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FundamentalsMeWuzBornIn1990/r/seduction16/02/22 12:49 PM
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1

Just be honest and say something like “I’m in between jobs at the moment and saving up to get a new ride.”
/r/seduction06/10/22 12:08 PM
1

I’m a geologist who’s been working in a civil engineering-related field making the same as a civil engineer and I never felt like that was a benefit or even a factor when it came to dating. Dressing well and having a good, physically fit appearance overall is the biggest and most crucial factor.
/r/seduction30/08/22 08:11 PM
33

Virtually all career fields don’t pay amazingly immediately upon graduating.
/r/seduction30/08/22 08:06 PM
2

The absolute best thing from my experience is finding a good woman who you can be in a committed relationship with. Sex with someone you care about and who cares about you is vastly different than a one night stand or random hookup.
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:41 PM
0

Well, some of them are going out in cities where there’s literally hundreds of thousands of single women.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:14 PM
1

Propranolol
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:05 PM
1

Going to the gym and lifting weights is one of the most important and best things you could do for yourself.
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:05 AM
1

I agree, OP. Game simply allows one to put themselves out there, and with above average game, this allows for more candidates to chose from.
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:28 AM
2

https://www.playingfire.com/6-highly-successful-tinder-photos-for-men-why-they-work/
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:36 PM
1

Have extremely good pics and a decent/funny/witty bio.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:16 PM
2

Bumble.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:14 PM
1

Dude. Don’t worry about it. I didn’t have a truly amazing sex life until after I had graduated and got into a serious relationship.
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:15 PM
1

“I have a graduate degree” = at the very least 25-26.
/r/seduction02/07/22 01:47 AM
1

Focus on your ambitions/hobbies/goals/purpose/tasks at hand more than you focus on her.
/r/seduction01/07/22 10:22 AM
1

Saying something jokingly about their profile.
/r/seduction01/07/22 10:15 AM
6

I interpret that as: never overly invest into any one person until you’re in a legitimate and serious committed relationship (marriage), because any given second the woman could decide she’s no longer likes you and ghost you.
/r/seduction01/07/22 09:35 AM
4

Women just want to be led.
/r/seduction01/07/22 09:33 AM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:58 PM
0

Define “huge.”
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:01 PM
1

Yes. I’m 32 and my gf is 27. Most of the girls I dated before her were in their early to late twenties as well.
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:44 AM
2

No.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:45 AM
3

Yes. White men are too afraid of being called a racist or misogynist nowadays.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:24 PM
17

That all women just want to be led by a decent guy.
/r/seduction19/06/22 03:47 PM
2

That or domineering as well — you simply need to be confident in your decision making. That is all.
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:55 PM
8

Just be assertive, but be respectful; be decisive, but don’t be demanding. Ex: Instead of being like “so where would you like to eat?” say, “hey I’m feeling pizza let’s go check out this spot I discovered.” Basically, just live your life like you normally would and do what you want to do and she’ll go along with you if she’s truly into you.
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:38 PM
76

For you to lead them.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:08 PM
0

NOPE.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:14 PM
5

Yea. Isn’t the average height of a woman 5’5”?
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:15 AM
2

“I really like spending time with you and would like to continue doing so, but I’m not looking to be in a relationship.”
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:40 PM
1

Start making out with her for a good 10-15 minutes and then proceed from there?
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:52 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:58 AM
2

Well, the only genitalia made fun of in pop culture is the male variant. Nobody makes fun of “small boobies” or “loose cooters,” but definitely small penises are mocked. Also, wtf is this doing on this sub?
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:34 PM
1

A what?
/r/seduction22/05/22 01:57 AM
4

It caused me to gain about 15-20 pounds due to the drinking and eating out at bars.
/r/seduction14/05/22 02:30 AM
3

Just take it easy and be yourself. You’re not trying to impress your date — you just want to casually get to know one another and see if you have common interests and whatnot. Also, make lighthearted conversation throughout the date and keep from making it like an interview where you’re grilling each other. Don’t be afraid to tease her and make jokes!
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:24 PM
5

Just shoot your shot. Message her and say something like “Hey, let’s go get drinks here soon. Are you free to go out Friday night after 7?” Either she’s down or she isn’t. If she isn’t then it’s no big deal and no worries — there’s someone else out there who will go out with you.
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:13 PM
3

You first talked to her online? If so, it’s possible in person you just weren’t the type she’s into and there was no chemistry as a result.
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:04 PM
-1

Pics?
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:57 AM
0

Damn, sounds based af.
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:49 PM
3

Why and how exactly would a brown person be exotic in Colombia?
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:38 PM
28

No, leave her ASAP. Don’t waste your precious, valuable time on bullshit games. Find a girl who’s truly interested in you.
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:31 PM
3

Why does it matter to you to admit to being a virgin to her?
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:07 PM
3

I’m 32 and moved to a new city (right before the COVID-19 lockdowns) and I’ve just not been able to put myself out there. Funny though, because I’ve been on lots of dates within the last few months, but I know my lack of a social circle effects me greatly in the dating realm.
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:32 PM
5

This is good, thanks! Damn, just wish I had friends, though.
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:12 PM
1

But it’s true.
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:27 PM
21

Speak your mind and don’t be afraid to be your authentic self.
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:24 PM
9

It’s only creepy if the woman finds you unattractive.
/r/seduction03/05/22 05:43 PM
2

I figured you were in a HCOL area. But out of all seriousness, never be afraid to be your authentic self around women.
/r/seduction02/05/22 09:15 PM
4

Oh yeah, man. Don’t tell them since 90k after taxes is only “okay money.” /s
/r/seduction02/05/22 09:06 PM
1

You mean when they’re wearing heels?
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:21 PM
2

I just try to setup a date for drinks in around 4-5 massages. From personal experience, most women who agree to get drinks will also agree to come back and watch a movie later. Plus, getting drinks first beforehand will allow you to vet them and make sure they’re not crazy.
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:05 PM
8

Yeah, you should take a break for a while and take up a new hobby or aim to crush some PRs in the gym, etc. Most especially since “trying to attract women” is causing you so much mental distress.
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:55 AM
12

Quit making “attracting women” your focus and instead refocus all of your attention on becoming your high and best self and work on your purpose.
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:19 AM
1

Also, another trick is to focus on something about her (face, ass, tits, whatever) you find is sexy.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:58 PM
7

Lay together naked and watch videos/a movie while cuddling. Just relax and whatever you do don’t think about trying to get hard. Just focus on being present.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:03 PM
1

Just go out and have a few drinks and some good. It’s not weird to go to a bar by yourself. Don’t let anyone tell you it is.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:53 PM
8

Make her cum with your tongue/fingers and just relax. Take deep breaths. Cuddle for a while after getting her off. Try your best to get into the moment and out of your head. The issue is not with you — it’s because you’re in your head.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:48 PM
2

Practice stoicism and understand that a meaningful life is full of struggle.
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:54 PM
2

Profile pics are more important than anything else on OLD apps.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:49 AM
1

You’ll have to reach out to them first in order to break the existing “office politics dynamic.” It’s weird but true.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:30 AM
10

Sounds like you’re not attracted to her.
/r/seduction22/04/22 02:31 AM
2

I would steer clear of any woman who fetishizes skin color. That’s just mental.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:26 PM
1

Ah, but you can talk about Europeans and Asians as a group and call them racists collectively? Yeah, exactly what I thought. Cry me a river.
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:50 PM
2

It’s interesting how you subtlety infer that racism is something that people only do towards blacks. It’s funny, though, because from personal experience, I’ve found blacks as a group to be MUCH more racist than anyone else. They’re just allowed to get away with it due to political correctness.
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:33 PM
3

Good comment. Also, if a dude is white but broke he’s going to have significantly less success than a dude who’s black and solidly middle class. The West consists of class based society’s — not race based ones and people who insist that race is of any significant importance are mistaken.
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:31 PM
3

It’s funny because from personal experience I’ve found blacks as a group to be MUCH more racist than anyone else. (They’re just allowed to get away with it.)
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:28 PM
4

I’ve never in my life known a woman who thinks a man is attractive simply because of the color of his epidermis.
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:26 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:34 AM
1

Just be proud of where you are. Know that self-improvement is a never ending quest, so keep improving day by day. And learn and understand female nature.
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:09 PM
1

Yeah that is true you have less time for it. I work ~50 hours a week and get laid very infrequently (like 2 times a week from one or two of the girls I’m seeing, who I met off bumble). It’s tougher for us, but doable.
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:37 PM
2

I’ve had the most success with bumble. I have a gf from it now, but I got around 20 dates with women over the span of a few months on it and that’s being very picky about who I swiped right on.
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:16 PM
4

Yes.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:37 PM
2

You need to go speak to a mental health professional and I’m saying that out of love not hate.
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:07 AM
-1

Stop being skinny and go lift weights.
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:01 AM
1

Social status. Also, it seems that most people with a high social status don’t generally worry much about money. So I feel social status and money are very much related to one another.
/r/seduction05/04/22 01:39 PM
40

Hold both of her hands behind her back when doing it doggystyle.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:54 PM
0

Lmaoo
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:26 PM
2

It’s the same when you only have sex and refrain from masturbating between sexual encounters.
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:08 PM
2

That age range is perfectly acceptable. Anyone who thinks it’s weird is themselves weird.
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:32 PM
18

Use it as a supplement to going out irl and meeting people.
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:59 PM
2

In the summer a fitted black t-shirt with dark denim jeans and boots or sometimes white sneakers if during the day.
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:47 PM
9

Never take dating advice from a woman, lol.
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:37 AM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction23/03/22 02:44 PM
-1

Touching and physical escalation in general will get you laid.
/r/seduction20/03/22 11:58 PM
2

I’m 31 and my dating pool has consistently been 22-28.
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:46 AM
3

Only boomers and nerds will perish.
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:36 AM
14

^
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:52 PM
1

One of the hardest things for me to grasp was that girls just want to have fun. That’s it. They want sex just as much as you do.
/r/seduction05/03/22 06:34 PM
2

After at least 5 or 6.
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:22 PM
1

Tell them you like their aesthetic.
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:01 PM
3

Most of the women have been between the ages of 25-31.
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:55 PM
45

I solely use Bumble, but if I’m interested in getting drinks I’ll always say “hey, let’s get drinks one night soon. Let me know which days you’re free. If you’d rather then just text me” and leave my number. I haven’t had a match not text me back.
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:55 PM
0

So something you can immediately do to feel better about yourself and become more attractive is start going to the gym and lifting weights.
/r/seduction27/02/22 03:55 PM
1

Ya
/r/seduction25/02/22 01:10 PM
1

Why can’t you get to class a little early and take all of 15 seconds to ask her to hangout sometime?
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:10 AM
2

100%.
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:55 AM
1

Just go get drinks at a cozy bar or pub or some type of lounge with a more intimate setting.
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:18 PM
1

Have you had many girls refuse to come over and have wine? Also, how’d you properly vet these women before allowing them to see where you live?
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:15 PM
2

1000% this!!
/r/seduction24/02/22 03:15 AM
1

Something similar like that happened to me. To make a long story short, she wasn’t over her ex and you dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:54 PM
4

I don’t get any matches on Tinder, but match with solid 7-8s every day on Bumble. Allegedly 41 people have liked me on Tinder, but I’ve only managed to match with 8 of them.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:48 PM
1

It’s because society is sick and unhealthy.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:48 PM
8

Post your profile for us to review. If you have decent pics, a non-kooky bio, and don’t dress like a goofball then there’s zero reason why you shouldn’t be getting matches.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:11 PM
14

I disagree. The number one biggest hindrance to men on online dating is having shit-tier pics. I have three decent pics of me doing stuff in real life and one extremely good pic I had a friend take of me sitting at a bar. Due to that pic alone I get multiple matches on Bumble per day and can easily go on dates with multiple women each week. NOT trying to brag, just trying to emphasize how important having a good main profile pic is, because your first impression and appearance is everything — do…
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:08 PM
2

Being able to have sex and being able to form relationships are two totally different things. But I wouldn’t expect you to understand, since you’re dumb.
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:15 PM
1

I meet and date women and sleep with them, but I have difficulty forming relationships with them.
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:13 PM
2

You can literally go anywhere in that city and be okay lol.
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:21 PM
39

False. The number of men who are involuntarily celibate is way higher than the number of women who are. The difference is extremely disproportionate. Also, the average woman is capable of getting sex from >80% of men if they truly desired, whereas the average man isn’t so lucky.
/r/seduction20/02/22 07:07 PM
61

Girls sleep around way helluva more then people here even want to admit.
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:15 PM
10

Same here. Now I’m 31 and never have been in a relationship longer than a few months. 🥴
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:11 PM
2

Oh ok
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:44 AM
3

You dumb guys are always saying foolish things. Get a life.
/r/seduction18/02/22 09:00 PM
4

Pretty sure you were generalizing, but then again you’re clearly dumb.
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:54 PM
0

I definitely do not like ratchet, low IQ brown thots.
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:50 PM
4

True.
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:49 PM
3

I feel for ya, bro. Just keep on working on yourself while simultaneously being in the lookout for women to chat up in the meantime.
/r/seduction17/02/22 04:58 PM
2

You’re right. Tbh, I don’t think she was ever truly interested and was trying to force herself to show interest in me.
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:49 PM
1

The issue is that she showed interest on the first and second date. Where I fucked up was not going for the kiss on the second date. But in the end, she just wasn’t into me.
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:35 PM
2

Propranolol.
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:29 PM
1

Look into Promescent.
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:27 PM
1

I was dating four other women (having sex with two of them) until I broke it off because I want to be in an LTR with this one.
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:15 PM
6

I’ve been the one who went for the kiss on the last three dates.
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:49 PM
9

I paid for our dinner dates simply because I’m the one who asked her and I feel like if I’m asking someone to go do something I should pay for it.
/r/seduction16/02/22 01:43 PM
1

This is a good comment ^ Some girls just like to take it really slow. Also, she sounds like she’s not very experienced.
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:00 PM
2

Respond with “I don’t play games.” Then ask her when she’s free to meet up.
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:55 PM
1

You’re not in the right headspace to have (and maintain) a gf at the current moment, no offense.
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:11 AM
12

Certain medications can constrict the pupils, too.
/r/seduction12/02/22 01:33 PM
2

You need to focus on your purpose rather than on girls. A girl is a supplement to your (what should be an already busy) life.
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:22 AM
3

Cringe. No human being is perfect.
/r/seduction12/02/22 12:52 AM
73

If you must text them, do something like sending a pic of something you saw earlier in the day to her along with a funny story or whatever. Not only does that seem like you’ve got a lot stuff going on (which you should), but it’s also original and doesn’t come off as cheesy or try hard. Every girl is different though. I matched with a solid 8.5/10 on Bumble and she thought I wasn’t interested in her (after three dates!) because I didn’t text her enough. To be fair, she’s also only been in one re…
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:32 PM
2

Yea, that does happen and it has throughout all of human history.
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:27 PM
1

Women shouldn’t define your existence as a man.
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:29 PM
3

No, but definitely depends on the girl and the context. Some just aren’t comfortable with it. But I’ve also held hands (and had sex) on the first date several times so everyone’s different.
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:00 AM
4

Take a chill pill.
/r/seduction06/02/22 02:54 AM
9

Most are normal just like any other girl and don’t look anything like their pics in day-to-day life.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:57 AM
1

Lol, no.
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:29 AM
3

What do you mean by “bodyrocking”? Also, sounds like they’ve talked once or twice before at least.
/r/seduction02/02/22 08:54 PM
118

Just be honest with her.
/r/seduction30/01/22 08:10 AM
2

Also you give off a more confident, less scarcity-minded vibe in general.
/r/seduction29/01/22 08:55 PM
1

Yes. I’ve matched with women on Bumble who I met at a bar or brewery for a few drinks then brought home and smashed.
/r/seduction29/01/22 05:19 PM
4

Cope af.
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:38 PM
2

You can say anything — make some type of observation, ask them a question, ask for directions, compliment their shoes, etc. Just make sure after you do that you make your intentions known as soon as possible.
/r/seduction28/01/22 12:52 PM
1

You’ll know when it’s right to kiss her, but you’ll also be late by a hot minute, too.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:05 PM
23

I had a weed addiction back in 2020 and it made me extremely introverted where all I did was play video games after work — as opposed to leave my house and walk around the city I live in, which has tons of beautiful women.
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:48 PM
2

Yes. Also, once you can deadlift 225 for reps, you can literally manhandle any girl you date… with extreme ease.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:13 AM
1

9, 14, and 16, very much so
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:03 PM
1

Never try to give advice again. Ever.
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:46 AM
1

Don’t worry about asking for her number. Just ask her to go hangout somewhere with you simple and low pressure like getting a drink or coffee.
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:17 AM
0

Yeah, okay, black boy. No white dude is picking up brown or black girls in areas where whites are the minority. Lmfao. What a joke. Why would any white person go to the most dangerous areas of the country hahaha. Are you even from the U.S.? Didn’t think so.
/r/seduction25/01/22 12:51 AM
17

Sorry, man — she’s just not that interested in you and it is what it is. Anyway, you deserve to find and meet another girl who’s interested in you.
/r/seduction24/01/22 05:33 PM
2

America is barely majority white (~57% non-Hispanic white to be exact). Plus, there’s tons of areas in multiple states where there’s hardly any white people, so the idea that someone who’s non-white would have difficulty in these areas is foolish.
/r/seduction24/01/22 02:54 PM
1

You want to have non-serious conversations and joke around with them.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:33 PM
5

No problem, man. But also if you know you’re going to have sex later in the evening or night, I’d recommend masturbating a few hours beforehand. However, the more you have sex with this girl the longer you’ll last. I wouldn’t worry about it.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:25 PM
8

It’s not a failure at all. This happens to even experienced pornstars. If that ever occurs again, simply go down on her (take as much time as needed) and get her off. Then, ideally, you should be good to go again. If not, cuddle for a bit after you get her off and then go for round two. Also, make sure you’re breathing as deeply as possible and start doing kegel exercises if you’re not already.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:10 PM
4

I agree. Also, coffee is a better date than drinks because you get to speak with this girl for at most an hour and that’s a helluva enough time to determine if she’s worth anymore of your energy or not.
/r/seduction23/01/22 02:05 AM
4

It’s a very good, low-investment way to filter out women who are suitable for dating.
/r/seduction22/01/22 06:17 PM
0

She’s wanting a real man and that’s a shit test.
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:59 PM
0

Yes. It’s a shit test.
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:56 PM
3

From your experience, would you say that the majority of women who are even willing to come over, cook together, and watch a movie would be expecting a kiss at some point that night?
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:37 PM
2

Very good point. I’ll definitely go for the kiss before dinner. Also, we’ve hugged and held hands on the second date, but I don’t consider those truly as “breaking the touch barrier.” So I’m definitely going to have to make a more personal move on this date.
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:24 PM
11

My first date with this girl I’m talking to (met on Bumble) was getting coffee and then chatted for an hour. The second date was getting Mexican food; and then chatted for an hour and a half. The third date is this Saturday and she’s coming over to my place to cook dinner together and watch a movie. If everything continues to go well, which I do believe it is considering she’s agreeing to come over and whatnot, then I’m going to try to escalate things further, but I’m also unsure as to exactly h…
/r/seduction20/01/22 02:23 PM
2

I agree with that. I’ll often match with girls on Bumble who I never get a chance to meet up with in person and there’s been several I’ve messaged after a month or two and they’ve always been very receptive and willing to go out.
/r/seduction19/01/22 10:23 PM
1

Interesting. I put that I’m strictly looking for a relationship (which is 90% true; 10% of me wouldn’t mind a fwb relationship with the right girl) and I seem to primarily attract girls who are looking for a LTR, although these are very high-quality women. So I was just curious.
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:08 PM
3

Dating apps are definitely a crutch — especially so if you’re above average with good pics, as you’ll have a steady stream of matches and won’t ever have to rely on developing irl game, which differs significantly from online game. Curious about this — on Bumble did you set your “looking for” to relationship or something casual and did whichever option you picked make any difference to the quality of matches?
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:11 PM
24

You could try to initiate a date with her. Just say something like “Hey! I’ve been really busy with work, but I’m free this weekend. You free to get drinks?”
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:03 PM
1

Not at all creepy
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:01 PM
2

Have you kissed her yet?
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:14 AM
3

I was considering hiring someone to take pics of me. The thing is you don’t want them to look too professional. Girls have told me that it can look a little weird when guys are posing in obvious photo shoot-tier pics.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:10 PM
9

I had a female coworker take a pic of me sitting at a bar and it turned out really well and that’s what I used for my main pic.
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:43 PM
16

Better profile pictures helped me tremendously. Like I can’t state enough how many more matches I got after getting good pics of me on my bumble.
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:12 PM
1

This is extremely good advice.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:52 PM
1

I’ve had two different girls bring me back to their place but then didn’t want to have sex unless we were going to be exclusive, so I’d say it’s more like 60%.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:51 PM
1

Invite her to cook together like someone else suggested but also add in a movie.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:49 PM
1

Therapy will substantially help you.
/r/seduction16/01/22 04:35 PM
2

Got my gym regimen and diet straightened out and back on track, started reading much more, meditating, focused on crushing it at work, learned other skills like coding and started working on learning a second language, and several other things pertaining to self improvement.
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:32 PM
3

For simply being a better, more well rounded individual, I recommend “How To Win Friends And Influence People” by Dale Carnegie
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:36 AM
1

One of the funniest fucking things I’ve ever read on Reddit.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:33 AM
1

Lmfao
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:15 AM
2

Ok. This sucks.
/r/seduction16/01/22 04:18 AM
1

Lmfao!!!
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:01 AM
1

Idiotic comment, lmfao.
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:58 AM
265

Tbh, after around 15-20 different women, I started feeling like sex was the same old same and it left me with this internal void I couldn’t fill. So I focused on myself for a year (zero females in my life) and then I started dating again with the intent to be in a relationship. Once in a relationship with an incredible woman who is just cool as hell, I’ve realized that nothing in the world compares to sex with someone who you have feelings for and who has feelings for you.
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:44 AM
2

Invite him over to watch a movie.
/r/seduction14/01/22 09:04 PM
1

Have you considered joining a boxing gym? Do you lift weights at a normal gym? (I’d suggest both as both are great ways to meet people who also tend to be more of a loner than a social pariah.)
/r/seduction14/01/22 01:14 AM
1

Not if you live in Midtown, Buckhead, areas of Sandy Springs, and certain areas of Roswell and Alpharetta.
/r/seduction13/01/22 10:38 AM
1

Any place where there’s people going about their day.
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:43 AM
3

Bro, I’m also talking to a girl with a PhD in psychology, but we’ve met up already and she asks me tons of questions and is very conversational. So I think it’s not the same girl 😂
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:36 AM
1

Anywhere.
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:03 AM
3

It’s one of the fastest-growing cities in the country and the average age is 34.
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:06 PM
72

Just do it only once per week without porn and go for as long as you can. Nothing wrong with that and it won’t negatively effect you — it’s some of the people who get off to hardcore porn who have difficulty functioning like a normal human being around females.
/r/seduction12/01/22 10:46 PM
7

Maybe they simply wanted a ONS?
/r/seduction12/01/22 03:18 PM
1

Bumble, tbh. Last weekend I went on dates with four different women and three of them want to hangout again. I honestly don’t approach women in the gym anymore (I did in college) simply because there’s only a dozen or so who go to the gym I go to, which is on the smaller side of gyms. Other than that, I’ve had luck at Breweries where I live, which there’s a shit ton, and some are definitely better than others when it comes to being a “singles meetup spot.” I’ve yet to approach a woman in a books…
/r/seduction12/01/22 12:24 PM
101

In the US southeast I’m saying Atlanta, Charlotte, and Nashville. Not sure about the rest of the country.
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:56 AM
1

Everyone has their own personal tastes and preferences and that’s okay, so I’d just try to interact on an individual basis with the ones you find attractive and see where it goes. Let them get to see you as an individual and don’t worry so much about what their preferred type of guy may or may not be.
/r/seduction11/01/22 08:56 PM
1

I think at least 40+ in age for the woman. Like she could be 40 and the guy is only 35, but he’s still “smashing a cougar.” I feel the term “cougar” implies a more mature age to an extent, so therefore the woman being at least 40.
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:25 PM
19

The part about how time is ticking for 30+ women is so true and you can definitely feel it. Almost every woman I’ve been out with who was 30+ has wanted a serious relationship to the point where I’ve had to bail on them because they wanted an agreement to be in a committed, monogamous relationship before we had sex, which is something I don’t get into until I’ve at least slept with them a few times.
/r/seduction11/01/22 02:48 PM
19

I’m 31 and currently smashing a 38-year-old woman.
/r/seduction11/01/22 02:45 PM
3

Three of the girls were matches off Bumble. The fourth I cold approached at a brewery and I was there by myself (it’s a three minute walk from my house and I go there often, so I’m very familiar with it and what times to go). All I did was walk up and say “hi” and things kinda just fell in place.
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:41 AM
3

One thing that’s helped me is reading a lot of different things across all different genres. It’s not so much that I’m talking about the stuff I read, but it helps provide me with different perspectives and worldviews which I can draw from when conversing with women and I feel it’s definitely made me better able to carry conversations really well, and has also helped in preventing me from running out of things to say or talk about.
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:32 AM
3

Yeah, for sure. Especially considering how the average height in the U.S., as an example, is 5’9” for men.
/r/seduction10/01/22 11:04 PM
1

I should’ve specified, sorry — it’s the cartoon one neither of us has seen yet.
/r/seduction10/01/22 04:28 PM
8

They’ve tremendously improved my dating life — in unexplainable ways. Over the weekend I went on four dates with four different girls. The first girl came home with me after we bar hopped/went bowling for several hours. The second girl I met for a coffee date and she enthusiastically mentioned how she’s up to meet again, which I definitely will set up later in the week. The third girl I met up with at a brewery and kiss-closed, and also set up another tentative date with for next weekend. The fo…
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:48 PM
3

AMS is like 45 and from a completely different generation where the women he meets are more accepting and open to phone calls.
/r/seduction10/01/22 07:43 AM
1

It takes up a lot of time. Don’t forget that aspect. I personally use Bumble, as I find the girls on it in my area to be higher quality than those on Tinder. Also, Bumble tends to have more women looking for relationships, which is something I’m after.
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:04 PM
-2

Tbh, don’t shit where you eat.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:14 PM
3

Yeah, your profile pics are 100% make or break.
/r/seduction06/01/22 01:52 AM
1

Nope lol
/r/seduction05/01/22 03:46 PM
4

Weak troll is weak.
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:43 PM
3

Just be super direct and forward. Approaching them and making my intentions known asap. I’d rather approach and be shot down in the first few minutes than waste my time beating around the bush.
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:10 AM
47

You have to realize that feminism (in 2022) is essentially a civilizational shit test — so treat her just like any other bratty woman.
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:55 AM
0

Yes.
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:42 AM
1

There you are again making assumptions — you need to stop with that, as it’s only making you look foolish.
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:30 PM
1

The only extremist here is you. But you’re stuck within the confines of your tiny little peanut brain to ever be capable of realizing that, however. But that’s oaky — I’m laughing at you.
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:34 AM
1

I’m not a libertarian, LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣. Here you go making assumptions again. Didn’t you learn anything in grad school? 😂😂😂
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:27 AM
1

Imagine thinking someone’s degrees relegated their ability to research other topics hahahahhahahahahahaha. Oh, but you allegedly have a MS so you must be a genius or something 🙄🤣🤣
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:16 AM
1

Wow… you “have a master’s.” Woah — how incredibly cool, man. I only have a BS in comp sci and another in geology, so I’d never be able to use logic like you can, I’d bet. 🙄🤣🤣
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:03 AM
0

Hahahaha. You’re pathetic. Here you are making a ton of assumptions and straw man arguments. You’re clearly biased and it’s showing. You couldn’t possibly be any less objective than you currently are. But it’s the same old same with mental midgets such as yourself — you spew hateful rhetoric while condemning anyone who doesn’t regurgitate the same nonsense as you as a “right-winger” or “nazi” or whatever other nonsensical term you attempt to use to discredit them. Whether or not you want to acce…
/r/seduction02/01/22 11:05 PM
2

Yes.
/r/seduction02/01/22 03:37 PM
1

I’m not a Republican or a right-winger, but nice assumptions. (I’m a registered Independent and actually capable of being objective, unlike you.) Clearly you’re a leftist partisan shill, but that’s on you. And disprove what I claimed instead of reverting to the lame ass “tHoSe R rIgHt-WiNg TaLkInG pOiNtS!” remark, shill.
/r/seduction02/01/22 01:27 AM
1

Men have become less masculine and not just because testosterone levels have been plummeting over the last several decades. And the social war is called “cultural Marxism” and “critical theory,” but you clearly aren’t very bright, so I wouldn’t expect you to know or realize that.
/r/seduction02/01/22 12:08 AM
5

Alternatively, one could argue that car ownership is a sign of being a responsible adult.
/r/seduction01/01/22 11:44 PM
3

Yes, 100%. Anyone who claims this isn’t the case is either a liar or totally delusional.
/r/seduction01/01/22 11:10 PM
1

Imagine thinking there isn’t a “social war,” lmfao.
/r/seduction01/01/22 11:09 PM
31

Personally I wouldn’t have gone to a club. I would’ve bar hopped.
/r/seduction01/01/22 07:04 PM
0

She wants you to approach and talk to her.
/r/seduction01/01/22 04:52 AM
7

Agreed.
/r/seduction01/01/22 02:18 AM
5

Say “hey I had a good time, we should do it again soon.” If she’s down she’s down, if she’s not she’s not.
/r/seduction01/01/22 01:45 AM
-1

You’re very naïve. Women had rights in the 1920s. Tell me what rights they lacked. Please, inform me.
/r/seduction01/01/22 12:25 AM
0

What rights are you referencing, voting rights? Because in 2021, women currently are benefited far more in all aspects of society than men — that’s just a fact. But one of the better arguments for not giving women voting rights is that voting is a substitute for fighting (in a battle, as people once did) and we all know damned well that women aren’t fighting.
/r/seduction01/01/22 12:11 AM
2

It’s interesting because studies have shown that women’s happiness hasn’t increased after getting any rights either. So I’m not sure what to tell you.
/r/seduction01/01/22 12:00 AM
1

You’re not other men — you are you. So focus on yourself and becoming the best version of it.
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:50 PM
4

we should’ve been born in the 20s Women were not corroded by radical feminism in the 20s and men also were much more masculine.
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:48 PM
3

Keep pushing. Struggle gives meaning to life.
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:30 PM
1

Ultimately, you need to get to the gym to truly get a good physique. Yeah, people can do body weight exercises and all that, but nothing replaces picking up heavy weight and pushing or pulling it.
/r/seduction30/12/21 02:29 PM
1

Bloodhound Gang - The Bad Touch
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:49 PM
4

Start making out, grab on ass, kiss some more, start feeling her up elsewhere. Then move onto undressing each other.
/r/seduction29/12/21 10:53 AM
18

No, and they don’t care.
/r/seduction28/12/21 09:32 PM
3

Like what did you do to segue from being out on a date to back at either your place or her place to have sex?
/r/seduction28/12/21 12:11 PM
8

Can you explain the logistics behind getting to sex? That may help some people out.
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:30 AM
0

I would try to make them regular fwbs if possible, but make sure they are aware of this and you aren’t leading them on, otherwise things could potentially get messy or awkward.
/r/seduction28/12/21 01:34 AM
1

I’m not making fun of you. I’m just making observations. You seem like you are intimidated, otherwise why haven’t you approached them irl?
/r/seduction27/12/21 11:14 PM
1

In comparison to what NYC? Yeah, okay… There’s more to do here than Atlanta and several other larger cities. But I’d probably hate it if I sat at home all day and never went out.
/r/seduction27/12/21 10:13 PM
3

You’re not seducing them — you’re fantasizing about them as if they’re magical beings. Did you know girls with blue eyes also poop? Did you know they sometimes fart, too?
/r/seduction27/12/21 09:01 PM
3

No, you’re obsessing over her. It’s not healthy, bro.
/r/seduction27/12/21 05:23 PM
0

Dude, just no. No. There’s tons of available women where you live.
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:47 PM
3

Sounds like you’re fetishizing these women and putting them on a pedestal.
/r/seduction27/12/21 10:53 AM
2

Well, it’s primarily by choice, but in general people prefer to live around those who are more like them. And “segregation” doesn’t necessarily imply racial segregation — it includes age and class as well. For example, most who live in South End are millennials or Gen X. But, ultimately, everyone gets along so it’s not a problem.
/r/seduction27/12/21 10:44 AM
2

Nice. I live in South End, but my gf lives in uptown so I’m familiar with a lot of places in both areas of the city. PM me if you want any suggestions on places to go.
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:10 AM
1

No, it’s definitely pretty segregated for sure. It’s just that everyone comes to areas like South End, Plaza Midwood, and NoDa, so it may seem like it’s not. But everyone pretty much lives in their specific regions of the city and the greater Charlotte-Mecklenburg area as a whole.
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:08 AM
2

I hear you and don’t blame you. NC as a state overall is decent, but Charlotte is very liberal. However, aside from only a handful of areas in the city, you wouldn’t really know it walking around.
/r/seduction27/12/21 12:38 AM
3

There’s a LOT to do in Charlotte. And more places to take someone out on a date than I’ll ever be able to visit lol. But a lot of people have been/are moving down here from up North, so traffic can be a pain. Aside from that, I moved here from ATL and I like CLT more.
/r/seduction26/12/21 09:31 PM
1

It hugely depends on where you live. Even the same app will offer differing results depending on the city. For example, I live in Charlotte, NC and get around 5-6 decent matches on Bumble a week, but in Atlanta, GA it’d be closer to 9-10 matches.
/r/seduction26/12/21 09:15 PM
5

Charlotte, NC 8/10.
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:18 PM
1

Or… you know… this thing called a “husband” will provide for them in the meantime.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:58 PM
5

Is there something wrong with women who aren’t men-hating feminists and who actually want to be mothers? I didn’t think so.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:52 PM
6

Lifting weights at least five times per week.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:00 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:48 PM
32

Like someone else stated, talk to other women. I hate to be so negative, but you’re not the only guy she’s talking to. It is what it is, so always have other women available until you two are 100% in a monogamous relationship.
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:13 AM
2

Let her reach out to you. In the meantime, look for other women to talk to/ask out on dates.
/r/seduction26/12/21 01:41 AM
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