Mcjnbaker Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Wife told me she wasn’t in love with me and wanted a divorce end of march. I moved out 3 weeks ago. Tonight she cried and asked me to move back in Only because she misses the security and the money and everything else you provided she does not miss you	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/26 03:10 PM
5	Feeling like a loser…and then… Marriage is a business decision and There is nothing but down side risk for a man in marriage!!! I hope you learn and don’t ever do it again	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/26 12:58 AM
3	How many times?! FILE	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/26 12:45 AM
2	Dumped her after I found out she was cheating. I wish you nothing but the best and as I always say 90% of the time there is nothing but down side risk in marriage for a man !!! What is it they say “Not all Men”???? The same way I say “Not all women”	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/26 04:58 PM
4	Dumped her after I found out she was cheating. Her life online is a mask for the dumpster fire that she as a human being truly is. All of the crazy is the fire getting out of the dumpster…. Let it go smash the gas to the floor on getting the divorce. Fast is key to your mental health give her whatever gets the deal done so you don’t let her take your happiness from you l	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/26 02:10 PM
12	Considering escort I had a friend once that told me if it Flys,Floats, or Fu$&s ——-lease it !!!! it’s way cheaper in the long run	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/26 01:58 PM
10	Divorce and Regret - Will she regret leaving? She will miss the convenience and surety you provided. Ie the money. That’s all	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 03:35 PM
10	How do you ban the thought of Su1cide as an easy way out of the nightmare? Easy two parter 1) ask yourself do you really want to give her everything??? 2) run!!! do not walk!!! And get your ass into some therapy!!! It’s amazing how fast a good therapist can turn you around!! You will get through this you will survive and get this. The most important thing you have to know. YOU WILL BE HAPPY AGAIN ONE DAY!!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 01:49 PM
5	Wife filed for divorce. Into 4th month. Let yourself get angry and the use that to get over. The problem is not you it’s her!!! You are enough. More then enough!!! You are a good husband you just need to find a stable partner that appreciates you for you!!! I would recomend you spend some quiet time developing your nonnegotiable list that you will have to have in your next partner!!!! Do not jump in and marry the first one out of the gate. Take your time!!! Find the right one and remember there is nothing but down side risk for men in…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/26 03:57 PM
26	Posting this for a friend. Just over 2 years post divorce and his ex ended up exactly where he thought she would. God this makes me so happy!!! Good for him!!! I shout it to all young men. “THERE IS NOTHING BUT DOWN SIDE RISK IN MARRIAGE”. Find a partner not another dependent!!!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/26 10:26 PM
4	Buying groceries for my kids till divorce Save receipts for everything and it sucks so bad about the kids make sure your lawyer knows and brings that up to the judge. Get yourself 50/50 on custody and try and minimize any support for her !!! I have watched it several times but as the kids grow and they learn and see her for who she truly is the kids will come around to your side and cut her out. It happens. Takes a while but it will happen!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/11/25 05:46 PM
5	STBXW wants to date after she moves out Run man. You are free and worth so much more then settling for that. Focus on you and finding someone worth your time and emotions	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/25 04:29 PM
5	4 years post divorce now Ex wants to change financial aspects of a divorce decree that SHE WROTE. Get a blood thirsty attorney do not wait another day	/r/Divorce_Men	02/11/24 08:26 PM