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So how do I reply? I get the feeling she's dtf but I'm not sure where to go from here. I'm thinking about inviting her to my place, I just need to find a reason first.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 02:38 AM
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No I havent, right now I'm at 13.7% which is the lowest I've been. Do you recommend just doing the same I've been doing but deload a little and eating at a 500 calorie deficit?
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:31 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/VL1rG45.jpg https://i.imgur.com/HSiKTnG.jpg If my at home BF calculator is anything to go off of I'm about 13.7% BF
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:29 PM
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Well part of it is I'm trying to get a six pack but right now I've got some fat exposed.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:04 PM
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So do you recommend just ignoring it then? Ik I'm not gonna win against some famous dudes lol
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:12 AM
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Mkay thanks for the advice Chad
/r/askTRP07/06/19 06:11 PM
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Damn I like that one, any tips on telling her to save that shit for her girlfriends without sounding butthurt?
/r/askTRP07/06/19 05:48 PM
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That sounds like a good plan. Thank you
/r/askTRP07/06/19 05:17 PM
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My bad about tldr being longer, I trimmed down the post a lot but forgot to change the TLDR to match it. What do you mean by "quick add on at your age?" thanks man I guess sticking with her is probably for the best for now.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 05:16 PM
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Lmfao how'd ya know
/r/askTRP07/06/19 05:08 PM
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Lmfao damn that would've something else
/r/askTRP22/05/19 08:46 PM
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Thanks dude, she didn't get the joke lmfao she said "???? I'm confused" Although another comment suggested that maybe she did get it but was just trying to get me to explain myself
/r/askTRP21/05/19 03:39 PM
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You're probably dead on. She responded with " ??? I'm confused" it seems like she either doesn't get the joke or it's another test to get me to text more. Do you think just not responding would be a better idea then explaining myself?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 02:11 AM
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This was the first time I was seeing her since January so I figured I'd test the water a bit. Your probably right that she sees me that way. What did you mean "we both know what's going to happen?"
/r/askTRP14/05/19 12:51 PM
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This seems like good advice, thank you. I've been deliberately gaining a lot of weight since I felt too skinny, I'm very far from being fat though.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:36 PM
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I searched around and I couldn't find a calculator for how much I should be able to lift at my weight. Do you have any advice how much I should go for then? I'll continue doing Greyscull LP then since it has all those.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 11:56 AM
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Any idea what weight I should slow bulk to? The only an excersize I'm doing right now is cable crunches, I've read bad things about crunches, do you recommend planking/v-sits? They seem to be the most recommended an excercises I see. I'm currently doing Greyscull LP as my routine. Thanks for the advice on looking at Jacked&Tan2.0, I'll definitely check it out later.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 02:06 AM
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Oh damn man, that's quite impressive. Nice job dude
/r/askTRP21/04/19 02:28 PM
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What do you do now for a career with only a 2 year degree at a community college?
/r/askTRP21/04/19 02:09 PM
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Asking how to physically hold the weight, I'm not sure holding a dumbbell between my feet will work all too well. Greyscull LP has me adding 2.5 lbs every week until I either stagnate or fuck up. Seems to work well so far.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:04 AM
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I noticed this as well, it's pretty interesting.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 08:54 PM
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Yep.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:10 PM
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After we finished tutoring she stayed and we watched a movie, every time since we've watched a movie after tutoring. Then it's just applying escalation and hoping for the best.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 03:56 PM
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I guess I have asked a lot about her, they're not the same question though. I've been applying everyone's recommendations each time to deal with escalating next time she's over.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 03:51 PM
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Ya that's kinda how i saw it as well. So should i actively ignore her when she comes to me then?
/r/askTRP13/04/19 09:36 PM
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"At night, all cats are grey" Damn I like that quote a lot
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:22 AM
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What do you recommend instead? I had a girl over and we were gonna do something quick before she left and she started giving LMR. I ignored her and she just kinda left lol.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:09 PM
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Thanks for this dude! I think you're spot on with her ego being hurt lol, she doesn't seem all that confident in herself. What do your recommend when she completely pulls away like she did? I knew her family kept calling her to come home so I figured she had to leave in the first place. I feel like I shouldn't let her keep teasing without anything coming from it. I almost feel like she does it so I keep having her over lmfao
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:37 PM
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So I shouldn't really worry about her pulling away after me not getting hard immediately? I partly feel like she's not gonna wanna blow me since I didn't get hard when she wanted. She was somewhat hesitant to blow me in the first place.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:52 AM
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Nah I literally saw her sisters/mom calling multiple times. She kept hanging up on them so she could talk to me.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:45 AM
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Practice
/r/askTRP06/04/19 02:21 AM
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Ya you're probably right. I think imma just hard next and game other chicks.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 11:58 PM
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So should I bother trying to recover or nah? When I withdrew attention she started coming to me and trying to start conversations after class. Should I have just went silent after she said "no I have class"?
/r/askTRP05/04/19 11:54 PM
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Fair enough 🤔
/r/askTRP05/04/19 11:44 PM
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Well I mean it's been a week since I texted her about rescheduling, so I really don't think she's planning on it all. She's still showing IOI's though so that's why I thought maybe she's just waiting for me to reschedule.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 11:23 PM
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Fair point man lol. Off topic, but do you have any advice on better spending time? I've got a crazy amount of free time due to my job and unfortunately I just waste it on reddit.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:26 AM
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Right? I know being careful is the beta thing to do or whatever, but I'm not trying to get my life fucked.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:56 PM
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I wasn't that heavily interested in her and I think she could tell that. I'm damn sure if it was someone I was actually interested in I could've got laid, and she even said next time she comes we can have sex. Maybe she was lying maybe she wasn't, regardless I got that post nut clarity and I know I probably won't be inviting her over again even if she's dtf. Really just will have to depend on the mood I'm in.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:53 PM
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18, and you're right she wasn't really worth much a hassle. Thanks dude.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:48 PM
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Sometimes, really not that much though maybe 2 times a week. She was kinda attractive, 5/10 I knew I could do better. Honestly though I feel like I've been so caught up in losing my virginity I just kinda stopped caring who it was too. Maybe my dick knew I could do better so it just said nah.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:11 PM
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Rip lmfao. Idk grinding wasn't doing shit for me.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:55 PM
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Thanks dude lol. Idk if it means anything but she did say "we can have sex next time" for what it's worth. Honestly idgaf if we do or don't, this whole experience kinda taught I'm not some undatable fag who can't get laid.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:54 PM
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Great advice, thank you. Thinking about it now, I can do better for a first time.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:47 AM
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Honestly you're probably right.. I mean tbh when I was putting the condom on I did kinda go soft so maybe she noticed that as well? I was grabbing her ass to further grind on me, but I guess you're right she did kinda take the lead. When I tried to pull her pants down she said no so I didn't press on until later. Idk what she expected to happen.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:26 AM
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Any recommendations? I mean she was grinding on my dick and it just kinda wasn't doing it for me ya know? I could barely get hard.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:24 AM
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Good luck with this man
/r/askTRP03/04/19 02:11 AM
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Too late, she texted today asking if she could come tomorrow
/r/askTRP03/04/19 12:46 AM
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Lmfao I have an old Nintendo ds case I keep it in
/r/askTRP03/04/19 12:29 AM
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Oh rip then lmfao
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:27 PM
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Alright lit lol, thanks dude
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:40 PM
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Not sure if sarcasm or not...
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:31 PM
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Short answer: yes Long answer: things were going really well and I got too cocky. I think I'm gonna still slide in her dm's tho
/r/askTRP01/04/19 08:28 PM
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Idk why but something tells me I definitely shouldn't have said that.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 08:05 PM
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No idea tbh. I guess he escalated with her sooner than I did even though she turned him down the first time
/r/askTRP01/04/19 12:10 AM
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Well i did try and game other girls there. Damn near all of them had BF's with them, what was I supposed to do? Chase her/mateguard?
/r/askTRP31/03/19 10:35 PM
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Just gonna say I used this on another chick and they thought it was funny as fuck. Thanks dude
/r/askTRP31/03/19 08:36 PM
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I only started playing games when she went to the other guy. I wasn't gonna chase her since I feel that comes off as desperate
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:22 PM
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Well I guess theirs more I didn't mention, I've definitely had oneitis for her for a while now. I tried to get with her about a month back and we kissed but she said she just wants to stay friends. It's just a matter of I feel like she's playing games.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 03:00 PM
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I've definitely got oneitis for her. Last month I tried to get with her and I kissed her in my car and she later texted she's not looking to date anyone right now, she just wants to stay friends. So yeah seeing her get with this guy just shows that's BS.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 02:53 PM
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Edgy much? Since you wasted both mine and your time answering this question with a useless answer, I doubt your any productive with your time either.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 03:37 PM
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Thanks dude
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:39 AM
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I'd be interested in hearing as well.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:31 AM
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I know it may be a tad stretch but do you kind posting an example or two of successful text game? You can obviously blur shit, but I think examples help a lot.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:29 AM
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/r/askTRP18/03/19 11:58 PM
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Damn son what job you got that gets you 70k at 24 Y/O
/r/askTRP18/03/19 11:23 PM
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So is there nothing I can do from here? Should I just move on or what?
/r/seduction15/03/19 03:49 PM
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🌊🌊🌊🌊
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:03 PM
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Shit dude didn't realize it was that bad. Do you just recommend hard nexting? Or trying to stay friends or some shit? I'm 18 and she's 23 so I figured dating was probably out of the question. Also if I recall correctly she did say she's not a strict Muslim, and she was thinking of switching except her parents are a pita. So maybe theirs a chance? Idk I remember she said she dated a non Muslim guy as well for what it's worth.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 07:44 PM
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Yeah mostly looking for a hookup, she's not that Muslim ig since she doesn't wear the burka or shit like that. Thanks for the advice man I'll be careful.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 06:15 PM
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Yeah that's what I'm hoping on as well. That's kinda why I'm trying to hurry up and make a move. Usually when the club is over we walk to this where she waits for her ride (she uses uber). I was thinking of walking her to this spot and then kissing her before I leave. Usually we just hug.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:28 PM
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So do you recommend saying no then or what
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:23 AM
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She asked for help with bench press. She wants my nuts over her
/r/askTRP07/03/19 11:37 PM
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Nah I'm not driving her around, maybe validation but I doubt it considering I blow her off a good amount.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 11:21 PM
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Well like I said I'm not sure if I'm orbiter status right now or not. She mentioned she's mad at this guy she's going after, so I figured soft next. Fuck orbiter status lol not for me. Now she's asking me to workout with her lol.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 10:36 PM
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Nah copy pasted it
/r/askTRP07/03/19 11:45 AM
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Alright yeah I figured that was the case. How do you recommend adjusting my game with her? She tried to get with me a while back but I shut her down, so I'm sure I could get with her if I played my cards right.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:10 PM
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Thanks dude. I was doing some basic kino, like we played hothands and I hugged her at the end. I'll definitely keep doing kino, thanks dude
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:19 AM
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I got her ig, she's got a bf. Lol still giving out her number tho
/r/askTRP05/03/19 01:29 AM
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Lmfao too late. I got her ig, she's got a bf
/r/askTRP05/03/19 01:28 AM
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Yeah good thinking. So I should probably just leave the text at what it is and then wait to talk in person?
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:36 PM
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It's hard to tell if she's laughing via text. I've made her laugh in class though for what it's worth. Got any tips/guides for preventing friendzone/orbiter? I've got a bad habit of fucking around too much and getting printer status.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 07:47 PM
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I heard its aight if it's college. That rules more so for coworkers.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 07:43 PM
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I know I fucked up. I had oneitis for her, and she kissed me at the end of the date which was just a lead on. She told me she's didn't expect me to kiss her and she just wants to be friends. I'm done with her, and I'm ready to make sure this shit doesn't happen ever again.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 11:42 PM
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I'd love to know as well
/r/askTRP03/03/19 01:11 AM
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By eventually fucking them. Idk seems she keeps trying to get my validation. We're right next to each other in class. She approaches me
/r/askTRP28/02/19 02:42 AM
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Okay I think that's what I have to do as well.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 12:39 AM
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Yeah she's pretty okay. I doubt she'll text back since she doesn't really text first much. Plus like I said she'd be basically texting me to go drive her to my place (I don't think she likes begging for rides in a way ig).. Should I just keep inviting her to my place then? (Assuming she does respond eventually)
/r/askTRP27/02/19 12:39 AM
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So what did you end up doing? Waiting until she responded back?
/r/askTRP26/02/19 11:42 PM
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Yeah :/ I'll get to building value. If definitely seems that's probably what I need to get my mind off this shit.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 11:24 PM
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Yeah I'm aware. Live and learn I guess
/r/askTRP26/02/19 10:16 PM
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I said it in another comment, but basically I was going to drop her off, and she gave me a smile and it felt right so I just kissed her. Then I asked if her parents were home and she said yes. So I drove forward, then we kissed a little more. We kissed maybe 4 or so times and then I kinda pulled back so I could drop her off and said alright I'll see you around and drove to her house and dropped her off. I felt it was better than her pulling away since the last girl I kissed she pulled back and I…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 10:07 PM
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Thanks for this man! It's miles better than most the advice I've gotten. Reading this makes me feel this chick probably isn't worth pursuing, we probably got way too close of friends for her to see me as anything else. When I switched schools we both wrote letters about our life and shit and we'd stay up texting late at night and we know our fetishes and childhood stories and it's probably to much at this point.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 09:59 PM
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Fair enough man. Thanks
/r/askTRP26/02/19 09:29 PM
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Alright I won't respond then, your right though it sucks. Part of why It's tempting to initiate is I remember her telling me she likes" when a person texts first since it shows they care about her". And for some dumbass reason I told her I usually don't initiate conversation with a person if I don't like then. Retarded man I know. Also damn I could really use your help. Everyone here makes it seem like if you don't fuck within the 3rd date it's a waste of time. How'd you go through things for 3 …
/r/askTRP26/02/19 09:27 PM
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What happened was I drove by her place to drop her off, was about to drop her off and she gave me a smile so I just kissed her. Then I asked if her parents were home and she said yes. So I drove forward, then we kissed a little more. Probably kissed like 4 times and then I pulled away and said alright I'll see you around and drove to her house and dropped her off. Unfortunately I can't exactly reach out to her that easily. We both go to the same college and since the new semester our schedules a…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 09:17 PM
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I didn't say shit to her
/r/askTRP26/02/19 12:33 AM
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When you say that do you mean more time that day or do you mean like it could take weeks/days
/r/askTRP26/02/19 12:04 AM
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Hey quick question, any recommendations on what to do if their isn't really much to do at my place? I've got a tv, laptop, and that's about it. I've only really had girls over one or two times but we watched a movie and played some games and that was it. If I wanna keep seeing the same girls I'm not sure I can just keep showing them movies/games and keep them entertained. Any tips?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 11:18 PM
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Nah I really don't give two shits what happens with her.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:57 PM
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I've tried to take her back to my place by she just says "maybe". It's honestly really weird since she was into me maybe 4 months ago, and I mean really into me. She wrote me a letter with her name on it and it said some really sexual kinky ass shit. I wasn't ready to do anything at that time since I was busy with school, but now that I'm not she's playing hard to get. I guess odds are I probably did lose the chance lol. Still idk why she's telling me her abs hurt after a workout. Tf do I care l…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:50 PM
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Idgaf much about her. She tried to get with me like 2 months ago but I turned her down. I'm trying to plate her now though and ik she's still into me since she keeps checking me out. Trust me though that guys not gonna fuck her lol, he's like a HB9 and she's like an HB6. I think she's just mentioning him to make me jealous which obviously isn't working.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:43 PM
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I was hoping for a link if you could find it. I figured you didn't have the link though since you said theirs one you could think of. I get shit tests and stuff, but I'd like to see them being applied as opposed to just reading about them and imagining how it all went down.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 02:05 AM
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Okay cool lol. Glad to know videos like that are somewhere. It's hard to tell if that was sarcasm or not but whatever.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 01:58 AM
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And?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 01:36 AM
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What if you bring her back to you place and she turns escalation down? Like I've got her cuddling around me but when I go for that ass she's clearly uncomfortable and pulled away.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 01:14 AM
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Yep it's ASD, thanks! I'll take a look at push/pull techniques as well.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:21 PM
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Yeah actually, theirs one thing you should definitely read. I'm not sure if I should tell you though since it's so well hidden, I guess I'll tell you though since I'm in a good mood. It's called "Read The Fucking Sidebar"
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:58 AM
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I took computer science in high school, wasn't a huge fan :/ I'm pretty bad at math
/r/askTRP23/02/19 09:49 PM
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Thanks, this is the best answer so far I think. You recommend trying to just plate then? Like take her to my place and smash?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:05 PM
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Nah dude I've known her really well. Like I said we've been close friends since 10th grade. When I switched high schools we both wrote letters to each other and shit and I went to her house and hungout occasionally. Again, this was before TRP but I definitely know her very well.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:51 PM
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Well not that it means shit but we got each other gifts as well. Ik it's cringe af but that was pre-redpill days.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 04:14 AM
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Yeah I thought about it. Didn't have condoms, and we've been friends for a few years I feel like it might've felt forced to escalate that quickly.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:58 AM
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Hey dude, it went well! I took her to my place and we watched a horror movie together, she was wrapped around me for the second half of the movie. We also held hands but I felt it would've been too forced to kiss her during the movie (she was looking at the screen and I had my head on hers). After I dropped her off, we looked at each other and I kissed her. We were in front of her house, so I drove forward and we kissed a little more, and then I pulled away and dropped her off. (Not sure if I sh…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:11 PM
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Alright sweet, thanks man. Do you always recommending being the one to pull away?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 10:32 PM
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Yeah I'm positive now I could've, but it just never seemed like the right time. Plus if she would've turned me down it would've been awkward as hell as opposed to dropping her off.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 10:31 PM
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The way I see it, if I try to make a move she'll just say she's struggling to get over her ex since she's said it before.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:19 AM
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Thanks dude, I'll give it a try.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 12:36 AM
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I know I can put my arm around her and hug her and shit like that no problem, but I'm not sure how she'd react if I went in for a kiss. Wouldn't trying to escalate kino just make things awkward as hell considering she'd be at my place and I'd have to drive her home afterwards?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:59 PM
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Part of the issue is when I was more bluepilled she said she liked me and I liked her back. Nothing came of it because she had a bf, but I stuck with her because I thought something would come of it. She's still pretty hot and I'd still smash, but she's not my oneitis anymore. I'm perfectly find if nothing comes out of hanging out but I'd obviously prefer if something does.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:25 PM
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Yeah I figured it had to do with that. Why say you have no friends though? Makes them look like losers lol
/r/askTRP16/02/19 10:46 PM
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No she wasn't exactly a plate since we never had sex. We only kissed like a day before she left and before that I'd put my hand on hers and stuff like that. We never dated but we probably would've dated if she didn't leave. She did some sketchy shit, like she kept it hidden she was in a long distance relationship. And now that we're far apart she brings up emotional stuff a lot more often. I genuinely would try to help but I've been in this situation before, and now that I'm looking more into TR…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:33 PM
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Okay that's what I did as of now, I also told her my issues with her and she got super defensive lol. Thank you for this advice
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:09 PM
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Thank you for typing all of this up, really. What do you recommend for adding layers to my personality? Honestly I don't think I joke around all that much but I did kinda do it when she'd ask for emotional help. And what's the difference between being emotional support and an emotional tampon? When she starts talking about her missing her ex (that's she's still fucking seeing) I feel like that's emotional tampon status... She said I miss him and when I said talk to him she said I can't... Follow…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:06 PM
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Okay sounds good. We usually play games and shit together over discord, should I continue or stop doing that?
/r/askTRP09/02/19 12:59 PM
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Alright, I'll fully read the sidebar and everything else. I stopped reading it since most of the stuff there seems to apply to adults who go to clubs and bring women home every night. As for the whole contact after blocking, she wanted me to contact her. She only blocked me after discord after I called her out about always talking about her feelings. I know now ignoring her would've been the best option. Thanks for the help
/r/askTRP09/02/19 12:58 PM
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How do you recommend going about nexting? I feel like blocking/ghosting kinda just makes it seem like a pussy.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 04:37 AM
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Sounds good in theory but that'll take a while. I'm already in my second semester and I work at the college I go to. Can't exactly just throw that all away. I agree they have good intentions, but sheltering isn't gonna help shit in my view. My dad didn't move outta his parents house till he was late 20's and I think he expects the same outta me... I'm adopted btw which I guess should explain some stuff.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 12:49 AM
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Just curious, why not go for LTRs? I'm sure I'll get downvoted for this, but most girls I meet go to my college so if I just fucked them and dumped then doesn't that just make me an asshole? Is TRP really just fuck someone and then cut contact with them and move on to the next girl? I usually don't go for sluts for the lost part, usually I go for people that are fairly quiet and have a similar sense of humor. I'm genuinely curious about this so I hope you don't take this as me being a dick. I'm …
/r/askTRP26/01/19 05:51 PM
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Well i mean how'd you transition into touching her ass and shit in the first place? We're you watching a movie or something and just did it? How would one go about initiating that? Thanks in advance for the help man
/r/TheRedPill26/01/19 12:59 AM
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How'd you go about fingering her/BJ on the third date? Like what was the escalation? I imagine you didn't just shove your hands down her pants or anything.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/19 06:30 PM
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Thanks for this, the whole oneitis bit is probably what I need.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 01:42 PM
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Yeah but then she also said she is holding onto it in hopes of something better smh. I told her I doubt that'll happen but i wish her the best of luck. She said she still wants to talk though and hopes her having a bf isn't gonna change much.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 01:41 PM
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I'm looking for more of a real relationship. Sure a quick fuck is nice and all, but that's not what I'm going for, and she said she thought I was gonna kiss her so she went near her parents since she felt it wasn't right to kiss me. So odds I'm not gonna be fucking her anytime soon.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 01:11 PM
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I planned on having sex with her at one point. Didn't happen, nexted her; she's an old friend from high school that goes to my college.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:14 PM
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Part of the whole caring what she thinks is I don't want to draw a crowd. She's clingy as fuck so I'm just trying to avoid causing a scene by ignoring her.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:53 AM
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Just got the Jefit app! I'm definitely hoping she'll take the hint sooner than later, it sucks I can't just flat out ignore her without drawing attention; so I've just been giving the cold shoulder or 1/2 word responses.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:51 AM
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Yeah I agree, it seems like not wasting my time with her is the best move. Like the question said she keeps coming back to me to talk about some bullshit.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:49 AM
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I get I can still be friends with her, but her talking about her guy friends that are trying to get with her isn't my idea of being friends. She knows I liked her and she would say shit she knows I want her to say for the sake of me continuing being her friend. Fuck that I don't want to be a part of that shit. After reading similar TRP threads I think it boils down to her having nobody else as emotional support so that's why she keeps coming to me as her emotional tampon. I think if I just flat …
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:39 AM
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I know it's not the red pill way but I'm not just looking for a quick fuck.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 12:28 AM
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No were not dating.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 12:26 AM
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Well I want to date her, I don't look straight outta a romance novel but I'm not bad looking either. Use your actions, not words. Escalate physically and flirt. If she turns you down again, soft-next. This is great advice thanks man. How do you recommend escalating physically without pushing any boundaries? Also do you recommend giving her some time/putting up with her bullshit about other men? I think it may be best to give her time since it was a relationship she seemed heavily invested in.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 12:26 AM
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So how do you recommend going into escalating? During the movie just go from holding her hand to attempting to fingering or some shit? Ik she said she's not like that but I know she is from what I've heard.
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