MeGotTolerantOfWomen Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector? Then I suspect you're exceptionally submissive and agreeable for the place you live and/or both of you and him haven't realized that the structure of social and legal incentives in your state favors you treating him badly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/20 05:11 AM
1	Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector? Good for him I guess. In what country do you live might I ask?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/20 04:33 AM
2	CMV: "the red pill" is actually one big complaint about "the patriarchy" If low value men are the right sacrifical lambs today, then everyone should openly accept that the low value women of the past were the right sacrifical lambs then. Except that's not what's happening. People mostly from the demographic groups benefitting from the actions of women's rights activists, who demanded and obtained enormous gains for low and high value women alike are now still defending the misandrist historical revisionism that brought those benefits to them and at the same time are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/20 03:26 PM
1	CMV: "the red pill" is actually one big complaint about "the patriarchy" Chiming in to correct you because as of yet, civilization would cease to exist without women as they're still needed to make babies. Otherwise, great chain of posts so far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/20 05:51 AM
1	Question for RP Guys, why should us women date you when the red pill theory is all about sex with as many women as possible? It is the stupid MGTOW and misogynist guys who go around telling women about the theories. I can see why you'd be upset about MGTOWS, stupid and intelligent, misogynist and semiogynist alike spoiling your market by letting the truth out about TRP psychopathic manipulation theories. It's really telling about which group actually includes the highest number of mysoginists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 11:56 AM
1	Question for RP Guys, why should us women date you when the red pill theory is all about sex with as many women as possible? You reached the correct and rational conclusion that you shouldn't date RP guys. The problem is that most women still do even after knowing this. "All" they'd have to do is not letting this rational thought be overridden by their predominantly biology-driven unconscious reflexes to fall for TRP persuasion manipulation tactics. I know it's not an easy task, so far women are just not having great results. Maybe nothing will change until they bring themselves to like and be attracted more by the gu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 11:40 AM
3	'' it was only when the dashcam footage was shown to her that she changed her account'' Of course, it's "just" an observation that tries to discredit and avoids facing the argument by painting the one who made it as an insane person, "desperately in need" of seeking psychiatric help. Totally not emotional language, totally not manipulative.	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/06/20 08:49 PM
2	'' it was only when the dashcam footage was shown to her that she changed her account'' I don't have nor desire relationships with women of any age, precisely because I prefer to spare myself the child-like mentality the vast majority of them has. I don't know how truthful the comments you received were, or how much the people giving them to you knew about your whole personality, but even if all of that was true, that would just make you an exception to the norm. Oh and nice try suggesting I'm a psychopath, I have resolved all my issues just fine. Such use of emotionally charged, p…	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/06/20 08:25 PM
1	Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector? That sounds awesome, just be sure to treat your husband well, and good luck!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/20 07:58 PM
4	'' it was only when the dashcam footage was shown to her that she changed her account'' The overwhelming majority of us men aren't pedos, but we are ephebephiles. We are very often sexually attracted to the young and fertile bodies of post-pubescence adolescent girls. Women's personality struggles to get past that development stage and almost invariably retains certain aspects of it that us men usually put up with to get access to sex, love and affection. Most of us though are also denying this fact even to ourselves, because culture has shamed us so much for having a natural behav…	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/06/20 11:48 AM
1	Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector? What the hell are you talking about a future with equality with no sex or pregnancy? Sex robots and artificial uterus, widely used and accepted by everyone. Btw I am amomg the other things also practicing my shooting skills, but only to be able to defend myself in case I need to survive a collapse and turmoil that often precedes the periods pf Renaissance. I'd never ever use violence to attack anyone, only in self defence, and in proportion to the threat that menaces me. The way you wouldn't lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/20 06:57 AM
1	Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector? It’s not about pleasing me, I’m already married. It was a general you, it's not about you specifically. If you want to be in a relationship you only need to please that one woman. It doesn’t matter what anybody else thinks. It isn’t that hard to find a woman. I currently don't want to be in a relationship. And even if I wanted it, it is hard to find a woman who doesn't want to be extensively* pleased first and foremost before even thinking about making some effort in being geniunely pleasing in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/20 10:27 PM
1	Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector? I never demanded equality. You know that not all women are a hive mind, right? I believe in equality of human rights, but that’s all. Too bad then. You're experiencing the consequences of the actions of groups of feminist men and women who demanded (for women only though) not just equality of human rights. Those groups of people have changed society so much so that they've directly or undirectly created and and educated a generation of men and women who are recognizing their hypocrisy but still …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/20 08:05 PM
1	Remember to always be yourself. Unless you suck Of course that puts most of them off. The idea the majority of women, and I suspect OP too, have of a yatch trip a man invites them to is one where he "puts himself at the center of attention" by doing all the hard work required to keep the boat afloat and headed in the right direction at the right speed, leaving her not lifting a finger and enjoing the sea, the wind and the view of a man performing for her... ergo, she's only going to be attentive to the man who (geniunely or otherwise) puts he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/20 11:32 AM
1	For men who are upset they can't express their dark emotions with women, why don't you channel those emotions into art instead? By the same reasoning, before the technological advancements that rendered women capable of joining the workforce en masse, the ones who didn't want to have children and be stay at home mothers were called useless to society and the gene pool, and outcasetd. If you think it's for good reason that ugly, weak and non neurotypically masculine men are outcasted and rejected you should also agree not to call the gender-non-conforming women of the past centuries oppressed, and rather say they were rig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 07:14 PM
1	For men who are upset they can't express their dark emotions with women, why don't you channel those emotions into art instead? Fortunately I already realized that you (plural you here and thereafter) basically never feel responsible for helping all men, especially gender-non-conforming heterosexual men included, and I did it in time to have most of my life ahead to try reach greatness while having to rely on myself alone... Unlike the men who women pity fucked and then divorce raped. You probably wouldnt like what the men you refused to support would do if they reach greatness though, but then again I suspect you may be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 09:51 AM
1	Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector? How convenient, you demanded equality where it suited you, just to then reject it where it doesn't. Or do you want to go back to the middle ages? No. The genie of equality is out of the lamp, and it won't go back inside. The men who you despise as unworthy of existing will make sure true equality will be reached. You know, not everyone of them is going to go on a homicidal rampage, commit suicide or waste their lives playing videogames; the ones who'll succeeed will have the power and determinat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 06:02 AM
1	For men who are upset they can't express their dark emotions with women, why don't you channel those emotions into art instead? Except that everyone feels pain not just a few niches of outcasts. I can't even imagine, at all, what kind of beta only likes something if it is popular or not. I wonder what it takes to not be able to think for yourself that hardcore. I think you should redirect this criticism to the masses of girls wetting their pants at the thought of their favorite popstar. As for myself, I love niche music, but I don't care who makes it. I can't even remember the face of most of my favorite artists. Speak f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 11:44 PM
3	For men who are upset they can't express their dark emotions with women, why don't you channel those emotions into art instead? Ah yes, when women rightfully demamded and still demand proper recognition and respect for the gender-non-conforming among them, they're real victims fighting against the patriarchy. When a man dares say something similar, he has a victim complex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 11:23 PM
2	For men who are upset they can't express their dark emotions with women, why don't you channel those emotions into art instead? Lol. What? If it isn't popular it wouldn't be very attractive except maybe to little niches of other outcasts. Precisely for this reason, the artistically underachieving acoustic guitarist doesn't get any unless for other reasons he's already attractive to begin with. And then there are the high acheiving male artists, who women find attractive, but again mainly not because of the art.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 11:06 PM
1	For feminist, blue pill, or pink pill women: How do the views that some of the men on this sub hold make you feel, and how does it affect your view of men? Sure I can. It all depends on the appropriate quantification of "some people". Unfortunately though, most often I have to call those delusional thoughts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 10:13 PM
8	For men who are upset they can't express their dark emotions with women, why don't you channel those emotions into art instead? Because of course the only reasonable thing to ask, sometimes to demand, is that the ugly (and most importantly also insecure men who probably are that way at least in big part because of the negative effects from a feminist upbringing/environment) should pull themselves from the bootstraps and magically become confident and high acheivers. To demand that society and women change their perception of ugly and insecure men in a more favorable way is unreasonable because it's never their responsibi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 09:38 PM
1	Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector? It may be true that you need a partner who can shoulder his load. I don't disbelieve it, and if it were just that, it wouldn't be something unreasonable to ask. But even if that's your case, in general it is publicly accepted that women strongly tend to prefer men who can shoulder their own load AND hers. Either this latter phenomenon stops or we as men should be legitimized by society in preferring women who'd shoulder our load too. I'm fine with either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 09:19 PM
1	Are that many men really surprised that women like and respond more positively to attractive men? I'm sorry I was being condescending. I know it's not a justification but I didn't understand well your claims and they appeared to me as coming from idiocy or bad faith. You will certainly make that impression if you spend so much time arguing with everyone in the thread trying to disprove a claim you actually don't disagree with. You seemed to perceive his claim as if it imploed that cis hetero women judging a man solely by his looks is all that happens. Hell, he's not even saying that it happe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/20 09:31 AM
3	Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector? Would you feel safe with him if he cries because he is depressed for some cause that you don't know, understand or seems to you exaggerated?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/20 09:13 AM
13	Are that many men really surprised that women like and respond more positively to attractive men? Then you're really bad at interpreting things or you are replying in bad faith and you're willfully misinterpreting the meaning of his statement. Let me ELY5 that; "looks always come FIRST" (implying that in most cases there are other things that are rated important, after looks are taken into account) ≠ "looks are ALWAYS the ONLY thing that matters" SOMETIMES (not always, and not even often) they are all that many women judge to decide letting a man into their lives, because even something as l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/20 11:49 AM
2	CMV: Playing hard to get is actually a good strategy in order to get with a high value male Youth and genetic health markers are important, but they are definitely not all that’s required if you are thinking of the next generation. I agree 100%. I find it amusing that people who have no interest in children are so concerned with genetics and physical perfection. I think I'm missing something, who are these people you're referring to? How you treat your children as their parents is truly the foundation of how they will raise their own, and how mentally stable and emotionally healthy the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/20 10:45 PM
1	Would you be offended if someone changed their opinion of you because of your n-count? Men who are okay with fucking prostitutes don’t do it once, they don’t stop, and they don’t see human beings as people. Nothing like consensual sex. Left there unchallenged those are nothing but a lot of heavy and baseless assumptions. Care to provide any hard evidence for backing these (pre)judices? No, anecdotal evidence gathered from hearsay, personal (biased) life experience, social media posts or claims from misandric organizations that use conveniently distorted or outright fabricated stat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/20 05:24 PM
2	CMV: Playing hard to get is actually a good strategy in order to get with a high value male So men can continue to act like apes for a tiny waist, fat ass, good face citing fertility as their drive (despite being childfree horndogs) but when it comes to women... quality dna is gone the way of the caveman? That is illogical. . This is correct. There is a double standard when a man argues that women should ignore instinct based attraction and men don't. And I would say that until humans are predominantly conceived via IVF and bred with artificial uteri the double standard is mostly justi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/20 04:12 PM
1	Why is FDS obsessed with Incels and unattractive men? That's not very intelligent for the ones who report themselves as being the best in selecting HV males...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 08:34 PM
1	The reason why women fear theredpill and mgtow Oh don't worry about that, the only reason I don't plan to do it right now is that I'm not financially independent yet, thus I wouldn't be able to dedicate my whole time to my progeny. You can rather redirect such advice to the single mothers who constitute 90% of the women on display on r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 08:09 PM
1	Why is FDS obsessed with Incels and unattractive men? The question I framed purposely avoided details about finance And none of the responses on FDS paused to ask about those?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 07:59 PM
1	Why is FDS obsessed with Incels and unattractive men? Don't even try and downplay their toxicity. It is about looks, and just yesterday I opened a thread where I asked if It's ok to be angry at my female friends for calling my crush ugly based on his appearance alone. The advice I've got from FDS veterans was that I should listen to my life-long friends, not date him because being in good terms with them is more important than dating a guy they dislike-- keep in mind all this was based on the fact that they didn't like the way he looked alone! WTF?…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 06:11 PM
3	Why is FDS obsessed with Incels and unattractive men? If incels had the same opportunities, access and lack of inhibition..... they probably wouldn't be incels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 06:05 PM
1	The reason why women fear theredpill and mgtow Too bad, when I retire early I'll probably start thinking about getting a surrogate and propagate my very misogynist genes. It will depend on the sociocultural attitude towards single dads and the level of freedom in educatiom in the place I will have moved to retire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 04:32 PM
2	The reason why women fear theredpill and mgtow I'm fine with actual hos. Sugarbabies and camwhores on the other hand are as shitty a deal as marriage and LTRs. You still end up spending a considerable amount of money, and get a miniscule part of what was agreed upon when marriage was a mutually advantageous and respected contract, if you get anything at all other than some mediocre flapping material. Plus, most sugarbabies and camwhores engage with their counterparts in the same kind of hypocritical way many modern women do. They often stubb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 03:49 PM
1	If women are "equal" to men...... You do realize that even in that scenario women would mostly "just" get captured and held as prisoners rather than spill a lot of their blood? The antiegalitarian civilizations that would be at war with us still value women's lives more than mens, as it has always been. I mean, I'm all in for conscription of women (edit: in the remote case conscription renders itself necessary again) ...but I think if one really wants to go full authoritarian and actually make women forcibly repay their collecti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 05:28 PM
2	If women are "equal" to men...... Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 05:07 PM
2	Never forget about how the male sexlessness rate has doubled in the past 10 years since dating apps and smart phones came out Give them a lot of positive attention as well as active concrete help in their herculean undertaking (mind, not pussy, not unless you have an incel fetish, but in that case you'd find them attractive as they are) ...preferably just a slightly lower amount of help and positive attention than what most women receive by many men, because such amount is usually deemed as eccessive. And don't stop giving your attention even when it will inevitably be perceived as sexual interest, just be direct but r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 04:47 PM
1	MGTOW is the most beta a man can be. Hell, even just calling yourself MGTOW is a huge indicator against that. It could be. I think that would depend on how much one lets the label define themselves as a whole. I made that choice, but I didn't choose to call myself this way, I merely found out that that's how people online call my choiche. And my username is nothing more than a jest on those who think my life choices are the epitome of misoginy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 12:30 AM
1	MGTOW is the most beta a man can be. Good for you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 12:14 AM
1	MGTOW is the most beta a man can be. I agree. I'm m actually quite ashamed of myself for the time I waste here. It's a weakness I'm trying to get ahold of. I'd say I have done great progress though, life is going great and the effort I'm putting into reaching my goals is slowly bearing good fruit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 12:13 AM
1	MGTOW is the most beta a man can be. It's not about regretting having money. It's about regretting not having been able to fulfill your own biological imperative. It doesn't matter how much you tell yourself you don't have one. THAT is the biggest cope here. The vast majority of people will feel that drive sooner or later in life and it tends to manifest itself very differently between the two biological sexes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 12:01 AM
1	MGTOW is the most beta a man can be. unaware young educated women without kids outearn their male counterparts. Oh, I am very much aware of that. I also am aware that they very often end up regretting more things about their lives than their counterparts. But I'm not expecting it like I'm going to cheer for it or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/20 11:29 PM
3	People who sincerely HATE the opposite gender, what do your real-life interactions with them look like? Great post OP. I never consciously hated women in the past, and I don't hate them now, quite the opposite I must say. If anything, it's all my years spent before the serious research and reflection that led me to go MGTOW that were the ones in which I held the highest amount of false beliefs and prejudices about women (negative and positive). Now I view them and try to treat them exactly like I do with men and myself: as adult human beings who, as flawed as we are, can (edit: potentially) be cap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 05:46 PM
6	People who sincerely HATE the opposite gender, what do your real-life interactions with them look like? Well, if you (edit: plural you, not necessarily pointing the finger now) hate the opposite gender, it would obviously make sense to rationalize and generalize that gender as the only one mostly incapable of restraining itself when harboring hateful feelings, beliefs and prejudices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 03:06 PM
1	Who has it harder, Men or Women? I agree with all you said. I got the impression before that you were excusing the bad treatment that today's society gives to most men by trying to shift the attention to those few who (by luck and privilege, and merit) have it all. I think we can agree that most men have it harder than most women who both have it much harder than a few top men, without necessarily implying different degrees of victimhood status?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 08:32 PM
2	Who has it harder, Men or Women? Spoken like a true AnCap. I'm sorry, I don't think this discussion is going to be productive if you can't recognize the power of the natural distorting forces that invariably drive your utopian idea of free market economy into becoming a regulated oppressive one. I'll just add that: Just because it's natural doesn't mean it's good, unless your ideal of a good society is a hunter gatherer one. Humans are a special kind of living beings, evolved to reach a level of abstract thought that has lead u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 08:19 PM
2	Who has it harder, Men or Women? That's a lot to think about, thanks. I'm going to address only a small part of it though, partly because I'm short on time and partly because I feel this discussion is starting to straw off path... Hardness is relational, and my personal experiance does tell me the same. The life moments i am proudest of and feel most achieved were the ones where i overcame hardship, especially one i didnt think i would and that frustrated me to no end. I think you can't generalize this to apply onto an overwhel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 06:39 PM
2	Who has it harder, Men or Women? I don't even know what top level life achievements are for each group and i don't think it is a thing you know, and one that you can't define correctly. I agree here, and that's precisely why I refrained from defining those myself. I don't know them either. The best I could give would be speculation about more or less plausible hypothesis. But I think the science can get there eventually. nor do i think having it hard and top level life achievements are in odds to each other I disagree here. To …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 04:28 PM
2	Who has it harder, Men or Women? But, a laissez-faire free market economy naturally tends towards the formation of monopolies ...with the great sacrifice and ultimately the annihilation of all actors who can't reach ever heightening barriers to entry, despite even the best efforts. What you're telling men is that it's still better to be the gender who's required and forced to enter a highly competitive and harsh market because that'll give them the slimmest possibility of succeeding, and perhaps becoming (through serious sacrif…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 04:10 PM
2	Who has it harder, Men or Women? I'm sorry you had to endure the (edit: kinds of) hardships most men and boys are subjected to. Assuming you are a woman, have you ever thought about the possibility of yourself being more of an outlier among your gender?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 03:31 PM
3	Who has it harder, Men or Women? Almost all richest persons are men. Basically all historical relevant persons are men I don't think u/Sir_manalot was asking what percentage of the richest and publicly influential persons are male. I'm gonna have to call you out for the usual Apex Fallacy there. I think he asked what percentage among males gets the "highest rewards". I will add two specifying questions: What percentage among the human male population reaches the top level life achievements as defined by the majority of that dem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 03:17 PM