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I utterly agree. It seems the PUA community has gone through a few phases. First, it was all tricks, gimmicks and methods. This had quite some success but it was eventually figured out it wasn't 100%. Which led onto the next phase which was more about becoming the boss of life. "Make yourself into a better person and the ladies will come". But now it seems the market has become saturated. Every man and his dog that has spoken to a women can claim he's a mPUA on the net. There's now a lot of "Set…
/r/seduction30/04/14 11:51 PM
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When a girl goes home with you from a club it can't be 'her fault'. Sometimes a simple 'let's go' while grabbing her hand to walk out is all that's needed. But often you'll get cockblocked by her friends or logistics. This is why it's a good idea to befriend her friends. They will trust you enough to let you take her home. Sometimes being insistent works, sometimes stealing her away from her friends works. But never ask politely.
/r/seduction14/12/13 03:31 PM
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In my experience when a female friend (usually it's a buddy's girlfriend) has an idea to set me up with someone in particular, it's often an undateable and chronically single friend of theirs. It's more of a favour to the girl than to me. However when it's my idea, such as I spot their friend on Facebook and ask to be setup, then it usually works out a lot better.
/r/seduction03/12/13 06:45 AM
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Elsewhere on reddit someone pointed out that a lot of girls will be going as Miley Cyrus this year. So it would be wise to dress in a black and white striped suit. Think about it. As a bonus it doubles as a beetljuice costume.
/r/seduction16/10/13 02:49 PM
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This isn't a question for /r/seduction. Just always wear a condom.
/r/seduction09/10/13 06:59 AM
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I tend to go with "what keeps you busy?"
/r/seduction01/10/13 06:36 AM
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I like to use "I'm actually saving myself for Jesus" in a comical way of course
/r/seduction25/09/13 08:58 AM
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Guided tour of the house which conveniently ends at your bedroom. Have a coversation going. Say you have to close the door so your talking doesn't disturb your housemates. Sit on the bed with her and escalate from there. If the situation is a little different and she wants to watch a movie, pick something you've both seen and don't mind missing the second half. I have guitars on display and she will inevitably ask me to play. Have a go-to song. Also make sure your bathroom is clean before bringi…
/r/seduction25/09/13 06:30 AM
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If the girl was on your lap getting you to grab her cheeks saying she loved penis. It really doesn't get more explicit than that. I would just go in for the make out.
/r/seduction27/08/13 07:04 AM
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If she's a HB10 then she probably gets a lot of random guys adding her. She probably doesn't even realise who you are. I'd let her go and remember to approach next time.
/r/seduction27/08/13 07:01 AM
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Well I don't. I just move on. But if I were to message them it would seem to be an effective approach.
/r/seduction13/06/13 09:26 AM
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You have to remember though he was referring to profiles which just have a picture or two and not much else. This leaves us guys nothing to work with when coming up with an opener. These kind of girls are generally either lazy or looking for validation. Other girls (which I'm guessing would include you) would actually fill out information on their profiles giving us the opportunity for a different opener.
/r/seduction13/06/13 01:39 AM
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The only thing more effective than a condom is abstinence. They are really your only two choices. The HPV vaccine only protects against 2 of the worst types of HPV (and 2 other low-risk types). You are still at risk of other strains, some of which are only temporary and have little significance. Which is why vaccinated girls are still urged to get regular pap smears. Men can get the same vaccine if they wish, up until the age of 26. Men mostly never develop any symptoms or health problems from H…
/r/seduction28/05/13 05:43 AM
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You might use "I have a boyfriend" as a last resort. Some girls use it as a reflex before giving a guy a chance. Some girls will get hit on many times in a night and will understandably get fed up with it. So they resort to "I have a boyfriend" as a quick and effective way to shut guys down. But that means in cases where it's a lie, it's not really a statement of disinterest in the guy, but a statement of disinterest in getting picked up in general. The girl may change her mind once she realises…
/r/seduction17/05/13 06:48 AM
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I hate it when people say the friendzone doesn't exist. The friendzone is where one party is romantically interested and the other party isn't but offers to be friends and the first party accepts those lesser terms, likely to their detriment. To say the friendzone doesn't exist is saying what I described does not happen.
/r/seduction14/05/13 02:15 AM
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Commit to learning and self-improvement. Learn what your ego really does and stop letting it control you Learn what it means to be a man Develop a craving for new experiences with people Learn to love yourself and trust in your faculties
/r/seduction13/05/13 05:46 AM
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What a horribly written article.
/r/seduction09/05/13 06:02 AM
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Sounds like you may just need to get back to your roots. Do an audit on your life and your desires. Write down the things you think you want and ask as many tough questions as possible "Why do I want this?" "What do I like about this?" etc. Think about where you want your life to head and ask yourself very honestly why you want that. This may draw out the root cause of some of your problems.
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:33 AM
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Progressive desensitization. Start small, say hi to people in the elevator. Once you feel ok with that. Say hi and make a comment even just on the weather. Keep going up and up until you are striking up full blown conversations with strangers. Speak to everyone, not just girls you want to hit on. Keep it challenging enough so you'll feel like you accomplished something but easy enough that you don't set yourself up for failure. Most of all, have patience, not just with the process but with yours…
/r/seduction06/05/13 07:39 AM
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This girl might be trouble. If a girl's last 5 boyfriends were assholes, guess what kind of behaviour she responds to? I'm not telling you to be an asshole, just don't try to be her knight in shining armor. However her boyfriend might actually be a good guy and she's just saying he's an asshole to make it sound justified. She also might not like you, but instead like the 'idea' of you - being an alternative to her shitty relationship. Anyway, when with her, don't join in on bad mouthing the guy,…
/r/seduction01/05/13 02:24 AM
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Sounds like she is using you to fill a gap that her boyfriend isn't filling. Move on. Best thing to do is to just cut off contact. She is going to take your attention away from other girls. Maybe sometime down the track, when she is single, she might come back and be ready. Until then, don't waste your time.
/r/seduction01/05/13 02:11 AM
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When I started this I always had big problems with kino. I felt like I was crossing boundaries or being disrespectful when I touched anyone. It took me quite a while, but I just practiced doing innocent touches on girls forearms and shoulders etc when I spoke with them. It didn't have to be in a sexual way. It was just to make myself comfortable with the concept. Eventually it became much more natural and I expanded from there.
/r/seduction01/05/13 12:49 AM
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Sounds like you nailed it. Well done!
/r/seduction21/04/13 03:46 PM
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I see, well that kinda gives a reason why she wouldn't offer an alternative, since it was a special one-time event. I would just make sure that I don't seem fazed by her flake and ask her out again. "Don't worry I still had a great time. What are you doing this weekend?" If you go down that path, probably best not to 'guilt' her into seeing you again. On the opposite end there's the more direct "Well you can make it up to me tomorrow by meeting me at [bar], wear something cute". It depends a lot…
/r/seduction19/04/13 05:49 AM
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Generally, when she tries to make alternative plans then she's still keen. "Sorry I can't make it tonight, can we do tomorrow night instead?" Otherwise it's a maybe. If she flaked on you in the last minute, just say something along the lines of "That's ok, I'll find some other dork to hang out with". Then give it a day or two to see if she replies. If she doesn't, maybe try again. Others will call girls out on it and tell them to be respectful of their time. But then the girl may have a legitima…
/r/seduction19/04/13 04:58 AM
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Sounds like she's basically in one of two categories - 1. She's nervous about meeting new people and wants to have her friends around at the same time to feel comfortable. She also doesn't hook up with just anyone and wants to be sure first. 2. She wants you as a friend only and doesn't see you in a sexual light. Number one shouldn't matter if once she hangs out with you discovers you make her feel comfortable and safe. Perhaps her level of comfort was the issue? But also she was the one to give…
/r/seduction18/04/13 01:53 AM
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I actually had the same kind of problem (and still sort of do). I had this notion that somehow I didn't deserve a lot of girls. Even though logically I might be a good match for them, I just automatically placed them out of my league. It was like a defeatist attitude where I would convince myself I wasn't good enough, on reflex. But then I discovered /r/nofap which actually helped a lot with removing this negative reinforcement I was placing on myself. It hasn't totally cured me of this, but it …
/r/seduction17/04/13 11:33 PM
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Just another old joke you may have heard, which this story reminded me about: When you want someone to mind your drink ask them "Do you have any rohypnol?" "No....?" "Good! Can you mind my drink for me?" Then walk away.
/r/seduction17/04/13 05:59 AM
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Hey just want to say, good for you for deciding to better yourself. The same thing happened to me about 5 years ago. I won't share my hard luck story, but I had hit rock bottom. I made a commitment to myself to better myself and become a more complete individual. People honestly don't recognise me anymore - physically and personality wise. I'll share some of the things I learned along the way. Set very small and achievable goals. Make sure they're challenging enough to be interesting but not too…
/r/seduction20/03/13 12:51 PM
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You probably have two options: just tell her or cut off contact for quite a while and approach her fresh. You can then approach her with a different frame, using lots of kino and hopefully build attraction again.
/r/seduction20/03/13 08:54 AM
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