MeanCurry Archive

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6	I feel confident when I'm alone or with one other person, but not when I'm in a group. Any advice? "Blanking out" in any conversational context is basically just you losing focus from the conversation itself and fixating on your apparent lack of ideas. You need to train yourself to be mindful of that feeling, so when you do get momentarily lost in your own head, you can confidently revert your attention back to where it should be: whats being said and how you relate to it. If you're confident one-on-one thats a good sign that you have something to contribute. Trust in that.	/r/seduction	18/03/16 01:23 PM
2	Let's Make a List of Steps for Improving, From Complete Anti Social to Awesome There's a lot to learn about inner game. Meditation is great for learning to let go of whatever has hold of you, be it approach anxiety or negative talk in general. Positive self-talk is big, and mindfulness will help you remember to continually reinforce that. Ultimately you'll be able to cultivate a growth-mindset, as opposed to a fixed-mindset. That means that you reset the default of your mind so that everything automatically gets reframed into a context of continual growth and improvement. …	/r/seduction	04/10/15 10:14 PM