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We must all have dated this ladies husband... the water bottle bit was like a kick in the chest for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:56 AM
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Wow okay first of all I am so truly sorry that you have had to put up with this. You do not deserve this kind of treatment. Your story hits so close to home, I swear I could have written it myself. I was in your exact shoes a year ago. I had thrown my whole adult life away for a man who treated me like dirt and cheated on me every chance he got. I forgave him for every awful thing he ever did to me because I was so desperate to keep a man. I had no friends, no life, no ambition for myself, nothi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:17 AM
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Sometimes I wonder if 6’0 is an actually a real height or just a conspiracy. I’ve legitimately never met a man who claimed to be exactly 6 feet tall, who I looked at and thought yeah that sounds about right. Maybe this is because every man who is actually 6’0 claims to be 6’2????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:57 AM
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This mostly only applies to text messaging but I have my read receipts turned on for this very reason. It lets them know their message wasn’t worth replying to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 08:59 AM
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This is a great mindset. You can’t get ghosted if you never initiate a conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:20 AM
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I disagree with the premise of her post, that men can’t handle your sexual past because they just love you too much (more likely because their tiny egos can’t handle it) I do however think she’s right that you shouldn’t reveal your sexual past to them, don’t give them anything they could try to use against you later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:14 AM
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She dosnt seem to understand that the problem with a 32 year old dating a 18 year old, is that he probably would have liked her when she was 17. She starts out saying don’t bother mentioning the age gap, and then goes on to describe her literal pedophile of a boyfriend... She can’t put two and two together?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:07 AM
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It’s because when the order prostitutes they don’t get to talk first. Old habits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:37 PM
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It’s not enough to not make the first move - you can’t make ANY move. They need to do all the chasing pretty much until you’re engaged. A few months ago I was studying at a cafe/bar thing and kept accidentally making eye contact with a very very attractive boy in the same cafe. Eventually he sent a drink over to my table, all very cute right? When he was leaving he came up to me and gave me his number written on the back of a receipt - so he MUST be interested right? I texted him later that day …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:21 PM
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Is this like a universal thing? Seriously the bar is so low these days that a man simply setting a time a date and showing up is a green flag now. And these scrotes are out here talking about women being so “high matinence”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:58 AM
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Consider it a sign from god 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:55 AM
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The only way girls like this (I used to be one of them) learn is by making there own mistakes. There is nothing you can say that’s going to open her eyes to his behaviour. All you can do is stand up for yourself and your other roommate when he speaks to you like that. Seriously don’t be afraid to (calmly, don’t start a big fight) put him in his place when he blatantly insults you. Also having “more life experiences” clearly hasn’t given her any better judgment, so don’t let her try and convince …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:53 AM
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And if it’s “just a paper” then why won’t he just do it to make her happy then? If it truly doesn’t matter to him either way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:03 AM
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WHAT is this girl doing to herself? This video was too perfect it could almost be satire, with the shot of him playing video games and everything. Sorry girl but any man worth marrying would have proposed to you without you begging him to. Or at the very least would have done so after the FIRST cringey “days not engaged” sign you put up in the house. This man is forcing you to humiliate yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:01 AM
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Jesus it just got worse and worse as he goes on. Why is he even bothering with OLD, it sounds like he could find his “ideal girl” in a strip club. Someone flirty wearing next to nothing, who probably wont want a relationship with him either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:56 AM
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Is it just me or do cops always seem to be the biggest LVMs? It’s like they somehow simultaneously have nothing to offer, yet the biggest egos and the highest opinions of themselves. Hence a literal middle aged man writing “boobs are cool” on his dating profiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:27 PM
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You need to remind yourself that you deserve someone who wants you. Not someone who signed you up without your consent for this bullshit competition with some other girl. You’re not going to go and fight for his attention - make his decision easy for him and remove yourself as an option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:22 PM
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Because there’s no joke.... you’re horrible to your girlfriend? You treat her like a dog? While she looks after you like you’re a disobedient toddler? Is that the joke??? Hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 08:42 AM
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My deepest condolences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 08:39 AM
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OP this made me so sad! I truly hope you find what you deserve. If it makes you feel any better - I used to love flowers. My ex bought me flowers a lot.... every time I found out he’d cheated on me. Receiving flowers nowdays gives me chest pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 10:02 AM
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Girl he has #drums on his damn engagement post, what else would you expect 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:51 AM
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Ladies don’t move in until you get a ring 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:44 AM
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“I can’t believe I’m engaged to the absolute most incredible person!!” If he truly meant a word of that - he’d have proposed himself 10 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:41 AM
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The most important lesson I’ve ever learnt is that you should always be financially & emotionally ready to be able to leave at a moments notice. No matter how fantastic a man is, even if you’ve been married for 20 years and he’s never put a foot wrong, if you couldn’t leave at the drop of a hat - then you are too reliant on a man. I was with my ex for my whole adult life, I was incredibly co-dependant and completely financially tied to him. I had no hobbies or bank accounts that weren’t connecte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:31 AM
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“wE dOnT nEeD tO lAbEl ThInGs”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:33 AM
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I agree with all of this. I think six weeks is not long enough at all to decide if a man is genuine. I think it’s long enough to decide if someone has relationship potential, based off chemistry, shared interests, physical attraction, conversation etc - but I deffinetly wouldn’t let myself get all googley eyed over them that early (this guy obviously proves that).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 09:36 AM
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I agree that the wife deserves to know. I just want to make it clear - I had NO idea he was married, not even a suspicion. I have no interest in “revenge”, I haven’t even thought about him in months. And I deffinetly don’t want to break them up so I can start a relationship with him. I want to tell his wife because I know what’s it’s like to be cheated on, and I wish someone had the decency to tell me what was happening so I could have saved myself literally years of my life. I’m very relieved t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 09:13 AM
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Just posted an update, I intend to tell his wife ASAP but I’m still trying to work out how to go about that. While this is just something unfortunate that happened to me several months ago, this is likely going to crush her, but I need her to believe me for her own sake. I don’t want to go about this the wrong way, and I don’t want him to be able to talk his way out of it. He is obviously a very, very good liar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 08:59 AM
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“Or let me know if I’m a piece of shit.” Why is she even questioning herself? She knows her scrote deceived her and is now manipulating her into thinking it was justified. Why is materialistic to not want to be deceived by your future husband? He never made it clear it was a fake ring, and he only confessed once he got caught. What does materialism have to do with this? Girl needs to pack his bags and give him back his ‘ring.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:58 AM
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I think because she had already given him her phone number she was implying that she wanted him to call her. If she had refused to give him her number and he went ringing around hospitals to find her anyway = creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 01:18 AM
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I lost it at ‘no friends’ 😂 this girl isn’t dating, she’s getting grounded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:35 AM
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Why is it ALWAYS 5’6 men who are writing this kind of crap?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:33 AM
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Ohhhh my god I feel this. Realising that a thoughtful, engaging conversation you just had was in fact them tricking you into thinking you were emotionally compatible so they can hit you with a “so haha just curious, do you ever watch porn? 😜”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:14 AM
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Play them at their own game and tell them your type is generous rich boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:03 AM
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I know it’s uncommon with dating these days but I really try to avoid texting with men unless it’s to make plans, and even then it should be a pretty short convo. I hate falling into the trap of both people texting back 6 hours apart having a pointless drawn out conversation. If a man wants to ask how my day was he can call me or make plans to ask me in person. But to answer your questions: 1) No. It’s not okay to text a guy first. It can be hard to control yourself, and I know you want to hear …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 12:05 AM
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Well done girl! You should be so proud of yourself. I’m wondering if anyone knows a way that you can block someone AND have their number deleted from you phone? Removing the temptation to unblock him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:51 PM
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Download tinder, set your age range to 30-40 and see how many grown ass men have “not looking for anything serious” as their bio. Immature, entitled 29 year olds don’t wake up on their 30th birthday and turn into responsible family men. Age has nothing to do with being low value. I’ve dated kind, respectful 23 year olds with careers and mortgages, who pick me up and take me to dinner at fancy places - and I’ve dated 33 year olds who can’t hold down a job and message me at 11pm suggesting I come …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 12:09 AM
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It’s simply because men don’t understand makeup. It won’t matter if a woman is wearing red lipstick and inch thick eyeliner, if a man finds her attractive = “natural” beauty. When they think of someone wearing makeup, they’re imagining basically drag queen esque makeup. Same goes for anything women do. Men will constantly say how they hate plastic surgery & women with lip fillers, but I’d garuntee they wouldn’t even be able to tell if a woman’s had lip fillers, they have no idea what they’re tal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:58 AM
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Back when I used to use Tinder, I came up with a theory that the more greasy faced a boy is, the more likely they are to behave like a sex pest. Don’t let their delusions about their chances with you affect you! I would swipe right on ALL boys that had certain jobs that interested me, not because I was interested in them, but because tinder picks up on it and shows you more men in that field, saving you swiping through as many deadbeats. This meant I was matching with a LOT of scrawny basement d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:24 AM
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It’s always used so sleazily, however the two worst used emojis would have to be 🤤 and 😋. These two always follow the creepiest messages. Even better is when they message something truly disgusting followed by 😊. As if they think they’re being charming and adorable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:13 AM
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Did he tell her that himself or did she find them in his house and then ask about them? Because my guess is that another girl left them there by mistake and he’s trying to cover his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:36 PM
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My faveourite thing about online dating is reading all the bios that say “6ft, tall enough for your tallest heels 😏” I’m 6’2 in my tallest heels and I know damn well you’re rounding up from 5’11.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:33 PM
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I can’t decide which is lower value 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:42 AM
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I can almost guarantee you that this man did not want anything beyond sex. He didn’t want - “someone to date, eat out with, spend time together” - he wants to treat women as disposable fuck toys, preferably with as little financial/emotional/time investment on his part as possible. He’s just realised that girls are unlikely to agree to being fucked once and then ghosted, so he has to lie. I’d bet money his “date” idea would have been either drinks at a bar or Netflix at her house (depending on h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:36 AM
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Ah this is so sad, but the truth is - there’s nothing you can do. In my personal experience (first AS the pickmeisha, and then later as the friend of many pickmeishas) there is nothing you can say or do that will change their mind. It’s like what they say at AA meetings, people will only stop their addiction when THEY decide to, usually once they’ve already ruined their lives. You cannot force it. Hopefully your BRILLIANT handling of this situation will show her what an earthworm her BF is. Keep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:12 AM
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Her post has been deleted of course but I hope she realises that it is NEVER to late to leave! It doesn’t matter if you’ve been married for 10, 20, 50 years, the day your husband comes home and proposes an open relationship - you walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:48 AM
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This is so far beyond the average ‘open relationship’ that other low value dirtbags manipulate their partners into. This is sociopathic. My heart absolutely breaks thinking that somewhere in the world, this poor woman who gave birth a mere month ago, is wondering if it’s okay for her shitbag husband to move into his own apartment 5 days a week so he can have sex with other girls absolutely consequence free. And what does she get in return? Her own fucking husband & father of her children home on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:46 AM
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I’ve learned the hard way that when your long term partner dosn’t have any trace of you on his social media, it’s because he considers himself to be single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:04 AM
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Hey ladies embarrassing story time 🤡 I’m also a med student, have only just started. I studied for six months, sat the entrance exam, and applied to med school ONLY to distract myself from a man who I went on a grand total of four dates with and then stopped texting me. Don’t get me wrong, getting accepted to med school was the best thing that could have happened to me, but good lord I will never admit to anyone how I got here. No one works harder than a girl trying to refrain from sending a dou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:46 PM
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In my experience with OLD the only HVM potential men will ask you out relatively quickly, lots of men are on there just because they’re bored/want an ego boost/want instagram followers. If they’re just messaging endlessly (and not even asking what you do for work) then they’re not interested in meeting. If a man wants to meet you, trust me he’ll ask. Just move on to the next one, don’t wait around. I also wouldn’t give them your snapchat/instagram until you’ve met them a few times, there’s no po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:35 PM
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“The point of the rotation is to not get too swept up in the dude.” THIS is so important for me. As strong as I try to be, it’s always hard for me not to fall for boys (it’s a sickness). Even subconsciously, having a few boys on the go reminds me that I’m a real catch, and I don’t have to put up with anything other than their best behaviour, because there’s other men interested in me. Unless you’re an absolute dating queen, dating one man at a time might make you do stupid things like excusing t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:45 PM
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“Or will they only be serious if they are competing with another man” Unfortunately I honestly believe yes. Even HVM in the beginning of a relationship. I feel the same way as you, I don’t WANT to date a rotation of men, I want a healthy honest relationship with one good man. But men are animals who see you as a prize, and for them there’s no excitement in winning a prize that other men aren’t competing for (Disgusting, I know.) I also don’t believe that having an exciting personal life can make…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:32 PM
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Yeah I firmly believe that men will bang pretty much anyone given the opportunity, but to want to date someone they actually NEED the pursuit. And there is no pursuit in swiping on tinder. As soon as they get a match with you - boom, the chase is over, they’ve won you. For example, how many women do you think any given man is asking out in real life every day? Likely zero. MAYBE one on a good day. But on tinder? Probably like twenty. But I’d bet he’ll value the one he asked out in person a hundr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:19 AM
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Ah all of this is exactly what I think about OLD, thank you for putting it into words. That’s very true what you said about how even making yourself available for men is a form of pursuit. This is why I have a much better time dating men I meet in person, just the fact they’ve had to work up the courage to ask you out to your face & gotten yes out of it must give them some kind of serotonin rush, because they plan way better dates than anyone on OLD. Do you ever find that it’s awkward to date me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 08:09 AM
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Ohhhhh my god that is that worst! You poor thing! When I’m Getting dumped by a guy I do like it’s like, okay rude. But one I DON’T like? That should be illegal. I hate that feeling so much haha, and there’s no way to get the upper hand back without looking pathetic even though you were only pitty texting them! Like listen buddy, you should be so lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:21 AM
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Ohhh yep, I was sat on the sofa thinking to myself “ohhhh maybe he’s in a coma” 🤡 like yeah right girl, he’s out at the bar. Just block him. Also I’m very very glad you’re no longer inviting dates to your house, that is an all round bad idea! Good for you for realising your worth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:49 PM
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Always remember you’re not a 3, you’re a 10/10 being ignored by a cowardly 4 with ego issues (which by default makes them a 1).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:31 PM
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Girl this is so true! It’s not worth it at all - getting ghosted hurts, but getting ghosted by a 4? Horrific. 😂 And don’t worry he was blocked by 8pm (about 12 hours too late but still!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:04 PM
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Ooh girl that’s a rough day! Good on you for taking yourself out though I should have done the same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:40 AM
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Ah it’s okay to laugh! I’m not attached to this guy at all I honestly just wanted to go out for the night! It’s probably a good thing it’s happened, better to act like this with a guy you don’t care about so you can learn your lesson for the next one! The ‘pencilling in’ thing hadn’t even occurred to me, thank you! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:38 AM
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I like meeting my main interests in person, but use OLD to keep new boys rotating through to stop myself getting too attached to one guy too soon. It’s a bit of a personality flaw I have but I need to be seeing around 2-3 men at the same time or I start to obsess. And it’s just not realistic to meet THAT many men offline. Better to be out to dinner with different men than sat at home wondering why your only one hasn’t texted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:09 PM
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Aside from the obvious personality flaws like racist, homophobic, rude, etc: obsessed with social media (can’t believe I’m living in a world where grown men ask me for my snapchat instead of my phone number) no career or work ethic (meaning more than just having a JOB) plays stupid text messaging games (Things like waiting an hour to reply, it’s obvious and immature) only has LV friends (he’s almost definitely the same) can’t plan an interesting date to save his life (“drinks” is not a date) Dos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 10:52 PM
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