MeatClownFunHouse Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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73	Late Miss USA, having previously written a heartbreaking essay about turning 30, dies by suicide at 30 years old. Women being worthless at 30 is an idea perpetuated by the manosphere, yet they dare say FDS is toxic? Want to add to the chorus of 30s women here saying that your 30s are truly just better. I was all over the place in my 20s and my 30s brought me so much clarity and drive, made me stronger on my boundaries and my sense of self, and have allowed me to build the life I've always dreamed of only a few years into it - even DURING a major global health crisis. I can't say the men are significantly better, but I do think a lot of stuff that passes for charming in younger men DEFINITELY fades, and fast…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 02:36 PM
83	A Curated Selection from OLD Omg reading these is giving me flashbacks. I swear 80% of the men on Hinge, ~the relationship app~, are "ethically non-monogamous", aka cheating on their girlfriend. Hard pass. So glad I haven't gone back to OLD.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 04:28 PM
42	The Take's Pick Me Girl - Reflecting Our Insecurities Back to Us This was a good video, thank you for posting! I do think this sub sometimes treads into the "women calling other women pickme's" category, which I try to report when these posts are unhelpful and don't offer any real information other than shitting on other women. Reading the comments here, we so often acknowledge our own "pickme" phases and can look back on them having learned from our mistakes - this is life! We're all leveling up within a system that has told us since birth that we're inferio…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/22 10:30 PM
3	Was your dad an HVM? My dad is definitely LV, he's a complicated man with entirely unchecked depression and a complete disregard for his own health and happiness. Every generous, romantic, or even just bare bones nice thing he's done for my mom was something he could do with as little effort as humanly possible, and frequently were things that someone else handed to him that he could just pass off as his own. He has always needed a woman to mommy him, wanted the "traditional" roles but still needed my mom's second i…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/21 06:42 PM
13	Just broke up with a sweet, funny, kind and attentive guy, because he works a minimum wage job Definitely not, do not fall into this trap. I was the build-a-man workshop for a bit in my 20's, helped set up my zero value ex with MULTIPLE jobs that he wound up getting fired from, it changed nothing. And my ex was in his mid 20's at the time, not 40's. This man is hopeless, block him and move on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/12/21 03:59 PM
14	Falling in love should be a stress-free experience for you Girl looking through your post history there is nothing about this man that seems stress free for you. Everyone on all your other posts is reassuring you that your intuition is correct and you need to trash this guy. Read the handbook, kick this one to the curb and maybe take a break for a bit to figure out why you're continuously justifying someone who is clearly not even the bare minimum.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/12/21 12:45 AM
39	How To Know Better That The Older Guy Isn't A Friend, He's Preying On You Report him to HR sis, this is harassment. And as for some tips - as a general rule at 18, you can assume any guy with that large of an age gap from you is a bad idea. I'd also practice being more cold/direct with men so you can (hopefully) cut off this behavior a lot earlier. Don't be afraid to hurt a man's feelings who repeatedly tries to overstep your boundaries! And please please please do not ever go anywhere alone, no matter how harmless it seems, with a man who is giving you bad vibes!! Tr…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/21 06:33 PM
134	Realizing the “cool girls” you used to be friends with were just total pickme’s The "cool girl" thing is a trap. I was a one-of-the-guys girl for a bit in high school (thankfully a long time ago) and all it got me was an insider look at the misogynist and degrading shit guys would casually say about other girls we knew. If you're already low self esteem it's hard to recognize you're not exempt from this level of hatred. You think they're reserving their misogyny for "those girls" but when you're not in the room they're saying the same things about you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/21 04:41 AM
19	What's acceptable in terms of expressing interest in semi-social non-OLD settings? Absolutely this. Not to be the Kim K "I'm dropping hints that I'm single" meme but it turns out it's very easy to casually drop that into low key flirty conversation, and if he does nothing with that information? You've got your answer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 10:30 PM
16	What's acceptable in terms of expressing interest in semi-social non-OLD settings? I participate in a local meetup for one of my hobbies that happens to have a lot of single men and I don't ever initiate anything outside of the group. I also thought about offering my number at first but came back to the mantra "if he wanted to he would" and it holds true - the ones who are actually interested do find a way. It's MUCH easier to weed them out if they're the ones asking, and also much easier to decline without making the group weird for yourself if it turns out they're not meetin…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 09:55 PM