotions are internal. They're visceral. Happiness and satisfaction is internal. It just happens to you yes? You don't invent what creates the feelings and emotions you experience you simply experience them as a perceived 'effect' of a cause. Nothing internal can be given by anything external. Women do not bring happiness. You bring yourself happiness when you remove your personal barriers to that happiness. You are and can be completely independent and completely joyful. Ps. That's what most pe…
/r/seduction26/02/21 11:20 PM
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Great advice dude. Been overthinking this shit
/r/seduction24/02/21 01:23 AM
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Um no shit? But seriously dude. If people say the same thing again and again to you, maybe give it a chance. You WILL make it work if you want it enough.
/r/seduction21/02/21 04:40 PM
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If you care about smth you'll make it happen. Complaining does nothing
/r/seduction21/02/21 10:32 AM
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As others have said. It's probably a vibe of neediness. Noone wants what they already have, and if they get the idea that they already have u, they'll drift away. Make yourself totally independent. So the only one who can break your heart is you.
/r/seduction21/02/21 08:22 AM
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You can definitely find guys with similar demeanor at a younger age, just much harder to find. Most guys around your age wont be as confident and carefree and bold. But they do exist. See if you can find people who've been through a lot. The more someone experiences the more confident they become. They'll probably be more compassionate if they've been through a lot too.
/r/seduction21/02/21 12:11 AM
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Find people you don't have to maintain. Someone who's just chill hanging with you be you and them being them.
/r/seduction20/02/21 02:06 AM
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There's billions of girls on the world. Literally. Who cares if it doesn't go well with one stranger. They're all people just like you.
/r/seduction03/02/21 06:44 PM
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If a girl self depreciates, I'm auto disinterested. If she complains about stuff more than like 3 times a week, nope. No interest in responsiblity or self-improvement, nuh-uh. Basically if a girl doesn't value herself and she doesn't live life how she truly wants (not just short term comfort wants) before time is up, I'm not gonna value her and spend my time with her before my time is up.
/r/seduction22/01/21 02:44 AM
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Wait for a nickname to happen. Those r best
/r/seduction21/01/21 04:33 AM
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Exactly. any discomforts or sufferings are purely self created
/r/seduction18/01/21 03:33 AM
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I think most guys reach a point where they want something meaningful. dont feel bad for wanting something genuine. Looking for pleasure is less mature than an actual connection
/r/seduction16/01/21 06:00 PM
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Fantastic. Absolutely true. Being true to yourself and dedicated to a life you wanna live will definitely give you better chances with girls you genuinely wanna be with.
/r/seduction09/01/21 10:21 PM
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life's not a video game. you don't "raise skills" to increase chances. just get out there and practice. only experience will improve your game. reading and videos may give you ideas or confidence but it won't help you with experience.
/r/seduction26/12/20 07:31 PM
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everything is temporary. everything. so enjoy the present.
/r/seduction02/12/20 03:41 PM
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To be totally honest you should avoid dating apps in general whenever possible. Youre pretty much always at the mercy of the girl which could lower your motivation and sense of worth as they have unlimited options. Plus the majority are likely to be undesirable for at least one reason. Hence, why they're on a dating app.
/r/seduction25/11/20 05:29 AM
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don't chase sparks. they burn out. look for someone who has the ability to bring u into a better version of yourself and you as well for them.
/r/seduction14/10/20 10:38 PM
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I'm also a 20 yr old dude as well. I dropped out of college and now I'm single and working an entry level job with little to no direction for my future. I feel u man. I'd say try to get it to parties, events, gatherings, whatever. meet people. meet women. the only way to get out of this rut is to start putting effort into climbing. if you want it, you'll reach it. it'll take time (escpecially cuz of covid) but there's BILLIONS of girls out there and tons would love a guy like you. you just have …
/r/seduction08/10/20 06:47 PM
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This was me till recently man. Most everything gets better once you cut out daydreaming except for embarrassment of what you did in the past.
/r/seduction01/10/20 04:30 AM
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