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| 1 | Most guys who have trouble finding a woman just have a small or nonexistent social circle CMMI disagree. I've moved and completely relocated so often I'm able to find a social circle with a short time now. I generally don't find a good match that often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?Age range I'm willing to date is 23 - 32. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Do women really want a man who opens up in a relationship?Definitely opens up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 02:01 AM |
| 9 | Do women really want a man who opens up in a relationship?In my experience women don't want or can handle the emotions when they aren't positive. My mother couldn't and several ppl, so when my mother died and my best friend died the sane week I tried to open up but I was told to stop talking about it and told to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 01:59 AM |
| 7 | What age is best for men to pick wives?4-8 years after finishing educate seems to be popular | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 07:54 PM |
| 1 | It's exhausting to make female friendsIt isn't difficult to make friends of both. Keep trying and don't sat or do off putting things, Give compliments, appreciate the people, abd value spending time with them. Also don't use people. It helps a lot if you can consistently show up. That's most of the basics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 07:53 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).A lot of men and women don't know or have these skills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Finding a relationship is way easier than making friends as an adult.Making friends is a bit of luck and knowing how to make friends. In college and high-school you didn't need to know how to make friends as much. Dating and get a commitmentted relationship can be more difficult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 03:09 AM |
| 7 | what's worst in a marriage, paternity fraud, or Child Support?Paternity fraud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to find men who do not put a huge emphasis on looks?Not realistically unless they are blind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to find men who do not put a huge emphasis on looks?Blind men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Guys who are red pill on here, would you be red pill if you were attractive and could get any woman you wanted?Becoming attractive is what made helped me become more red pilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children?I want kids so have a upper limit of 32 for her for when we'd start dating. 24 -32 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Men in loving ltr or men that want to be in ltr, would you ever leave your partner if they got ill or were in an accident that changed them physically but still didn’t change their personalities?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Men in loving ltr or men that want to be in ltr, would you ever leave your partner if they got ill or were in an accident that changed them physically but still didn’t change their personalities?Not in marriage, but maybe I would leave in a non-marriage relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.Nope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have?Being what folk might call neurodivergent, I don't have trouble getting dates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | I dont want end up being "too much nice guy" any advice ?I'm not trying to be an ahold, but I come off that way when I don't try sometimes. I'm much more healthy selfish. I do enjoy helping ppl, but I have to ask if the projected ROI in line with my goals. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 01:49 AM |
| 3 | I dont want end up being "too much nice guy" any advice ?I decided spend 2 years being an ahole. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?You're competing for their attention. You may just be a random on the internet where the air conditioning has a higher priority and importiy. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zeroI say yes | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Should I just lose it to a hookerNo | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 04:04 AM |
| 1 | I got her in bed with me but my dick couldn't get up. She's still down, what do I do?Are you still satisfied with things on your end? | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 08:38 PM |
| 8 | Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all !I've cold approached women this year, but I've only found rejection. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Men showing emotionWoman say they want men that want to show emotion, but I've made into the bad person for showing it. I've told her I need to go but she insits on following and bugging me. I warn her to go and leave bc I need time otherwise I'll lash out. Then she'll play the victim bc she was trying to help but wasn't listen to me. Only show your incontrol of your emotions. In my experience Women don't understand.i can talk about my emotions but I don't show them unless they will not give me space or the women … | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 06:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The only reason women claim that men only want to fuck them and not be in a relationship is because the bottom 80% of men that DO want a relationship are invisible to womenA lot of guys have a hard time feeling safe without sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships?It's a net positive in the last few years. Maybe I was blind to positive friendships. But I encountered a friend group that wasn't based on using each other in a mostly female friend group. They showed me we have nothing to prove, we aren't using each other, and that we have intrinsic value. It's nice. It's very nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Women believing that men “command respect” proves that the average man’s experiences to them are invisibleShrug, my bosses tell me I seem to demand respect. I take it as a good thing and it makes them want to be better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 05:08 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on men who don't care for marriage?Going into an agreement with a good chance you'll lose what you invested, lose trust, kids, and more. It seems similar why we tell kids not to play in the street, except my odds of incidents of kids getting hit is less likely but we still tell kids not to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:59 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of straight guys who go to gay clubs to get chicks?Stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Do a lot of nerdy stem/white collar men fail to meet woman's attraction threshold?I'm very passionate about life. That carries over to all aspects of life. I broke L2 amd was back doing research related work the next day. I was laying on the floor, but I did it. That kind of passion is attractive, but I tend to attract women that only see me as fun. The few I do attract fir serious stuff is a mixed bag. They often have found I'm not willing to devote everything to them or they are not able to keep up In a number of ways, so they don't manifest into long term. Life isn't alway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.You just need to be attractive enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys think that sexual dissatisfaction is a justifiable reason to leave your partner ( if you are married or in a commited relationship)If I was dating the person yes, but if I was married no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | As a man, is rejection just frustrating OR a bit deeper than that, more existential, when the subject of your love and adoration chooses another man over youHow I am: After getting rejected so often it stops hurting after awhile and you're skeptical when your not rejected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 03:05 PM |
| 0 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.I disagree, I assume a lot of men see sex is the only way to get human contact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: what is your personal happiness level, and why has there been a decline in male happiness?M32, happiness 5-6, why the data you presented seemed follow the macro economy to so degree. That's a good guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Are friendships with women a good way to get sex or dates?It's a good way to get friends, but always complent with fun. It's easy to find a date/girl. Just be fit, have fun loving way of life and have the adventure you want in life. Also, know what and why. It's hard to find someone worth it or that makes you want to be better. I was focused on grad school and I didn't have much luck. Now, I'm tired of living in windowless lab rooms so, thats manifested itself and now I get to the one that rejects ppl. It's a nice change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?(Male) I accept the 12 hr rule for any mess, but sooner is better with some exceptions. I can do better about vacuuming I'm inconsistent with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | The rationalize behind a a guy paying for a date is similar to a girl having sex with a guySo from your point of view, most of the time a woman has sex with a guy it has next to nothing to do with the guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 10:07 PM |
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