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Once I just started living my life I ended up finding out I'm aromantic. I don't have romantic interest at all, and because of my autism if the person I'm seeing isn't a good fit I get bored. So take a few steps back, clear your head and figure out what you want, especially when it comes to relationships. Also the fear of not performing well may be a people pleasing issue, which is something you may want to look into.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/23 10:54 PM
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Translation, "Hey I'm here to try and own you in debate, I won't argue in any kind of good faith and will use a lot of false terminology. Let's Engage." No thanks.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/23 06:17 PM
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I do strongman, I have never had a 6 pack and that's because I don't starve myself. And I think strongman is generally the healthiest body type for being strong, so long as you aren't taking steroids to get as big as possible. And like others have stated here, therapy would probably help you far more than getting ripped would.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 12:10 AM
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Have you never heard the word Slut before?
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 07:20 AM
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Haven't spoken to my mother in 5 years or so, last time I ever spoke to her was the last time I ever caught her stealing from me.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 05:42 PM
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I grew up in an abusive home, with a fuckload of mommy issues and tossed out into the world with a fucked up brain. So I ended up falling into it, got being Blackpilled and then started making friends and started on a path to becoming human again.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 05:41 AM
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His image, well he clearly didn't give a shit about you lol
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 08:50 PM
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Even when I was redpilled I liked big women, still do lol
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 08:17 PM
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Because free speech laws, not sure how some are allowed in Canada if they are at all due to hate speech laws however.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 01:17 AM
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Game - Game isn't about getting into a relatioship, it's about getting someone into bed with you, can a relationship form from that... sometimes, but it's usually not the most stable. Now how would you go about getting into a worthwhile relationship, become friends first, get to know the actual person. This makes maintaining much easier and ensures a healthier start to a relationship. Hell there is a post in r/TrollXChromosome about what could be a good way to get a person interested in you rega…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 05:38 AM
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Old man Ex-redpill here Game - A lot of this just comes down to not being insecure in yourself, "picking up" women isn't the difficult part, it's maintaining that relationship if that is what you want. Hypergamy - The women who do this are not good people, they only want status and nothing more, that could be cultural, a response to how they grew up, etc. There is a lot of reasons this can happen, however I wouldn't worry too much about it honestly. So long as you aren't a pile of shit who never…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 04:37 AM
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Proud of you little sister, glad you came out alright <3 For feminist subs that are actually decent try out r/TrollXChromosome.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 11:03 PM
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Save your money, actually talk to women instead of just trying to sleep with them, you'll find you will have much healthier friendships. And remember, listen, actually listen.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 06:55 PM
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They're always lurking, they can't stand people leaving the cult
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 02:50 AM
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Partners for what, the game they play is purely for casual sex.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 11:15 PM
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I'm 33 born a man and still a man. It's an exhausting game to play and if you don't want to then don't. If people give you shit for it then are they really your friend/some one you want to be friends with?
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 11:11 PM
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I HIGHLY recommend making a female account, you can use Faceapp or something to augment your own pictures. And just enjoy why so few women want to explore that shithole. This is something I did when I was still in Redpill hell amd it was one the thing that pushed me out of it.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 11:17 PM
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Shitty parents who reinforced sexualized sexist ideals.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 07:49 PM
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Then be honest with those women, if all you're looking for is a fling you'll come off as superficial and shallow. People can tell that is all you have on your mind, if you want to know how to do that, this is the wrong space for that.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 01:04 AM
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So why should they talk to you if the only reason you added them was because they're attractive? Is that all these ladies are, pretty eye candy to be chased? What are they interested in, why should they be interested in you?
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 12:53 AM
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Be organic, why are you adding these women? Do you share an interest with them or is it for a surface level reason because they're pretty?
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 11:38 PM
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Oh... He didn't learn anything last time
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 02:46 AM
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Yeah, dating apps are generally a wretched experience for everyone involved.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 08:09 AM
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Goodluck then
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 10:01 PM
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Find yourself a tall lady, the taller the better
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 09:56 PM
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As many others here have said, limit social media usage, get hobbies, try a bunch and see what you enjoy. Learn how to enjoy being alone, this may sound stupid but no one wants a partner they have to babysit. Make sure you know how to cook, clean, take care of yourswlf, and how to do common handywork. This will pay off in the long run. Also, don't date purely based on looks, take time to actually learn who someone is. Don't fantasize about a potential life with them, don't think of baby names no…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 06:39 AM
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Uncertain, Mine stemmed from an abusive mother and a father who sexualized all women.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 09:24 PM
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First one, who I am currently roommates with I tricked my brain into thinking she's my sister. After that it was just changing how my brain perceived women.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 06:16 PM
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I just worked on becoming actual friends with women
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 03:29 PM
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This is actually the mindset that got me out of redpill, "why does it matter when the world is dying and I can see it dying?" Well in the grand scheme of things those idiotic arguments don't matter, they are a waste of everyone's time. And then I ended up learning how to be a halfway decent human being along the way, and I still have a way to go.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 06:00 AM
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Here is a version not on Instagram so you can tab to another screen https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2GI0A5zfPA
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 01:41 AM
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Like others have said, there is no Alternative TRP as it is the alternative to actual reality. Also the fact that we've been convinced to fight some idiotic "culture war" when there is the more important class war we've been engaged in without even realizing it.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/22 06:03 PM
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A lot of these are built on just enough grains of truth to make the rest seem like it may be true, I used to be Blackpilled and it does get better bud, I believe in you.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/22 04:59 PM
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It comes from the Matrix movies so Bluepill. But I wouldn't use either to be honest... Just say you're normal lol.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/22 11:27 PM
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Overall it's a groupthink that has a weird stance on dating. It strips everything down to weird binaries and doesn't allow for any kind of nuance. Women only want high value men, and men are oppressed by societal requirements placed on them. Women can't feel love, and other such nonsense. However like most things it has enough truth that it can be believable which then leads people down a dark path. Overall it's just not a healthy mindset that a certain set of people maintain, and many of us onc…
/r/ExRedPill04/11/22 11:22 PM
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Yep, and you just learn to deal with it, I ended up discovering I didn't actually care about dating and such. I'm 33 now and still don't care, never married, no kids, and still not interested in either.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/22 01:34 AM
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Does this actually bring you joy? Or is this a cry for help and you don't even realize it yet?
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 04:24 PM
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I don't think I'm right, I hope I am correct and if I am proven to not be correct I will change accordingly. I think that's much healthier than rigid moralities and even my faith is built around change. Stanza 18 Havamal He knows alone who has wandered wide, and far has fared on the way, what manner of mind a man doth own who is wise of head and heart.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 12:03 PM
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So what about for those of us who are not Christians? Are you saying your Christian morality is the truth?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 11:24 AM
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Banning doesn't work, instead education is far more important
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 03:44 AM
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Tiktok Unironically rots your brain, if you interact with their content at all the app will keep giving it to you. This keeps reinforcing those thoughts to you, which then makes you more susceptible to the RP, A lot of those Apps are purposely designed to create addictive habits. Think of how often you pick up your phone and open the app when you have nothing else to do.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 05:45 PM
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You go first, mind you you'll probably do it the wrong way.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/22 06:41 PM
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The fact you've been at it this long wpuld be impressive if you weren't such a baby over whatever it is we did. XD
/r/ExRedPill17/10/22 06:20 PM
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Agreed, you ban them and they go elsewhere, and usually a place they cannot see dissenting opinions. Plus it's better to keep the crazies in the open, otherwise they can sneak around and cause more problems.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 10:47 AM
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The things that lead up to me falling into the redpill. An emotionally abusive and manipulative mother. She would use affection as a reward for preferable behaviours, and deny it otherwise. She would also use me as an emotional surrogate for my father when he was deployed (military). Both my parents would push me to always hookup with girls when I was young, my first girlfriend was in fifth grade. My first kiss was with her as well. My dad would always talk about how many women he would juggle w…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 06:35 AM
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Then stop focusing on it, choose something that is not your height as something that is a true boon when someone looks at you as a person.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 08:14 PM
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Just remember, there are shitty people regardless of gender, and there are good people regardless of gender. The black and white break down is how a child thinks.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 01:26 AM
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Protip, fuck dating, it's way healthier to just be you and go through life however you want, our society pressures us to find a partner and make babies. But that's not realistic, also dating sites will always be like that as a man because men far outnumber women on most dating sites. Check the gender ratio before joining one so that you can guage what you're actually dealing with. Or better yet, get a distant lady friend to let you borrow her pic and make a fake dating profile and see how it is …
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 02:05 PM
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Don't use dating sites, literally just be a person and eventually you'll find someone
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 01:56 PM
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Yeah, reconnected with someone recently and they actually commented on how different I actually am. It's a pretty good feeling to be honest.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 04:37 PM
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First part, being short is whatever, some women like shorter men, some women like taller men. Most people when they meet the right person will love that person regardless. I am however glad that you're challenging your views, and I remember my journey. My insecurities stemmed from an abusive mother and an absent alcoholic Father.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/22 03:16 PM
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I've been single and celebate for almost 6 years now man, it's unironically the happiest I've ever been in my life. I have actually women friends, I have much deeper friendships, and I am much more approachable by everyone. And I remember my 1 year aniversary of not having sex, everyone else was confused as shit, and then my one year anniversary of not even trying to use a dating app anymore for anything. I'm glad your journey is working for you.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 10:43 PM
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I'm a 32 year old Autistic male, it's not over for you bud. You just need to refocus and look at the world from another perspective.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 01:40 PM
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It's an okay question, really just depends on the why, if it's just some whataboutism then it's not in good faith.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/22 03:29 PM
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New account with a potential bait question.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/22 03:23 PM
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First step is a first step
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 12:11 AM
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Whenever someone tells me that bullshit I tell him I already raised 2 kids to adulthood... Myself and my brother, and if they scoffs at I tell the first time I remember being abandoned for 12 hours a day at age 6. Which was a common occurrence for me.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/22 03:14 PM
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There is a much better alternative, be a person and treat them like a person.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 11:45 PM
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I can tell you the type of people who matter to you won't care, if you have bad hygiene that's a different story but I won't make that assumption. But yeah, everyone deals with that shit.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 04:25 AM
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There are no cheat codes, every person is a unique individual puzzle to solve. Sometimes they're easier and sometimes they're harder depending on who you are.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 09:03 AM
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It's hard, I remember when I went through that, my recommendation is one at a time. Start with one you don't find attractive, it's easier to get the thoughts out of your head that way. Then work your way up.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 11:53 PM
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Which is unsurprising, however, that kind of self-talk will keep you like that. Treat yourself better and you'll find you will start treating others better as well. And yes, it will be hard, Redpill is easy because it's unhealthy, being healthy of body and mind isn't. I hope you have a enlightening journey one day bud, hopefully you don't have as many regrets as I do.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 09:35 AM
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Old autistic ex-4chan oldfag here. Found the Redpill through the friendzone bullshit, got blackpilled eventually. It's not healthy to yourself nor to the people around you, the women you're geared towards staying with will either be super passive bores, or unhinged mental cases who need a therapist not an alphatard. It also promotes preying on the vulnerable women, like a predator a lot of PUA teaches you how to single out weak willed, or low self esteem women. And well, that's how you become a …
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 09:29 AM
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Alcoholic absent father with PTSD from counting corpses in Kosovo, and an abusive narcissistic mother.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 02:53 PM
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This, OP is setting himself up for faiure, especially as he gets older.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 02:27 PM
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I'm an old Autistic guy, the blackpill is just as false as the redpill, they're both insidious mindsets to be stuck in, I have been where you are literally little buddy. It does get better and you'll get a nice lady if you stop focusing on getting one and just live your life for yourself first.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/22 06:22 AM
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It's the rich and powerful keeping the poors down and trying everything to keep us fighting eachother so we don't notice them XD
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 02:43 PM
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Absent or weak fathers, how about a father who was barely surviving, dealing with the PTSD of counting corpses in Kosovo. Coming home to an abusive wife who traps him and his kids into her insanity... But yeah, it does prey on men who come from strained or downright fucked up homes with a mother who is in control.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 06:27 AM
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No worries bud, I have Autism and CPTSD, they have similar symptoms as well so I have a double whammy of fuck. lol
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 11:53 AM
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It can be, but I usually respond to it with the script, "I'll be here if you need to talk." They're more likely to talk when they know that you care enough to just be there. It's weird to get used to and I still struggle with some things. But for many in the autism community I know it's a huge struggle.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 11:38 AM
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I'm an old Autistic man, let me teach you some real truths I have learned in my time. I was redpill, I was blackpilled, I was inducted through old school 4chan. The shit they teach is far more insidious than you even now realize, the way you talk about "female friendships" still delineates them from male friendships. Women are just like any other person, you can talk to them like any other guy, some will click with you others won't. Also don't chase after them, if you're a friend you won't have …
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 10:10 AM
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Stop looking at her sexually or romantically, treat her like she's a man if that helps. But that shit will keep you miserable bud.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 07:01 AM
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Ah, fair enough I derped on that one lol
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 05:16 AM
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That's what I said
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 11:36 PM
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Want to see the woman version of Redpill, go look at r/femaledatingstrategy Also being ugly is whatever dude, get off dating sites and be a person, not another number that send a message. Dating sites are designed to be awful on purpose. Edit: I derped hard
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 02:19 PM
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You're in the wrong sub dude
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 07:45 AM
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Dude... you still have the pill in your system, you're still in the journey to healing. Keep working at it and you'll get there.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 07:37 AM
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Personally I am a Heathen because it is what you make of it, and the faith fits best with my outlook on life. If it is something to cope then it's the degree you use it in my opinion.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 07:36 AM
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This, now I'm just not interested as sex was a super unhealthy coping mechanism for me.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 07:28 AM
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Start with just talking to yourself better, do small things, affirmations of kindness to yourself, etc. It'll feel weird at first but it really helps
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 01:54 AM
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You'll stay that way because you talk to yourself that way, I don't even need to read this. Talk better to yourself dude, I still struggle with not calling myself a retard because my birther called me that for so fucking long. And other less savoury shit, like, do better by you man.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 01:42 AM
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Yep, just start taking baby steps dude, if you don't start somewhere you'll never begin at all.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 03:59 PM
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There are degrees of those emotions, my male roommate has all three in extremes and both myself and his girlfriend walk on eggshells around him since he explodes instantly like a toddler.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 02:47 PM
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I'm an old exblackpilled Autistic male who was once called an Oldfag on 4chan when I still used it, here is my recommendation. Get off the internet for a few days, spend one day a week with no internet or computer at minimum. Start a small hygiene routine, shower every other day or whatever, then get more used to it. Showering is still sensory hell for me but now I prefer to be clean than not dealing with sensory shit. Brush your teeth every night before you go to sleep, and then any time you le…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/22 09:40 AM
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Here is my pro-tip, stop caring, it will happen when it happens, and the rat race to find "love" will make you miserable in the meantime.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 12:02 PM
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"Value" There is your problem there, if you don't think you have value why should anyone else? That's the hardest pill to swallow, be the value you want to see, a lot of money won't get you a good woman, big house fancy car would probably bring more bad energy into your life. Be a person, be the person you want to be, not some idolized ideal or some other dumb shit, it sounds stupid but it really isn't.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 01:20 PM
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I am an autistic man, dude what the fuck even is this question?
/r/ExRedPill16/04/22 05:04 AM
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Instead of attacking go into introspection, do you want someone who just go homes, binges netflix and has the attention span and personality of a potato or do you want someone who is a person. If you want a potato then stay a potato, if you want to be a person discover things, try things, fail at things, you literally don't learn if you don't fail. I was literally an insane, toxic, alcoholic womanizer from the age of 18 to 24, I bought into pickup artistry and redpill bullshit. None of that shit…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 03:28 PM
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Hopefully OP cones to the realization many of us shitty exredpill guys had to go through and go on a journey of self discovery.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 03:23 PM
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You don't shove nice token into a woman and she gives you fuck tickets in return, being nice is literally baseline, and if all you are is nice... Well full offence your problem is your about as interesting as a potato.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 01:42 PM
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Red Flags: 1) if they only talk negatively about everyone around them, even their friends. 2) Too deep into conspiracy theories to see the sky is blue. 3) Bugs me every second of the day demanding every minute of my existence be in service to giving them attention.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/22 01:55 PM
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Enjoyable yes but human brains are stupid
/r/ExRedPill16/03/22 01:17 PM
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That's how a kid or a virgin talks... eventually you get to a point where you're literally broken in any other kind of relationship and it takes a lot of work to become an even remotely half way decent person after that.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/22 12:59 PM
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Trust me it's not... it's emotionally exhausting in the end.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/22 07:40 AM
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I know exactly what you mean bud
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 03:20 PM
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Why not link your dating profile like many people in r/datingoverthirty do?
/r/ExRedPill18/02/22 05:00 PM
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As a guy who did fall into the redpill long ago and crawled out of that idiot pit with effort, women are not a singular group. What does this person who happens to be a woman want, we are all individuals and we all have different wants and needs. Until you think like that you'll still fall victim to redpill idiocy.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 03:35 PM
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The Myers Briggs Type I dicator isn't really super accurate, it's a best guess at best type thing.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 05:04 PM
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