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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Lifetime Alimony ☠️ Good. Sounds like your attorney is on the ball.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/25 04:43 AM
2	Lifetime Alimony ☠️ This. And don't expect any attorney to give you options. You are fully on the hook for being your own advocate. You need to research, have precise names and dates, look for any possible wiggle room, and fight for it.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/25 04:14 AM
1	Lifetime Alimony ☠️ Until you legally file for separation, any new debt is split 50/50. File asap, using the date you moved out as date of separation.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/25 04:07 AM
1	Lifetime Alimony ☠️ If you have custody, she should be paying you child support. Check with your attorney.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/25 04:05 AM
3	Lifetime Alimony ☠️ Wait...I'm also in California. There is no way she gets to keep the house, unless she paid the down payment, owned the home prior to you moving in, it's solely in her name, and she has proof that you never paid on the mortgage. If all above is false, and she wants to keep the home, she will need to buy you out, less any monies you paid for down-payment. If she's unable to buy you out at the current market level, then the home is sold. OR, you buy her out. But you should really meet with an attor…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/25 03:59 AM
1	She discarded me and dumped me like absolute trash. I'm sorry you're going through this. You may want to check out r/SupportforBetrayed. It's a great sub for infidelity. Hugs.💓	/r/Divorce_Men	22/11/22 06:29 AM
3	The secret cellphone. What's the point? Had she not had a cell phone before? This is really something you should bring to your attorney. There are apps that the court can insist on parents using for co-parenting and nothing more. It sounds like this may be what you need.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/11/22 02:33 PM
8	will she keep the house? Also, check with FL, but any money you used to put down on the house should he yours when selling. You should get your 140k, plus half of the equity. If she wants to buy you out, I believe she'd owe you the 140k plus half the equity at her refinancing.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/11/22 05:59 AM