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Wow you’re the man. I’m so happy I was directed here. I’m scouring the side bars and studying intensely right now. If I cut of all contact for a few months, how do I re-engage as a new me? I’m studying the info right now and am a believer but unsure of how to in this situation
/r/askTRP25/10/18 05:20 AM
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Wow I really needed this. Thank you man. It was a gut punch that was imperative for me. Sucks because I was taking my dads advice throughout it all. He told me to apologize take responsibility etc. I gotta ask. Is there anything I can do to salvage the relationship down the road? I read about oneitis, so I know the response to expect, but can I fix this bridge or did I simp to much to save?
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:50 AM
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She stated that if I cant handle the name calling, I’m not the right girl for her since that’s who she is, but I understand your point.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 10:32 PM
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Thank you. Much gratitude for the advice
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:47 PM
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I kept frame. Man. Look at what she texted me It’s not even about that at this point. The fact that you don’t even know what that word means is scary— it low key just shed light on how different we are and shit I’m probably just skimming past because you’re charming and cute & a lot of things thats could be presented really well. That’s all fine and we’ll, but there are a few things about me that aren’t ever going to change. They fact that I’m a black woman is one— like it just made me see how f…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:44 PM
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I’ve read models but I’ll try the other 2
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:40 PM
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I didn’t take them seriously as you’re thinking though. That night I said why the fuck would I joke like that? And she responded calling me a jerkoff. The next day I say let’s get over it and change the topic, she responded by saying I don’t decide when she gets over things. I know shit tests. A day prior to concert, she made a comment that she was wearing sneakers to show because she didn’t want to look like a giant next to me. (Tried to shit test my height, I’m 5’8 she’s 5’6) I responded sayin…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:14 PM
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I needed this bro. Thank you my man🙏
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:54 PM
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Thank you for the advice. I’ll just add in with the plantation remark. She went absolutely psycho with it, said she didn’t know if the me she liked was the real me, and when I said “I’m not apologizing for something I didn’t say maliciously” she got even more upset. When I told her to get over it the next day, she said that I don’t decide when she stops being upset at something. Maybe in retrospect I should’ve just let her be upset for a few days and ignore her until she cooled off. But she star…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:43 PM
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That’s exactly what my therapist told me. Thank you my man. Much gratitude for the help🙏
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:05 PM
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Thank you my man. I'm very happy I came here and am now learning. Yeah, I think she was BPD because she told me she hated being emotionally available a day before saying she loved me, that she said she's controlling in relationships, that she'd have random blowups and when I tried to move past them, she'd say that I don't control when she stops being upset at me... etc etc.. after coming here, I see things much clearer.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:48 PM
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I'm on it now. Thank you.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:39 PM
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Ok, I needed this advice. You're right. I ran and looked for the phone because I genuinely thought I lost the phone at the time which would've been my fault. I drove her to work because we had airbnb previous night and she doesn't have a car, so I drove home after. I do disagree that I jumped frame every time. Her issues with me were that she thought I was narcissistic, brought up how great I was, and blamed her for things (held her accountable.) I did enter frame when I FT'd her when she wanted…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:37 PM
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maybe that's true, I don't know. When race is involved and someone is very racially sensitive, things can get crazy in an interracial relationship
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:24 PM
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My response wasn't sorry and how high I jump. I facetimed her that night saying I won't stand for the name calling, how I take you on amazing dates/flowers etc. and get disrespected/unappreciated and I won't take that shit. 3 days later she told me she had a huge issue with my narcissism, telling her how great I was, and not thinking anything's my fault. So me staying in frame was the issue. She told me she was controlling and I wasn't letting her control me, thus it ended.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:19 PM
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Well, I got tough with her first, answered the facetime stating "what do you want" in an aggravated tone and when she said that she had an issue with me saying love too loosely, I said I didn't love her in a nonchalant tone and she instantly got really upset so the toughness didn't work either. I never entered her frame as her issue with me was how I would manipulate situations to put her in wrong (make her accountable) and bring up how amazing I am. (self love, not losing frame)
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:17 PM
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Wow, I'm very happy I came here. Thank you Jake. Much gratitude to you for the help. Outcome independence is key. And yes, I definitely learned that you need to defuse the disrespect ASAP. I waited until we facetimed that night and it was probably too long at that point.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:09 PM
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hmmm sage advice. She was very into me until the plantation comment and then our last fight, but I'm very happy I came here. thank you.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:08 PM
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We blocked each other on text/all social media, how do you show her you changed? Just randomly hitting her up in 3 months? She was my type in a lot of different ways, was a basketball player, shared playlists/books etc, were best friends. I didn't stand for the name calling and was a little cocky and it went to shit after that.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 04:54 PM
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I'm on it my man. Thank you and appreciate it.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 04:49 PM
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Great post bro. Only caveat is that we live an hour and a half away so it really isn’t an option. (We’ve been on 4 dates/a month so it’s early in game to visit parents you know?
/r/seduction09/06/18 10:29 PM
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Wow great post my dude good looking out!!!
/r/seduction09/06/18 07:31 PM
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hey, I’m sick we’re not gonna work together anymore. We should grab lunch at xyz, lmk It your free xyz. I ended up getting a response saying she had class, so I replied lmk when you’re free and that was it haha
/r/seduction14/05/18 08:18 PM
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Ok i can respect that response much more since it had reasoning behind It. I’ll use in the future. Thanks. I don’t think my messages reeked needy but if they did I’ll fix the issue. Good looks
/r/seduction09/05/18 12:04 AM
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How. You won’t respond to how saying “lmk” is needy. Because it’s not and this is the first time I’ve heard anyone say “lmk” is needy.
/r/seduction08/05/18 09:50 PM
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How. I’m asking you how is lmk needy
/r/seduction08/05/18 09:31 PM
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Or I wanted an outsider perspective.
/r/seduction08/05/18 07:34 PM
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Appreciate It my guy! Much respect 💪💪
/r/seduction08/05/18 07:03 PM
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Yeah, I lack awareness because I use the word lmk. Classic over thinker that resorted to an add hominem debate
/r/seduction08/05/18 06:27 PM
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How is lmk bad? That’s literally the dumbest thing I’ve ever read. It’s zero neediness and you’re just overthinking It
/r/seduction08/05/18 06:18 PM
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upvoted. appreciate the help my guy.
/r/seduction08/05/18 04:16 PM
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good looks my guy! appreciate it. was gonna say "that's straight. if you want, lmk when you're free this week. if you're too busy, that's fine too." only reason i ask is because one person said rejection, and the other saying ask again haha
/r/seduction08/05/18 04:03 PM
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damn lol. so don't even respond, right? i was about to ask another time. bad idea?
/r/seduction08/05/18 03:59 PM
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update: i got left on read :((((
/r/seduction08/05/18 02:48 AM
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Bet! Love It thanks my man. Much respect
/r/seduction06/05/18 11:08 PM
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Exactly why I waited until I was done haha. Appreciate it bro! So how do I message.. I’m an urban New Yorker so this is how I talk and would message: “Hey, I’m sick we’re not going to be working together anymore. def want to keep in touch. You free at all this week?”
/r/seduction06/05/18 10:55 PM
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Wow, informative and enlightening response. Good looking out my guy. Much respect and appreciate It. Upvoted
/r/seduction06/05/18 04:38 PM
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