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Hail Mary! “I wanna fuck the shit outta you,” and lean in for the kiss. If she’s still not gonna go for it, fall back. Wait for her to initiate and confront her. She’ll be honest and try again.
/r/seduction25/07/26 04:07 AM
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Any modern can take good pictures. Not every person can. Get a photographer! Or watch a few videos about lighting and composition.
/r/seduction25/07/26 12:28 AM
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Nope 😭😭😭 but I’m also not on the app daily, and when I am it’s just fat girls anyway lol
/r/seduction24/07/26 05:48 PM
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I only ever see my white friends be successful on hinge. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong with mine lol.
/r/seduction24/07/26 05:44 PM
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I’m gonna assume you meant to reply to the other guy cuz I agree although to a certain extent. Like another comment said, I’ve never had a woman suggest this. I display enough value that they wouldn’t ask for anything monetary up front. I also never give them the chance to, because I like to schedule dates near them or meet halfway. The only time I’ve ever paid for a girls uber, it was explicitly on the way to my house for sex. Or maybe we did the math and splitting one was cheaper after the dat…
/r/seduction24/07/26 05:42 PM
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Just say “I don’t have a car.” You don’t gotta be a sassy bitch.
/r/seduction24/07/26 05:22 PM
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No prostitution 👎🏽
/r/seduction24/07/26 06:23 AM
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At a Q&A event lol. We were the only two minorities there and she approached me. We kept in contact and she wanted to hang out. I wasn't really pushing for it because she admittedly wasn't that attractive to make me want to drop everything. I finally made some time for it and she immediately invited me over to her place and offered me alcohol... yeah. She doesn't make my heart race but she makes me shoot ropes! Clubbing has a low success rate for getting laid on the spot, but you can get numbers…
/r/seduction23/07/26 02:27 AM
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💀💀💀
/r/seduction22/07/26 10:07 PM
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Feels like you're really in your head. Yeah it happens, I've been there before where girls would openly compliment my friends and it would kill my vibe, but you can't have everything. It's usually my white homies who steal the spotlight lol.
/r/seduction22/07/26 02:09 AM
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Cavemen didn’t bother courting women. Mating during the caveman era was probably much more violent… let’s not ever compare ourselves to that ever again. Some possession traits can be attractive. A man protecting his women at every chance is attractive because she feels safe. A man leading his woman, always offering his advice and sharing his beliefs is attractive because he is honest in his possessiveness. A man being involved in his woman’s life in a healthy manner is attractive. But a lot of p…
/r/seduction21/07/26 09:27 PM
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Women like an exciting lifestyle, and social media clout can offer it. I’m nowhere near it but I have been adjacent to it, and I’ve been able to use it to my advantage. Got some free VIP wristbands and was able to sneak girls in there, and in return I got to party with them all night and make out with them.
/r/seduction21/07/26 07:45 AM
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Nobody hear says “looks are all that matter.” In this sub we encourage guys to be well groomed, enrich their lives with hobbies and interests, and self-reflect in the hopes of being a better person when they finally decide to let someone be a part of their lives. Once they’ve done all 3, then it’s all about putting your best foot forward into presenting yourself. Looks aren’t the only thing that matter. Hell, I’m single and I see guys objectively less handsome than me with girlfriends.
/r/seduction20/07/26 07:44 PM
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The next dates can’t be casual. Invite her to something intimate or your place.
/r/seduction18/07/26 06:05 PM
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Made out with a girl last night. Told me we can fuck next week after her boyfriend leaves back to his hometown. I was like wtfffff. Bitches be cheating! So uh yeah take with that info what you will. You can try if you're down for that.
/r/seduction14/07/26 12:12 AM
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I’m usually a dry spell guy but finally gave 5 a try and she had an apartment all to herself with multiple streaming services… won’t lie it was a good time lol but I don’t think imma keep this up. I prefer the adrenaline rush of scoring a 10
/r/seduction25/06/26 06:00 PM
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There’s bisexuals, and try-sexuals.
/r/seduction13/06/26 05:40 AM
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I think he meant "roster"
/r/seduction28/05/26 12:49 AM
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A mix of kindness and indifference. You say something like “it’s all good, take care” and walk away with head high and a smile on your face. I find that some girls might try to drag their rejection, make a joke of it, or giggle away; that’s where indifference kicks in.
/r/seduction17/05/26 11:30 PM
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Is this not a copypasta
/r/seduction16/02/26 03:21 PM
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I would but I have work extra early tomorrow smh
/r/seduction15/02/26 01:21 AM
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Oooh have fun it’s lit
/r/seduction27/11/25 01:38 PM
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I never said it, but I remember I met a girl at a club once. We were both drunk and showering each other with compliments. I honestly don’t remember too much, I just remember leading her to the bathroom with me and taking her to a stall. I was confident enough to do it knowing I wouldn’t get rejected, and I was right. Another time, I was flirting with a girl, complimenting her outfit and having my hand on her waste. She was giving me the same compliments and wrapping her arms around me. She walk…
/r/seduction21/09/25 03:27 AM
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That’s something you say when you know the answer is yes.
/r/seduction21/09/25 03:17 AM
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I believe you OP. I used to have a friend who was tall and attractive and the way I would watch girls tolerate his bullshit and word vomit was INSANE. It was like he could do no wrong. It’s definitely true that some people have it easier, but they have their own curses as well. As far as I know, he’s yet to find a stable relationship and he’s attracted some of the worst women personality-wise. It’s been so long but yeah remembering all that definitely is disillusioning. One of the reasons you do…
/r/seduction05/09/25 04:50 PM
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Oof. Brother man, dating is absolute dog shit. I let my girlfriend go because of my stupid insecurities and I regret it all the time. Haven't spoken to her in like 7 years and have yet to replace her. Fucked a lot of girls since but 1 good girl is worth a thousand bitches.
/r/seduction03/09/25 09:34 PM
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Biggest difference from 2007 to today?
/r/seduction28/08/25 08:09 AM
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Wrong sub
/r/seduction24/08/25 05:28 AM
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Great advice. Just go for it!
/r/seduction21/08/25 04:53 AM
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https://i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/047/907/GDao2PaXIAA5Aq3.jpg LMAO if that were me I would be too drained mentally to pursue that, cuz why is the club so much more important 😭 and also clubs are fun, why the heck wouldn't she invite ya?? That's a super fun social setting to be in with someone that you like... If you felt that she wanted to cut things early, trust your gut. And yeah I would send that Hail Mary cuz tbh I could care less what she says. If she friend zones me its what…
/r/seduction17/08/25 06:13 AM
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Whenever you want till the right one comes along and makes you never look back
/r/seduction09/08/25 10:43 PM
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You gotta change up your routine. Less video games, more social life. I’ve cut out video games for the last 2 months and have been going outside way more. I attend all kinds of things now, from parties to clubs to even networking events, I’m meeting people in all different kinds of rooms. When I go out with friends and meet their friends, I add them on social media and reach out with a simple “Yoo it was so nice to meet you, let’s do it again!” Best advice I ever got was “if someone invites you …
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:09 PM
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Yesss it’s a fun movie but it’s even crazier how real it is. By just saying yes and doing the opposite of what you usually do, you’ll stumble into some crazy rooms and wild experiences. Just the other day I went to go hang out with a friend late night. Usually I’d say no, but lately I’ve been trying the “Yes Man” method and tagged along. We snuck into a night club going through the back door and partied all night long. I got a free drink from some rich dude and he offered to drive us all to anot…
/r/seduction29/07/25 12:29 AM
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Condoms, and be careful with the girls who are drunk af. They are easy but it’s gross af tonguing down a girl who will not remember any of it in the morning. Respect her and respect yourself by walking away, even if it’s “ez coochie.” You also don’t want to maybe step into legal trouble with that kinda behavior. If you see her gone kissing 3 other dudes, don’t entertain it. Avoid the oral for a second date. Condom sex only for those first encounters. Drugs and alcohol is something you should do …
/r/seduction28/07/25 08:00 AM
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Start saying yes a lot more. Someone says they wanna go see a scary movie but you don’t like them? Go watch it anyway. Someone invites you to a rave but you’re not into techno? Check it out, you might have way more fun. Someone invites you to the beach but it’s your second time hanging out with them? Just go! It might be fun. And like the other dude said. Get into a lil more trouble, it’s good for ya.
/r/seduction28/07/25 06:53 AM
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If she's an avoidant dater she'll be worse as a girlfriend lol but sure keep trying
/r/seduction25/07/25 06:23 AM
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Haven’t been on a dating app in more than a year and honestly it’s been great. Considering I only ever made one worthy match in the 5+ years I used them (free account), it wasn’t worth it using them anymore. I don’t look back at them at all! I have much more fun going outside and meeting people organically.
/r/seduction25/07/25 05:15 AM
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Small section of Miami people. Miami, like Hollywood or NYC, have places where you can find all types of women, but some more than others. You could go to your local dive bar and meet a chill girl, or you could go to E11even where all the escorts and rich dudes hang out. Pick your scene wisely.
/r/seduction24/07/25 06:20 AM
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MILFs don't go out late at night, they do happy hour right after work. They be out in the afternoon.
/r/seduction17/07/25 03:28 AM
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Oh man it’s a simple gesture to hold people when getting together for a group picture, stop being insecure and try to trust your girlfriend. The worst thing you can do is never trust your partners, try to give them some benefit of doubt. And I say that as someone who got cheated on😂 life goes on. I still try to give every girl I’m with trust even with my shitty past experiences.
/r/seduction15/07/25 05:27 PM
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None
/r/seduction12/07/25 05:46 PM
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Crazy cuz like a few minutes ago I was frustrated how I didn't know what my "attractiveness" level was, but word I have experienced some of these, latest being 8. I feel stupid how I still fumbled that lol.
/r/seduction12/07/25 06:47 AM
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Mmm what kind of camera is it? Digital Point and shoots are becoming trendy again so some girls will gravitate towards it. I'm a photographer so I know in the past I've done similar; chatted a girl up, hit the dance floor, then said "let's take a selfie!" I wouldn't lead with it, but you could use it to bring you closer. But that was in environments where I was already using the camera to document my friends or if an artist was performing. I wouldn't use it with the intention of seduction. Whate…
/r/seduction27/06/25 03:08 AM
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Stick your dick in her and check I heard you can poke them
/r/seduction25/06/25 04:05 AM
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You are good bro. She's got an IUD so getting pregnant is not a worry. If you say you know this girl as well as you do, then I doubt she's infected with anything. You'll be aii.
/r/seduction23/06/25 11:26 PM
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It is crazy, but fuck it. Do it for the plot.
/r/seduction26/05/25 11:34 PM
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Yes I’ve gone back and because I kept in contact I’ve had fun again :)
/r/seduction14/05/25 11:45 PM
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poly or cheating?
/r/seduction11/05/25 02:00 AM
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You wanna bang hot girls? You gotta be where hot girls are. The beach, the club, the gym, they all have hot girls. And you’d be surprised, some women only have their beauty going for them and nothing else. There are some hot girls who also have everything figured out. The best you can do is have your shit figured out and be confident in who you are. Think of Leonardo DiCaprio in The Titanic; poor guy surrounded by rich people who gets the girl because he was charismatic and free. He excited the …
/r/seduction10/05/25 03:15 AM
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There are no 10s, everyone has their flaws
/r/seduction10/05/25 03:07 AM
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Honestly some of these dudes want that Black Mirror episode where you're talking in their ear looking through meta glasses guiding them every step of the way lol "White Christmas" Its so good and its on youtube if you wanna watch... I might just do something similar lol
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:26 AM
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Yes yo if you're out with a girl on a date, make a move!! I got humbled recently; had a girl in my hotel room and played it safe, no touching no flirting I was too shy. she legit had to tell me "its been two hours why are you blueballing me" LMFAOOOO we hooked up after that You gotta shoot your shot!
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:25 AM
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"Damn that sucks. Maybe I can cheer you up this weekend, lets go out to eat?" If she ignores those requests multiple times, you know where you stand.
/r/seduction02/05/25 06:46 PM
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Wearing a suit is excessive lol just wear trendy contemporary stuff that looks like you put effort into it and you'll be fine. Also to the guys not putting in effort into their looks but still getting girls; take a look at the girls they're getting. Are they worth anything? Are they equally as low effort a the guys they're getting with? I know a few guys who smoke weed and play video games and get girls. Those girls also smoke weed and scroll tiktok all day. They are perfect for each other. She …
/r/seduction30/04/25 11:50 PM
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Wealthy with no game, money can do the sweet talking for me 😭
/r/seduction07/04/25 02:46 AM
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Fuck em, ignore them and just keep flooding the sub with success stories and self-reflection, hopefully they start to understand
/r/seduction05/04/25 01:01 AM
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goat
/r/seduction02/04/25 07:56 AM
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Focus on yourself as equally as you focus on girls. Also most guys will only try to apply this stuff passively in their lives, but I truly think every guy should try and go solo at least once, day game or night game. Just non-stop building up the courage to introduce yourself to someone and just see how it goes. Then you'll feel a lot more comfortable using these tips and tools passively. I haven't gone out cuz moneys been tight but I used to and it was fun just enjoying the music and giving out…
/r/seduction02/04/25 07:54 AM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/DVUvn9QRFoM?si=fjF8Jo7bY1j5-lm8
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:39 PM
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That’s pretty high yeah but ay if you got it like that then go ahead
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:20 PM
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Yes I had a friend who was a natural at getting girls, but it definitely was easy for him. He was tall and handsome and women were something he was addicted to from a very young age (12-13). Looking back now, I think it definitely stemmed from his parents separation due to his father’s infidelity. His dad was a womanizer too. It’s not a good thing though. Cheating and abuse became rampant in his life as he got older. He met a young girl who was almost like a doll for him that he would dress up a…
/r/seduction22/03/25 02:26 AM
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Take advantage of the fact that nobody knows you so you can stretch the truth a little and be someone you’re not. Have fun with that. Also if it’s a touristy kinda thing, understand that other people are trying to do the same thing as you and have fun. So be a bit more straightforward.
/r/seduction11/03/25 03:58 AM
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The most important one would probably be therapy, I think you suggesting it means you feel like you need it. All of this stuff starts with you so that’s a good place to start. Then slowly just build up. I don’t think rushing to a doctors office or a gym will help, especially if you end up not liking the process. Start smaller. Also it would help more if you gave us an idea what your personal and dating life are like rn
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:25 AM
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Puerto Rico is awesome. The weather is amazing, the city is beautiful, and the women are abundant. The cool thing about Puerto Rico is just how easy it is; it’s pretty much like traveling to a different state. Lots of people speak English, they accept US dollars, and it’s easy to traverse with bikes and Uber. The best part of Puerto Rico is that it’s a travel destination all year round, so going to a hotspot is always gonna be populated with locals and tourists, and everyone wants to have fun wh…
/r/seduction06/03/25 08:42 AM
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any city that’s also a very popular travel destination. Miami, Vegas, Puerto Rico are some fun places I’ve been to where talking to women was easy. Any place that promotes dressing up and dancing late night is somewhere you wanna be. You can pick up women anywhere! But if you really need to change the scene, those are cool.
/r/seduction06/03/25 04:19 AM
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I’m giving her that validation cuz I’m tryna fuuuuck
/r/seduction05/03/25 05:47 PM
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Yeah but rare Fuck it tho, them Hail Marys be the best. You literally have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
/r/seduction05/03/25 07:37 AM
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I’m reading these comments and ay bro you’re making this waaaaay too difficult.
/r/seduction04/03/25 05:28 AM
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Were you one of those guys that gets a girlfriend and throws their entire life away? Cuz if you were, don't do that shit again. Worst friends ever are the ones that ditch you for a girl, then come crawling back when things don't work out.
/r/seduction02/03/25 08:37 PM
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she is really introvert, a bit shy and has a lot of childhood trauma Oof, you're cooked bruh. You're dealing with a broken woman and you're letting her fuck your head up as you post here second guessing your every move based on her irrational reactions. You are most definitelty trapped in a cycle and if you keep simping for her, she will wear you out for everything you got. Girls like her, you have to really channel your inner IDGAF attitude, or else you will be walking in circles. You're curren…
/r/seduction28/02/25 01:56 AM
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The sunscreen means when you’re 40 you’ll look 30 and people will still wanna fuck you
/r/seduction27/02/25 08:28 AM
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Message her, say “hey I remember you from the gym, haven’t seen you around, everything good?” And then just keep the conversation flowing. If she doesn’t respond, then you know now she’s not interested and you can stop being infatuated.
/r/seduction26/02/25 06:02 AM
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It’s not being a player lol it’s just not wasting time
/r/seduction26/02/25 05:38 AM
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All of it is good. You can do all of that and still not get the girl. Just be the best version of you for you, and accept anyone who accepts you. My personal story? I think just being a fun person to be around is what will get girls to want to be around. On Instagram, I'm always at fun events around my city and I'm always posting cool things. One time I posted a video of Bad Bunny performing and my inbox was flooded that day with just girls saying how jealous they were, a lot of them saying "inv…
/r/seduction26/02/25 02:17 AM
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Very risky move fucking a drunk girl... and no you guys weren't on the same level of drunk because one vomited and the other didn't. Honestly big dawg idk but just try not to fuck drunk girls in the future cuz thats when shit gets blurry and you can't be 100% certain if consent is there. When hooking up I don't think you should stay the night. You should've dipped G.
/r/seduction26/02/25 02:10 AM
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Don't choose ANYTHING in your life for others. Choose it because YOU want it. I be fucking bitches while being dead broke.
/r/seduction26/02/25 02:02 AM
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While I agree with the post, I will say I am glad I leveled up instead of just taking whatever bottom of the barrel I could get. I don't have a high body count, it's kinda low compared to some of the numbers my friends throw around, but I have no shame about any of them. If we had to show pics of every girl we hooked up with, I know my friends would probably try to hide a few, but I can show everyone I hooked confidently. Well actually just 1 girl but that was a drunk bathroom hookup and I don't…
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:59 AM
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What fucking year is it lmfao this reads like something in a 2008 rom-com
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:57 AM
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One of the biggest issues in this sub is so many guys get hooked on one girl and they DRAAAAG this one girl on for soooo looooong. Legit just flirt, ask out on a date, try to get a kiss. If she says no to any of those, she don't want you. Boom, move on.
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:53 AM
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3 days with no response, hate that youre trying to help and its just being wasted
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:44 AM
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Take a good hard look at yourself and ask why shit doesn't work out, cuz you're not giving us any details. Because even a girl not looking for anything serious is down for some fun.
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:34 AM
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Very solid advice! Be someone people want to be around. If you look good, smell good, have something going for you, and you're having fun, girls will want to tag along for the ride.
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:28 AM
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We need more info. Some girls say stuff like this but thats just them trying to not look like sluts. You just gotta apply more pressure. But if this is like the 4th time y'all hang hung out and she's still not trying to do it, then yeah she's not looking for that (with you). On to the next.
/r/seduction20/02/25 01:46 AM
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Yuppp the best thing about these “Hail Mary” situations is you get that ultimatum, you know where everyone stands, and you can move on knowing you did the best you could. Good luck.
/r/seduction16/02/25 08:27 AM
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Happened to me a few times. I’m with a girl and I get WAY too drunk thinking it’ll calm the nerves, and it absolutely destroys the night. I’ve ruined a potential birthday threesome, and second chance with one of those girls afterwards. I kick myself to this day. We just gotta accept it and move on. If it’s anything like me though, you might still be able to save yourself with a second chance. Text that girl, tell her you can’t believe you went home instead of being with her! Make her feel wanted…
/r/seduction16/02/25 08:23 AM
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Lube and condoms Just kidding don’t give her that, but maybe ask her what kind of drinks she likes? You guys can crack one and chill.
/r/seduction15/02/25 06:50 AM
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Less about traits and more about comfort. I recently had an old ex hit me up about hooking up after breaking it off with her boyfriend. Her reason was “I don’t wanna try with someone new” and just simply felt comfortable around me. And I think when you cheat with someone from your past it’s just a lot easier to keep it all a secret.
/r/seduction13/02/25 09:49 PM
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Yall crack me tf up with these weird tactics
/r/seduction12/02/25 07:00 PM
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W
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:21 AM
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There’s no secret formula. What kind of pics do guys like of girls? Ones that show off her looks, her style, and her body. Girls like those photos as well. They also are gonna like photos of you doing interesting things and being someone they would want to be around 😳 wow! If you’re on a dating app, you’re basically a product that people swipe on. So just like a catalogue or website, put the best photos of yourself so you can get a sale. But also remember that just like a product on a website, a…
/r/seduction06/02/25 09:34 AM
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When I go to the club, I have a drink and vibe to the music. I have wandering eyes, and when I make eye contact I hold it. The girls who hold it and give any sort of response, like a smile, are 100% approachable.
/r/seduction06/02/25 05:32 AM
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Can I ask how old you are? I went through something similar when I was young. My girlfriend was a pothead but I wasn't. I didn't like that she would do something my parents vilified so much with people I didn't know. I didn't have any vices, and I didn't want her to get caught up in them. I was 15. She quit smoking for me. 10 years later, I really like alcohol and cocaine. Life happens and you learn to ease up on certain things. Her bad habits used to stress me out, but now I can see that they w…
/r/seduction05/02/25 09:52 PM
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Talk to a lot of girls, cute and ugly. At least 1 date. Then you tell them to come over, and they should know what that means.
/r/seduction04/02/25 05:10 AM
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Vegas def has a good scene for that stuff but NYC is also more than enough, probably has the best variety
/r/seduction03/02/25 03:46 AM
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Miami is dope and there's all different scenes. You're generalizing Miami crazy. Yes there's the hot women and the high-end restaurants and nightclubs, but there's also a much more chill scene just like anywhere else. No you don't have to be a crypto bro, and you don't only have to smash OF girls. There are normal people there too.
/r/seduction30/01/25 05:37 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction29/01/25 11:53 PM
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The high from a W wipes those L’s from your memory quick.
/r/seduction28/01/25 02:32 AM
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Go for it
/r/seduction26/01/25 01:32 AM
2

I would simply make it brief, a few days of texting and then start suggesting to meet. If she's still not interested, then you've got yourself a pen pal. Do what you want with that info. Are you looking for pen pals? Then cool. Are you looking for girls to hang out with and get closer? Then it's not what you want and you move on to the next.
/r/seduction25/01/25 10:11 PM
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theres a reason why they’d fuck a broom, they get no play 😭 they don’t exist to me I never see them, they be in their moms basement
/r/seduction25/01/25 02:43 AM
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And that's fine, cuz guys do the same.
/r/seduction24/01/25 08:26 PM
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You get more dates by talking to more girls. You can try the quality route but just know that it takes more time; quality women are busy working towards their goals, they are more independent, are typically already in a relationship. And the hard truth is that a "quality" women can still have all the lame qualities like ghosting and being flakey. Earlier this year I clicked with a 'quality' girl and got ghosted... most likely her ex-boyfriend came back and that was easier than starting something…
/r/seduction13/01/25 10:26 PM
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You're probably keeping the conversation too safe and not turning it up. You try to find something in common, and then try to use that to sell the idea that it was "meant to be" lol. Whether y'all have the same zodiac sign, you like the same music, pursuing the same career, I don't know just figure out how to make it hot.
/r/seduction13/01/25 08:47 PM
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No but thats a loser thing to think about doing, so you already lost
/r/seduction03/01/25 08:21 AM
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Maybe. Sometimes it’s free entry, sometimes it’s $10 or $20 bucks.
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:52 PM
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Yes 👍
/r/seduction30/12/24 09:03 AM
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If she's traveling with her best friend then yeah you might be hard pressed to get them away from each other, but also they are adults and if the girl ACTUALLY wants to be with you, then she is more than capable of saying "hey I wanna go chill with this guy for the night." Another thing you could do is maybe compromise? The 3 of you do something together, and then you and her do something afterwards. This way everyone feels included. Either way, the girl you like will decide if she wants to spen…
/r/seduction30/12/24 03:03 AM
1

Kind Regards and Pianos back to back is always fun too :P
/r/seduction30/12/24 02:10 AM
31

True, I'm just not a fan of the post mainly because there's no advice to offer other than "go to the raves and talk to the girls in skimpy dresses, they're obviously DTF!" I want the advice here to be useful, not borderline predatory. Dress good, smell good, be interesting, maintain eye contact, good advice that is not only important to seduction, but important to life. Telling someone to focus on a specific type of woman for the way they dress just feels gross.
/r/seduction30/12/24 12:28 AM
5

oh lighten up Jesus
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:56 PM
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They're only "stuck up" because they can see straight lol, the rave girls are usually 2 hours off E already after a pregame.
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:47 PM
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There's also the dark truth that it's much easier to hookup at raves because of the rampant alcohol and drug abuse, so you have bad apples who only approach the girls who can barely stand up with their eyes rolled back. Fellas please go to the raves if you genuinely enjoy the music and vibes; don't go out there preying on 'the easy ones.' I know a few people who rave regularly and frequent spots, it's a community and they make sure to protect others.
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:46 PM
1

You gotta act quick man, you don't know when she's leaving! Don't be afraid to just say what's up! I promise the first 10 seconds are the scariest, but then it's smooth sailing.
/r/seduction28/12/24 03:49 AM
1

Have fun my guy!! Try not to get fucked up cuz that has definitely ruined a few moments I still kick myself to this day lol
/r/seduction27/12/24 05:46 AM
2

Aii so boom. You're gonna go to the party. Bring a drink you can share, or like a 6 pack of some Twisted Tea's, everyone likes those. When you show up to the party you're gonna greet the host, and if the party is small enough, introduce yourself to everyone. When you see your girl, you're gonna make the extra effort of making her feel special by especially introducing yourself to her by extending your hand. Make her feel special, but don't immediately pine for her just yet. Definitely let the vi…
/r/seduction27/12/24 04:54 AM
3

I've only recently had to stop giving so many chances because I started noticing how I would hyper-focus on certain people and get complacent. I pretty much gave this one girl all of 2023 and looking back, I could've been so much more productive if I had simply moved on and stopped chasing her. Her push-pull was amazing I'll give her that. Now I try to be a lot more forward and limit myself to just a few chances. I've also had to become a lot more "stoic" and quick to cut ties. I've become a lot…
/r/seduction27/12/24 04:29 AM
3

When it comes to online stuff like IG, getting the follow back can be a good way to determine mutual interest. Once I get the follow-back, I usually like a few pics and show interest, but I don't cold DM. I try to wait a bit and when there's a story post that genuinely interests me, I'll respond to it and hope to make some real conversation from it. That's where you can start escalating, but I think it's also smart to match energy. Flirt and look for positive reception. It's like dancing, and yo…
/r/seduction27/12/24 02:41 AM
2

YOU HAVE TO LOCK IN! No seriously, lock eyes, bring yourself closer, and just dance with her. That's how I ended up making out with this one girl at the club last week in NYC :)
/r/seduction27/12/24 02:21 AM
2

I do a skincare routine but I’m not ashamed at all to ask my sister to cover up a pimple that’s wreaking havoc on my face.
/r/seduction26/12/24 11:57 PM
10

Yeah I think love still exists, even if I've been single for two years 😭 you just gotta put yourself out there and someone will bite. You've probably bumped into plenty of potential girlfriends... but did you strike a conversation? Get a number? You still need the basics.
/r/seduction22/12/24 09:20 PM
5

If you see a girl on the dance floor, just get close and dance. Maybe you guys will lock eyes and she’ll be receptive. You could lean in and say hi too. That is the dance floor strategy. Go and have a good time no matter the outcome. Dance like nobody’s watching and you’ll see how people love it. NOOOOO. Don’t offer to buy any girl a drink off the bat. ESPECIALLY DON’T BUY IT IF SHE’S ASKING. Nobody likes beggars I don’t care if you’ve got nice tits. I’ve seen plenty of guys buy girls drinks and…
/r/seduction01/10/24 07:02 AM
2

I just tried picking up two girls at the beach. The same way a guy might use a dog or a car to pick up girls, mine is cameras. I went up to her and showed her my camera. I guess the language barrier had her initially thinking I wanted a photo of her, but we laughed it off when I actually was asking if she could take a photo of my friends 😭 I asked them what’s around Puerto Rico, and then asked if they wanted to join us but they said it was too far and politely declined. It’s all good. You can’t …
/r/seduction22/09/24 09:27 PM
3

Go up to them
/r/seduction21/09/24 11:19 PM
3

Good bot
/r/seduction18/09/24 04:59 PM
8

Tell ChatGPT to summarize this dawg wtf
/r/seduction18/09/24 04:21 PM
1

Online dating
/r/seduction17/09/24 09:28 PM
52

Don’t really do a lot of talking, just heavy eye contact, dancing, physical touch, and then if you the vibe is right you just lean in.
/r/seduction17/09/24 02:01 PM
32

Girls are hot but some of them are horrible and treat you like shit. I’d still would fuck tho, but I’m not doing anything more after lol.
/r/seduction17/09/24 10:21 AM
110

Most of the guys will be shy. You can stand out by not being shy lol
/r/seduction15/09/24 09:17 PM
1

Dating in social circles is easier but it’s very limiting imo. Most of the time it’ll happen through events like birthdays or something where you’ll meet those friends and branch off, so you’re basically waiting for the next in person event for you to even potentially meet someone. There’s also the cons of getting a bad rep and being seen as a player if you’re constantly trying to get with the girls in your life. With cold approach there’s a limitless amount of women you can meet, you can try yo…
/r/seduction10/09/24 06:16 PM
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Try to be more strict in what you allow in your life. With social media the unfollow, mute, and block button have become life changers these past few months. Then in the real life cleaning my room, getting rid of stuff I never used, and making space for better things that I strictly allow to enter makes me feel so much more productive. I think practicing things like that will help prepare you in the dating space as well.
/r/seduction10/09/24 05:22 PM
9

Hands on her thighs is like the most intimate thing you can do
/r/seduction08/09/24 07:17 PM
1

Unfortunately you have to match energy, and that’s the same for a lot of things in life. Someone wants to spend time with you? Match that energy and prioritize them. Someone doesn’t give you the time of day? Match that and dip. But never let anyone get comfortable using you for validation or anything otherwise. You’re single, so everytime you meet someone, keep them around but don’t give them any insane priority. Don’t “drop your hoes”, just keep going and don’t double book dates.
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:35 AM
9

I noticed a girls mood immediately change when I ate her ass during sex. That was my fault for unleashing the freak too soon. Every L teaches you something though, and that and a few others basically resonated that you should let her lead in the crucial moments. Kinda like how they teach you in sales; once the customer says yes, give them what they want immediately. Trying to upsell gives them another opportunity to say no. You can easily talk your way out of something you just had in the bag.
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:30 AM
2

I notice the biggest changes in my life when I do what I say I’m gonna do. Organize a seduction group? I did it. Sent out reservations for fashion week parties? I hate applying for shit but I fought that anxiety and did it and had some fun nights and met cool people. Meet famous people and got flown out to LA for the weekend? Years of consistency and going outside when I wanted to stay indoors and play video games. If you want to do something you have to just do it. Even when you do it and you l…
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:27 AM
2

There are definitely some fumbles that traumatize me like failed threesomes, but I look back now and I just smile and keep it pushing. I’m a very firm believer of “if you did it once you can do it twice” for anything in life. Same with seddit.
/r/seduction07/09/24 10:36 PM
7

This subreddit is dedicated to attracting women. This isn’t for relationship advice because everyone here is presumably single and looking to get someone. Yeah some people be ugly but there’s someone for everyone, lol.
/r/seduction07/09/24 03:52 AM
0

You talk by the bar but you dance and talk body language everywhere else
/r/seduction07/09/24 03:08 AM
0

200 attempts of “you’re pretty, give me your number, NOW” ain’t gonna work 😭 It’s very obvious that something isn’t working. My guess is you’re showing all your cards, and you’re way too direct with your intent. You should keep someone second guessing and wondering what will come of you. But if you approach and beg for a phone number, that shit is a turnoff. Especially if you’re approaching in a common area like school where you’ll run into them, just let some shit grow naturally over time.
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:49 AM
2

You are overthinking like crazy, and also don’t compliment her outright. This shit be like poker sometimes and you can’t just show your hand in the first 10 seconds of talking to her. It’s a MAJOR turnoff when she feels like she owes you something. “He thinks I’m cute, now I have to talk to him or I’ll be rejecting him, and I don’t know how he’ll take it”, cuz some girls genuinely fear for their safety. Talk about some ordinary shit you guys have in common. Keep it going. Compliments should be p…
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:47 AM
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You’re gonna talk for a bit with your arm around her. Then after talking for a bit the other arm is gonna be on her thigh. You get closer and closer to her coochie and then you say some cute flirty shit and man if you Really don’t know what to do next then you’re fucked. She literally said she’s wants to fuck you, how is this still hard.
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:42 AM
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If a girl asks for your Instagram then it’s lit because a lot of people, especially more older people, like to keep their following to a strict minimum of only friends and family, so if you can cross that threshold then you’re lit. I know I’m very picky about who I choose to follow because I’ve curated that following list. Text back and forth if she’s giving energy, but yeah always prioritize meeting in person. You can strengthen relationships over text and continue the conversation and vibe in …
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:40 AM
1

It’s not hard to say it back and especially if you think there’s any chance of you fucking, then yeah I would just chime in and say that shit before she consider someone else
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:37 AM
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Talk to people, anyone, if it helps, talk to service workers, they are easily available and they have nothing better to do than just talk. Talk to men and women. Both will help you conquer that introversion. Go to an empty store and browse the clothes and just chat about them. Talk to your coworkers and take the conversation to a more intimate level. Just talk to people. Maybe drink a little of that helps.
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:36 AM
1

No disrespect cuz it’s fashion week and I’m crunk rn but that bitch is a cheater and a slut and you shouldn’t be worried about like this my guy, crack that shit and dip cuz anyone emotionally cheating on their boyfriend ain’t worth cuffing. If she was worth anything she would’ve dubbed you on the spot and you would’ve never heard or seen from her again. A woman that would let any of this happen while being claimed is worthless tbh. You want a girl who runs around like this my guy??? Have some se…
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:32 AM
7

Cash app me $10 I will call you and talk to you Better than a course
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:02 AM
2

Why don’t you?
/r/seduction05/09/24 12:16 AM
1

Accept that you are trying to touch them because you LIKE them.
/r/seduction04/09/24 03:16 PM
3

Same to you dude. Be the change.
/r/seduction04/09/24 06:53 AM
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I definitely will! You can see in my field report there isn’t much action, I just more so wanted to highlight the fact I was able to bring out some people from an online community and turn it into a real life thing. We can sit on this forum and read all day but nothings better than actually doing it. I wanna inspire other people to seek out other equal minded people and do something cool.
/r/seduction04/09/24 04:58 AM
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She was cute but she wasn’t “drop everything” hot. Wasn’t desperate for her.
/r/seduction04/09/24 04:46 AM
0

Should've asked mom if you could dance with her daughter on some gentleman shit... I've danced with a mom once at club celebrating her daughters birthday and made her feel young 😂
/r/seduction04/09/24 03:45 AM
2

No Christ no. Would you approach a girl on the street with "hi cutie?" No; so why would you on social media? It's the same thing. Cold approaching on social media is following her and waiting for that follow back. Shit just today I experienced this. My sister shared some of my photography and this girl liked my post. I checked her page out and thought she was cute, so I liked two pictures back. 20 minutes later she followed me and I followed her back. Good start. What am I gonna do next? Just ke…
/r/seduction04/09/24 03:25 AM
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I think the best way to escalate to a kiss is some form of touch. An arm around her waist, a hand on her thigh, holding her hand and interlocking fingers... lots of ways to break that touch barrier where the kiss doesn't feel so mysterious. Using other forms of touching can help gauge whether leaning in for the kiss is the next thing to do. Most girls will not let you touch them if they didn't want to kiss you, and most girls who want to kiss you will let you touch them. But also, going for the …
/r/seduction04/09/24 03:14 AM
1

stop going for phone numbers, especially during night game asking for phone numbers does not make her wet LOL
/r/seduction04/09/24 03:05 AM
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You already failed though because you went for a number close, which is the worst way to end your moment with a girl in a nightclub. She was there for fun at a club with music and all you did was talk to her. That's a waste of time for two people who got hot and dressed up for a night out. You were supposed to talk for 5 minutes, escalate with touch for a few more, and then finally lean in for the kiss, and dance for the rest of the night. She gave you her number as a courtesy but I guarantee yo…
/r/seduction04/09/24 02:32 AM
5

Onto the next.
/r/seduction04/09/24 02:20 AM
1

I can’t give you exact millimeters and ounces dude, you just order from the bar and they give you standard cups. Redbull Vodka and Vodka and Soda are bar recipes, you could look up the amount of alcohol bartenders are supposed to serve with each. Straw-Ber-Rita’s are found all over the US, you can Google the amounts in them.
/r/seduction04/09/24 01:10 AM
3

That straw-ber-Rita tall as fuck boi
/r/seduction04/09/24 01:08 AM
3

So this Saturday when I went out with two other Redditors (field report coming soon) i ate a really light meal. Same thing I usually eat every night but served less so I could feel the effects lol. I started off with a straw-ber-Rita from my local store and drank it on the way to our first spot. Those and other “tall boy” drinks like white claws or 4lokos save you a lot of money and get you started. Then once I arrive to the first spot I usually drink another one before I walk in, but this Satur…
/r/seduction03/09/24 11:23 PM
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Yeah I love how I feel on alcohol, it’s why I started drinking everyday Kidding 😭 but yeah when I go on a night out I usually crack a tall boy open on the way there, saves some bread and calms the nerves
/r/seduction03/09/24 06:53 PM
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I like redbull vodkas, Paloma’s, Whiskey Sour, Moscow Mule, and I just had a Vodka and Soda which was not the Most flavorful but it did the job done it getting me crunk. I wanna try a pornstar martini next but I’m too shy to order it. Not because of the name, but because I feel like I’d be the asshole ordering a drink that would be too annoying to prepare, like Expresso martinis. But I don’t think it’s that hard 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction03/09/24 07:18 AM
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This. She is her own person and she doesn’t need you to police her or protect her like a child. She’s more than capable of talking to people and turning down men. It only becomes an issue if no is not accepted and she turns to you for help. This is not just a gym thing, but a life thing. If you constantly jump in on every little convenience your girlfriend experiences like you’re Superman, she’s going to slowly be isolated and resent you for it. Have a conversation about it though. Some girls ar…
/r/seduction02/09/24 03:23 PM
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I know a lil bit about this. You’re gonna be a good host and talk to everyone that shows up. You’re gonna offer drinks or if you’re providing food, offer that. Make sure the playlist is bumping and got everyone in a good mood. Try to get the groups to mix, introduce people to other people. Play a really hype song and when you’re crunk enough get everyone on their feet and tell them to jump haha. Then slip away and just talk to her. Pull her away to the VIP section (the kitchen lol) and just get …
/r/seduction31/08/24 11:48 PM
3

Everyone telling you to leave is an idiot smh OP you need to grow some balls and start flirting back. She’s touching you, so touch her back. Heavy eye contact. Lean in for the kiss!! Jesus
/r/seduction31/08/24 03:26 PM
4

Fr like a PlayStation 5 costs $900 retail down there, most people don’t pay for streaming services and use YouTube, and their most popular genre of music (reggaeton) talks about women and fucking all day. Sex is way less taboo and it’s all people can afford to do lol 😭 unlike Americans who have the luxury to isolate at home and never talk to anyone We really need to start calling out passport bro behavior. I love Colombia but it is a third world country and if you’re a white American you will be…
/r/seduction30/08/24 02:15 PM
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Yeah but like I’ve said before, the dynamic between American women and South American women is similar, but different. They also want a cute guy who makes money and can provide stability, but they are also much more DTF down there than up north. American women are much more prude and sex is taboo. The cultural differences are major.
/r/seduction30/08/24 05:15 AM
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South America doesn’t count 🤷🏻‍♂️ said it before I’ll say it again tbh
/r/seduction30/08/24 04:47 AM
3

We see it as lame. We like being desired too. Our faces light up when we see your names pop up. So text him first. There's no other advice than that. Text him first.
/r/seduction27/08/24 02:55 AM
1

We need that field report! When you have some free time I’d love to read about that crazy night. What city, NYC?
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:04 PM
2

Dealing with disrespect from women is tough. I don’t like the idea of arguing with a woman, cuz where I’m from they like to argue and test your manhood and want you to hit them. A lot of them think they can’t get hit and with me they’re totally correct, but I’ve seen dudes punch women who thought they could get away with things like throwing drinks. I approached this girl at a club once. Just asked her what her name was and if she wanted a drink. She laughed and put her hands on my shoulders, sp…
/r/seduction26/08/24 07:17 AM
1

Don’t take twitter too serious, it’s always been that platform where you write what’s on your fleeting mind… a lot of people have twitter just to say stupid shit lol Social media is a bad way to get to know someone, I know sometimes I post like crazy and I look ridiculous but I’m much more chill in real life Two things I am seeing tho is scarcity and pedestal behavior. You gotta talk to more girls and continue putting yourself in positions to meet new people. You can text this girl and make her …
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:57 AM
3

Yes I night game solo. I’ve been doing it ever Saturday for the last month now and it’s been alright… I haven’t gotten laid yet or any make out sessions but I have made some physical contact and flirting. Some nights I’m talkative and emboldened, and some nights I am shy and sheepish. My most successful nights are the ones where I am having fun first and making friends with everyone. I could leave the club with no success and still be happy. It’s when I go out for the sole purpose of getting act…
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:54 AM
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I’m a big night game advocate, but I will also admit that it’s difficult and not for everyone. I’m also slowly thinking it’s not for me. I know I love the rush of meeting someone and speedrunning all the bases. Going from “how’s your night going” to rubbing on her knee and whispering in her ear and making out. I like loud music, I like dancing, I like the feeling of letting loose and dressing up and looking hot for the night. I’ve been drinking a lot more than I normally do. I used to get drunk …
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:39 AM
2

Mmm well I’ve gone out with a few friends and typically the role of wingman is to open yourselves up to pairs or groups when typically those girls would be difficult if you were solo. The wingman can enjoy the second girl or just be a “decoy” while the bro gets the girl he actually wants. The wingman keeps you hyped up. They pump you up when you’re nervous and they also help you move on when you fail at a cold approach. The wingman is both the motivation and the distraction. If I’m wingman Ning …
/r/seduction25/08/24 03:25 AM
3

Friends with benefits means you check in and you guys have conversations here and there, but you also aren't telling them "good morning" everyday. You want to be yearned for, so you gotta fall back a little bit. When you hit her up, try to make the sex the topic. Let her also make it the topic. You have to be honest about what you want because you don't want drama or getting someone wrapped in feelings. You also don't want your time wasted so just make it a little obvious. No dinner invites, mor…
/r/seduction25/08/24 02:37 AM
2

You did great bro. Unfortunately this happens a lot. Ghosted after what seemed like a good connection. Honestly just keep going, but I wouldn't delete that conversation yet. You never know, she might just reply late and it goes somewhere haha. You should always try to strike when it's hot though. She came back to you and chatted up, so why did you only get her number? That's when you ask what she's doing after this, or if she wants to go outside and get some air, or if she wants to go somewhere …
/r/seduction25/08/24 02:33 AM
3

What is a strong personality? Is she a woman with her own interests and there's more to her than her looks, or is she disrespectful? A woman with interests is super easy to talk to, and a woman who is disrespectful gets a 180 from me, especially if I try to break through and she's still holding up a wall. Who needs that?
/r/seduction25/08/24 02:27 AM
1

Alcohol lol, it makes the talking easier and the rejections easier to forget
/r/seduction25/08/24 12:22 AM
2

Attention is a hell of a drug. You could probably fuck but after that, she'll probably block you.
/r/seduction25/08/24 12:20 AM
6

Mmmm I think the younger ones are sluttier, and the older ones make you wait for it cuz they've been burned in their past for putting out too soon. But really, everyone's different.
/r/seduction25/08/24 12:18 AM
1

Been there done that Good thing you didn’t yak, I’ve had potential 3somes ruined because of my vomiting. That’s the worst and that has helped me in controlling my drinking, remembering the fumbles that haunt me to this day.
/r/seduction20/08/24 07:20 AM
3

How did it go
/r/seduction20/08/24 07:10 AM
7

Environment is such a huge factor and people gotta realize it. Yes you can go to the bar solo, but what bar are you going to? Is it empty, are the lights bright as fuck, is there sports on the TV instead of music, and are people even mingling across different groups? I have a bar that’s just like this and I never go to it, because I go to the one that’s the polar opposite instead. Low lights, loud music, and girls that come in groups all ready to have fun. That type of ambience makes it 10x easi…
/r/seduction20/08/24 07:10 AM
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You’re 48 and they are single moms… of course it’s easy bro they need your help 😭 Nah but good shit tho, I was pushing up on some milfs Friday and it was fuuuuuun
/r/seduction18/08/24 04:35 PM
3

The toughest thing is you can’t tell who’s actually walking the walk when giving advice. Plenty of guys can give you advice but eventually it gets repetitive. “Dress well, groom yourself, workout.” I remember why I fell in love with this sub and it was for the field reports, and I feel like I never see them anymore. Anyone looking for help should look through the field reports, those are the perfect blend of story and advice, especially if they’re well detailed.
/r/seduction18/08/24 02:18 AM
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Yes environment is definitely super important. In a loud club where everyone’s dancing, it’s easy to just make a move and get more intimate than like a bookstore lol. Also environment definitely helps in what you’re looking for. Want something serious? Go somewhere chill. Something fast and fun? Go somewhere more fast paced.
/r/seduction17/08/24 11:17 PM
4

They didn't want to turn you down and risk being harmed, unfortunately women think like that when being approached by strangers. I don't blame them, especially with social media fear-mongering nowadays. But also, that means she didn't like you. If she did, she would've kept you around. It seems like you didn't impress or give her a reason for you to stick around, or you came on too strong in the wrong way. What's the wrong way? Too flirtatious probably. You want to be able to find some common gr…
/r/seduction16/08/24 06:54 AM
4

A girl started a conversation with him and it was so overwhelming for him he came here and typed this skitzo mess LMFAO COVID ruined certain people bruh EDIT: OP I understand you went into quarantine for your mom and grandma and thats awesome that you protected them, but I really wished you had kept some kind of social life up during the process. Now that you're back outside, go and be extra social. Raise your hand more, exchange numbers in class, sign up for a club you like, go walk around your…
/r/seduction16/08/24 06:25 AM
1

Its either They fucking, or HES fucking
/r/seduction16/08/24 03:38 AM
129

GOOOO What else do you have better planned? Video games?
/r/seduction14/08/24 06:58 PM
3

Just saw your profile, you seem very qualified to give advice haha, hope you participate more Also I saw you have some experience in NYC, and probably in other cities as well. I’m in NYC and wanna hear some tips or spots you recommend
/r/seduction12/08/24 12:58 AM
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They gotta pin this broooo, numbers are useless. Momentum and making a mark is THE GOAL. You gotta be memorable and that means taking it all the way, as far as she’ll let you. It sounds crazy but you watch a few rom coms and you understand why they’re so captivating. You’re seeing to characters go all the way in a moment that would never happen in real life… until you do it. Now she’s telling all her friends of the guy who’s surprised her like no other. Or at the very least, she’s intrigued and …
/r/seduction11/08/24 03:40 AM
316

Born to simp, forced to non-chalant
/r/seduction10/08/24 11:52 PM
1

From your comments, it seems like the reason you do it is actually very common. It is easier to do nothing than to respond and potentially get hurt, so you choose the easier route. It's okay because I do the exact same thing. Self-sabotage is one of the biggest problems of this sub and the faster we can recognize that, the faster we can be our best selves and have better dating lives. Yes, you are overreacting, because what's the worst that can happen? Less sex?? The worst kind of opportunity is…
/r/seduction10/08/24 05:28 AM
3

Lighten up my guy first of all, you're typing like this is homework LOL Night game is fun but yes it can be difficult. You're literally being judged by your cover, how you look. You are short and unfortunately that's gonna make you a harder sell, but its possible. I know plenty of short guys that are get just as much action as the normal height guys. You have the right idea though; if the girls wear makeup and their nicest clothes, you should also be well groomed and putting on your best outfit.…
/r/seduction10/08/24 04:40 AM
3

Thats a girl you keep in the back pocket Don’t pay her too much mind because long distance, it’s tough. Honestly you just keep her around and keep messaging her when the stars potentially align, but you gotta keep doing your own thing in the meantime.
/r/seduction09/08/24 06:35 PM
1

What’s so funny?
/r/seduction09/08/24 05:07 PM
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Mmm I’m not so deep into the “dating coach” lifestyle in NYC, doubt I’ll ever find a “lair” but I do a lot of solo game already and try to keep up with a balanced lifestyle, and I’m willing to give some advice to those in need.
/r/seduction09/08/24 05:00 PM
3

Cock and Ball Torture works wonders
/r/seduction09/08/24 05:02 AM
2

If you live in NYC, then you're already in THE best city in the world when it comes to find your people. Whatever you like, I promise there's something going on that you can enjoy. You just gotta put your foot out there and connect with others! For example, I signed up for a 6 week acting class that met up every Saturday and I got to meet a lot of cool people and work with them on practicing our skills. Though I didn't add every single person on social media, there were 2 people that I liked mos…
/r/seduction09/08/24 02:40 AM
2

The #1 thing stopping you from getting dates is yourself. I know way too many guys who put themselves down before even putting themselves out there, I myself included. It sucks being your own worst enemy but dude, you gotta stop it. Being 5'9 is perfectly fine, literally average height. Yes being 6ft would be nice but its 5'9 is a blessing too. There are worse heights to be at. Unfortunately yes, the only real advice you can give someone is to "work on yourself" because how else are you supposed…
/r/seduction09/08/24 02:30 AM
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Oh okay gotchu I misunderstood. I know that going solo can be scary but it's actually pretty rewarding and you'll be surprised at how people will support you. But yeah just learn more about your new city and try to find what excites you and just go. Go with a friend or solo but just keep an open vibe and approaching/being approached can be very easy. For example, I'm into photography so whenever I see photography related events I try to go with a friend or solo, and I meet people there and talk …
/r/seduction09/08/24 02:16 AM
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You’re in college, any classmates that are also single? I have a few coworkers that are single and we all relate on where our failing love lives take us, and sometimes we all get together on a rare weekend to go out and drink and potentially talk to girls. Flying solo? Just learn more about your city and where are the cool spots are. Learn where the clubs and bars are. Go and chat it up.
/r/seduction09/08/24 02:06 AM
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Yesssss I’ve recommended this show in the past here and im glad people are noticing. Funny enough I found out the same way, my sister watches it all the time on my MAX account.
/r/seduction08/08/24 04:22 PM
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/r/seduction06/08/24 10:54 AM
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Mmm I honestly don’t know lol I’ve only lived in NYC but I’ve travelled and gotten action in LA… but it was easy because I went to super concentrated events like music festivals where everyone’s drunk, high, and horny. So it was easy, probably easier than NYC. Experiences will vary.
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:53 AM
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Yeah last night when I was outside I just stood by the bar for a bit enjoying my drink and just casually dancing. You’ll be surprised how some people will see you and just initiate themselves. A few bros joined in with my singing and we dapped each other up. Another guy and I shared a laugh when we heard the DJ get mad about someone spilling their drink a lil too close to his equipment. One girl and I started chatting cuz the bartenders were too busy to help her, so I playfully pointed at her. O…
/r/seduction05/08/24 03:30 AM
1

Being by the bar is where you can open up the most conversation.
/r/seduction05/08/24 12:08 AM
10

Phone numbers shouldn't be considered success. You'll see very quickly how they fizzle out fast. How far did you get with any of them? Touch? Dance? Kiss?
/r/seduction05/08/24 12:07 AM
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You gotta do it, just say something, anything. Literally just say “hey I see you walking here all the time, are both our Apple Watches telling us to go outside at the same time?” Literally make something up. You’re allowed to lie when you’re flirting. She’ll respond, you’ll say something back. Just make her feel comfortable and let her be in control of the conversation. Don’t stand directly in front of her and block her path. Just be chill and keep it friendly. Try to connect. “Did you go to sch…
/r/seduction04/08/24 10:35 AM
1

I want to but it’s raining, don’t think anyone else is gonna wanna step out
/r/seduction04/08/24 12:45 AM
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Feels like that one time I walked into a casino. Headed straight to the roulette table and put 50,000 pesos ($13 but goes a long way where I was) Flippped that money and walked right out. Took me like 5 minutes tops haha. Congrats on the win. Inspiring me to go out tonight and give it a try.
/r/seduction04/08/24 12:37 AM
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Yup, less talking more dancing 🕺 make eye contact with an inviting smile and you'll reel them in
/r/seduction30/07/24 02:43 PM
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Phone number/Instagram should be the last thing you should get. You should try to get as far as you can at that moment, whether that’s leaving the club with her, getting a kiss, or just dancing with her. I like to leave socials for last and most of the time I don’t even ask for them, it’s a lot better when she does.
/r/seduction26/07/24 05:39 PM
20

I just took 6 airplanes in 3 weeks, I’m outside don’t you worry
/r/seduction26/07/24 05:14 AM
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To clarify, if you're American and raving about how "it's so much easier down south," well it's because it's true. There's no real advice to give from it though; a lot of it is an unbalanced dynamic. Things like money and being white shift things way easier in your favor, and also sex is way less taboo unlike in the US. If you're trying to get better at seduction, you're wasting your time listening to anything pertaining to South America, it's not gonna help much.
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:06 AM
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3rd world countries don’t count 🤷🏻‍♂️ sorry
/r/seduction26/07/24 02:17 AM
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“I’d probably not take things further unless I can envision a long term relationship” is such a fucking weird thing to say to someone when you’re first getting to know them and I don’t understand why so many women do it, it’s the most unattractive shit ever like bruh this is a first date calm down 😭 Also they be saying that and LYING 🤣 just keep applying pressure and she’ll probably let you hit, but that shit also tells me “yeah she not my main priority she gon play too much”
/r/seduction18/07/24 02:53 PM
9

“Dominance hierarchy” bro if you don’t shut your ass up 😭😭 wtf even is that bruh
/r/seduction15/07/24 12:02 AM
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The amount of white guys with smoking hot dates was insane last night, and then when you leave the club there’s lines of girls waiting Look I don’t pay for it, but if you’re down bad maaaan it’s crazy over here
/r/seduction14/07/24 07:57 PM
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The amount of white guys with smoking hot dates was insane last night, and then when you leave the club there’s lines of girls waiting Look I don’t pay for it, but if you’re down bad maaaan it’s crazy over here
/r/seduction14/07/24 07:57 PM
4

Risky but I’ve done it before. Don’t get greedy and jerk it on her, don’t keep going till the last stroke
/r/seduction04/07/24 09:10 PM
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Meh you’re probably better off not dealing with that. Feel like “trembling” is a sign of immaturity. Fuck it.
/r/seduction02/07/24 05:56 AM
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Sounds like you went cold wtf, why did you message her an entire week after. Texting sucks but you gotta push through, if she’s responding and accepting invites to dates then I think you’re in the clear. But don’t wait an entire freaking week. Also you better kiss her by the third date or you’re cooked.
/r/seduction01/07/24 07:00 AM
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You balance it out. The same way you pursue something, you also pursue women. For example, last night my friend and I went to go see a performer. I didn’t have the courage to talk to any girls that night, especially because it was super loud in there. The performer ending up giving away some vinyls and my friend caught one. In the subway waiting for the train ride home, I made eye contact with a woman, and saw her smile. I immediately approached her, and showed her my friends vinyl and explained…
/r/seduction01/07/24 06:51 AM
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👋🏽
/r/seduction01/07/24 01:03 AM
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You kinda just have to do it. Talking to girls isn't the easiest but it also ain't the hardest you know? Yeah you're scared you might get rejected, but life was fine without her and it'll be fine if she doesn't stick around. I think that's another one, I starting to "go for broke," not really afraid of losing people anymore. I've been so much forward to the people in my life and in prioritizing myself and my wants first, things just fall into place. The people okay with it will accept you and th…
/r/seduction29/06/24 09:07 PM
0

Hilarious but simply facts lol
/r/seduction29/06/24 05:59 AM
3

Agreed. Been lowering my video game dosage and it’s been great. It’s all about finding a balance.
/r/seduction29/06/24 03:19 AM
3

Indicator of interest I think
/r/seduction28/06/24 07:51 AM
1

Omfg yes dude I’ve been having a bad dry spell, decided I had enough and I’ve been trying to put myself out there. Super draining financially and timing. Hang out at a bar for a few hours just for few opportunities or just get shut down immediately. Feels really gross making a move on the more drunk girls even if they’re down… and I’m not in the mood to match their drunk. I guess the really good thing about the dry spell is how much more it’s made me work on my approach. Slowly losing the anxiet…
/r/seduction26/06/24 04:27 AM
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I agree. I’ve thought about making a discussion post about it. We call it “game” but it really should be a “gamble.” It would also help shift this mindset away from seduction being a “game” and everyone asking stupid questions trying to find the best questions or pickup lines like if there’s some meta or cheat code.
/r/seduction16/06/24 07:28 PM
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Will definitely check this out after seeing the Bean! I’m 24 so def of age 👍🏽 Found out not getting the BnB to myself like I thought, but I still like the idea of chatting up the locals and seeing the cool parts of this city I’ve never been to before.
/r/seduction13/06/24 10:46 PM
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A lot of girls think traveling is a personality trait, it’s not But yes, you should definitely leave the state once in a while and go check out something you like. I do it for video game tournaments and music festivals.
/r/seduction13/06/24 10:24 PM
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What went wrong is, you can’t catch a hint. I think you should’ve known way sooner whether or not this girl would’ve been down for you. You find out way sooner than 3 months.
/r/seduction13/06/24 03:27 AM
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Honestly bro fuck this shit there is no rules bruh I’ve texted girls immediately and had that shit go far and did the “waiting game” and that shit went no where Just text when YOU want to Because SHE will be doing the SAME
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:09 AM
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This is a good one. Or sometimes I’ll just shoot a random conversation starter that relates to our date like… “one time I ate this restaurant and a fight broke out… what about you?” And see what they respond with from that “what about you?” They’ll try to connect with the most similar thing and then boom, you have something to talk about.
/r/seduction09/06/24 05:46 PM
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Honestly dude this is when you just start having fun with it. This person is either boring or nervous, so usually when it takes this turn is when I start getting more bold and asking more intimate questions, or just skewing the conversation my way. One philosophy I like is “fuck it, this is MY DATE now, and I’m making sure I’m having fun lol” I brought a Polaroid camera to a date once, and she was kinda the same, very quiet and not too bubbly. I made her do some ridiculous poses in front of all …
/r/seduction09/06/24 05:43 PM
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Mmm I do notice that talking about each others past is a way to get to know each other. It’s also a way to separate yourself from her insecurities, saying you’ll never be like them and that they were crazy lol. It does get a little more complicated though if she’s always bringing them up and comparing you to them. I was late to something recently, and got compared to an ex who was also late to their first time. That was like the 5th time she compared me to her ex. Not sure how I feel about that …
/r/seduction09/06/24 05:36 PM
1

I fumbled a threesome once. It happens.
/r/seduction08/06/24 05:17 AM
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Some people are completely different in person. Unfortunately I cannot prepare you. She might be super bubbly in person. You’ll find out and act accordingly.
/r/seduction06/06/24 03:49 PM
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Yeah, that was one reason why I broke up with my first girlfriend. Looking back, I was 18 and dumb. I never faced my insecurities with her and I ran away from them. Wanting the “fuck around” lifestyle was really just me searching for validation I could no longer get from her. I miss her a lot, and I hate that I ruined something good. The “fuck around” lifestyle is tough lol. You’re constantly chasing girls and having to deal with equally broken women lol. It’s draining going on 50 first dates, c…
/r/seduction06/06/24 03:42 PM
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The more excuses you try and find for yourself, the less likely you simple won't do it. This post is just gonna fuck your mental up. Go meet people however you can. Does that mean approach everybody?? No. But when you see an opportunity, just go for it.
/r/seduction06/06/24 04:29 AM
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And you not doing nothing but dragging another man down who’s tryna give some advice Subs cooked if this is the attitude we’re gonna be on Cold approach is hard but it works. You just say wassup and introduce yourself. It’s happened to me. It’s not easy but it works.
/r/seduction05/06/24 08:52 PM
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Bonus points, throw in some statements in there that you can heavily flirt with locking eyes. Sometime in the middle of the conversation just say heavy like “I really like talking to you” or “wow, you’re really interesting. I didn’t expect that from you.” Her responses will allow you to really tighten in and flirt.
/r/seduction31/05/24 02:44 AM
2

Just tryna spit in somebody’s butt
/r/seduction28/05/24 01:21 AM
0

Omg go talk to her bruh You guys are literally in the same class Sit next to her and just say “so how long have you been playing”
/r/seduction25/05/24 02:19 PM
2

Fine ratio. Of course if you’ve got some friends missing you can invite them but if you’re just gonna invite strangers to fill the space naaaaaah
/r/seduction22/05/24 11:42 PM
2

‘Twas just a thought
/r/seduction21/05/24 07:13 AM
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It might but you'd be surprised. Girls are very aware of the game of seduction, and sometimes its fun to talk about things like that lol. Like sports, having a post-sex performance analysis is interesting.
/r/seduction20/05/24 05:56 AM
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Comments are very decisive but Imma still chime in You did good, even though you did bad. Glad you got over your fear and you actually shot your shot. I don't think the train or train station is off limits in terms of meeting new people, but some women do fear for their safety in these places. NYC is notorious for the train system being a potential danger zone for women, so it makes perfect sense why she was super on guard with you. You were not being a creep, you did a simple cold approach and …
/r/seduction20/05/24 04:56 AM
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Now im headed home gonna play video games buzzzzed
/r/seduction19/05/24 06:12 AM
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This post motivated me to hit my local bar, I was bored playing video games Edit: it’s dead and I’m just drinking at the bar lol but still better than being home
/r/seduction19/05/24 04:08 AM
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You could put that $400 towards a night out and everyone can get some This is stupid
/r/seduction19/05/24 03:54 AM
6

Wtf
/r/seduction19/05/24 03:44 AM
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You gotta choose something and do it. Follow it through and soon enough you'll see your social circle morph. In my example, I recently signed up for a 6 week acting class and throughout those 6 weeks I was constantly working with new partners on scenes and getting close with different types of people. Meeting once a week on Saturday's for two hours, I was able to meet some cool people, and I got really close with this one girl who I'd never meet if I didn't sign up. She's pretty, working on her …
/r/seduction19/05/24 02:01 AM
0

Awesome advice! Good stuff
/r/seduction18/05/24 07:05 PM
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MODS PIN THIS PIN THIS NOW PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD
/r/seduction18/05/24 01:21 PM
1

Ay bro delete this people get bored and they’ll find your wife and send this to her 😭
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:46 PM
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Just sit around and wait until she posts something relatable on her IG story. Reply and try to make some conversation with her. Hopefully she’s receptive and you just keep the conversation going :)
/r/seduction17/05/24 06:28 AM
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Callings a last resort but in the context you guys made plans and you absolutely want to make sure those plans are still in motion. Forget the whole “turning her off” aspect for a second, you also gotta respect yourself. Your time is valuable and there’s nothing wrong with calling and checking in. That’s life advice, not just girl advice.
/r/seduction17/05/24 06:17 AM
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Purposely try to find a movie that you both have already seen so that you both can easily ignore it. Then when the movie starts just keep ignoring it, talk about other things, get close, play with her hair, tell her she smells good, just DONT WATCH THE MOVIE. The focus should be on you.
/r/seduction14/05/24 06:45 AM
0

Huh comments section is really hating, but you scored, and you didn’t force anyone to do anything lol
/r/seduction14/05/24 06:38 AM
1

Overthinking. Stop it. Just add her socials and slide in. Rip the bandaid off quick and move forward no matter the outcome.
/r/seduction14/05/24 06:34 AM
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Make an instagram, make 3 posts minimum, and follow a few social media accounts/friends and make it look like it’s not completely dead. Make the 3 posts carousels (IG version of an album, multiple pics in one post) and just post a collage of random things you like or cool things you’ve seen outside and very simple captions like “life lately.” Boom. That’s it. You never got to touch it again, and in the DM you can then say “I’m not on this too often, can I get your number?” In person, now you can…
/r/seduction14/05/24 06:32 AM
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lol yeah I saw that post too, bro was talking about this shit like a corporate sales seminar it was the most boring shit ever Talking about women and seduction like statistical data is the quickest road to failure. Be excited, have your heart racing, make a move!!!
/r/seduction13/05/24 06:39 PM
1

Yeah I did it once
/r/seduction12/05/24 04:00 AM
0

And along the way you leave some hints of intention, like I texted this girl in my class “I was hoping to see you before class and maybe study together” (got sick) It shows that I be thinking about her ya dig
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:50 AM
10

You legit just need to go and talk to her bru
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:08 AM
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Approaching more realistic girls I know I might get shot for this one but yeah there’s definitely some girls you just can’t approach, the failure rate is too high.
/r/seduction05/05/24 01:54 AM
0

Cocaine Or any energy drink with 200mg of caffeine or more is also fun
/r/seduction29/04/24 12:03 AM
1

It’s gotta be that your game is bad and you’re rushing through it just trying to get her phone number treating it like it’s the goal. The goal should be to make her wanna kiss you that same night. You should be escalating there; don’t just talk to her a little bit and then just walk away like “okay I’ll text you later.” Go as far as you can when you meet her. Something I do is when I talk to a girl, is I try to maximize as much time as she lets me. When it’s time to go, I give her some time and …
/r/seduction28/04/24 11:56 PM
2

Damn OP as crazy as it sounds I think you’ve just unlocked some new “Snapchat rizz” You’d probably stand out from the rest of the dudes in a bar if you went up to a girl and typed out all your rizz in big text on a blank Snapchat canvas lol Hope you get better!!
/r/seduction28/04/24 11:50 PM
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Worst thing you could’ve done is start smoking weed lol You just gotta do it bruh. Start a new class, meet a girl there. Go to a concert. Go to a bar. Go to a social setting. Shits not gonna fall out the sky.
/r/seduction19/04/24 01:37 PM
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LMFAOOOOOO nah it was after a party and we went to another crib and the girls went to a room and I caught them making out, and they were totally vibing with me but then some other dude busted in and murdered the vibe
/r/seduction15/04/24 03:02 PM
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Fumbled a potential threesome cuz I forgot to lock the door 💀🔫
/r/seduction15/04/24 01:07 AM
10

Smash and then dash
/r/seduction05/04/24 09:31 PM
2

Not that big a deal imo Well people don’t talk about birthdays too often so when it does come around, she’ll probably have forgotten, or just be like “naaaah I told you I was 18 what do you mean?”
/r/seduction02/04/24 06:36 PM
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https://www.yourmove.ai/ I had this saved but I never did get around using it, lmk how it goes lol
/r/seduction02/04/24 06:23 AM
3

The closest I’ve gotten to threesomes (though I’ve never achieved) were drunk nights out with girls. Usually the girls I came with kissed another girls and they were cool with kissing me too. Never was able to successfully set up a threesome and truthfully, it seems the easiest is when you’ve got a woman in your corner vouching for you.
/r/seduction02/04/24 05:16 AM
10

The age difference is not that crazy
/r/seduction01/04/24 07:53 PM
2

Last night I went out with some friends and they pressured me to go up and talk to this girl. To my surprise she was super receptive and even touched my face, and make jokes how she knew why I approached her (I thought she was cute, not that my friends pressured me) I guess I got rusty or I was not as lit as usual cuz I completely fumbled. But it opened my eyes that hey, girls just wanna have fun as well! They’re just waiting on us.
/r/seduction26/03/24 05:09 AM
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Wtf kinda question is this LMFAOOOO 💀 Please do not go down the “treat women like trash” route I promise it doesn’t work
/r/seduction12/11/23 02:38 AM
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Yea don’t give up. There’s nothing wrong with putting a girl in the back pocket and putting more effort in another. Gotta keep a rotation like sneakers.
/r/seduction06/10/23 03:16 AM
5

Too many people do not know the definition of ego and it’s sad. If more people knew what ego meant and how to identify theirs, the world would be a better place.
/r/seduction06/09/23 03:43 AM
1

There is such thing as the long game. It’s a lot easier when things start slow and take time. The seduction we engage in this sub, trying to seduce women at the club, is a violent crash course that is very nerve wracking. It’s two different things. Most people play the long game, and only few are able to speed run seduction.
/r/seduction01/09/23 01:53 AM
19

Talking is easy but approaching is haaaard 💀
/r/seduction24/04/23 10:58 PM
23

Set achievable goals! One of my short term goals right now is to get my license. Nothing crazy in the long term, but I’ve been slacking on it so long I know I’ll feel accomplished when I get it :))))
/r/seduction10/04/23 03:14 PM
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I don’t do groups but if I had too, I would’ve approached them with a general question or response they could all relate to… “are you guys American too?” A conversation starter they could all join in and bounce off from. You could join the circle and dance and gauge the crowd, and if they’re open, they’ll let you join in and dance, and if they’re cold, then you time your exit accordingly and move on. If they are warm, then you eventually gotta be brave and single out the one you like the most. B…
/r/seduction04/11/22 05:04 AM
1

You just found out girls also struggle with good compliments. Take it what it is. She thinks you’re pretty.
/r/seduction01/11/22 08:57 AM
6

Hey bro I really hope you cut off contact with your ex. I know what it feels like to miss someone and I still do but hearing you guys do 8 years on and off kinda shows you guys aren’t for each other. Maybe on day in the future you guys could reconnect strictly as friends but right now, it’s no contact. I also know that “avoiding” people thing too. You’re too afraid to be vulnerable because you’ve been there before, but if you’re not, nothing will happen. I’m here to tell you that you’ve gotta re…
/r/seduction31/10/22 11:16 PM
6

Condoms aren’t that bad my g Chill with that
/r/seduction31/10/22 10:19 PM
16

Say something chill but flirty like “that’s okay… I’m patient” which shows that you’re down. Find ways to say “I wanna fuck you” without saying it obviously lol.
/r/seduction31/10/22 07:06 PM
6

My life a good movie yea yea
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:55 AM
1

Turn this to a post pls
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:53 AM
19

You are wasting your time. Make more meaningful attempts.
/r/seduction30/10/22 10:56 PM
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Seeing OP laugh to this comment kinda shows this post needs to be taken down. Who gifted this post?? None of these approaches even made an attempt to be meaningful and OP is still clueless as to why none of those girls were interested. You didn’t charm any of them enough where they wanted to continue by phone. It’s way easier to give attention in person but you didn’t even bother putting in any effort, just a “YOU PRETTY, GIVE ME NUMBER?”
/r/seduction30/10/22 10:21 PM
6

Does he pay for tinder? Definitely more success vs a free account
/r/seduction26/10/22 09:46 PM
4

“Can’t have conversations in clubs” Clubs aren’t where you converse. You approach someone dancing, join in and if they are feeling you, escalate. I dance with plenty of girls never saying a single word to them. And if you do, it’s extremely brief. Actions matter much more. Honestly the fact you posted it kinda shows that you have a defeatist mindset. When I come onto this sub I wanna read about success stories and failed attempts that end with hopeful ambition, but this sub is seriously getting …
/r/seduction26/10/22 01:16 AM
9

Bald men still fuck
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:16 PM
3

If you did it once you can do it twice.
/r/seduction22/10/22 08:08 PM
1

Never took a risk behavior
/r/seduction21/10/22 05:49 PM
11

Holy shit bro I knew someone just like this. It was gross
/r/seduction19/10/22 09:43 PM
5

Hell to the fucking no You cut your hoes off when you finally get cuffed Not cuffed? All is fair
/r/seduction18/10/22 09:57 PM
3

How? By not taking my words so damn literal. Of course I know every stranger has the potential to be an amazing person, but I’m also able to protect my mental health by acknowledging that most strangers will only be strangers, and whatever interaction I have with them is face level. Whatever opinion or perception of me they create is false and has no value, so I don’t let it affect me. Too many people are afraid of what strangers will think of them when they shouldn’t. Whatever construed notion …
/r/seduction18/10/22 06:31 PM
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I’m sure it would make it a lot easier but you just gotta work with what you’ve got. You will fail if you postpone your life always trying to make things perfect. You gotta live with your parents, that’s fine. At my age it’s normal to live with your parents so it wasn’t worst, if anything I was able to spin it as a joke and tell girls I had “business hours” when my parents are at work. What’s helped is learning about cheap motels and just having a budget ready for when the moment arises. Pregami…
/r/seduction18/10/22 01:02 AM
2

Be easy on yourself bro stop letting strangers ruin your day. Putting way too much emphasis on their opinion is bad.
/r/seduction17/10/22 03:46 AM
2

Yea it sucks but you just gotta push past it
/r/seduction16/10/22 07:49 PM
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Reading social cues is not meaningless, but yes many people put themselves in a box because they are looking for OBVIOUS social cues that’ll never come. A girl will never give you the social cue to kiss her, but she’ll give you the social cues that she likes you. For example, I danced with a girl all night and my hands were able to go anywhere on her body. She then took my hand and asked me to join her at the bar, away from everyone at the dance floor. Those two cues told me she liked me and did…
/r/seduction16/10/22 01:41 PM
7

I miss having pink hair, unfortunately I had to get rid of it for my job. But that one week of pink hair was fun. Only thing that sucked was how badly I damaged my hair, so next time I’ll definitely have to learn how to manage that.
/r/seduction16/10/22 03:06 AM
17

Start a beauty routine. Everyday after I shower I apply sunscreen to moisturize my face and protect it from the sun, I have a styling cream I apply to my hair, and of course deodorant and a cologne. I use my razor every two days to tame my beard and manage my eyebrows. I try to get a haircut at least every 3 weeks, and after years of experimenting with my hair, I know what I want and never leave the barbershop unhappy. Knowing yourself is a great way to passively build confidence. I never leave …
/r/seduction16/10/22 03:04 AM
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Treat women as equals. Respect yourself. Read social cues. Accept rejection. Don’t take it personal!
/r/seduction15/10/22 08:03 PM
1

Honestly I like this subreddit when it’s fun and full of success/hope. It’s whack when a bunch of dudes come and say “hey I need helping getting a girlfriend, also I hate life and have no ambitions/prospects” Like bruh
/r/seduction15/10/22 04:54 PM
9

I honestly just ignore them. They don’t want help, because I know they’ve read all the information on this sub and they know all they have to do is apply it; actually go and do it. But they won’t. So fuck it. Some people will always be left behind.
/r/seduction08/10/22 10:21 PM
1

Yea at my young age I meet a LOT of people who say “I wanna do blah blah blah” but put absolutely no effort into getting closer to doing blah blah blah.
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:06 PM
1

Eh Im on here a lot giving and taking advice but not putting any of it to work because I’m honest with myself in knowing I’m not in any position to chase girls yet. I’m broke!!!! I’ve got a few things about myself I wanna get right before I enter the dating world again. Get more hours at work, reconnect with friends, get my drivers license, schedule that dentist appointment I’ve been dodging, and maybe get a haircut lol. Then I’ll go pursue some women.
/r/seduction22/09/22 06:28 PM
1

Holy fuck delete this Bro fuck the movie, just pick one and during the movie just get comfortable around her and try to get some The movie is gonna make her want to do anything, The movie is just the excuse to get her to your place
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:06 AM
2

Just send a picture of yo beef bro it never fails
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:08 AM
7

Not a girl you wanna cuff. Hit and quit. Rip then dip. Fuck n tuck. Smash then pass.
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:17 PM
3

I can see what you’re saying OP, but I don’t think anyone would ever advocate for sexual harassment in their book. The way I interpret it is, initiate constant escalation until you trigger her sexual curiosity. When you’re talking to a girl, she’s gonna respond back platonically. If you’re flirting, touching, and being forward, you start to fall into the realm of potential lover. In her mind she starts saying things like, “woah” and “he’s actually kinda cute…” But you’ll never illicit those thou…
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:24 PM
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Bruh you could've talked about anything else 🤦🏻‍♂️ But hey it happens and I would be lying if I hadn't been in your situation before. I've drank way too much at terrible times when I needed more cognition and I probably fucked myself out of a threesome, and spending time with this one girl I've been eyeing that instead got me sent home, her friends using my phone to call me an Uber. Alcohol is fun as fuck but we've gotta learn when its our LAST DRINK. Eventually you find a rhythm of what's good …
/r/seduction03/09/22 05:34 AM
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Just reply when you want and accept the fact that things move at HER pace. If she wants you around, she will keep replying, no matter what speed, fast or slow. Girls that don't want you around will simply not respond. This sub needs to get rid of this idea that they gotta do a special move or time their actions juuuust right to get the girl. Nope.
/r/seduction29/08/22 11:51 PM
1

I never thought of it is peacocking but my small camera I’d bring around was a good conversation starter. But I actually enjoy photography so don’t start walking around with one if you don’t.
/r/seduction24/08/22 06:52 PM
11

Not every conversation has to be a banger and end with exchanging info. If this is gonna happen at your college, just know you’ll run into people again and it’ll help build curiosity if you keep some conversations sweet and simple.
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:31 AM
13

Awesome that you have a girlfriend! The most important to do now is to keep your agency and stay far away from building codependency behavior. Remember, it’s two independent people sharing each other’s love and time. Nobody owns anyone and everyone is valuable no matter what happens, or who walks away.
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:34 PM
1

Eh honestly I don’t think there’s anything wrong with talking about past relationships, just keep it brief. It also helps with finding red flags. See how the relationship fell apart, compare their story with how they behave, see if it adds up.
/r/seduction22/08/22 02:54 AM
1

Look at this mf believing everything he sees on the internet 💀💀💀 Look dude, you want advice? I’ve slept with hundreds of women, and if you wanna know how to sleep with hundreds of women, just lie and say you’ve slept with hundreds of women. Easy.
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:16 PM
2

To the top with this one please
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:40 AM
1

I DM’d a pretty girl in my class once just from looking up her name. We made out soon enough. Don’t worry you’ll be Aii.
/r/seduction14/08/22 02:18 PM
0

You’re right but I really only sent that text because I was 100% sure she was gonna leave me on seen and she proved me right. Gave me the perfect reasoning to cut her off as she basically showed her hand in not caring.
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:36 AM
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Definitely gotta remind myself this sometimes and remember my intentions. Just recently I had this situation with a girl that frustrated me that I feel touches this subject. We made plans a week ago to go check out this bar. I text her the day of and she responds back that she just had a “random dick appointment.” I was caught off guard and kinda upset that she would say that to me, but I tried to keep it chill and flirt since I assumed my chances were down to zero now with her since she’s alrea…
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:32 PM
2

Damn I’m a dude and I hate when my Uber drivers talk to me lol I don’t think anyone really likes chatting with their Uber drives tbh
/r/seduction02/08/22 04:34 AM
8

I hear all this “don’t text so much” advice and I think, “so what?” Like, why should I ever be ashamed about putting effort towards pursuing someone? I thought someone was attractive and endearing and I wanted them to be a part of my life. I made the time for them and desire them, so why should I prance around that? Anyone who turns me down will simply be losing out. Don’t we all want people to care about us? If I genuinely like someone and put the effort to be in their sphere, I shouldn’t be as…
/r/seduction01/08/22 04:02 AM
0

We here for a good time not a long time
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:33 AM
12

Grouchy LMFAAAOOOO Ngl I felt that 😭 I just sent a risky text cuz it’s been a minute and I’m itching
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:35 PM
3

Because it’s not that serious
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:59 AM
30

Kinda brave tryna fuck 5 different girls, or potentially kickstart an orgy. Kudos for the attempt haha been there done that.
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:47 PM
1

Growing up in a social media internet age that sheltered us, and my personal experience, having an immigrant father who was too busy working and sleeping to show me any sort of social skills. Language barrier too. No older siblings or cousins to guide me, I found ways to shut myself in. Watching too many movies and boxing myself in as the “shy guy who gets the girl in the end” which was a fucking lie 💀 Men aren’t taught to love ourselves like how we should and we just go through the motions. Som…
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:21 AM
2

This is so true! I’ll never forget being drunk and dancing with this one girl, telling her our babies would be adorable… led to us fucking but thankfully no babies 😂 Point is, I let her know what I thinking about and she was down.
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:34 AM
0

Give her a shit test
/r/seduction08/07/22 03:54 PM
1

Dope report! I had a similar report but mine got deleted and when I got approval from the mods, it never picked up traction. Hope this one does! I don’t think you did anything wrong. You had a simple adventure which is way better than staying home. You made your move with the cheek kiss and she shot you down, but that’s a success imo. Plenty of guys wouldn’t have done that. They would’ve gotten her number and completely delayed all satisfaction out of fear, wasting time when the perfect opportun…
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:40 AM
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I think the issue is how much you’re focusing on the interactions. They need to be complimentary to your night. If you go out with the sole intent of getting with women, you’ll have a bad time. Many girls go out with their friends to enjoy the music and vibe. You need to do the same. It will make connecting with women so much easier because of how in tune with the vibe you are. I literally just came home from a rooftop party with 4 of my guy friends. We enjoyed the music and had a chat with each…
/r/seduction26/06/22 09:23 AM
2

Sometimes you just gotta butt yourself into a conversation, shoot your opinion, and then extend your arm and introduce yourself. If that scares you, just know it’s MUCH easier with alcohol.
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:33 AM
5

The power of little white lies. I hate lying but with a a few drinks I can easily tell a few without a care. These definitely need to be adopted more and with a little more boldness, they can easily be turned into simple flirtation.
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:32 AM
1

This! My 4th time visiting a favorite club of mine I learned the head bouncers name and engaged in small conversation with him while showing my ID. He could’ve easily denied me and 4 of my GUY friends from entering with some BS “you guys need to buy a table” but he let us walk right in. Ended up being a dope night with lots of dancing with girls. It’s simple things like remembering names that’ll get you farther than usual.
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:29 AM
1

Not true. The most reasonable scenario is that she enjoyed his company but didn’t have the guts to shoot him down.
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:26 AM
7

Unfortunately some people don’t really wanna get to know you more than they say. Some girl just asked me for my IG rn but I doubt anything will happen cuz she’s kinda drunk. You just can’t get too attached. Look at this way. She liked you enough to share a laugh and give you her number. She didn’t want to ruin the good vibe and enjoyed your company but she didn’t want anymore of it. One scenario is that she’s already having her needs met. A FWB gave her number out during a night and then kindly …
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:24 AM
1

Makes sense. If you cater to a woman's every need, it'll feel like you have nothing to add because you are simply assimilating into HER lifestyle. You're BLENDING IN. There's nothing wrong with that because of course you'll want to have some similarities, but you've also got to be your own intriguing person that she'll want to know. Woman like everything we like; the chase, the excitement, the sex... they just don't like to lead. Socio-norms conditioned us that men are the to be the one's with t…
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:29 AM
12

Holy shit this is so true. A couple of weeks ago I got super drunk and posted myself singing in the car with this girl I went out with. Fast forward to a few weeks later and I’m having sex with an old FWB, and she legit asks me about her! She said she was super hot and in the moment I threw the pitch for a threesome and she said she’d “think about it.” Now I know for next time I’ll invite the two of them see what the magic of alcohol has to offer.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:39 PM
4

Lol you wanna talk about it?
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:22 PM
2

I didn’t say anything about double texting lol but okay 👍🏽 Double texting is a myth by the way Any girl who is turned off by double texting didn’t want you in the first place 🧠👈🏽
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:54 AM
1

Leaving it on open doesn’t do much though does it? I would’ve responded with a “wish you were here 🤭🍑” text and potentially had some back and forth. Responding with the possibility of a flirtatious reply, or leaving it on open guaranteeing no reply at all? You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take, and you downright refused to shoot right there. If that’s not advice I don’t want it.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:50 AM
2

If the convo is dying down maybe just send a pic? Nudes are risky but if the conversations already there then up the ante! Doesn’t have to be fully nude, a fresh shirtless pic after a morning shower is always solid. That’ll be on her mind till you get here.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:46 AM
2

You can go on a few dates with a girl without getting into anything serious. You just have to really kick in the sexual tension and make your intentions be known. She’ll either reciprocate with her own flirting or she’ll let you know she’s not looking for that. There is no secret pickup line. There’s no infallible texting strategy or type of flirtatious touching you can do to. You shoot your shot at sex immediately and let her know what type of timing you’re on with her actions. Show her how bad…
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:34 AM
1

You wear whatever the fuck you want. Doesn’t matter if it’s trendy or timeless, as long as it looks good on you. That means knowing your measurements properly and understanding fashion as a whole. Fashion isn’t having an expensive piece of clothing from a popular brand that everyone else is wearing. Wearing something trendy isn’t fashionable. Fashion is understanding the synergy between every article of clothing you put on your body. Wearing a shirt you like with pants you like is a step in the …
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:15 AM
2

If you’re gonna go to her state and she hits you with the “we’ll see” but is still asking sexual questions… She’s basically asking you to pitch her the hookup lol. Get her excited!! Tell her the things she wants to hear and send some pics along the way so she can get excited and count the days until you arrive. Don’t let the poor texting habits discourage you, all girls are like that. If she makes time for you, you’re in.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:02 AM
1

You’ve got nothing to lose. Be direct with this girl and hold nothing back. Treat like a sinking ship with the possibility of a life vest… if that makes any sense. Basically your chances with her get slimmer and slimmer and it’s out of your hands, so fuck it? Just be forward. She doesn’t really respect your time so just be brief with yours. No need to beat around the bush, you guys have already had physical contact before kissing. Mentioning sex wouldn’t be so inappropriate.
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:55 AM
2

I think it’s fair to assume shes DTF. Think about the effort needed to go on a date with someone you barely know. A girls gotta get out of her bed, take a shower, get dressed, do her makeup, and then travel to go see you. If she’s choosing to do all that stuff instead of staying home and watching Netflix, you gotta give yourself more credit. She likes you and the date is just her needing to know if she’s right about you. You can fuck on the second, third, or first date depending on how well you …
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:51 AM
7

This actually needs to be at the top. You either go balls deep or you never see them again. Boom.
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:15 AM
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You can’t just be shredded. You have to also be shredded AND confident in your game. He’s right, looking good will make your life easier, but you can’t just look good and stand around. The other night I went to the club but before I went, I got a fresh haircut and put on my best outfit. I bought a new styling cream for my hair just for the event (plus I was already running out, perfect timing). I put on my best cologne, my hair was fresh, and a couple of drinks already in my system meant I was a…
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:00 AM
2

She got a kid… she definitely wants to take it slow
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:13 AM
1

Escalation won’t work if you wait for a woman to ask you to touch them. And no, they don’t ask, I just do it. By the time I’m massaging their feet, they typically say something like “that feels so good” or “omgggg what are you doiiiiing,” which usually leads to a conversation about how their feet were typically neglected in past relationships and they never had someone do that to them. That’s when I start kissing and sucking their toes, and you can see the excitement on their face. Eventually I’…
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:50 PM
0

Yeah not all girls but most I’ve been with drove them mad with excitement 🤷🏻‍♂️ results may vary and more people need to understand that then just shit on my advice! Your mileage may vary!
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:55 PM
6

Put on something low effort or an old movie she's already seen before so you can flirt and distract without ruining the film. My go to usually having her feet on my lap and massaging them. From there it's usually play-fighting and I'll grab her arms and pull her right up to me, or the vibe is there and I'm sucking her toes getting her ready to see what this tongue can do 😂
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:47 AM
1

Sounds like there's definitely an opportunity for next time so this is definitely a win! Now start sexting her and plant those seeds so you seal the deal next time you guys meet!!
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:43 AM
2

Delete this you're embarrassing yourself If pleasuring a woman makes you feel like less of a man... you need help.
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:38 AM
1

Please ban this dude 🤣
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:37 AM
1

You're only 23 buddy. Calm down. There's way more important shit to be having a doomer attitude about than woman, like your money and your career. You gotta love yourself first before you go pursuing others or else you'll rely on woman for your happiness and that's the worst thing you could do. Live like that and you'll put your entire life on pause due to a breakup. Nah. Never that. You wanna lose weight? Do it. You wanna dress better? Do it. You're going to therapy? That's amazing. You're alre…
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:36 AM
1

Why do you care? You said you didn't show her that much enthusiasm and YOU STILL DON'T? Why post this? What the fuck do you want? Weirdo.
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:27 AM
1

If I were witty I'd probably say something like "Not often, only to the pretty girls" or something cheesy. Being witty is tough, especially when you're nervous and sober! I definitely recommend introducing alcohol into your dating life as it chills out the nerves a lot and you don't overthink much about what you say. Drink appropriately for the occasion though! When I'm going to an underground rave I'll have a White Claw or Straw-ber-rita, and when I'm at a bar I'll have a Redbull Vodka. I'm way…
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:23 AM
2

I mean yeah I guess it won't hurt giving it another shot but definitely understand when no means no. She might be enjoying but still has her inhibitions. A lot of us guys like to think women have seduction figured out, but you'd be surprised how many of them also get stumped and are just as afraid... why do you think they make us do all the work? They can be just as clueless too! 🤣 But if she tells you NO, it's a no! You're more than welcome to ask her why, but don't force it on her! No doesn't …
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:06 AM
1

I would definitely try to join them on their next bonfire and see if there's anyone you can strengthen a connection with! As for the bars nearby, I'd totally visit them and chat it up with any of the bartenders there on a chill night and ask when the bar is most popular, if they host any events, and maybe show up for a sports game. The NBA finals are going on so if you're free, go to the bar on game night and see what the crowd is like! It's scary but you gotta put yourself out there!
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:48 AM
0

If you want something you can't be afraid of getting it. Shoot another text but make it meaningful!
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:44 AM
2

Nope. LOL. I'm not withholding any tips... it's just bus game isn't it lol. I tried Plane game once! This girl and I were waiting at the same gate waiting to board our flight. I made a bullshit excuse to talk to her by asking for some advice on how to read my ticket. She helped me out but when I tried to escalate the convo by asking about her travel plans, she quickly lined up ASAP to board. She didn't have to be first in line, but she wanted to while I was speaking to her mid-conversation... ac…
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:43 AM
2

How's your social life? In my city every 20-something year old has Instagram, and in the culture I'm in, everyones down to meet and collaborate. I've been adopting the live-music/nightlife so much more and its been great at meeting people and dancing with girls. Try to make deeper connections with your friends and commit more effort to attending events around your city. Look at next weeks schedule and see when you're free. Is there something you've wanted to do lately, like watch a movie? Start …
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:29 AM
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Love this post! Definitely needs to be seen by more people! It's a numbers game people... you don't win every single time. It hurts, especially when you really wanted to win with a certain girl, but you just gotta take that L and keep it pushing, cuz there's always more girls. One of the worst things you could do is blame yourself. Some things are simply out of your control but that doesn't mean you should give up. So keep going and always try to remember those past wins, don't get hung up on th…
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:22 AM
2

Kissing on the neck is CRAZY on the third day, it also just sounded hella unwarranted 😂 but ay sometimes you gotta shoot your shot. I couldn't do that unless I'm drunk lol. Honestly I would give it more time but more guys need to understand that when a woman wants you back, she'll give herself to you! She'll make it easy! This idea of coaxing woman and keep trying in the hopes she'll change her mind, it ain't it... just try to put yourself in her shoes. I'm not gonna say stop pursuing, but you m…
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:17 AM
1

I won't lie, my closest female friend is super hot and I've definitely flirted with her way too many times, but lately I've called it quits on her and have decided to keep it platonic. I admit that I do still think about her sexually and sometimes get a little jealous when she talks about other guys, but I also have come to terms that its my innate instinct to want to "conquer" every woman I interact with and I have to make the conscious effort to suppress these emotions to keep things platonic.…
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:56 AM
0

A lot you would be more successful if you didn't already hate yourself lol
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:48 AM
1

Sounds like there’s no alcohol. That will kill all curiosity as you’ll be brave enough to ask why and she’ll find fun in telling why 😭
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:31 PM
2

She’s homeless for a reason. You don’t see it now but you’ll see it soon. Sorry bro but you gotta chill. I’m seeing the comments and you haven’t seemed to mention why she’s homeless. She will show you soon and you’ll regret this. Homeless for 5 years?? You’re crazy.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:03 AM
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You don’t think that’s weird that I have to get into a long term relationship with a woman I don’t know before she decides she wants to know who I am? I’ve actually been noticing this behavior so much lately it’s so fucking weird. I’ll text a girl for a bit and then it’s “so what are we” like damn we’re getting to know each other??? Calm tf down.
/r/seduction22/05/22 08:08 PM
1

Luv is my go to
/r/seduction25/03/22 11:01 PM
16

Fuck it bro, peck her on the lips like it’s 4th grade. Will def make you stand out.
/r/seduction18/03/22 10:54 AM
8

Bro what
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:13 PM
1

Swing that fucking dick around. watch them gossip about you. Some of them will probably get jealous you didn’t message them! “What’s she got that I don’t have?” Living life in fear of what other people think is the worst. Get rid of that mindset ASAP. Do wtf you want. Miserable people with nothing interesting in their lives talk about others who are living it to the fullest. Remember that.
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:10 PM
0

Like me. I will totally bully OP if it means forcing him to change his already shitty approach to life.
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:05 PM
10

“It doesn’t count” lol if a dick goes up your vagina it counts
/r/seduction02/02/22 11:55 PM
2

All the incels came out to play in the comments… sorry luv. They’re on this sub trying to get girls not realizing their biggest enemy is their insecure, controlling selves. If my girlfriend was ever approached by a guy, I would never fault her in any way. That’s completely out of her control. I trust my girlfriend enough that she kept the conversation brief and in the past. You did nothing wrong.
/r/seduction01/01/22 12:34 AM
1

Goddamn so many losers in the chat Yes guys, sometimes you take an L. But if you walk away from that L in shambles and upset, you’ll always be lonely.
/r/seduction01/01/22 12:28 AM
8

You gotta love yourself first bruh. No woman wants to be around a man that needs them to function.
/r/seduction27/11/21 03:48 PM
1

Yeah I think comic books will definitely help as they provide slang you can pick up and also give you a visual to understand what context to use your new words when.
/r/seduction27/11/21 04:09 AM
1

Ay man, don’t take this too hard. I know you might feel the need to overthink it and hate yourself for “doing too much” but honestly… think about how miserable she must be as a person to drag you into babysitting her for a few hours and wasting your time. What you’re doing right now is putting someone on a pedestal and removing them of all blame. You’re putting too much blame on yourself and coming here asking for answers. There’s definitely some things you shouldn’t have done, like text her abo…
/r/seduction27/11/21 04:08 AM
1

I think it has to do with desires. The desire to want women has to be higher than your desire to be comfortable. Meeting new people is scary, especially if they’re hot girls. But if you really want it, you’ll go get it.
/r/seduction27/11/21 03:09 AM
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Yeah bro girls are definitely aware but you just gotta establish dominance. There was one time I was rock hard when a girl was dancing on me, didn’t hide it whatsoever. Was a good time. Lately though I’ve been drinking more at parties and my dick can’t even brick up. Sucks really bad but there’s other ways to get her to like you
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:13 PM
5

Sure man. You keep trying to prove compatibility with logic, I’mma go say hi to that girl over there.
/r/seduction16/11/21 07:02 AM
1

Drinking a Straw-Ber-Rita helps
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:59 AM
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You really just need to loosen up. Life is so random. You could drop dead right now. The beauty of life lies in the mystery and randomness. Have you ever met someone and kissed them the minute you met them? It is a feeling like no other. The ecstasy of clicking with someone immediately and wanted to show them animalistic affection at that moment is something everyone needs to have. You will never achieve that moment if you meet every encounter in your life like this; with some fat checklist they…
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:46 AM
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You’re terrifying
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:02 AM
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Isn’t a trait in autism hyper focus? If women really motivate him it makes sense why he’s so good around them. He tries his hardest while other guys cower away.
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:56 PM
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Mods virgins? 🤨
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:40 AM
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Why remove your post smh this was good conversation with my girl lol
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:21 AM
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I love seeing questions like this though cuz they are controversial enough I send them to my GF and get her answer.
/r/seduction01/11/21 06:47 PM
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Come on bro we all know accountability isn’t their strong suit 🤣
/r/seduction01/11/21 06:44 PM
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All the women commenting that they do this as a way to filter… it’s fucking shitty. I’m working on my self esteem issues so being told that you don’t want to have sex with me just sounds like “you’re fucking ugly.” Fortunately this hasn’t happened yet but I don’t put myself out there a lot. I would hate to hear this just because I don’t even know how I’d react. I’d probably cry and vomit 😭
/r/seduction01/11/21 06:42 PM
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There should be no shame in wanting what you crave. Women have always had it easy the way they have so many options, and it’s been skewed tenfold with social media. My GF gets DM’s everyday on Instagram from guys willing to throw money without even knowing her. You sound like a confident guy who’s also finally realizing that he too can have options. More guys need to wake up to this!! Anyone telling you to “be happy you get anything” is just jealous because they aren’t putting themselves out the…
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:59 PM
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Definitely never become a shitty lover. Just set boundaries! When they ask “what are we” you tell them “you’re loyal to me and I’m single” 😂 For real tho, follow @Hoodville on Instagram and you could seriously learn a thing or two 😂😂😂
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:06 PM
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Yeah dude I feel you. My sister went out with her last boyfriend after only knowing him for a month, but he was able to hide all his red flags in that one month. Once they got serious he let them all out and she stayed way longer than she should have. It took me an entire year to officially call my current GF my GF. We spent that entire year together and were pretty much committed, but we also had our ups and downs in that year we were getting know each other. Not having that title made it a lot…
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:04 PM
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Aaahhhh that’s the fucking reason they don’t wanna leave you dummy… you know how many girls never experience an orgasm during sex??? If you’re giving them orgasms, of course they don’t wanna leave you!! 😂
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:11 PM
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I totally feel you bro, a lot of girls don’t see it but they LOVE RUSHING things. I had this one girl ask me “what are we” after like 3 dates… we hung out over a total of 9 hours and she was already willing to be committed to me. The scary thing is how normalized that is for women, to just rush into relationships with people they barely know. It has to do with them being afraid of doing the “hoe phase” and sleeping around, and you checking off all the boxes you fulfill. Some of the comments are …
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:05 PM
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LMFAOOO I don’t know if I’m being harsh but yo snoo ugly af so I feel like you are too 💀
/r/seduction21/10/21 06:31 AM
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Very sad to see people over complicate the dating experience. It’s as simple as putting yourself in a girls shoes. Try to live in the side of the “selector.” A girl is cute, hygienic, and interesting. She always comes to you for conversation and entertainment. You know her well enough over the course of a few weeks. If she were to ask you on a date, would you go? Just be normal.
/r/seduction13/10/21 12:40 AM
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Overthinking indeed. Stop making Reddit posts and go talk to her. There is no step by step guide you can do. If she likes you enough she’ll entertain a date or two, just don’t ask too soon. Let her get to know you.
/r/seduction12/10/21 11:23 PM
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Yeah dude, social media helps strengthen this fake “barrier” because unlike in real life where you talk to someone and they respond, online people have the choice of ignoring you. So when you don’t get an immediate response you might overthink and feel as though you’re not good enough, but that’s not true at all. If these online girls got to meet you in person they’d think differently, but it’s their loss. That’s also why spitting game IRL is the strongest suit. You start off strong in person, a…
/r/seduction12/10/21 05:19 PM
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Yeah Instagram is hella fake My girlfriend is one of those hot mysterious girls but I swear she’s silly when I’m with her Don’t let Instagram ever make you feel like a woman is unobtainable. If she acts like she is, move on cuz you don’t deserve that shit. Everyone’s equal. Some people got their head up in the clouds lol.
/r/seduction12/10/21 06:03 AM
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“If one girl makes you happy, imagine what five more can do.” Stay on that grind.
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:51 PM
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If you already made physical contact, you shouldn’t be afraid to do it again. “Hey I saw you wasted the other night are you okay??”
/r/seduction07/10/21 04:48 AM
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I know a few girls that opened up to me about their hoe behavior and because I was the most understanding, they decided to lock the goods behind a relationship lol. I feel like had I went the route of evading the “what are we?” Question like every guy in their lives did, I could’ve had sex, but it doesn’t sit with me well at all. I tried going the honest route and it’s cockblocked me. You though, got in a worse position of having to deal with a liar who wasn’t actually okay with it in the first …
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:33 AM
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PROTECTING HER FROM TEMPTATIO- BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:25 AM
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Holy crap is this true. A lot of the guys in my job are really timid around girls and while I’m not the most outgoing or confident, I have more success than them and it sucks that they aren’t enjoying the same things I am. Giving them advice and cheering them on to be more open and approaching makes me feel good. It’s like helping them helps me.
/r/seduction13/07/21 04:58 AM
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That attitude makes you even uglier so lose it and accept yourself for who you are. The faster you do it, the sooner you can get laid. You’re already halfway there! You accept that you’re ugly! So what are you gonna do to make yourself more handsome, handsome?
/r/seduction26/04/21 05:39 AM
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She didn't want you to post her because she didn't want her followers to think she was taken and unfollow. It's a real thing. Look at popular internet girls like Pokimane who lost Twitch subs (Money!) after her fans found out she was taken.
/r/seduction16/02/21 02:44 AM
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No way you just called pussy “tuna taco” I’m so sorry you first instinct was to call pussy anything associated to seafood 🤢
/r/seduction16/10/20 05:05 PM
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Also, these apps are designed to keep you on without giving you too much. My first Tinder account was dead, never got more than 5 matches after the months of making it. Thought it was cursed so I deleted it. When it asked why I deleted, I gave the reason "No Matches." Instantly after I deleted it I made a new account with the same phone number and right after finishing my profile I got 14 straight matches. Most of them were useless and nothing came out of it. And now it's back to square one. No …
/r/seduction19/05/20 02:29 AM
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Maybe make less eye contact? Eye contact is fine until it turns into a staring match that you feel trapped in.
/r/seduction14/04/20 01:39 AM
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Giving a card is a big no-no oh jeez lol last time I did that I was 11
/r/seduction26/01/20 04:08 AM
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
/r/seduction10/02/14 01:39 PM
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