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| 1 | Social anxiety is the worst thing a dude can haveI posted on askmen I’m the trio of this - introverted, shy and with anxiety. I haven’t had sex in over 6 years. I agree with you OP - There is nothing worse than being “weak” as a man. But then again some men like me never have sex at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Men who do not get matches on these dating aaps, what do you think is your major malfunction??I’m gonna get a bit leaner then speak to my friend for photo advice. So cheers! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Men who do not get matches on these dating aaps, what do you think is your major malfunction??I don’t like my photo taken so use old photos. They’re not good quality and I’m not photogenic. Can’t blame women for not being interested. I still get some matches because one of the photos was a topless catwalk for charity. I need to speak to my woman friends for tinder profile advice really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?I’m in extremely good shape but I’m not attractive to women. Attractiveness is much more than having some good delts,etc. Also as someone with a naturally chubby face it’s exhausting needing to literally maintain a six pack so I don’t have a double chin (which will make a greater difference). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:22 AM |
| 6 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?There can be no end to the “gender war” - Women having vastly more sexual power than men will not change so equality in dating cannot exist. Edit: Also a bit dark but - euthanasia should be allowed for men like myself who are gonna die alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 08:21 PM |
| 16 | This Subreddit Moving Forward: Incel/Race content, flairs, moderators, rules and moreI mean you can get labeled an incel just for pointing out it’s easier for women to get sex than men, it’s become a meaningless insult like “slut”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 06:11 PM |
| 44 | Dating After 30 - The Dating Flip - Does It Exist?No, women have it easier in regards to dating / sex at every stage of their life. Believing anything else is a cope (if you are a man). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 04:05 PM |
| 2 | how confident are you with your body? does it affect your sex life?I had surgery on my dick to correct quite an extreme (congenital) curvature so always worry a woman will judge me for it. It will never be right so I always worry about being judged for it. At Uni there was a guy who got a nickname for a curvy dick. But I’ve never had a woman say anything negative in person to me. I also have a baby face and borderline double chin at a low body fat which is very frustrating That being said if you get drunk enough I don’t worry about anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?Nothing to add except you echo my thoughts, even down to wondering if I’m on the spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 04:00 PM |
| 2 | What are the life stories of the people in this subreddit?I’m a 32 year old guy whose always been shy and shit with women. I try to intellectualize things rather than address my issues which lead me to reading the rational male and looking at gender debates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 09:10 PM |
| 4 | [BBC News] Homes for Ukraine: Don't match female refugees with single men, UN saysIn this situation there definitely needs to be oversight in terms of safeguarding. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/04/22 09:30 AM |
| 0 | The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males nowAs a guy I can’t believe how it’s socially unacceptable to point how the areas in which we are disadvantaged but at the same time we have to accept how “privileged” we are. I’m gonna die alone. Hopefully soon, how privileged do you think that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Are you guys actually asking your partners N counts?I’ve only asked fuck buddies or friends. Wouldn’t ask someone I was serious about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship?No. I’ve had one relationship (7 years ago). Nah pretty purple. However lots of the red pill resonates will me from what I observed at university and throughout life. I believe that for men to be sexually and romantically successful their best bet is traditionalism and being socially dominant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do incels enrage woman so much? Aren’t they literally doing what they wanted? Who gives a fuck if they hate woman if they don’t get dates in the first place?It’s worth mentioning that incel is being weaponized as a slur anytime you say something that someone may disagree with. Ie. “It’s easier for woman to obtain sex” will result in “Eugh fucking incel” as a response. The best part is that it reinforces the message that a man’s value is determined by how attractive he is to women and how many he can sleep with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Beneath Male SuicidePersonally - I have depression, anxiety and have always been shy around women so I rarely date / have sex. This creates a big circle where I beat myself up mentally, if I talk about issues with dating or wanting sex you get called an incel and there’s also the fact that talking about my problems won’t actually solve them. If we allowed euthanasia for men like myself I’d leap at the opportunity. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/11/21 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Are women "delusional" about penis size?In my experience women just randomly pick a number. One women said I’m 8. (Im 6”). With the other point, the well endowed lads at uni got laid more. Sometimes word of mouth plays a part and women sleep with a man because they’ve heard he is big. Women obviously do care and it makes logical sense for a bigger dick to cause greater pleasure (to a point) and cause greater arousal. I think women use it as a measure of masculinity and bragging rights amongst friends (though men do too). I’ve wondered… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Just go to the gym broI’ve met the dude top left. He’s a doctor so doubt he’s struggling with anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 04:14 PM |
| 2 | What’s causing decline in male sexlessness of recent?Lack of money resulting in less opportunity to socialise/ do things that allow you to meet people. Men coming outside their traditionalist role but finding out it isn’t beneficial in regards to dating / obtaining sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 05:39 PM |
| 26 | Women now make up 60% of college students. The number is expected to grow to 2 women / 1 man in a few years. How will this affect the dating market?I’m English and went to a uni that was 60 / 40. My women friends complained about lack of good looking men and in my other social circles it was still the top guys (high social status, well endowed, etc) that had the majority of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Why do men take such interest in avoiding child support, but so little interest in avoiding pregnancy?As a healthcare professional and weightlifter I’d be more than happy to inject testosterone to suppress my sperm production. Unfortunately it’s not legal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Do women actually sexually assault & harass men as much as men to women?I find the argument that “it contradicts the idea of men getting no sexual attention” bewildering. I’m an average looking guy and I’ve been sexually assaulted more than I’ve been asked out or hit on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 04:47 PM |
| 2 | What are *your* current dating/sex problems?I never learnt how to approach women and deal with rejection. I tried at uni but it was hard and I failed enough with little success so I stopped bothering (by luck I’ve had one gf and several fwbs though). Due to this, my rosacea and congenital penile curvature I have very low self esteem. So at 31 I’m stuck in my ways of never approaching, never being approached, too average for tinder. Funnily enough I’ve somehow ended up on dates before and although they never went further I didn’t mind gett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Penis size matters as much as height, but only for tall guysI mean I don’t think this study has much carry over into the real world but I’d still agree penis size matters to women. Indeed comments saying it only matters in one night stands are proof it matters, correct? If a woman likes a big dick for sex then how will it affect her relationship if a man doesn’t match her ideal? Does this mean she’s more likely to cheat? I think it poses interesting questions. On a personal level I used to worry about my penis (congenital penile curvature partly correcte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 07:22 PM |
| 1 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?I’ve known quite a few guys who were well endowed that got laid via word of mouth so I’m not sure this is entirely true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 10:23 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Maybe not toxic but certainly traditional masculinity is needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Why does it take longer for men to get over breakups then women (even if the men initiated)?I can’t think of any other insights that haven’t already been said but I do find it annoying that 7 years after my one and only gf I’m still not over her (have slept with other people but now on a 4 year dry spell). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | [AMA] - I'm a degenerate swinger for almost 20 yearsThanks for your insights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 05:37 PM |
| 2 | [AMA] - I'm a degenerate swinger for almost 20 yearsDo prefer any physical characteristics that your wife doesn’t have, e.g. women with big boobs (as an example). Or is this something you don’t care about? Does your wife have a size preference? Or is it something she doesn’t care about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 05:20 PM |
| 0 | No Double Standard In Judgment Of PromiscuityI’d disagree and say that women do get judged but agree with you saying it’s not a double standard- the disparity in sexual power between men and women would need to be corrected for this to be the case. As this can’t be changed I think it’s something women need to learn to live with, like I need to learn to live with being an undesirable guy and rarely having sex at all. I’d also add that people don’t consider male shaming such as “creepy” “fuckboy” when they make arguments about men not being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 08:14 AM |
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